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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Remman(m): 7:38pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji:how much is seun paying you to be coming up with fake stories to drive ads impressions? Talk truth...! |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Glowqueen3(f): 7:39pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
[quote author=DavSagacity post=112049832]Pls look for an elderly person she respects alot like her Parents or Pastor or mentor and explain things to them . Let them know how much you love her and u want your marriage to be peaceful without any form of malice, rancor , or incessant disagreement. Don't let it look like you came to report her, but rather for them to help you talk to her to forgive u if there's anything you have done in the past that is still hurtful to her that is making her to behave the way she's doing at the moment. I believe she'll listen to them . Concerning her low sex drive, assist her with house chores when u can. Women don't respond well to sex when they are stressed with house chores and taking care of the baby. What are the things that makes her happy that u have stopped doing. ?? Look inward and make amend. Also don't just dive into sex. pre-intimacy is very essential. When I got married, my wife had to tell me that I should take it easy. So I had to learn pre-intimacy to prepare both of us for enjoyable love making and not one person enjoying the act. So bro, she needs pre-intimacy . As long as there's no form of any physical assault, I believe things can be amended and your home will be peaceful and joyous again. This is the best advice you need |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Acidosis(m): 7:39pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Tundellinium: By changing his reaction to someone's attitude towards him. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Maobichek: 7:39pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Acidosis: I don't encourage any man to be a simp and i will encourage all simps to do away with being simp. I got uncomfortable at the 3rd paragraph, he should ensure that his marriage is ok but not begging her even when she is at fault. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by ALABACONNECT(m): 7:39pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
We live in a mad world honestly. How do married people who dated for quite a while before finally getting married still get to this only to come online to take advice from mostly single people or people who haven't seen the walls of a stable relationship? Nna eh. Ikegwuru 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by virginchaser(m): 7:41pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji: Young man it's not going to get better. The major question is do you have better person in mind? The risk is getting married to another worse lady. Decision lies in you. |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by babtoundey(m): 7:42pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
What is it with Nairaland frontpage and sex today! Everywhere, sex, sex, sex ... Se ogun la'ye ni? |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by omoadeleye(m): 7:42pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji: If it's affecting your mental health, walk out of it, if you later found peace of mind without her, you did the right thing 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by rickleye: 7:42pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji: Your side of the story is low sex drive What is her side of the story - Do you have a hyper or overactive sex appetite ? These are your options 1. You sit her down and talk to her not “ at “ her. Listen sex is an important part of a marriage to me. I would like us to “do the nasty “3 times a week. I find that I am drawn to other women and porn to satisfy my urge. What do you say ? If she says she doesn’t care then your other 2 option might be to leave the marriage. I am weary about you leaving the marriage because you have only mentioned “ low sex drive” as her issue . You haven’t mentioned any other perceived flaw , so how do you know the grass is greener on the other side ( with another woman , who may not love your child as your own and comes with her own baggage) If your interested I’ll recommend 2 items for you to read together and watch. I’ll recommend the DVD. https://www.amazon.ca/Laugh-Your-Way-Better-Marriage/dp/1416558799/ref=asc_df_1416558799/?tag=googlemobshop-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=292962612622&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=11152984564419500361&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=m&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1002604&hvtargid=pla-350146903655&psc=1 GoodLuck ! 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Majesty33(m): 7:43pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
gasparpisciotta:This aspects of telling a woman about all my dealings is what I can't handle. Pls can u help out. My elder misbehaves to me whenever she likes and have no regard for me. |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by MrPADDY(m): 7:44pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Udemzy05:Wait until you hear op's wife's side of the story. |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Wande22(m): 7:45pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
gasparpisciotta:Wa gbayi bro |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Mystery9(m): 7:45pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
This reasons are not enough to lead to divorce. |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by maticar: 7:46pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji:Don't listen to the clown above |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Enwhen(m): 7:46pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji: You need to show her love , she has lo e trust in you , what u need to do , go very close to her , take her out , introduce her to anybody .....flex with her , give her enough water melon to burst her sex drive , take her to dubai...pls show her love to quench the bitterness in her. |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Bmuhd4smile: 7:47pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
jesmond3945: Massive respect... She doesn't have low sex drive... she is just manipulative and love to have sex on her own terns. She might even like pornography self. Na so them they do |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Parizz: 7:51pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
DispatcherLagos:have you fùcked her pussy? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Karemarealty288(m): 7:51pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Get a side chicken..
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Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by gerrisson(m): 7:51pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Leave. Life is too short to endure a loveless marriage. echomanji: |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Jeferious: 7:52pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
cyphher:What do you mean by him killing his own happiness by not putting a ring on the lady's finger? Is his happiness absolutely dependent on marriage with the lady? Sorry to ask, but are you mad? What kind of generation is this kwanu that I found myself in? Even animals now have better reasoning than some human beings. I no blame you. Na the person wey carry im gist come for market na im I blame |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Parizz: 7:54pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
MadamVanessa:i would like to suck your pussy |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by toujurs: 7:59pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Till now i just haven't seen that lady, that i will love to get married to, i guess it's a mission impossible. Like i even approach ladies every where in the mall, open market, church, leisure centre. to put in more efforts. But all my efforts has always landed me as a Bleep boy. Due to taste. It seem like a mission impossible. I will just settle with the best. Its like its imo state girls that full this lagos. Every where imo state girls. Still single at 32 years. |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by enonche85(m): 7:59pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji: Involve family members, if no change then leave. |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Proudlyomonna: 8:00pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
DispatcherLagos: If you keep posting it you might never get married I am wedding my baby girl this August. After tasting many women I came to a conclusion that no other woman can give me bj and cow girl style like my baby girl,so I am settling for her full time. Na the mumu op be the cause of him problem. My woman knows I hate stress and senseless confrontations with passion. I stay away from anything and anyone that will stress me like a plague,if she stress me na to leave house for her go my house for another state,stay there with another sweet potato The op should stop behaving like a slowpoke and take charge of his home. Marry ooo e dey necessary but marry with sense��. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Tundellinium(m): 8:02pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Golden111: Common man, I can have female friends. That doesn't mean I'm flirting with them. So because I'm married now, I shouldn't have female friends, what sort of rubbish is that? 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Tundellinium(m): 8:04pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Acidosis: Common, think bro. Both parties have their attitude to work on. |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by tonididdy(m): 8:04pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
DispatcherLagos:Comrade fear not... 1 Like |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by walewriter: 8:05pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
Kriss216: |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Sniper04(m): 8:07pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
echomanji:Divorce her bro, she's not serious, let her pay for this, she Will come beg you herself if she's truly serious |
Re: I'm Getting Tired Of This Marriage! by Nobody: 8:07pm On Apr 18, 2022 |
DispatcherLagos:So this either means that men don’t know how to pick a wife, Nigerian women are all bad or men are never satisfied. I think we know what the answer is. |
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