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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Passionate888: 12:47pm On May 04, 2022
The fanfare has worn off and reality has arrived

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by hedris20(m): 12:48pm On May 04, 2022
na see finish they cause am

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by oneMalik: 12:49pm On May 04, 2022
Because the marriage was built on lies !

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by dopedan(m): 12:49pm On May 04, 2022
Wat goes up must come down
E no fit hang for air
If u know u know

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Olayiwola1425: 12:49pm On May 04, 2022
Honestly it's doesn't make any good sense to be fucking the same sex and sucking the same breast for too long ���� but having like 2,extra concubines out make the love to last and you can keep on changing thx breast to be sucked anytime you like

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by illuminutty: 12:49pm On May 04, 2022
See finish effect...

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by aidameoryou: 12:49pm On May 04, 2022
Lalami3232:
Make I use myself as a case study for you.
When I initially started programming, my first few apps wey I build give me big joy. I was so inlove with them. But now, E dey normal to me. Those things no dey intoxicate me again because I don too build many apps. Make I use another example for you.
When you get your first car, E go dey shark your body like who drink. After about 2yrs, that car no go dey freak again. Do you know why? Oyibo dey call am "law of diminishing return".
Wetin you dey see every time dey loss value for eye.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go ****"

What re some of the apps that you have built.
Let me check em out, I have an idea of something you can do for me
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by pongwa(m): 12:49pm On May 04, 2022
arejibadz:
I keep wondering The love they both had at first site were did it run to?
you need more than love to keep a marriage successful, so if you got married because you loved him or her, your eye go eventually clear especially
when law of depreciation sets in. Actuallt, what you need to stay married is the commitment and conscious efforts laced with sacrifice.
For me it's not a must to get married but it's a must to stay married especially when kids are involved

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Kenturkey048(m): 12:50pm On May 04, 2022
Blablamalala:


The question is to 'SOULMATES' that's why the OP is wondering the reason why?

"SOULMATES" don't get tired of themselves...
It's only people that got married because other people are getting married., or Ladies that jilted the one they love for the one that's ready for marriage..

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by infogenius(m): 12:50pm On May 04, 2022
arejibadz:
I keep wondering The love they both had at first site were did it run to?

It was never love in the first place. It was infatuation. Love is enduring while infatuation doesn’t sustain marriage.

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by kramer: 12:50pm On May 04, 2022
Timoleon:
Unfortunately, you’ll get more sex as a single person than as a married person.

No lie detected, different flavours sef

Kenturkey048:


"SOULMATES" don't get tired of themselves...
It's only people that get married because other people are getting married., or Ladies that jilted the one they love for the one that's ready for marriage..

Finding a soulmate is very rare! You're talking about someone who connects with you on every level as if you were both twins from birth. Very rare indeed

nautybride:
No, they don't lose interest, they get comfortable and accomodating such that if they don't spice things up once in a while, they will feel bored.
This is for true couples.

Very good point, you have to be creative in marraige most people don't realize that

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by ZooOga: 12:50pm On May 04, 2022
The novelty of sex wears off for many and the nagging begins. cheesy
God Bless husbands with wives that continue to handle business in the other room, and are very diplomatic with their talk.

And men, pls keep a job and the bills paid. Don't be like many of these broke dammned niggars on NL. cheesy

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by KaptainAfrika: 12:51pm On May 04, 2022
Same pvssy every night interrupted by periods and bills etc.

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Angelfrost(m): 12:51pm On May 04, 2022
Over-familiarity naturally breeds contempt!

It takes a great deal more than love, lust, and physical attraction to remain in marriage!

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by blue01(m): 12:51pm On May 04, 2022
Na see finish dey cause am grin

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Rainerpaints122(m): 12:52pm On May 04, 2022
See finish

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by AdeniyiA(m): 12:52pm On May 04, 2022
See finish and not enough money...

Additionally, upbringing, low societal values on marriage, environmental influences, lack of knowledge of God's views of our responsibilities in marriage etc, forgiveness and tolerance being topmost

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by nautybride: 12:53pm On May 04, 2022
No, they don't lose interest, they get comfortable and accomodating such that if they don't spice things up once in a while, they will feel bored.
This is for true couples.

I am of the school of thought that when a woman is too obedient, simple and always running up and down to satisfy the hubby, he will drift away to side chicken.
Give him trouble once in a while, not fighting and verbal abuse please. Cook delicacies, rape wink him, pray together(very important), wine together (you will know what is hidden).
Be sweet.
Anyways, a he-goat will remain one but will respect you not to bring his chicken close to where you can smell it.

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Emeskhalifa(m): 12:53pm On May 04, 2022
virginprincess:
When you meet your soulmate you don't lost interest after marriage instead you get more interested, but when you get married to someone you don't love(possibly got married to the person for your own selfish reason), you begin to lose interest after getting what you wanted.

You've nailed it
I am a living witness.

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Karleb(m): 12:55pm On May 04, 2022
virginprincess:
When you meet your soulmate you don't lost interest after marriage instead you get more interested, but when you get married to someone you don't love(possibly got married to the person for your own selfish reason), you begin to lose interest after getting what you wanted.

How do you know this?

Love and marriage talk is complex, it does not always follow the line of thought that makes sense.

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Christmasdon(m): 12:56pm On May 04, 2022
virginprincess:
When you meet your soulmate you don't lost interest after marriage instead you get more interested, but when you get married to someone you don't love(possibly got married to the person for your own selfish reason), you begin to lose interest after getting what you wanted.
leave issues for the matured ones to digest.

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Gkemz: 12:56pm On May 04, 2022
Because all the drama, fantasies and illusions are gone. Welcome to reality.

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Nobody: 12:57pm On May 04, 2022
Timoleon:
Because they(especially the men) realize they have traded their lives for nothing while their burden and responsibilities multiply exponentially.
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Shooyie: 12:57pm On May 04, 2022
The question will mostly be approached based on gender. Personally, I believe friendship keeps a marriage as well as making out time to relive your single lives again by going out, road trips, playing games, exercising together and stuff. Marriage is best enjoyed with your friend, finish!

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by MadeINchenzen2: 12:58pm On May 04, 2022
Because they've seen too much of each other... people get bored, especially when u have access to it all the time

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Infamous(m): 12:59pm On May 04, 2022
virginprincess:
When you meet your soulmate you don't lost interest after marriage instead you get more interested, but when you get married to someone you don't love(possibly got married to the person for your own selfish reason), you begin to lose interest after getting what you wanted.
are you married?

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by omowolewa: 1:00pm On May 04, 2022
Interest has changed

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Funkyswagzz(m): 1:00pm On May 04, 2022
arejibadz:
I keep wondering The love they both had at first site were did it run to?

Love fades away.. its the support and care u keep rendering to eachother determines how long u last together as a couple

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Kinzo0917(m): 1:00pm On May 04, 2022
PerfectStranger:
The thought of eating same egusi till infinity makes is boring
. Is the other egusi different from the one you marry? Forget all this things that most men always says that how can one be eating only one soup always. It is the mindset. Pussy na pussy whether your wife own or any other woman own. All women pussy are the same. None carried gold.

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by treatise: 1:00pm On May 04, 2022
This question is best answered by experience ;get involved and get the answer.
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Brightest16: 1:00pm On May 04, 2022
"See finish" ... Mek i smoke my loud in peace

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