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Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by optimismlaz(m): 10:49am On May 02, 2022
Bros calm down, did you see her with any other guy/man in the party? Do you want the family to disown her? Did you and your guys lacked anything? Do you also know that some parents/guardians are harsh? She decided to play safe, nothing like what you are thinking if so you will not be invited
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Nyascobar1414: 10:49am On May 02, 2022
@op, you are SiMPLe and kind....
I like the way you block am ASap..
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by KaLuCh: 10:50am On May 02, 2022
KiNg0G:
yes nw

this na girl when dey flaunt me anyhow for her status.

one sure bobo dey that ground, when be chairman..I observe.

I nor believe that her papa bull crap
Na only you and her dey see that status. Flaunt you anyhow for only your eyes you dey happy
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by humberjade:
Max24:
Do you know the lesson of your story?
Men are extremely jealous and territorial.
Jealous? You can only be jealous over a thing or someone you love dearly. Same goes for being territorial. Both I don't react to aggressively...I don't say or do things I will regret later. I walk away instead.

Well, everyone has his way of looking at and doing things. As a person, I have never dated more than a lady at a time. And despite all the temptations around me, I try my best not to do things that will disrespect my partner or make her doubt my commitment. So I expect same. She knew who she had, hence, her kneeling and pleading. When I am in a relationship, my commitment is firm.

Well, no serious man or woman would stand his/her partner digging and romancing another with reckless abandon. I am old school... no apology about that.

Once the trust you have for someone is breached, it can't be whole again. You want to forgive and forget, but strange calls or behaviours or late time out brings back the memories; raising suspicion. So what's the point of staying in such relationship? It is unhealthy.
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Udemzy05: 10:56am On May 02, 2022
medriano:
So you haven’t said NO and then YES later?
This scenario is what you are using to qualify him as one without level? Lmao.
Some of you are just anyhow.
He said no initially and then changed his mind, what is so bad about that?
Everything is bad about it , stop defending nonsense.
Since he later change his mind,why didn't he tell her he was coming?

You're the anyhow person here, imagine your friend telling you he is not coming to the occasion you invited him and even beg him to show only for you to see him with other guys in the same occasion,how will you feel?

Abeg comot for my mention jare,birds of a feather.
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by blaise26abj(m):
I don’t know how people think nowadays . She said her father was at the party . Find out who the papa be and check if he was at the party . She has a legit reason not to want to introduce you yet . If you give vibes that are not convincing like not wanting to go to the party , she will be hesitant to introduce you to her dad ( if he was truly there ) . Besides a reasonable girl will not want to introduce a boyfriend that is not serious to her dad . Maybe to her mom sha.
Don’t be childish , do your findings and talk with her . Watch what your friends say about your girlfriend especially if there is no proof .It is disrespectful of your friends . You will be surprised that some of them want her too .
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by chatinent: 11:00am On May 02, 2022
Your 2ic dey na
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by OfficialSam(m): 11:12am On May 02, 2022
donbachi:
It's not who danceth whom.. It's who tooketh who home.
Hahahahahaha
Funny guy
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Sheddy5(m): 11:14am On May 02, 2022
VULCAN:
When a person is so proud of his ignorance
I don't Gerrit.
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Ekugbeh(m): 11:15am On May 02, 2022
KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?
calm down boss. Some of these children don't know how to go about things forget their fluent English and shakara. Jus sit her down and tell her what she would have done, that's how I do
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by medriano: 11:15am On May 02, 2022
Wether he told her or not, she still could have said hello to him and his friends. She should have been the one to even serve them.
After the party, she could have expressed her feelings and let him know he disappointed her.
That guy didn
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by medriano: 11:17am On May 02, 2022
Udemzy05:
Everything is bad about it , stop defending nonsense.
Since he later change his mind,why didn't he tell her he was coming?

You're the anyhow person here, imagine your friend telling you he is not coming to the occasion you invited him and even beg him to show only for you to see him with other guys in the same occasion,how will you feel?

Abeg comot for my mention jare,birds of a feather.
[quote author


Wether he told her or not, she still could have said hello to him and his friends. She should have been the one to even serve them.
After the party, she could have expressed her feelings and let him know he disappointed her.
That guy didn’t go there just to eat and drink.

I’m not getting off your mentions �
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Udemzy05: 11:17am On May 02, 2022
[quote author=medriano post=112450561][/quote]Why didn't he go and meet her,oh because he is the man huh?

Una just wan put all the blame on her, forgetting say the guy mess up.
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Udemzy05: 11:18am On May 02, 2022
medriano:
[quote author


Wether he told her or not, she still could have said hello to him and his friends. She should have been the one to even serve them.
After the party, she could have expressed her feelings and let him know he disappointed her.
That guy didn’t go there just to eat and drink.

I’m not getting off your mentions �
Ok then,suit yourself.
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Agu87(m): 11:20am On May 02, 2022
My man...you need to be smart...the elderly men you saw may not be her dad...have you thought of sugar daddy?
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by medriano: 11:23am On May 02, 2022
Udemzy05:
Why didn't he go and meet her,oh because he is the man huh?

Una just wan put all the blame on her, forgetting say the guy mess up.
Being a man has nothing to do with it.
He was an invitee. He didn’t know that crowd. He needed her to make him feel a little comfortable.
Do you know there are places you go and feel out of place. You need someone to make it easy for you and then you flow. I’m not excusing what he did, she should have gone to say hello to him.
But what if he saw her with other guys and didn’t want to embarrass himself?
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by HRMK: 11:25am On May 02, 2022
simple!ur rival paid a surprise appearance!u must know this guy is her first choice while u remain her #planb!!
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by eguarojeona: 11:28am On May 02, 2022
KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?
Her papa dey they party?You dont know her dad?
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Meteng: 11:33am On May 02, 2022
wumi2017:
Hahaha, maybe na only you dey view yourself for her status...you never heard of """who can view her status""
You wicked die

Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by meobizy(m): 11:36am On May 02, 2022
Girlfriend, girlfriend, girlfriend. Go and marry.
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Nobody: 11:40am On May 02, 2022
Was her mum also at the party?if yes she might be saying the truth besides that how old is this her cousin sef is he very young?or is he mature? So we will know the possibility of her dad coming 2 d party. I know it hurts it's better this way sha.
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Nehyooh(m): 11:42am On May 02, 2022
KiNg0G:
no man she just sat there, but she disrespected my friends and most especially I for making us look like mumu who just came to chop.
the celebrant don't even know us
grin
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by olamoses75(m): 11:44am On May 02, 2022
The highest bidder was around!
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by otunbateejay(m): 11:51am On May 02, 2022
wumi2017:
Hahaha, maybe na only you dey view yourself for her status...you never heard of """who can view her status""
...Guy u be correct guy for this comment
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Seylad2009(m): 11:54am On May 02, 2022
oz4real83:
that is where she made the mistake, it may be as a result of immaturity. She should have at least met you guys casually to say hi before disappearing among her people. She may mean no harm, just lack of common sense.
You're very correct. I don't think she mean any harm.
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by jcdera(m): 11:58am On May 02, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
you are on the SUBSTITUTE BENCH, while all along thinking that you were the team star player!!!
hope you enjoyed the food...
I bet he did
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Nerdified: 11:58am On May 02, 2022
KiNg0G:
yes nw

this na girl when dey flaunt me anyhow for her status.

one sure bobo dey that ground, when be chairman..I observe.

I nor believe that her papa bull crap
you forget say e fit be only you and your friends dey see that status? grin
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by Sheggy13(m): 11:58am On May 02, 2022
Badfinga:
I think it's your fault. Reason being that if not that she invited your friend, you wouldn't have attended . So you are not there for her, rather you are there because your friends were there.
And she didn't have the courtesy to come say hi to his friends she invited who were sitting with him? You have no point bro.
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by jaxxy(m): 11:59am On May 02, 2022
Lol. the way kids think is awesome. grin undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by donprinyo(m): 12:05pm On May 02, 2022
Nat404:
Shut up. Everything is not about money. Dignity first and it's more important than money.
Small boy talk.
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by angelfallz(m): 12:10pm On May 02, 2022
No, it is not a joke bukatyne
@bolded,
only those people that are in serious relationships. You don't have to be at the proposal or sure to marry stage before introducing your parents to your bf/gf.
A good example of what I am saying is Mr Eazi and Temi Otedola.


bukatyne:
This is a joke right?

How many people 'boldly' introduced their men to their parents especially fathers before they are at proposal/sure to marry stage?

Going through his other posts on this thread, he doesn't sound like someone ready for a serious, mature relationship.
Re: My Girlfriend Ignored Me At A Party She Invited Me To! I Am Confused by toprealman: 12:14pm On May 02, 2022
KiNg0G:
Good day all

My girlfriend invited me to her cousins birthday party that held yesterday, at first I didn't really want to go but she kept on insisting few days ago.. when she noticed I might not come, she went ahead to invite a buddie of mine who we do things together 24/7 so that guy had to press me on yesterday afternoon.

We were three who went, getting there it was filled up with lots of guys and girls... since we were invitees from her, we just sat down observing the crowd untill a girl came to bring us drinks filled our table With meat sauce..but where my girl now? she's no where to be found.. untill I saw her from afar sitting with her cousins and some other people. I wanted to go meet her, instead I called her on the phone to look at my direction where I was, she said she knew, oya come say hi.. she was reluctant to stand up to come meet me.

We ate and drank then stood up 30mins later and left the party ground, according to my guys, they said she might have some other guys in the crowd that's bankrolling her, hence the ignoring....but why did she still insist I come?
You are a kid bro!
Call her to explain what happened. If you are not satisfied grow some balls!!!
Many many moons back then this pretty lady invited me to her mum's birthday. Later she told me that she also invited some of her male friends. I didn't bother going.
And yes, I continued playing her to the game she invented. No sentiment.
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