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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Opolopoopolonio: 4:17pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

Sickle cell anaemia can be TREATED via bone marrow transplant.

If your baby is O+, you sure have a better deal.

DON'T ABORT!!!

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by 07kjb: 4:18pm On Apr 22, 2022
Anything abortion my hand no dey


Can't u people abstain from sex when u know the outcome will be dangerous

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Romanoff(f): 4:18pm On Apr 22, 2022
If you choose to keep the baby, pleas have money.

Sickle cell crisis is cash draining and it can be as much as more than 12 in a year.

Many times, hey require blood transfusion and even platelets.

Their drugs are very expensive.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by IamV: 4:18pm On Apr 22, 2022
XTHRONE:



Are they even married or just cohabiting, people of this days self

I think it's a case of cohabiting.

If it's a case of cohabiting,then she have no moral standing to call abortion "horrific thing" because she feels her faith is against it.
Is fornicating when you're not legally married a "horrific thing" against her faith ,too ?

Maybe, she's just being hypocritical.

Patiently waiting for her response.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 4:18pm On Apr 22, 2022
Please don't kill the child. Please.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Emmymarvel(m): 4:22pm On Apr 22, 2022
holsconcept:
If u actually believed God can change SS to AS, stick to your belief. Only time will tell.
Then why does God allow the child to come as SS in the first place............? Sometimes try to dey let God work easy for am pls. Dont bring an SS child into this world pls, that boy will never forgive you.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by LLSAINT(m): 4:22pm On Apr 22, 2022
Why are you wasting time advising this emu?
Sorry to use the word. I am just pissed reading this write up.
You see fire and you dey put hand and the same time dey ask people for advise?
No be juju be that? cry

Romanoff:
If you choose to keep the baby, pleas have money.

Sickle cell crisis is cash draining and it can be as much as more than 12 in a year.

Many times, hey require blood transfusion and even platelets.

Their drugs are very expensive.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by armyofone(m): 4:24pm On Apr 22, 2022
rentAcock:
Don't listen to all these child murderers telling you to abort the fetus. Seems like you are somewhere in Europe, your child has a better chance of living a decent life for the mere fact that they have better medical services. Who knows if some groundbreaking discovery will eradicate the SS crisis in the future and probably enable SS patients live a long healthy life? I know SS patients in their 50s, don't let these people make you commit an abominable act just because they lack faith and have a myopic view of the future.

Ms. Riri/ Op

Please take note- since in your heart you don't want to abort. Take care of yourself and your children.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by 2braithe: 4:24pm On Apr 22, 2022
sylve11:


The guy told her he does not want another child with her, yet he was bleeping her raw.

Both the op and the man, I don't know what to say to them. embarassed cool

Na body dey sweet them grin
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Westernequinox: 4:24pm On Apr 22, 2022
Start speaking the words of the genotype you want the baby to Carry, words have power in the kingdom, don't abort, murder is more deadly, and be not decieved, what a man sows he shall reap
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by illuminutty: 4:24pm On Apr 22, 2022
Abort! Abort!! Abort!!!
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by thinkmoney(m): 4:26pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
DON'T ABORT. Life is a gift, no matter the wrappings it comes in.
Give birth to the child. Take care of him the best way you can.
What more, science and medicine is fast catching up. You might be pleasantly surprised of the treatment and medical management of the case that may come up in ten years.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by brainhack(m): 4:26pm On Apr 22, 2022
When I tell people love is not enough when it comes to genotype, they try to be defensive citing advancements in science (as if it’s just a click of the button).

Well the world has a way of repaying human folly, it’s with many tears, frustration & pocket draining unbudgeted expenses. I really hate seeing children suffer unnecessarily.

You fail to listen to sound rational advice, brace yourself for the suffering ahead.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by joetem(m): 4:27pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME


Abort!!! the pains u will face if you dont if better told than imagined.... i dey talk from experience oo
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by 07kjb: 4:28pm On Apr 22, 2022
Emmymarvel:

Then why does God allow the child to come as SS in the first place............? Sometimes try to dey let God work easy for am pls. Dont bring an SS child into this world pls, that boy will never forgive you.



There are people on earth that are not supposed to inter marry. When you go contrary to God purpose you have crisis
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Iamnorth: 4:28pm On Apr 22, 2022
You might not want to even look at this from the religious point of view! Mehnn this is real deep! But for fu*cking sakes you escaped the first time but you still went ahead to bleep the second time...don't bring a child you can't take care of to this world,we are faced with a whole lot of challanges already! #my take

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by bigfrancis21: 4:29pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME

By giving birth to this baby, are you aware that you are willingly and knowingly creating a life of pains, suffering and inability to achieve life's maximum capabilities for this child? Are you also aware that this child will depend on you nearly all his lifetime and you will be heavily involved in his life to carry him through tough times? Have you spoken to other parents of SS children to see what their life experience is?

Are you aware that this boy's father has written his hands off the child and that YOU WILL BE FULLY RESPONSIBLE FOR RAISING HIM ALONE?

Why do we Africans intentionally create living hell situations for ourselves and then call God's name in vain as if he directed you to do so?

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Abbeytoy(m): 4:29pm On Apr 22, 2022
Abortion is the best my dear... I am a living experience

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Wisfem: 4:30pm On Apr 22, 2022
IamV:


What medical advice is she going to seek exactly ? Bone marrow transplant ? Does she have the money to fund it ?

She claimed to be catholic,and I'm left wondering if the church knew about her genotype & that of her partner before joining them both in holy matrimony ?

Or is it a case of two adults fornicating ,and now she's playing the religion card of her faith being against abortion ?

I have a girl who is a SS in my compound,and I know the hell she goes through.
I won't wish anyone such experience,truth be told.





This things were only seen or common during the archaic medical practices, no this days any more but this is what we see in the hospital some days let her come to general hospital and stop playing religious card, she can see fellows and possible get help through NGO and other governmental Agencies, pending how viable the foetus is, Otherwise Top may be an option, but I never said that....
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by SocialJustice: 4:32pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
Please abort. You will have more children. Nigeria is hard enough, no need bringing the baby in to suffer more.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Johnsown1(m): 4:32pm On Apr 22, 2022
So choose whether to bring a child to the world to suffer until he dies out of your negligence and stupidity or you kill the child and face the consequences .

So the big decision is yours.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by omozu1(m): 4:33pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
S s children live well these days.
Please keep the child and register with any of their centers close to you.
Give the child all the necessary vaccine , their routine drugs and keep the child on green diet.
If you even tell people that the child is s s they will doubt you.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Peace081: 4:33pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m
pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
How many months is the pregnancy
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by armyofone(m): 4:33pm On Apr 22, 2022
thinkmoney:

DON'T ABORT. Life is a gift, no matter the wrappings it comes in.
Give birth to the child. Take care of him the best way you can.
What more, science and medicine is fast catching up. You might be pleasantly surprised of the treatment and medical management of the case that may come up in ten years.

Science, yes is catching up.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by zakkxx: 4:35pm On Apr 22, 2022
You and your partner are Aware!! You are both foolish! Don’t try God! U knew it! And don’t ever try to kill that child! If u try it u will burn in Hell!

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Duru009(m): 4:37pm On Apr 22, 2022
Please DON'T bring in SS child because you will leave to regret it......


The Xperience only, honestly I can't wish you it for my enemies...
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by OMEGA009(m): 4:38pm On Apr 22, 2022
Permit me to say that YOU’RE VERY SELFISH. YOU know your genotype and still went ahead to be with someone that is AS. Despite dodging a bullet, you continued to have sex with him and now that you’ve knowingly stepped on a landmine which you placed wrongly, you’re asking for our advice. When you dey fvck, you ask us? Common getat. E-diot. Berra do the needful or go to the nearest general hospital and see how traumatic it is to have an SS baby.

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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by DMerciful(m): 4:39pm On Apr 22, 2022
What you did was a wicked act. Abort the baby and save everyone including the child unnecessary stress
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by ken6488(m): 4:39pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
God will not forgive you both
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by phemmyfour: 4:39pm On Apr 22, 2022
Djriri:
My partner and I are aware of our genotype situation both of us carry AS gene we both have a child together my first daughter who is AS genotype PRAISE THE LORD.

After finding out that I am also AS my partner after the birth of my daughter has told me he didn’t want to continue having children with me and would rather we both raise the child and get new partners. we want to let that connection go and 1 year later currently I’m pregnant with a baby boy who is now carrying the SS gene.

My partner has moved out of house ,, Paid me money to abort the baby and he went to start a new life far from me and the baby. I’m not sure if I should use the money abort the child and start my life or keep the child and pray for Gods forgiveness!!!!

HELPPPP ME
The risk isn't worth it .... know your genotype before going into any relationship
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Justbehave(m): 4:39pm On Apr 22, 2022
Candidlady:
sad


This is deep! Really deep!!

Candid advice if you can abort it please do!!
°°°°what iwould do if iwere to be in your shoes°°°since it is a boy child iwont even think twice°°°°


Hopefully Allah gives you enough wisdom to do what is Right
Amin


May your generation and the ones unborn never hear the cry of a male child forever and ever. Amin.
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by susiivy: 4:40pm On Apr 22, 2022
The child won't even be happy with you.

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