Abeg OP if you wan marry go marry no dey disturb use with all this yans of a simp

Man marries for procreation

A lot of married men don't like going home after the office, that's why bars and pubs the world over are packed after office hours.

Bros If u check am well ehn, na nothing oh. Except for bills upon bills upon bills.

Na mumu dey marry now. Especially now when dog don takeover. Imagine dog go f*ck free finish, me I go pay thousands con still do party on top. Something wen dog chop free of charge

More trouble

My brother if you love your life and don't want to be severely smashed to pieces, stay away from women becoz they must cheat.

None at all.

Except if you are lucky enough to end up with a bitch who knows how to cook very well.

you die young as a man due to nagging. that's why men go to beer parlour to avoid ear pains after work.

wizdomnzube:
Bros If u check am well ehn, na nothing oh. Except for bills upon bills upon bills.

Na mumu dey marry now. Especially now when dog don takeover. Imagine dog go f*ck free finish, me I go pay thousands con still do party on top. Something wen dog chop free of charge

becos dog no get money.....hahaha

Marriage doesn't offer anything, its a scam, to be sincere!!!

Life is sweet being single!!!

Oga go and marry and come and tell us how far

No fuvcking benefit at all.

Nazgul:
Marriage became useless to men because we abandoned our culture and tradition and embraced that of the Western world.

When you start sleeping with girls from the age of 16 and have a body count of close to 50 girls by the time you're 30, what usefulness do you expect to get from marriage? Truth is even you the man wouldn't value the marriage and would immediately resume your sexcapade after your honeymoon

The only way to restore decorum in African marriages is to embrace back our culture.

Pre marital sex must be seen as an abomination, those who practice it would be banished from their community.

Virginity test should be one of the requirements a girl must possess before marriage can take place, this will reduce promiscuity in girls.

A law should be passed that ràpists would earn in instant death sentence upon conviction. This would reduce promiscuity in guys cos no one would be willing to risk his life for a few minutes of pleasure.

Also there should be laws governing marriages that would make unfaithful partners risk jail term.

Once this measures can be put in place, I strongly believe that marriages would become as rosy as it was meant to be. And wouldn't be useless to both men and women.

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Nazgul:
Marriage became useless to men because we abandoned our culture and tradition and embraced that of the Western world.

When you start sleeping with girls from the age of 16 and have a body count of close to 50 girls by the time you're 30, what usefulness do you expect to get from marriage? Truth is even you the man wouldn't value the marriage and would immediately resume your sexcapade after your honeymoon

The only way to restore decorum in African marriages is to embrace back our culture.

Pre marital sex must be seen as an abomination, those who practice it would be banished from their community.

Virginity test should be one of the requirements a girl must possess before marriage can take place, this will reduce promiscuity in girls.

A law should be passed that ràpists would earn in instant death sentence upon conviction. This would reduce promiscuity in guys cos no one would be willing to risk his life for a few minutes of pleasure.

Also there should be laws governing marriages that would make unfaithful partners risk jail term.

Once this measures can be put in place, I strongly believe that marriages would become as rosy as it was meant to be. And wouldn't be useless to both men and women.

I think you made some sense here

Sweetplum:
Companionship & Procreation.
Go n read Genesis to know more.

didn't you see he addressed those you just mentioned up there??
the question is, what is in it for men??
just like women gain, a home, a guardian, meal ticket, MRS status, et all..

mmsen:
A lot of married men don't like going home after the office, that's why bars and pubs the world over are packed after office hours.

you want make women make us deaf with nagging?

we go go take alcohol....when we reach house make den talk to alcohol that time I donnhigh finish

BabaIbo:
Marriage they say is a beautiful thing but if you ask many men out there what marriage is to them or what marriage has brought to them or will they get married if they are given chances to rewind time, their responses will be in negative form or NO.

That same step(marriage) is the next step to be taken by me but I have one unanswered question. I am a young man in my 30s, currently free from any dating relationship and about to begin my search for a life partner, but I like being cleared/well-informed about something before going into it.

Pardon me for this long note I am about to dish out and the question I will be asking at the end.

For sometimes now, people around me have been telling me I am next in line to get married, some telling me to ensure I bring a responsible lady home and all that.
My mom do tell me she won't rush me to get married but as an observant person you will notice she really wants me to bring a woman(wife) home.

My dad told me sometimes ago that if I don't have a lady, that maybe they should search for a young good girl for me early next year.
My younger ones are expecting me to take that step so they can start planning on theirs and all that.

All these are for their own good or benefits, I am not saying they don't deserve it but I have been trying to get a tangible reason to get married i.e what is the SPECIAL thing(benefit) it will add to my life, I am the one getting married not them.
"Na me wan wear the shoe."

A bikeman, popularly known as Okadaman that do come to my place told me story about himself and big opportunities that marriage has made him miss.

In addition to his words and those I have heard from others, the fear of things going south, disappearance of peace of mind and all that are other factors.

Presumed(anticipated) benefits which are not as they are expected to be again are)

CHILDREN: Children can be gotten without marriage, for example: C. Ronaldo, Mikel, and others did that and they are doing well.

GOOD MEALS: Foods can be gotten from outside or prepared by the man or any other person that is not a wife for the man. Moreover, how many of them can cook well like our mothers? I'm a better cook than most ladies I have come across.

COMPANIONSHIP: That is an overstatement in our present society. It is even more noticeable in dating relationship than in some marriages these days.

SEX: That is the cheapest service/thing to get after air and water(clean water is even more expensive). Moreover many marriages are lacking sexually. It is worse if the man has high sex drive aka high libido.

SUPPORT: I don't want to go there because it is an open fact that instead of getting support, the man is being leached/milked of the one he has.

HOME: I can still remember how some married men will pack their cars at the junction, stay inside their cars for long before driving home, some go to the bar/relaxation centers to chill before going home, some don even like going home. You all know why?

With all these in mind, I want to ask this question that has been bothering me because I need to sort it before taking the step...

Now, my question is "WHAT IS THE BENEFIT OF MARRIAGE TO A MAN IN THIS OUR TIME?"

PS: I used this image because what marriage did to the man in the picture is in the open

The benefit of marriage is only to have children...for the children to have parents atleast,Nothing else...lol

Sweetplum:
Companionship & Procreation.
Go n read Genesis to know more.

mtcheeew, those can be gotten outside marriage

Nazgul:
Marriage became useless to men because we abandoned our culture and tradition and embraced that of the Western world.

When you start sleeping with girls from the age of 16 and have a body count of close to 50 girls by the time you're 30, what usefulness do you expect to get from marriage? Truth is even you the man wouldn't value the marriage and would immediately resume your sexcapade after your honeymoon

The only way to restore decorum in African marriages is to embrace back our culture.

Pre marital sex must be seen as an abomination, those who practice it would be banished from their community.

Virginity test should be one of the requirements a girl must possess before marriage can take place, this will reduce promiscuity in girls.

A law should be passed that ràpists would earn in instant death sentence upon conviction. This would reduce promiscuity in guys cos no one would be willing to risk his life for a few minutes of pleasure.

Also there should be laws governing marriages that would make unfaithful partners risk jail term.

Once this measures can be put in place, I strongly believe that marriages would become as rosy as it was meant to be. And wouldn't be useless to both men and women.

Your words are wise, when kids start having sex by the time marriage ought to be expected and enjoyed you hear these kinds of stuff.

I'm 31 I can't wait to be married, its like everything to me WHY?

I left off premarital sex and focused on building myself and now that I'm ready godly dating and marriage is exciting me.

Sweetplum:
Companionship & Procreation.
Go n read Genesis to know more.

Finish!
Nothing else.

And all these a man can get without marriage

Marriage is a scam!!!

Please avoid it!!

BabaIbo:
Presumed(anticipated) benefits which are not as they are expected to be again are)

CHILDREN: Children can be gotten without marriage, for example: C. Ronaldo, Mikel, and others did that and they are doing well.

And those are broken, ratchet homes. It's just a fact that kids benefit more from a proper, married household.

GOOD MEALS: Foods can be gotten from outside or prepared by the man or any other person that is not a wife for the man. Moreover, how many of them can cook well like our mothers? I'm a better cook than most ladies I have come across.

It's not about the food. It's about the love and care in it. It's about someone that makes sure you eat well, gets your favorite on your birthday, cooks you something soothing when you're sick, and takes over cooking when you're really tired.

COMPANIONSHIP: That is an overstatement in our present society. It is even more noticeable in dating relationship than in some marriages these days.

Chose better and do better and maybe you won't have that problem.

SEX: That is the cheapest service/thing to get after air and water(clean water is even more expensive). Moreover many marriages are lacking sexually. It is worse if the man has high sex drive aka high libido.

It's a sign of poor mental health and education that you view intimacy and human beings in that way.

And intimacy problems in marriages are a result of laziness in looking after the relationship. They're also a result of ignorance where some people think their partner is a machine.

SUPPORT: I don't want to go there because it is an open fact that instead of getting support, the man is being leached/milked of the one he has.

Again, choose better. Stop looking for slay queens, and find someone who's a good partner.

HOME: I can still remember how some married men will pack their cars at the junction, stay inside their cars for long before driving home, some go to the bar/relaxation centers to chill before going home, some don even like going home. You all know why?

Some guys work very hard, and they need a breather before tackling household responsibilities. Women are no different. That's life. Even single people may do this. It is what it is.

But some guys are immature. They don't go home because they want to be single while married. And they want to have all the married benefits with none of the work. They may have married too soon.

Now, my question is "WHAT IS THE BENEFIT OF MARRIAGE TO A MAN IN THIS OUR TIME?"

Marriage isn't for everyone. However, an educated, well-adjusted person generally doesn't ask this question.

Men don't benefit from marriage as much as their women counterparts. Married men are on everlasting sacrifices, believe this and know peace.

To some, it's just to do what others have done. And to others it's because they've been made to believe that they a useless without marriage. The same guy not willing to marry will call a girls who's not willing to marry a LovePeddler, a useless girls. The same guy believes the girl is not married because she's too bad to be a wife. Not knowing that as he's calculating how useless marriage is, the girl is doing the same.
She would have to leave her house, give up her space, her family, her job, her life and move in with a man who gave up his too. And the two will loss the peace they once had and start a whole new life full of the good, the bad an the ugly. And sometimes the ugly is even more. And the society expects them to live like that till death do them part all in the name of marriage when one get love, companionship, kids, sex and more even without marriage.
So now, one must have to really be sure they want it and not be pushed or pressured into to it.

There's no benefit whatsoever.

Kingcalls:
Women should be the ones on one knee begging men to marry them... marriage is the most expensive engagement for many man... cos he's expected to foot all bills...from wedding to house rent to transportation to feeding to hospital bills to school fees and clothing.... but still women will still have the audacity to insult and disrespect these men that are usually older than them... Still women are more celebrated than men

thatz why men die early

Sweetplum:
Companionship & Procreation.
Go n read Genesis to know more.

You can do and have those without getting married na.

1 Timothy 4:1,3 KJV
Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils; [3] FORBIDDING TO MARRY[color=#006600][/color], and commanding to abstain from meats, which God hath created to be received with thanksgiving of them which believe and know the truth.

Togafi:
The benefits are quite numerous.

I doubt that, if not, your post wouldn't be so scanty!