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virginprincess:
When you meet your soulmate you don't lost interest after marriage instead you get more interested, but when you get married to someone you don't love(possibly got married to the person for your own selfish reason), you begin to lose interest after getting what you wanted.

The whole truth and nothing but the truth.

virginprincess:
I haven't seen soulmates that loss interest after marriage,that is almost impossible.

lol, they do.
There is a thin line between love and hatred. Sometimes, the break up happens after staying together for more than 20yrs

Most men too are too concerned about sexual experience with the girl to marry that little or no personality assessment is done for the would be partner.

Don't let sex preclude your assessment needs and other judgement. The girl in front of you is most probably worldly wise personality. Don't toy with your life.

Go and read Bible proverbs chpt 12, 13,& Ecclesiastes chp 8&9.

Girls to women is not a little matter, it is your life.

Lalami3232:
Make I use myself as a case study for you.
When I initially started programming, my first few apps wey I build give me big joy. I was so inlove with them. But now, E dey normal to me. Those things no dey intoxicate me again because I don too build many apps. Make I use another example for you.
When you get your first car, E go dey shark your body like who drink. After about 2yrs, that car no go dey freak again. Do you know why? Oyibo dey call am "law of diminishing return".
Wetin you dey see every time dey loss value for eye.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go ****"

u are a real niggar

arejibadz:
I keep wondering The love they both had at first site were did it run to?

Miscommunication and Boredom:
Emotional Attachment for someone else:

Wife usually transferred attention to their children after Marriage while Husband usually transferred attention to someone out there who is giving him attention:

Alot happens in Marriage But What's in Human that God can't fixed if both of You hang On !

phemmyfour:
lol, they do. There is a thin line between love and hatred.

So true.

virginprincess:
When you meet your soulmate you don't lost interest after marriage instead you get more interested, but when you get married to someone you don't love(possibly got married to the person for your own selfish reason), you begin to lose interest after getting what you wanted.

...The simple truth is that humans change with time...You need to create time daily for sound communications and solve issues as fast as possible, your do's and don't... should be respected...You must invest time and money with a good level of trust in your relationship... One good thing about marriage relationship is that it flows with your spirit.... You don't get tired of each other because your partner knows what you need and gives you at the right time.....but when you take your partner for granted its either you lose your wife to advisers in workplaces or where they fix nails and do their hairs...these advisers when they sets in... Relationship crumble because they will corrupt her mind towards you, she will feel entitled to everything you do and you start feeling discouraged to do more ...so, invest in your marriage relationship. Once you're flowing you don't get tired of each other...sex is just 10% of the benefits that flows.

Lalami3232:
Make I use myself as a case study for you.
When I initially started programming, my first few apps wey I build give me big joy. I was so inlove with them. But now, E dey normal to me. Those things no dey intoxicate me again because I don too build many apps. Make I use another example for you.
When you get your first car, E go dey shark your body like who drink. After about 2yrs, that car no go dey freak again. Do you know why? Oyibo dey call am "law of diminishing return".
Wetin you dey see every time dey loss value for eye.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go ****"

guy u be lecturer? You just open my skull put knowledge inside. U too much

Benbellamor:
...The simple truth is that humans change with time...You need to create time daily for sound communications and solve issues as fast as possible, your do's and don't... should be respected...You must invest time and money with a good level of trust in your relationship... One good thing about marriage relationship is that it flows with your spirit.... You don't get tired of each other because your partner knows what you need and gives you at the right time.....but when you take your partner for granted its either you lose your wife to advisers in workplaces or where they fix nails and do their hairs...these advisers when they sets in... Relationship crumble because they will corrupt her mind towards you, she will feel entitled to everything you do and you start feeling discouraged to do more ...so, invest in your marriage relationship. Once you're flowing you don't get tired of each other...sex is just 10% of the benefits that flows.

Wow, just learnt something new, thanks.

PerfectStranger:
The thought of eating same egusi till infinity makes is boring

Do you breath same air everyday?

Wtf is SOULMATE?

That sh.it doesn't exist

Uniquetani1:
Try and see a therapist with her

As Kanye West said, I don't negotiate with therapist.

Czario:
Very good assertion.

Single guys if the only reason you make money is for one woman to love you to the grave. You had better keep your money and have fun remaining single.

What nonsense...

I am a married man! A real Married gee with Married guys friends who are friends with other married guys and other married guys in groups of married guys numbering in hundred's.


I hit my heart with my hands and tell you....THAT MONEY IS ALMOST THE FINAL BUS STOP.

If she's not happy....n#gga drop more money for her...keep dropping till she burst into laughter.

For the fact you're working hard and your woman sees it..

Forget it!

How much is love?? Money will buy it and the Heart.

When a child gets a toy at seven years old, that toy is the best thing in the world to the child. How many fifty year olds do you see play with the toy their parents got them in primary one?

You children come here to ask stupid hackneyed questions. Na una go open mouth say this forum worth pass one million dollars. This forum no worth reach one bottle of Coke and meat pie. The meat pie sef na jara.

virginprincess:
When you meet your soulmate you don't lost interest after marriage instead you get more interested, but when you get married to someone you don't love(possibly got married to the person for your own selfish reason), you begin to lose interest after getting what you wanted.

How do you know that? Are you married


Love is never enough for marriage. My dad told me so. Love will eventually wane. The understanding and commitment to one another is what will keep you guys going especially when kids start coming in

You only enjoy marriage when you marry your friend.
I never get tired of my partner,we are never bored of each others company.
Ten years plus and still counting.

Marriage is sweet ooo

PerfectStranger:
The thought of eating same egusi till infinity makes is boring

This is a wrong ascertion,I hate it when I hear stuffs like this,you can actually eat egusi soup in more than 10 different ways.

[quote author= post=112513365]This happens in 85% of every marriage,
But it is what it is.
For better for worse.
They just have to live with it till old age.
If they leave the Marriage to another marriage, same thing will repeat itself.[/quote]just like you and buhari you would have to leave with him till old age.

I've been worshiping the same God and have never bored or lost interest. I'm rather pressing to experience more. Also, been married for years now and I've never for one day lose interest. God keeps making our marriage sweeter. Like a wine, the older it gets the sweeter it becomes

lexy2014:
What kind of contradiction is this? Pls what is love and how does of depreciation setting in and eye clearing affect love?

there is no contradiction here I promise. I no fit write long epistle. Love matter na complex thing. Sample different people opinion and you would understand. For me Love is the act of kindness and sacrifice

virginprincess:
I haven't seen soulmates that loss interest after marriage,that is almost impossible.

You're still living in fairytale land.

virginprincess:
No.

SMH. The internet is truely the worst place to get answers for an inexperienced mind

It's always a sadden incident seeing couple not as lover again but housemates. Where is the first love�

Infamous:
SMH. The internet is truely the worst place to get answers for an inexperienced mind

Yea,i might be inexperienced but i have a lot of experienced people around me whom i learn from.

arejibadz:
I keep wondering The love they both had at first site were did it run to?

It's sight.

Lalami3232:
Make I use myself as a case study for you.
When I initially started programming, my first few apps wey I build give me big joy. I was so inlove with them. But now, E dey normal to me. Those things no dey intoxicate me again because I don too build many apps. Make I use another example for you.
When you get your first car, E go dey shark your body like who drink. After about 2yrs, that car no go dey freak again. Do you know why? Oyibo dey call am "law of diminishing return".
Wetin you dey see every time dey loss value for eye.


I don talk am before and I go talk am again, "the day I go mistakenly born girl pikin, I go ****"

Best among the Rest. Perfectly and aptly explained.

pongwa:
there is no contradiction here I promise. I no fit write long epistle. Love matter na complex thing. Sample different people opinion and you would understand. For me Love is the act of kindness and sacrifice

If u say "Love is the act of kindness and sacrifice", how does of depreciation setting in and eye clearing affect love?

OP what do you mean by "at first site"?


Did you meet her at a building site?








The reason is because they stop doing what attracted them to each other.

dadavivo:
As Kanye West said, I don't negotiate with therapist.

Fela even advised that you shouldn't be suffering and smiling.
See a therapist

arejibadz:
I keep wondering The love they both had at first site were did it run to?

It is Ur Dream Joor...Which Couple? Face Ur Marriage and Redeem urself Pls. Do not Live on Such False Premises, Pls

When the fresh grapes become sour grapes.
You lose your appetite for the same sour grapes.

Those broke bastards bill gates, bozzos, woods, bill gross, dr Dre, ken griffin, Johnny depp, Harold Hamm, ELON musk and many other broke millionaires and billionaires would be wishing they made more money after reading your comment.

Thunderfayayou:
I am a married man! A real Married gee with Married guys friends who are friends with other married guys and other married guys in groups of married guys numbering in hundred's.


I hit my heart with my hands and tell you....THAT MONEY IS ALMOST THE FINAL BUS STOP.

If she's not happy....n#gga drop more money for her...keep dropping till she burst into laughter.

For the fact you're working hard and your woman sees it..

Forget it!

How much is love?? Money will buy it and the Heart.