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Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by JovialJune(f): 1:53pm On May 08, 2022 |
erico2k2: Support in good and bad times abi? Ok now, if it was the wife that bought 6 bone straight hair worth millions of naira with fund planned for something else, pls be supportive of her, because same as car, it is an investment that depreciates overtime, will you say same "support in good and bad times"? Hope you won't scream for her to be sent packing because she used part of the money for luxury. 3 Likes |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by xendra: 1:55pm On May 08, 2022 |
VictorUSA:if you were not a goat how is that your business 1 Like |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by xendra: 1:57pm On May 08, 2022 |
JovialJune:these ones are goats, they are terrible people who would do the same and hope a woman will be foolish enough to stay and tolerate things that they wouldn't from her 2 Likes |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by maasoap(m): 1:57pm On May 08, 2022 |
frozen70: How u go take collect the car? Lol |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by sunkieisland(m): 2:00pm On May 08, 2022 |
One of the things to avoid in cases like this is casting aspersion without the full story. I'm 99% certain the story the OP told isn't complete. 1. We can't verify that they raised the money together. 2. We can't also verify that the man bought a car just to show off. 3. We can't verify that the decision to build a house was a joint one, otherwise, the story would have been to buy a land or something close and not to build a house as speculated. There are so many plot holes in the story and I must say that it is quite unfortunate that this situation befell that family on a matter that can be settled easily. There are many questions to ask but I'd just tell you a story. I know a family personally. Though the husband did not raise the money with his wife, he bought himself a jeep and his wife a clean camry; even when the wife was persistent on building their own house. This continued for many years and the man changed their cars on several occasions but never built a house until a few months ago. The wife never left her husband on the account that he bought a car instead of building a house, and today, they live in their own duplex in a choice area in Lagos. Moral of my Story: The situation was not as bad as making divorce the next option. The man definitely has plans for buying a car instead of building. There are certain places you can't enter or have access to for a job, business or contract except you're mobile; even in some places, the kind of car you bring even matters. This, in my opinion is the kind of man the OP just talked about. I might also be wrong and the man could be an impulse spender. But it's also good to try to look at all the angles before commenting on other people's affairs. Happy Sunday 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by RightToReject(m): 2:04pm On May 08, 2022 |
ZUBY77: Stop asserting that "People are just very stupid." unjustly. There is a difference between your claim and the subject under discussion: There's everything wrong in reneging your agreement with someone or tricking them into doing your bidding - which is what the subject under discussion portrays; However, There's nothing wrong with owning as many personal automobiles as you wish while still living in a rental accommodation, especially if that suits your life circumstances and blueprint - your claim as a case study - provided that you do so with your money and in a good judgement. Anyone who has been opportune to work and live within a place like Atherton, California will understand why it's very common to see more than 80% of the residents owning some good number of high-end personal automobiles while still living in rental accommodations. |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by erico2k2(m): 2:04pm On May 08, 2022 |
JovialJune:erm I assume I'm talking to an adult with life history here cos I'm struggling to see how human hair equates to a car or for lack of quick thought U could have something else to drive home your point??U cannot earn money with hair but you can with a car. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by Lifewasgood: 2:05pm On May 08, 2022 |
It depends on the reason he bought the car and the kind of house she wanted. Buying a car with 2 million for business is wiser than building a house with that 2 million if you're still a tenant. |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by JovialJune(f): 2:08pm On May 08, 2022 |
erico2k2: It is an appropriate equation because just like cars, it depreciates, and just like cars, you can resell wigs/hair. 3 Likes |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by Sterope(f): 2:15pm On May 08, 2022 |
I don't know your gf. I can't comment on whether it was HER choice to give you the money. If it was her choice, this scenario does not apply because it wasn't her choice for him to use the money to buy a car. It is not possible for a Nigerian woman to leave her husband because of this scenario, there must have been plenty of it. That man must be something else. I am not suggesting that divorce is the answer but I don't know her story and her options. Bad time is like cancer, job loss not this kimd erico2k2: 1 Like |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by soik(m): 2:15pm On May 08, 2022 |
The man just wanted to flex. That money was not enough to build soakaway. He just got tired of waiting, saving 10 naira daily 1 Like |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by Sterope(f): 2:16pm On May 08, 2022 |
I don't disagree with you on this. For the woman in this story, I am willing to bet that this is the case tctrills: |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by seunlizy(f): 2:16pm On May 08, 2022 |
frozen70: how did u know that he's the one? 1 Like |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by descarado: 2:20pm On May 08, 2022 |
ZUBY77:So all those years you have been globetrotting, you have 3 cars in each country? 2 Likes
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Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by erico2k2(m): 2:22pm On May 08, 2022 |
Sterope:well we don't know the other stuff but the agreed stuf is as stated above by the OP so we duel on that gf aha this so called gf has been a wife past 21 years we are awaiting grand kids as we now have a 20 ur old daughter.Fact of the matter is this. its to petty to divorce your man cos he bought a car with both of your money of which u can still enjoy such car. |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by Father4all: 2:25pm On May 08, 2022 |
ObamaMessi:wise women, the husband is an idiot 1 Like |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by MoneyMustBMade(m): 2:29pm On May 08, 2022 |
The husband can never make it, so no need the wife staying with him. Me wey dey pray make my wife helping me they save 2 Likes |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by obyrich(m): 2:41pm On May 08, 2022 |
frozen70:Do you know him? |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by ikpumbe(m): 2:44pm On May 08, 2022 |
frozen70: Just followed your comments. My dear it's not the remedy.. she should go somewhere and calm herself downm and come back to her family. |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by efetony110: 2:45pm On May 08, 2022 |
I happened to witness a similar case. The man use money which both him and his wife contributed together to buy a car. He mostly spends his money on car repairs while neglecting his family needs. The woman went ahead to buy her own land and build house. The man packed in with her. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by kapelvej: 2:46pm On May 08, 2022 |
frozen70:Ha, hope this is not a temper problem. Calm down |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by boxer022(m): 2:46pm On May 08, 2022 |
To me the solution to this is very simple, take the car from him and sell it. Use the proceed from the sales to build the house, simple. |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by phemmyfour: 2:46pm On May 08, 2022 |
ObamaMessi:building a house will cost 5times the cost of buying a car A car isn't a luxury for a family man |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by Berankis: 2:46pm On May 08, 2022 |
And what is wrong with buying a car first before building a house? Most especially if the car will improve your efficiency and moving around. The truth is, there is more to the divorce than the buying of the car. The wife must have been contemplating leaving and was just waiting for the right time. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by Btruth: 2:47pm On May 08, 2022 |
frozen70:.....and you will say you are also giving an advice so ooo, a bi? |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by DMerciful(m): 2:47pm On May 08, 2022 |
No, she should divorce him. You wanna be married while disagreeing with your husband and walking a separate path, no way! Do it as a single woman frozen70: |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by goldmatrix(m): 2:50pm On May 08, 2022 |
A sign of a rich woman in future.. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by frozen70(f): 2:51pm On May 08, 2022 |
Ebubu3: When you get married, your spouse will definitely be minus one, then you will become half a man 1 Like |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by Ebubu3: 2:52pm On May 08, 2022 |
JovialJune: |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by Blacksavage: 2:52pm On May 08, 2022 |
xteve: Na real apkor!!!! |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by manuel0523(m): 2:54pm On May 08, 2022 |
Reading through some of the comments on this thread, especially the comments from supposed 'males', I can see how gross foolishness is displayed. A man is a head of the home, no doubt from the story, the money is a joint saving with the wife but have you counted the cost of building a house compared to getting a car "for a start"? Have you asked if they had a car before hand? Well, if they did have a car and the man still bought a new car, was the old car still in a functional state? Some questions need be asked before jumping into a one-sided conclusion. Yes the lady has divorced the man but this reason the op gave is not reason enough for a reasonable and matured woman to divorce her husband. To me, the woman's action is even more foolish than the action of the man. Well, one thing in life I've learnt not to do is to really jump into people's family business cause at the end, your comments may be used by the duo when they finally make way around their issues... !!!Be Wise 2 Likes |
Re: Woman Divorced Her Husband For Buying A Car by Veervee: 2:59pm On May 08, 2022 |
When U loose a contract wort 500million naira because U refuse to buy a car worth 2million naira.u will understand. Women on the short run thinks their ideas are better only for them to realise that on the long-run the man was right. Anyhu. Thank God she divorce him. A good woman will find him soon.she did well. 1 Like |
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