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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Timoleon(m): 4:57pm On May 04, 2022
Potassium
Thunderfayayou:


So Nigerian/african women and American women are the same abi

I don't know sometimes the way you people reason is sickening
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Northboi: 4:59pm On May 04, 2022
Lalami3232:
Make I use myself as a case study for you.
When I initially started programming, my first few apps wey I build give me big joy. I was so inlove with them. But now, E dey normal to me. Those things no dey intoxicate me again because I don too build many apps. Make I use another example for you.
When you get your first car, E go dey shark your body like who drink. After about 2yrs, that car no go dey freak again. Do you know why? Oyibo dey call am "law of diminishing return".
Wetin you dey see every time dey loss value for eye.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go ****"
Brov really nice write up there, can I get to have personal conversations with u concerning the apps. Hope to hear from u soon
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Nobody: 5:00pm On May 04, 2022
It is called SEE FINISH.

To solve this problem, give yourselves holidays.
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by tianshie(m): 5:04pm On May 04, 2022
kramer:


Living witness of which part? Soulmate or selfish partner?

Selfish partner.
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by pongwa(m): 5:20pm On May 04, 2022
lexy2014:


If u say "Love is the act of kindness and sacrifice", how does of depreciation setting in and eye clearing affect love?
OK.....I tend to fall in love with someone who shows me these qualities. So if I now marry such person but after few years these qualities reduced drastically without any reasons whatsoever (people will always change anyway).
With this scenario, should I continue to love that person even if I don't feel loved anymore (depreciation factor)?_
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Goldie16(f): 5:22pm On May 04, 2022
The longer I live with my husband, the more I can't stay without him o. We've been married for some years now and I can't stay a day without him. I get more attached as time goes by. This is more than love to me.

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by lexy2014: 5:30pm On May 04, 2022
pongwa:
OK.....I tend to fall in love with someone who shows me these qualities. So if I now marry such person but after few years these qualities reduced drastically without any reasons whatsoever (people will always change anyway).
With this scenario, should I continue to love that person even if I don't feel loved anymore (depreciation factor)?_

Which qualities are u talking about?
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Bbbw: 5:42pm On May 04, 2022
Well
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by olaszydaruma(m): 5:50pm On May 04, 2022
See finish grin
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Medianna(f): 6:07pm On May 04, 2022
Lalami3232:
Make I use myself as a case study for you.
When I initially started programming, my first few apps wey I build give me big joy. I was so inlove with them. But now, E dey normal to me. Those things no dey intoxicate me again because I don too build many apps. Make I use another example for you.
When you get your first car, E go dey shark your body like who drink. After about 2yrs, that car no go dey freak again. Do you know why? Oyibo dey call am "law of diminishing return".
Wetin you dey see every time dey loss value for eye.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go ****"

If only your grandpa **** your mum...
Abeg. See talk like mess.
Its people like you that God will give 6 girls and zero boys
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by anselm791(m): 6:20pm On May 04, 2022
What they ordered vs what they got.
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by millionboi(m): 6:23pm On May 04, 2022
Lalami3232:
Make I use myself as a case study for you.
When I initially started programming, my first few apps wey I build give me big joy. I was so inlove with them. But now, E dey normal to me. Those things no dey intoxicate me again because I don too build many apps. Make I use another example for you.
When you get your first car, E go dey shark your body like who drink. After about 2yrs, that car no go dey freak again. Do you know why? Oyibo dey call am "law of diminishing return".
Wetin you dey see every time dey loss value for eye.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go ****"
please can we chat on WhatsApp?
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by nokspos: 6:27pm On May 04, 2022
don't live with your spouse , thank me later
arejibadz:
I keep wondering The love they both had at first site were did it run to?
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by PKURLINZ: 6:33pm On May 04, 2022
Na SEE FINISH da cause am grin grin grin
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by kramer: 6:46pm On May 04, 2022
tianshie:


Selfish partner.

Oh wow Interesting, please tell me more.. was it you that was the selfish partner? What were you/she looking for in the Marraige.. how long did it last
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Hassanmaye(m): 6:50pm On May 04, 2022
Kinzo0917:
. Is the other egusi different from the one you marry? Forget all this things that most men always says that how can one be eating only one soup always. It is the mindset. Pussy na pussy whether your wife own or any other woman own. All women pussy are the same. None carried gold.
Are you sure? Please
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by tianshie(m): 6:52pm On May 04, 2022
kramer:


Oh wow Interesting, please tell me more.. was it you that was the selfish partner? What were you/she looking for in the Marraige.. how long did it last

You've nailed it
I am a living witness.
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by MrOON: 7:00pm On May 04, 2022
Lalami3232:
Make I use myself as a case study for you.
When I initially started programming, my first few apps wey I build give me big joy. I was so inlove with them. But now, E dey normal to me. Those things no dey intoxicate me again because I don too build many apps. Make I use another example for you.
When you get your first car, E go dey shark your body like who drink. After about 2yrs, that car no go dey freak again. Do you know why? Oyibo dey call am "law of diminishing return".
Wetin you dey see every time dey loss value for eye.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go ****"

I want to learn to build apps. Can you teach me please.
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by HRprof: 7:13pm On May 04, 2022
What keep marriage is friendship because LOVE depreciate, when relationship breaks up know that the love has depreciated and there is no friendship involve to keep them going that’s why is important to see your partner as a friend not just a lover .

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by mgccrown(m): 7:37pm On May 04, 2022
Marry a virgin and have peace of mind. once a runs girl: always a runs girl.

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by pongwa(m): 8:11pm On May 04, 2022
lexy2014:


Which qualities are u talking about?
those qualities that attract you to the opposite and make you fall in love. It's different for each person
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by lexy2014: 8:13pm On May 04, 2022
pongwa:
those qualities that attract you to the opposite and make you fall in love. It's different for each person

I don't no what you are talking about. Can u be more specific? Which qualities are u talking about?
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Nehyooh(m): 8:16pm On May 04, 2022
Timoleon:
Unfortunately, you’ll get more sex as a single person than as a married person.
Are you kidding me, could this be true ?
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Nehyooh(m): 8:21pm On May 04, 2022
Goldie16:
The longer I live with my husband, the more I can't stay without him o. We've been married for some years now and I can't stay a day without him. I get more attached as time goes by. This is more than love to me.
I pray and hope to have such a lady like you as my WIFE ooo
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by gudugudumeje: 8:40pm On May 04, 2022
FAMILIARITY breeds contempt... And the more familiarity...
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by omotola90(m): 8:43pm On May 04, 2022
arejibadz:
I keep wondering The love they both had at first site were did it run to?
sight
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Togokenya: 9:22pm On May 04, 2022
That assumption is false, I have been married for close to 20years and we are getting closer and better. So who told you that couples lose interest in each other.LIES FROM THE PIT OF HELL
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Mikester: 9:29pm On May 04, 2022
virginprincess:
When you meet your soulmate you don't lost interest after marriage instead you get more interested, but when you get married to someone you don't love(possibly got married to the person for your own selfish reason), you begin to lose interest after getting what you wanted.

Are you a virgin? Lol. Nice comment. Love in relationships is never enough. Understanding is more important.

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Mikester: 9:35pm On May 04, 2022
Suspect33:
Because when the infatuation which they mistook as love fades, there's nothing else to hold onto.

People don't understand that love has very little to do with feelings, and whatever you feel for a person initially will fade away.. love is an act, a commitment, and only the couple who see it that way will have a fulfilling and enduring marriage

You have made the most matured and reasonable of all the comments on this post.

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Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Dbrawllm0098(f): 9:52pm On May 04, 2022
Love is a fruit that grows and blossom.

Love alone does not make marriage work.
It takes you in and your determination for it to grow or if not careful it can die.

Remember it is a fruit, if you nurture it with character like patience, gentleness, sending love messages, creating joy in your home it continues to grow. But if no character, fighting, inpatient, bad languages and even familiarity, taken things for granted kills Love very fast if not handed well will lead to divorce.
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Kelvindate(m): 10:43pm On May 04, 2022
[quote author=arejibadz post=112507020]I keep wondering The love they both had at first site were did it run to?[/quotes

It's because they stopped doing the things they use to do while dating each other. You need to treat each other as boyfriend and girlfriend.
Re: Why Do Couples Lose Interest In Each Other After Marriage? by Goldie16(f): 10:51pm On May 04, 2022
Nehyooh:
I pray and hope to have such a lady like you as my WIFE ooo
God will answer your prayer

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