Dear men,

It is good to have a business or a job before you start dating or talking about marriage. Because a man without an income is more likely to propose to a woman he doesn't love, and spend the rest of his life existing instead of living. Go into marriage, not bondage. Be productive and work. Stop waiting for a woman to bail you out of your poverty circle.

I pity any woman foolish enough to date a man who has no source of income.Because such men soft turn out to be obligate parasites on the woman,sucking her financial blood.
Being handsome like water spirit or having a dick bigger than the green anaconda is nothing if the man is jobless.They must be matched with productivity in every vital atom of the word.
Moreover, such men can often be turned to houseboys and slaves by the woman.

Dating is not poverty alleviation programme. Dating is easy and fun outside Naija.

These same men you are telling not to fucck women unless they make money, don't forget to mind your business when they make this money and decide to fucck battalion of women.

Good question,

1. Before you get marry to any woman do your due diligence, check the background of woman, her mother in particular.

2. Also let the elders within your kinsmen do their own background check too.

3. When it comes to marriage, we have to be realistic to ourselves, don't marry a woman because she's educated, she's a carrier woman, she has good job, she's beautiful, don't marry a woman that will disturb your peace, don't marry that will be dictating and controlling your life... ( for me personally I'll not accept this from any woman)

4. Marry the humble woman, that's real and not fake..... Be honest to your self......

5. When you see the best woman to be your wife, you'll definitely know.

*This is my own opinion*

Onyiiobi7735:
I pity any woman foolish enough to date a man who has no source of income.Because such men soft turn out to be obligate parasites on the woman,sucking her financial blood.
Being handsome like water spirit or having a dick bigger than the green anaconda is nothing if the man is jobless.They must be matched with productivity in every vital atom of the word.
Moreover, such men can often be turned to houseboys and slaves by the woman.

You have no point.

flames007:
You have no point.

And is that why you are foaming at the mouth like a rabid animal?

but when he now make money,he can do as many woman as he want sha abi

Onyiiobi7735:
I pity any woman foolish enough to date a man who has no source of income.Because such men soft turn out to be obligate parasites on the woman,sucking her financial blood.
Being handsome like water spirit or having a dick bigger than the green anaconda is nothing if the man is jobless.They must be matched with productivity in every vital atom of the word.
Moreover, such men can often be turned to houseboys and slaves by the woman.

this your mindset is the main reason you are single and calming to be man why?

If you can tell Men not to date women or have sex when they are broke,you have no right to tell men to not To have sex with as many men as they want,when they eventually Make the money.
Men,when you eventually make the money, Never ever date a broke woman! Have sex with as many women as you want!
Don't let anybody guilt trip or shame you into settling down with a Fat pig in the name of Marriage and responsibility.

this is crazy

Most girls hv counted dating to "carry my liability"
It could HV make sense if op said he wants to marry without an income,I could hv go against dat..... My tot anyway

Joblessness is the last step before Stupidity

Ego bu Nma nwoke. Aku n’ esi obî Ike.

Such guy is a fool..

Dear men,

It is good to have a business or a job before you start dating or talking about marriage. Because a man without an income is more likely to propose to a woman he doesn't love, and spend the rest of his life existing instead of living. Go into marriage, not bondage. Be productive and work. Stop waiting for a woman to bail you out of your poverty circle.

Whatever you are smoking, stop it before it stops you

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Dear men,

It is good to have a business or a job before you start dating or talking about marriage. Because a man without an income is more likely to propose to a woman he doesn't love, and spend the rest of his life existing instead of living. Go into marriage, not bondage. Be productive and work. Stop waiting for a woman to bail you out of your poverty circle.

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If you want to be stupid, be stupid and stop copying and editing people's posts on nairaland.

Why are you nairaland girls so idle and jobless? This is what idleness can cause

Goes both ways...

OP already deactivated?

It's a gamble especially for the female.

You get to know a male's real spec when he has money.

Are you his actual spec? Or you are just the one he is using to quench his urge till he makes money and dumps you then spend the money on his spec who wouldn't look at him twice when he had nothing.

There is a reason God placed males as providers. Let him go and work first, make money and then marry his spec.

No female should clothe and feed a negroe. Even he knows it's wrong and won't respect you. The girl wey e dey eye dey one corner dey flex.

STORY STORY OO OOO STORY.
REST ON ALAAFIN OF OYO.

Onyiiobi7735:
And is that why you are foaming at the mouth like a rabid animal?

Lol

Dear men,

It is good to have a business or a job before you start dating or talking about marriage. Because a man without an income is more likely to propose to a woman he doesn't love, and spend the rest of his life existing instead of living. Go into marriage, not bondage. Be productive and work. Stop waiting for a woman to bail you out of your poverty circle.

Why did you deactivate. You should have waited so that you can collect your report card.

In as much as I want a woman with acceptable attitude, she must have a big ass!

Don't ask me why. I am proudly a lesbian

Stupid girl. You rush go copy my post. Edit am, come post am again!

Are you not stupid like this?
Why are you nairaland girls so jobless and idle? This is exactly what joblessness and idleness can cause.

Women will tell you not to date if you are broke but will still tell you to be loyal when you become rich.

If God hears your prayers and gives you money after these women have broke shamed you only for you to be loyal to one woman,you must be a fool