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| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Mavinsoladele(m): 10:45pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
maxist2020:I wept while reading your first story. At this rate, I don't even want to have anything to do with ladies or female children. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nobody: 10:45pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
tarantino1:Women? Fear those humans . Without them, John the Baptist would still be alive today. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by UCHIHAmask: 10:46pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Stanweezy:Are you that gullible or naive for someone to play your emotional intelligence like that,I thought people like you are reserved and quiet,thereby observative and intelligent!! even people that hurt or kill children have theirs later,what of people that do abortion! I hate playing with children,I don't even carry babies,I do things that interests me and trust me, playing with a baby or a child is not interesting. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by F22RAPTOR(m): 10:47pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Man, i read every story in this thread and all i can say is damn. May we all be wise to discern when to play or run from demonic kids. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by maasoap(m): 10:47pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Nikkganc08:This is a very sad tale, like the childhood almost destroyed by mum. How are you guys going to forgive your mum since you can't forget? I believe that you guys should revisit that experience with your mum and get a closure before she too leaves this world. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Richardlove(m): 10:50pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Your narration really make me laugh to stupor. Just let it slide. It's not necessary again. [ quote author=Nikkganc08 post=112217004]Mine was a sad tale but a bit different My parents had 5 kids ( four boys and a girl) The sad tale happened around when I was in primary 1. My Grandma heard a story of how a child put his fingers in her sisters genital. The first thing that came to her mind was to rush down to my mums house to break d news. She just believed that we've been doing same. Somehow, she came and convinced my mum that we all ( the four of us) have been putting our finger in our sisters anus. As at then, our eldest brother was still in either primary 4 or 5 (I'm the third child). My Grandma and mum brought us all out in d parlour and gave us all serious flogging without telling us what was wrong. After d first batch of torture, we were all crying already. That was when she announced that we have been putting our fingers in her anus. Pls before u judge me, note that at such age, I had ZERO IDEA of what putting hands in someone's anus meant. My sister was called to confess. She shouldn't be more than 2 years then. They asked her... Did xxxx put his hand in ur bum bum? She'll Nod her head in affirmation. Did yyyy put his hand in ur bum bum? She'll Nod again. Will u eat human head? She'll nod Will u drink urine? She'll Nod Anything u say, She'll nod. Mum didn't care about her foolish nodding. They just wanted her to confirm that we all put fingers there. Well..., after several hours or torture , the eldest two insisted that they've never done such before (because they were a bit matured and knowledgeable then). They were spared. I tried same but more beating was added. Mum stripped me and d last son naked and flogged us more . She said, 'tell me d truth, I'll leave u' We both said we r innocent. More slaps, flogging and hours of kneeling down where served to us. Frog jumping and 'no food' threats were added. Followed by no more school fees. And finally, that they'd come to our school and make sure we'll be called out and flogged in front of everyone during morning assembly. She kept on saying " tell me d truth and I'd leave u". Finally , we had to admit to d story so that mum would spare us. Lol....!!! That was when d real beating started. Its a long story though. She told all our relatives about how we've been putting our fingers in our little sisters anus. She won't let our sister play or stay with us. She'd just shout 'remove her from there before xxxx and yyyy (name withheld) would start fingering her. She bought more pants for her (the BIG ones) plus some stuffs that is blackish and looks like boxers (don't know d name but women wear it alot). She must were pant, that black boxers, and a hose at same time before putting on her blouse. Followed by tutorials for her to shout and report us to mum any day we touch her pant again. Lol...!!! Whenever mum is bored, she'll just call d both of us, strip us naked, kneel us down , then flog us as much as she wanted. Followed by questions like, "when was d last time u put fingers in ur sisters bum bum? ". "Is it yesterday? Last week? today? " If u don't pick anyone, She'll pick one for u. Maybe, she'd say d last time u did it was yesterday. Whenever grandma feels bored , she'd come to our house, strip us naked and start her own flogging. I'm almost 30 years now. I'm a non-virgin. I might have done stuffs with my female friends. But d truth remains this... As kids, we were tortured for what we knew nothing about. Something I had no idea of what it meant. Someday, maybe this week, I'd call my sister and mum together, she has to confess whether she was fingered or not. And mum MUST apologize for d unnecessary torture. Grandma is dead. So, let's allow her to rest in peace If my sister decides to accuse me , then we MUST get a native doctor to fish out d truth. I won't let such heavy accusation slide again without repercussions[/quote] |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by GloriousGbola: 10:50pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
UCHIHAmask:For he so hated women, he cut off his dick. You want to liken yourself to a dirty, cut off your prick. That way, you will truly have no desire for women and be able to live a zen life What you have now is just an abundance of sexual frustration |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by lexander(m): 10:53pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar:really i mean really just pray your son or relative wont fall into the exact same mess, mine was actually worse and in both cases i didn't even know the accuser ,i just thank the almighty God for vindicating me . In the first incident some elderly had to intervene and check if the girl was actually raped because the entire story just didn't add up and found out absolutely nothing happened to her. upon further questioning she confessed that her mom always beat her whenever she goes outside to play for a long time which she just happened to do that particular so to escape punishment she cried rape. the second time it was not the girl herself but her madam that was cooking up stories after she sent her packing (her husband might have been sleeping with the and she involved the police) but at the end of the story she told 4 different versions of the exact same story. it was plain to everyone that she was lying and attempting to cover up some that happened between her husband and the girl in question |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by PhilGreen(m): 10:56pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Am just here to learn and I love kids whole heartedly. Maybe I should be careful with them henceforth |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by maasoap(m): 10:57pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar:You ever heard of the words "return leg"? I hope we don't have to watch that. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nobody: 10:59pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar:Experience have taught me that people like you are usually the direct opposite of what they defend or advocate against. Dare I say that you, sir, are a rapist. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by atheistandproud(m): 10:59pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
iamehmakute:My anger is that, why is that after all the shout, when these cases are shown to be false, the matter just dies. Everyone keeps quiet and walks away. If na American film now, Mr A suppose track her abroad, tie her up and burn her house down with her in it. ![]() |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 11:00pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Viltron:Like I told your friend, you are entitled to your opinion. No one cares |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by UCHIHAmask: 11:01pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
GloriousGbola:It's a mutual thing now,I didn't get a thing from your reply and from your words I can see you didn't get my point too. Read my comments again,this time let it sink in .. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 11:01pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
maasoap:In football yes. Not in this case though. If by return leg you mean me being a paedophile, I doubt you will ever have to watch |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Jaqenhghar: 11:06pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
lexander:Can you name one person that has ever been convicted of rape in Niggeria? Everyone goes free. the victims get harrassed, gaslighted and threatened till they start doubting their sanity. Not saying you are guilty but in a place like naija you need not worry about people accusing you of rape because it never happens. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by JustforMen: 11:11pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
GloriousGbola:Sicko |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by iamehmakute(m): 11:12pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
atheistandproud:I tell you bro, but that just how it plays out, we all expected a radio apology from the parent but nothing of such happened, next thing we knew was that gbemi has been flown out of the country and there she has been since then. She chatted me up on Facebook several years back it was during that period I got to know she was a resident nurse and was married and even expecting a baby. Mr A's issue was a very painful one, very vibrant teacher, tall,exceptionally intelligent he made quantitative reasoning very interesting for us. with his baritone voice ,We always looked forward to when he would be leading the assembly. "Home my home o my home when shall I see my home when shall I see my native land I will never forget my home" - that was his favorite assembly song. Not sure if he's still alive but, Mr Ayinde you were a good man. May the universe bless your seeds and make them exceptionally great. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by lexander(m): 11:12pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
IAMBOSS1990:actually its more common in advanced country ,all they need do is report to HR that you're looking at them weirdly or you make them feel uncomfortable .in Nigeria men are actually lucky ,they still get to take their kids to school ,hug them take them to the beach daycare and park. those things some fathers in Nigeria take for granted can actually get them arrested in advanced countries. in fact as a male teacher you're not allowed to be in a class with a female student in the absence of another female teacher. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Nobody: 11:14pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar:Yet It elicited a response from you ... Getat, perv. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by SmartyPants(m): 11:16pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
I find it easy to believe because of what a little girl once did to me. Though mine was not of the sexual nature, she was sitting on my lap in the presence of her dad who stepped out to get something - it happened that she bumped her forehead against my chin. When her dad came back she said I beat her. This is a child that is old enough to know that I did not beat her and it was an accident. You can't imagine the shock and terror I felt. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Mavinsoladele(m): 11:16pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
iamehmakute:This is deep |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by lexander(m): 11:20pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Jaqenhghar:many have been sent to jail for rape and many have also been killed or hospitalized, what about your reputation ever heard about sexual offenders register. what happens if getting to the venue of a job interview and the secretary or boss of the company or HR personnel was privy to the incident ,your accusers wont help you clear your name you have to do it yourself and as you know bad news spreads faster . |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by lexander(m): 11:25pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
ccollins:actually cartoons are now going fully woke so they getting corrupt and introduced to normal sex should be the least of your worries .things are about to get really bad. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Neddstark: 11:27pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
There is a man being sentenced to life imprisonment after being abused for raping a toddler in Chrisland schools. I pray for strength not to fail him and for the witch that lied to never excape judgement. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by BillionKnights: 11:28pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
yanabasee:Dude know of a little girl of about 10 that lied that her step dad was molesting her and everyone believed her until she confessed that someone convinced her to lie.. anything can happen bro |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by chigoizie7(m): 11:39pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Anyone that accuses me of rape or anything of such. I will only plead for one thing before going to jail. I will go 7 different deities and swear for her or anyone that put them to accuse me wrongly. I will make sure that the consequences will be life threatening not just to her but to anybody related to her and I will make sure that they know what I did before going to jail. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by drezzyx(m): 11:41pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
That is y i don't allow them into my room. I remembered one asking me if i was gay because i always stop her from approaching and touching me. That day i got the shock of my life and sweat covered me cos i wasn't expecting that from a young girl. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by tollyboy5(m): 11:53pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Nikkganc08:Please you have to that. Your mum need to apologize |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Richardlove(m): 12:06am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Most of you who are sharing your stories here have your loopholes. I have taught in many schools with spoilt children but with no accusation. I have anchored after-school couchings with female children, lived in homes with spoilt children and attend churches with corrupt women and children still no false accusations. You see one thing about life is knowing your boundaries and what an action can result into. Excessive play with toddlers, giving too much gifts or showing too much kindness to opposite sex or under privileged or aged or allowing over familiarities causes of these troubles you guys find yourselves in. Read people and try to know what the relationship between you people is likely to result and avoid them on time. I aborted many attempts to soil my reputation by evil people. |
| Re: "How A Little Girl Almost Ruined My Life" by Born2winKingOG: 12:10am On Apr 24, 2022 |
Richardlove:hand never touch you na make, MR perfect..... you fit say na so it be. I pity you... your lucky nor form general....loop holes ke.. see this one...nor be nigeria you dey.... |
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