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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Rubbiish(m): 5:00pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Djriri:But u are about to make that child go through a more horrific life all the days of his life on earth. U & your partner are very selfish & wicked for bringing a sickle cell child into this world. It is better to be without a child than to bring a child with sickle cell into the world. No child deserve it. A sickle cell child lives for nothing but sickness and pain all through their short stay on earth. It is a very horrible experience. You & your partner shouldn't have gone this far, that is pure selfishness! 1 Like |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 5:00pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Djriri:Please abort it sister Abortion is not a sin as it's perceived in some religion worlds Just removal of unwanted foetus... That life you are about to welcome will curse you at the long run Abortion is easy now unlike b4 1 Like |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Dawn91(m): 5:00pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Candidlady: Best comment here by miles. May Allah continue to guide you in wisdom Amin |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Khafsun: 5:00pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
venabili:That wouldn't actually solve the problem. AS will eventually outnumber AA. Besides, what kind of union is a forced union? |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by bayobabe(f): 5:02pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
But what kind of arrangement are you guys having sef. One child no do una? You guys can be together and take of your daughter. About the boy in your womb, the best time to save him from pains is now. Best of luck. Djriri: |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by yunqdady: 5:02pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by OKOATA(m): 5:03pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
SpecialEdition:About the bone breaking thing I can attest to that, I was in the boarding school, there was this guy we all knew, he was always in pains, it was so sorrowful even at times I prayed he died then, we were always pressing his chest, back, all his joints, at some point we would put gyming iron on his back. He died in SS3 while writing Jamb. I have known about 4 sickle cells friends or afar which they all died and they were boys. 3 Likes |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by HazzanTazzan(m): 5:03pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Firstly, have you ever had Abortion ? If yes, why do you have issues aborting this ? Secondly, would you rather get scared of abortion and knowingly bring a child into this world to suffer or you’d avoid future problems by simply aborting the pregnancy now that’s Foetus isn’t formed yet ? |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by drerocker: 5:03pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Djriri:their are solution but very expensive thier is also herbal cure but why would you married without checking ur genotype well its 50=50 channce |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Monben: 5:03pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Please don't abort. The mistake has already been done. There are very natural ways you can keep your baby healthy so that nobody would even suspect that he has an SS genotype. I am a living witness to this fact. You don't need drugs or herbs, just natural foods, fruits, and vegetables you can get on the market. |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Acidosis(m): 5:06pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Opolopoopolonio: Cost? N25m? |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Donpenny(m): 5:06pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
I really wish you can be more logically here than been emotionally in this situation. This will guild you towards taking the right decision. The stress of raising a sickle cell carrier child is so huge than what i can imagine. It could overwhelmed you in future and end up fustrated than even now 1 Like |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by pappilo(m): 5:06pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
holsconcept: This is idiotic. Abort the baby whilst you still can. Dont selfishly bring a child into this world to suffer a lifetime of pain. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by zelnababa(m): 5:06pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Djriri:eya i pity you when d problem come in the future you will feel like kill d kid once and for all. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by OKOATA(m): 5:08pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
alphabbey1:Yes some with yellow eyes, protuded stomach like kwashiorkor, very thin body, they sometimes walk as if they will fall at anytime. |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Nobody: 5:09pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
abort, abort, abort. u won't want to see the end result once u gave birth to the baby |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by tammyf: 5:09pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
SpecialEdition: 100% truth .I swear by my honour . 1 Like |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by hope4nigeria(m): 5:09pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Candidlady:Op here is the best and only advice, forget those who will bring holy holy come, you will save alot abort the baby, you equally save the baby himself facing I'll health and nigeria problems. But that nigga no love you at all, since you already have a good baby/child, if I were him, I will stay with you forever. But your husband was already looking for excuse to abandon you and he has gotten one |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Justbehave(m): 5:09pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Dawn91:When a fool talks. 1 Like |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Dawn91(m): 5:10pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
[s] Justbehave:[/s] He gets this
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Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Richsteemit: 5:11pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Candidlady: Are you Muslim or Christian?? I saw one of your when u said u went to church 1 Like |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by hope4nigeria(m): 5:12pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
drerocker:lies, no solution to SS, you want to misled someone that's fraud |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Justbehave(m): 5:13pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Dawn91:You are a sorry of a man by saying her comment is the best. Seems you didn't comprehend the rubbish she wrote or maybe you a shameless simpLE man. |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by hope4nigeria(m): 5:14pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
yunqdady:be calming down oh, you cannot rule out mumu people among us na |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by AfroKnight: 5:14pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
You are both wicked stoopid parents. |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Dawn91(m): 5:15pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
[s] Justbehave:[/s] Did you understand what she wrote yourself or do you assume like you everyone thinks with his pants ? |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Dpundict: 5:15pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Even with my AA genotype and O+ blood group, I have not even thought about marrying or fathering a child with someone with AS. I have my reasons for this not that I hate anyone for what they had no hand in at the point of birth but I genuinely want my kids to have AA and Something else. I know someone almost 40 but has refused to marry because he is a sufferer of the SS genotype. 2 Likes |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by rickleye: 5:16pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Djriri: What do you want to do ? Options 1. Keep the baby - Caring for a child as a single parent in a society without the necessary assistance and quality of assistance will be hard. Having a child without support structure will be difficult. Think it through and thoroughly. Weigh pros and cons and void emotions. 2. Keep the baby and give it up for adoption - Again, why add to the growing number of abandon babies however he could be lucky and be adopted by loving and caring parents. 3. Abort the baby - This is not a decision taken because you were young and careless but looking at the future of the baby , It will be extremely hard. You will recover and go on and do great things. Go , seek out and support a child financially who has SS in your aborted child's name to ease your conscience. God is a forgiving father. Learn for this and do not put yourself again in such predicament. Whatever your decision, be at peace with it. GoodLuck ! |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Unbreakable007: 5:16pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Shey him don leave u behind? Wise decision from the guy. And you... Devil go piss for ur head. U will suffer millions tyms more than that innocent baby u just want to bring to dz wicked Nigeria to suffer. U will knw no peace. |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Justbehave(m): 5:17pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Dawn91:Did you see where she wrote that since the pregnancy is a boy that she wouldn't think twice aborting it? Do you know what it implies? 1 Like |
Re: I’m Pregnant With A Sickle Cell Baby - Help by Prettychild(f): 5:20pm On Apr 22, 2022 |
Djriri:I really don’t know what to advise you, I can’t advise you to abort the pregnancy because it’s not godly. However, ask God to forgive you, have mercy on you and direct you accordingly. In the midst of SS who died, there are a lot that are still alive. One of my juniors back then in school who is SS, though he do have crisis, he is alive, a lawyer, in good health and is married with a kid. You can encourage yourself with positive stories. Most importantly, pray to God for a miracle. Trust me Sis, miracles do happen, only have faith 5 Likes |
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