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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by The5DME(m): 10:08am On May 02, 2022

Ishilove.

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by medriano: 10:09am On May 02, 2022

Udemzy05:
Though her actions no make sense but you sef no do well,your No should have been No.

You no get levels abeg.

So you haven’t said NO and then YES later?
This scenario is what you are using to qualify him as one without level? Lmao.
Some of you are just anyhow.
He said no initially and then changed his mind, what is so bad about that?

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by KoyyesPussyHiv: 10:09am On May 02, 2022

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by bukatyne(f): 10:10am On May 02, 2022

KiNg0G:
no man she just sat there, but she disrespected my friends and most especially I for making us look like mumu who just came to chop.
the celebrant don't even know us

Her mistake was not rapping up a male cousin to act like your friends.

Talk to older men, they have probably been in such fixes while much younger in the dating scene.

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Draconian: 10:11am On May 02, 2022

The truth is that she was angry with you.
You were reluctant to show up to the birthday party and she was upset. See, don't assume nonsense. Just take it as it comes. Besides, have you wondered who sent all those drinks and pieces of meet to your table before you requested? It was your babe.
And if she didn't come to say hi for whatever reason, it shouldn't be your business. Just make sure that you love yourself first. If she loves you, you will know. It doesn't make sense, girl wey det beg you to come birthday dey dodge because another guy dey bankroll am. You need to chill bro.

KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by medriano: 10:11am On May 02, 2022

Faber:
I dey run am 3 babes on whatsApp. I go post this one block other 2, just that way simultaneously day by day. Na so their head dey swell.

E go shock them when they discover na cruise I just dey catch with them

Girls are cunning and mischievous without knowing that I was born in Cunningham

You think you are the only one they are dating too ��

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by ecomalchemist(m): 10:13am On May 02, 2022

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by bukatyne(f): 10:14am On May 02, 2022

KiNg0G:
I ain't finding nothing bros, I nor get that time.

Even if her papa de there, she disrespected me

She should 'respect' you even though her father was there?

Perhaps you ending it is her good riddance to bad rubbish undecided

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Dammyseyon(m): 10:14am On May 02, 2022

Her reason is genuine enough though but I still think she acted like a child. Please provide update make we know as the matter take go abeg...

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Nobody: 10:14am On May 02, 2022

KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?

It's obvious you are a Yahoo boy. Try to get a Decent Job or profession then she will be flaunting you in all parties. Just imagine say you be Enginner or Pilot or medical doctor etc. She for don introduce you to her papa self. And you also went with Guys that are not presentable because of their way of dressing and appearance. Don't blame that Girl brother. If I was in her shoes I would do the same. Imagine say I get sugar mummy wey dey show me love. I will flaunt her on my WhatsApp normal. But I can't flaunt her in front of my family. So guy. Get a Job and work on your self. The girl still love you self. If you loose her na you know. Peace.

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by dnawah(m): 10:17am On May 02, 2022*

KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?

use your teeth and count your tongue or the other way round.the real boss was around.

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Chiraq77(m): 10:18am On May 02, 2022

Most of you are overlooking the fact that she invited him and Declined the invitation,then later only came to the party Because his friend pressured him to come.

OP you should have gone over to meet her first,To say Hi briefly and atleast know why she didn't come to greet you,after that you head back for your table where your friends at.

If after that she doesn't come to meet you at your table,That's when you should be Angry.

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by flexyrule(m): 10:18am On May 02, 2022

KiNg0G:
yes nw

this na girl when dey flaunt me anyhow for her status.

one sure bobo dey that ground, when be chairman..I observe.

I nor believe that her papa bull crap

Obobi. No by flaunting.

Up your game and be a chairman too.

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Jkelly192: 10:18am On May 02, 2022

She may be right with her excuses. Don’t just block her because of the little problem. It’s a challenge to you and don’t boast to beat a girl or woman in any relationship. Thanks!!!

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by naija4life247: 10:18am On May 02, 2022

What is wrong with this deputy assistant vice boyfriend nah?

My friend, no pass your boundary oooo, so that you will not be humiliated. Isn't it obvious you are just one of the spare tyres?

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Faber(m): 10:19am On May 02, 2022

medriano:
You think you are the only one they are dating too ��

Three of them am their main guy. I don't do side guy. Others they are dating are their deputy boyfriends, so no shaking tree.

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Nobody: 10:21am On May 02, 2022

Guy move.. Don't waste time.. Na so e dey start..

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by yemmit90: 10:21am On May 02, 2022

KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?

Let me give you a mature advise. See in this life, things are not always what we think they are. From your narrative and the subsequent posts, the likelihood she might be telling the truth is 90%.

A girl who will intentionally abandoned you in a party wont press you hard to attend. Infact she would be very happy and stopped talking about that event in your present. She is just being immature and fearful, alot of decent girls behave that way in the present of their family, because morally, she must have been rated high by them.

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by OkuFaba(m): 10:24am On May 02, 2022

Loveisnotenough:
You go day lick pusssiiii.....I hope someone else release some Vawulence on you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by VULCAN(m): 10:27am On May 02, 2022

When a person is so proud of his ignorance

Sheddy5:
i thought redpillers don't have girlfriends??

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Access14(m): 10:27am On May 02, 2022

This Mata no be hard one na sotey you blocked her........... Both of you are Wrong in your actions

Firstly, you and your guys March into party and didn't bother to go say HI to announce your arrival

Leaving in Anger without saying goodbye to her in presence of the group she is to get more Evidence of who they truly her..... You be Guy man but you no Act as one oooo for this area. Real G don assume but get Fact

Lastly, she too fail to come say Hi to you guys in your Table...... Women act emotionally and you will be amaze with their actions

Real Story : Had similar scenarios few years back .... Same storyline like yours, Guy I match forward ooo alone to the Table wen is time 2 go cuz my friends was discouraging me with different punchlines. Got there, call her by her name before I started greeting the mature men and women there...... Last last na she use her mouth introduce me as "This is my friend Wale" and the family and others in the table got the message. They offer me a chair and conversation start

My Advice : You know her better than Naira land.... Don't be discouraged by what your friends and nairaland are saying because most of them No Get Joy base on their experiences with some ladies

If you are into her, resolve it and find time to go visit her at home and don't run if you hear say her parents are around or coming.... Wait and know your Position when she speaks

KiNg0G:
i blocked her number instantly... she called my friend who later explained the situation to her.
God knows she needs 2 bouncers to follow her come my house

according to her she said her dad was around, she didn't know how to introduce me to him... because she never planned him to be there.
yes they were some matured men in their table, but I don't believe thats the only reason

I understand bro....but you see I don't think it's an issue of her not wanting to show me off, like shes ashamed of me or something.

She nor fine pass me, this girl don use gragra take know all my own friends finish, same way I knew some of hers.. everywhere I am, she always wants to be there .. hence the reason she had to tell my buddie... cus she know that guy go pull me through for the birthday... because I nor dey too much like crowd....but this scenario when play yesterday na I not understand.

Weda the men when dey with me too rough! I nor know

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by angelfallz(m): 10:28am On May 02, 2022

The fact that she does not want to associate with him because her father is around is grounds for ending the relationship, especially if that relationship was getting serious.

bukatyne:
She should 'respect' you even though her father was there?

Perhaps you ending it is her good riddance to bad rubbish

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Edipet(m): 10:29am On May 02, 2022

virginchaser:
It happens every time. Do you know how many contributed to the party that you wanted to be a chairman?

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by zoroby(m): 10:35am On May 02, 2022

KiNg0G:
no man she just sat there, but she disrespected my friends and most especially I for making us look like mumu who just came to chop.
the celebrant don't even know us

Why my mind dey tell me say that celebrant fit be the other chopper. She knows u won't attend hence the invite... Women are calculative and smarter than u think when it comes to relationship. Know this and know peace

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by bukatyne(f): 10:36am On May 02, 2022

angelfallz:
The fact that she does not want to associate with him because her father is around is grounds for ending the relationship, especially if that relationship was getting serious.

This is a joke right?

How many people 'boldly' introduced their men to their parents especially fathers before they are at proposal/sure to marry stage?

Going through his other posts on this thread, he doesn't sound like someone ready for a serious, mature relationship.

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Joeyfizzo: 10:38am On May 02, 2022

Guy run!!! Run oooo!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Chuksmill(m): 10:39am On May 02, 2022

Bros 2 seconds u don block am....this una love pattern ehn...

KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by yemi1504: 10:40am On May 02, 2022

KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?

Because I no get money *singing* lol grin

. Hmmm, this generation of women is something else SMH.