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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by mrdipye(m): 6:48am On Apr 17, 2022
Desperate situations requires desperate measure
Kudos to the parents
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Jeezuzpick(m): 6:48am On Apr 17, 2022
tommy589:
Parents knows best. It is better to face your lane than to advice people on their parenting style. One thing I know is that the disadvantages of giving children personal phones outweighs the benefits

What about letting them have phones in circumstances like, if they're home alone for some hours and you need to be able to check on them?

The idea is to let them have a phone when they need one, but never give them the notion that they own it. You're just lending it to them for a short while.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 6:50am On Apr 17, 2022
okoroemeka:
they have judged the man guilty leaving out the girl that encouraged the action in the first place,and pls don't tell me the girl is small and don't know what she is doing,she knows it is wrong that's why she didn't approach the man when he is with his wife,she knows it is forbidden love but some women are excited by such,the parents are just delaying the inevitable because they cannot stop the relentless heat from the girls hormones.
Thats what u get when will allow emoyion to take over us, we cant reason well and thats why iys always a tool used by women to manipulate men
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 6:51am On Apr 17, 2022
CsRockefeller:


Just so you know, you are sick upstairs.
dont be carried away by emotion dear, it will do u more harm than good
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 6:53am On Apr 17, 2022
babajeje123:

E gba mi! A girl is tempting you! Some men are dogs
You were able to see only d temptation aspect without comprehending anything? I shake my head d kind of people we hv this day
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 6:54am On Apr 17, 2022
ayleclanche:

There are so many educated illiterates in Nigeria and it is one of the problems we have. Do you expect a girl of 15 years to make a clear decision at that age? At that developmental stage both girls and boys are naive and easily manipulated. Psychological, they don't fully comprehend the whole sexual stuff. You said she should have informed her parent, do you know the relationship between her and her parent, some parents don't give room for conversation between them and their children. This is why it is important to always ask your kids about this stuff and not shy away from it. As for the mumu man in a sane country, he would have been in jail already, and it is only pedophiles like him that will think otherwise.
Ever since we hv edicated, sound and intelligent people with too nuch emotion aroud them, we will always be bissed in reasoning
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 6:56am On Apr 17, 2022
TawTaw:
I see them on the road while driving out and have friends who have that age mate as sisters....they are suggestive, manipulative and very clever....still the adult must slap himself out of the situation
My problem right now is that, its only few people that are talking about d girl in question. Every other persons are just after d man, every other persons are after hanging d man but where is d girl
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by LastProphet: 6:57am On Apr 17, 2022
God bless you sir
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by EteBabaagba222(m): 7:03am On Apr 17, 2022
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Too bad....wetin dey fifteen year old girl body

.if I approach a woman and I notice or realize you are not more than twenty years..then immediately my interest will just die

The one am also interested in for government to regulate is all these hype and dj song they do play in clubs

It is no longer played only in clubs

It is now played even in the gathering and parties of kids
Imagine you will be hearing dj and hype songs in the gathering of kids like " them get yansh ...them get breast...na kpekus way no fine them dey use condom fuckkk...
Kids na carry Bluetooth speakers up and down playing this songs

You are more responsible than you portray yourself. Damnnn niggarrrr
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by v2: 7:03am On Apr 17, 2022
Google family link can help too.

You can control the app they install and see the time they spend on each app e.t.c

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by QuinModah(f): 7:18am On Apr 17, 2022
wink
bsalawu:
God bless you bro. Sis You did well

Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by QuinModah(f): 7:18am On Apr 17, 2022
v2:
Google family link can help too.

You can control the app they install and see the time they spend on each app e.t.c
Cannot find it on play store
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by QuinModah(f): 7:20am On Apr 17, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

My problem right now is that, its only few people that are talking about d girl in question. Every other persons are just after d man, every other persons are after hanging d man but where is d girl
We should kill the girl abi?

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by MRFIXER001: 7:20am On Apr 17, 2022
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dawnomike:
Eye opening post ... Unfortunately, mods will not push a reasonable post as this to front page...

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Nobody: 7:21am On Apr 17, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

I don't just understand why women always attach emotion to everything.
Nobody is talking about d girl that gave her number willingly to d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that exchanged nudes with d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that accepted gifts and money from d idiotic man
Nobody is talking about d girl that was enjoying chatting with d idiotic man
Why are we so irrational in judging cases?

You are right. Even when it's the usual typical trend girls, women exhibit before a male finally gets into their pants.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 7:23am On Apr 17, 2022
QuinModah:
We should kill the girl abi?
Don't be too emotional dear, only simply asked a question. Where's d girl? Somebody needs to tell me something I don't know.
A girl of 15years having an affair with an adult, she accepts gifts and money, she exchanged nude pictures, she even hang-out with d man bcs for d man say something like this and I quote "Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.”

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Grandmeister(m): 7:26am On Apr 17, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

My problem right now is that, its only few people that are talking about d girl in question. Every other persons are just after d man, every other persons are after hanging d man but where is d girl
See the truth is, the girl is the last person to be blamed. First blame goes to the man, second blame goes to the girl's parents before you will even begin to blame the girl.

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by QuinModah(f): 7:27am On Apr 17, 2022
Whatever rocls your boat
subsidywise18:


Good post, but still pass wording one's whatsapp is good to protect from hackers. That's the main reason why I did it for mine.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by QuinModah(f): 7:29am On Apr 17, 2022
wink
Saao:
Thanks for the post, I learned alot from your post. Thanks
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by luluosas(m): 7:31am On Apr 17, 2022
God help us to be on our guard ooooooooo. We are living in a wicked world
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Patriotic9ja(m): 7:34am On Apr 17, 2022
Nice piece
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by Nobody: 7:36am On Apr 17, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:

.
What I'm trying to say here is that d teenage girl has questions to answer and as for d old cargo of a man, well nemesis will surely catch up with him

Do you know why the age of consent starts from 18?
You are saying total rubbish. It's people like you that make things worse. You want to blame a child?

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by QuinModah(f): 7:36am On Apr 17, 2022
bukatyne:
I am very interested in the girl's perspective.

A chat with her to know what was going on in her mind would have been nice.
Unfortunately I couldn't.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by mysticgal(f): 7:39am On Apr 17, 2022
Toks2008:

Iam not in support of what that guy did but let me ask...

What if the guy in question is also 15 or 17? Will the mum react tbis same way?


Just wondering
Every mother would be repulsed including myself but its a 15 year old, minor doing minor but a full grown man with kids? Common the man is a big paedophile

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by victorazy(m): 7:39am On Apr 17, 2022
LadyRosa:

This is same thing I noticed in my neighborhood.I keep asking myself who are the men sleeping with this teenagers.If a teenager is mating with her agemates,you will know.But a situation where they give this odour that is too "aged" you don't get to perceive that natural baby lotion smell but a weird odour that is soooooo matured for their age.

I mean,the one that offed me is a CBN staffers girl-child of 15 in the Estate.She leads children cathcism in the local parish.

Omo,there are lots of pedophiles in our neighborhood.The father is a well paid employee.
Someone confided in me she is being humped my a married man in the neighborhood.

Why will a matured married man leave all the ladies around just to sleep with minors.The most annoying thing is this men are well educated.Haba!

And what are you doing about it, watching them like moves?
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by ibinaboonline: 7:42am On Apr 17, 2022
Exactly. Victim-blaming is a sad and destructive mentality woven into the fabric of the Nigerian society. This girl, for example, is a teen who should act like a teen, of course. The only problem is devils like that pedophile who use their adult experience to prey on teens who are going through their “teenage “ period. What that commenter I was responding to chose to forget is that it’s perfectly normal and expected for teens to be curious. In fact, if your teen is not showing “funny “ interests in the opposite sex or exploring the world around him or her, then you should be worried. Boyfriend and girlfriend is part of growing up. It’s them going through the process of maturity in order to become a grown, experienced adult. That’s why I said what the teen needs is guidance and protection at this stage of her life. It’s evil adults who take advantage of vulnerable teens. Do they stop there? The answer is no. The lone traveler, a 24 years old girl, who nearly got raped in Zanzibar is still trending on Twitter. What happened? Somebody TOOK ADVANTAGE of her vulnerability _ a girl in a hotel alone. No matter, the victim-blamers will blame her for traveling solo to Tanzania.
ayleclanche:

God bless you. In Nigeria, we have this culture of always blaming the victims instead of the culprit. A girl who visits a male friend gets raped, we will be like why did she visit a man in the first place, you get unlawfully arrested for being in the street at night, some will say why we're you not inside your father's house at that time as if there is a law that says you can't move freely at night. The same mentality prevents us from holding our polithiefians accountable. I don't just understand, I no know who swear for Nigeria, why be shey most of us our thinking just dey different, It doesn't follow a sane path

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Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 7:43am On Apr 17, 2022
Jondelng:


Do you know why the age of consent starts from 18?
You are saying total rubbish. It's people like you that make things worse. You want to blame a child?
Not I want to blame d devil d came into d girl.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by emmanuelbrown26: 7:44am On Apr 17, 2022
Jondelng:


Do you know why the age of consent starts from 18?
You are saying total rubbish. It's people like you that make things worse. You want to blame a child?
U are really making sense bcs u didn't read when d man said that d girl should not be shy when around him
Stop being shy around me.” “Why are you afraid? Nobody will see you.”
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by kay29000(m): 7:44am On Apr 17, 2022
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Too bad....wetin dey fifteen year old girl body

.if I approach a woman and I notice or realize you are not more than twenty years..then immediately my interest will just die

The one am also interested in for government to regulate is all these hype and dj song they do play in clubs

It is no longer played only in clubs

It is now played even in the gathering and parties of kids
Imagine you will be hearing dj and hype songs in the gathering of kids like " them get yansh ...them get breast...na kpekus way no fine them dey use condom fuckkk...
Kids na carry Bluetooth speakers up and down playing this songs

I swear... It is sickening. Even American songs are not as raw as our naija songs have become. It's really disturbing.
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by QuinModah(f): 7:44am On Apr 17, 2022
angry angry
basilo101:

I have noticed that women lack logic and objectivity. 15 year old is not a child. Our fathers married 15 years old and 7th wife
Re: Don’t Lose Guard With Your Daughters by kay29000(m): 7:45am On Apr 17, 2022
Adek15:
to have a girl child is so terrifying. It's only God that can save them. Anyone that can train a girl child properly till she gets married without blemish should be given a national award, e no easy

So so true. So true.

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