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cenaman:
Same thing that is giving me sleepless nights.

My current girlfriend was my childhood friend in primary school before we lost contact after our FSLS.
Though she's a single mom and independent woman, I don't know how to tell my parents that she is a single mom.

Does it mean that you have already concluded plans to MARRY her? Why not marry a woman that her entire children will be the ones she got from being IMPREGNATED by you? Between your girlfriend and your parents, whose opinions/feelings should you value the most?

Ninisun:
Come let me adopt you my boy . At least feed you for some years to have a goat brain cus na cockroach brain you get for now. Onye ara

Hahahahahaha..... I like you already, I don't know why.
Are you married?

Jefferyhi86:
Hmmm mk una still try get virgins na,

Lol

If you have the wherewithal to adopt the child and cater for them effectively, then go for it. Don't listen to all these rubbish about "loving her child more than you." These teenagers know nothing.

Tickles001:
Let it be known to you that there is no such thing. Women don't change, they only get defeated or disqualified.
Whenever you see a lady who was a terrible at young age suddenly become reasonable at old. Know what it's not that she changed. She just lost form, and now putting up a good image looking for someone to salvage her.

5000 likes.

Ninisun:
You should've written this your fo.olish write-up before concluding initially. Na una gender still dey misbehave that leave these women the way they are. Men with diapers full here ooo.

Foolish girl. I can see you suffer from memory loss. Was that not what I was advocating for. Idiot.
I think the post struck a chord with you. I won't be surprised if you are one useless street thot. What business do I have with a stupid hoe who has a child and a father who she still bangs once in a while?

Baffupdrizz:
Does it mean that you have already concluded plans to MARRY her? Why not marry a woman that her entire children will be the ones she got from being IMPREGNATED by you? Between your girlfriend and your parents, whose opinions/feelings should you value the most?

Bro I am totally confused.
She got impregnated by her first lover and abandon her with the pregnancy to her fate, up till now the guy show's no interest in the baby......

AutoRedux:
Foolish girl. I can see you suffer from memory loss. Was that not what I was advocating for. Idiot.

Anumanu

SugarGirl44:
Bitter soul, just get yourself a bottle of snipes and help the world.
That's better than polluting Nairaland and your neighborhood with your sorrowful advices and mentions.
Omo ale.

over used old layers like you won't like my message


It is the mirror you have been trying to NOT look

Dilapidated, slackened wide toto

MadeMan01:
You are just an ATM to her.

No sir, I disagree with you.
She works with one of the biggest IT firm in Nigeria, owns one of the most popular boutique in Port Harcourt.

Mythagold:
Pele tie I'm a lady na that frustration go kill you last last aren't smelling your own bitter heart user & loser

Frustration you say? Ms, I no dey find husband like you ooo , that I am married shouldn't make me agree to what little brains like u are writing cus tomorrow is pregnant.

My bro dey find wife, are you interested? Anumanu wey Yahoo boys don finish her destiny.

I read from page 1-10 and I smh for most people that contributed.I want to believe they are all virgins or are celibate..if not, Your Hypocrisy Stinks

Lets take for Instance,
I am in a relationship in my late 20s with someone for 3yrs, in fact we were already planning our wedding..All of a sudden, he opted out with no tangible reason.I realised later I was carrying his baby..So according to this thread, its more noble to abort than give birth to the baby...So that the woman will be tagged( A single lady with no baggage, or A decent lady)
Ori gbogbo yin ti gbale

This is not to exonerate those ladies living recklessly or intentionally hooking men with pregnancy...

All in all, marrying a single mother does not guarantee happinness in marriage neither will happiness be a sure bet, if you marry a single lady.

The " God factor " is very important in chposing a life partner( short , tall, fat, slim, ugly , beautiful, intelligent, dullard, baby mama/dada, single, young or old)

Ninisun:
See his small head! Come let me make you my fourth son! Me and my darling husband will pay your school fees when Ngige finishes with ASUU. Anu

your fpith son from your 6th baby daddy? Truth is.....

Old oloshos like you never like it when the truth of their past is being laid bare in public. That's the only thing you hold against me. But I'm on a mandate to liberate young girls from your demonic lifestyle

Toktee:
Just Bleep her and run.... anything she tell you as a reason for her been single is lies.





They are sadist.


They are really bittered.


They are manner less


They are wayward.


Most of them just take a break from active prostitution.

You may be right however, how about if it is the opposite will you advise same Following!

Fearlez:
over used old layers like you won't like my message


It is the mirror you have been trying to NOT look

Dilapidated, slackened wide toto

Oponu, me overused?
You know nothing obuko.

Everybody is not like your sisters sha, know that.

Better watch and learn, single mothers are a disaster

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mDn1aZobITs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2AIBR0dnVw

Fearlez:
your fpith son from your 6th baby daddy? Truth is.....

Old oloshos like you never like it when the truth of their past is being laid bare in public. That's the only thing you hold against me. But I'm on a mandate to liberate young girls from your demonic lifestyle

Hahaha, what future is less than eight years in marriage...make I tell you who your father is? Ask your mama well, you are an away match!

Ninisun:
Anumanu

Anuofia. Uturu gbakpo gi anya. Onye zuzu nwuru anwu.
Typical virgina creature, always thinking with your emotions. You open your smelly pussy wide for another man, he pump him seed enter you. You wan come bring him child make I train for you. You dey mad abi?

Ninisun:
Hahaha, what future is less than eight years in marriage...make I tell you who your father is? Ask your mama well, you are an away match!

8th years in marriage from a deadbeat man who needed a skateboard to climb out of that public sewage pit you call your love tunnel?

A Fragile husband who allows you to roam around nairaland forum to forum like a new hooker looking for aboki clients.

Does that fool you call a husband know you're on nairaland this morning defending your life of indiscriminate sex where you hopped from dick to dick like bonobo chimpanzees?

You're the daughter of your mother's uncle. A projection of incestuous orgies!

Low- hygiene bedlamite!

Sweetplum:
Cos your brain can't comprehend properly. I communicated to you with simple English yet you can't decipher.
It means you are wasting space on earth.
And you are in a relationship?
That girl must not know you are Mr No Network

Go and read the garbage you wrote. Only a fool sees her mistakes as correct. I leave you to your folly and stupidity.

Hood rat from a ghetto family.

HajiaNotu:
I read from page 1-10 and I smh for most people that contributed.I want to believe they are all virgins or are celibate..if not, Your Hypocrisy Stinks

Lets take for Instance,
I am in a relationship in my late 20s with someone for 3yrs, in fact we were already planning our wedding..All of a sudden, he opted out with no tangible reason.I realised later I was carrying his baby..So according to this thread, its more noble to abort than give birth to the baby...So that the woman will be tagged( A single lady with no baggage, or A decent lady)
Ori gbogbo yin ti gbale

This is not to excuse those ladies living recklessly or intentionally hooking men with pregnancy...

All in all, marrying a single mother does not guarantee happinness in marriage neither do Single ladies too.
The " God factor is very important in chposing a life partner(

Were ni gbogbo won.
Na wetin I talk wey that fearlez Abi what's his moniker dey yab him mama for house.

People that are products of 4th, 5th and 6th illegal wives are all talking, people who bear different surnames from their siblings are dishing out advice, lol.

But sha everybody for NL na Saint until you see in them in real life to know how imperfect their lives are.

SugarGirl44:
Oponu, me overused?
You know nothing obuko.

Everybody is not like your sisters sha, know that.

you dey use your toto dey practice true, fiscal democracy.

You're for the homeless, jobless, streets and community.

We understand why you don't like the truth!

Ok from my own perspective I don’t see anything wrong in it and it doesn’t make them any different from other women out there….whether or not she has a child a good woman would always remain a good woman. What every lady wants out there especially a single mother is to be loved and cared for just like everyone else so I don’t see any reason why or how they’re different. I’m talking out of experience and from my experience I’d say they’re better than the most we think are better

Don't know whether it's a woman behind the moniker but if it's a man you are definitely a Simp.

How can you stay in your bedroom and discountenance the experiences of millions of men the world over just because you crave female validation on Nairaland.

How many girls have chased you here since you began demeaning men and lifting up women?

A single mother has told me plainly that no man can compare to the love she has for her son. When I asked her why she said she trusts no man but trusts that her son will do whatever she wants.

That is the mentality shared by many single mothers. So who are you to come here and talk trash.

So many American single women on Tik Tok have uploaded videos crying that they are overwhelmed by the hard work of taking care of their kids, working 2 jobs all alone and don't understand why no men want to stay with them to help and you are here typing trash.

Mtscheww

Let me shove it down your throat- most single mothers are looking for a man to ease their stress and not a man to love and appreciate.

Deal with it.

MrBrownJay1:
you have to understand that many men have misplaced egos thus they will always look down on a single mother because they will always believe that they are competing for her love with that child, not understanding that its two different things. some would even tell you that this woman will always love and/or go back to baby daddy bla bla bla (how insecure is that?)... also, i wont even talk on theo ones whose ego is so bruised, they only see her child as a confirmation that she had a life before she met them.

Fearlez:
8th years in marriage from a deadbeat man who needed a skateboard to climb out of that public sewage pit you call your love tunnel?

A Fragile husband who allows you to roam around nairaland forum to forum like a new hooker looking for aboki clients.

Does that fool you call a husband know you're on nairaland this morning defending your life of indiscriminate sex where you hopped from dick to dick like bonobo chimpanzees?

You're the daughter of your mother's uncle. A projection of incestuous orgies!

Low- hygiene bedlamite!

From your gibberish, where you are from is well displayed! Dysfunctional family and untrained boy in diaper

Let single mothers leave young guys alone and find single father or widower to marry

It depends, are you married before or a single eying a baby mama? If you have married before of course you don't need me telling you much as the saying that 'bigger the head the bigger the headache' holds true with more additional wahala comes with additional women. But if you are a single guy, please run faster than Bolt.

SugarGirl44:
Were ni gbogbo won.
Na wetin I talk wey that fearle.z Abi what's his moniker dey yab him mama for house.

People that are products of 4th, 5th and 6th illegal wives are all talking, people who bear different surnames from their siblings are dishing out advice, lol.

But sha everybody for NL na Saint until you see in them in real life to know how imperfect their lives are.

thunder divide your maggot -ridden toto there.

We have stopped educating old hags like you because we realise all you do here is to justify your ashawo lifestyle.

Listen, a woman when done born for another man is less than the value of a tokumbo car. She's a 4th grade. Like you, like your mother


You may argue like a fishmonger or a backwater tramp. But we men will tell you the truth. Weak insecure men will glorify ashawo with bastard son but no real man worth is weight in pounds will be proud of you or your past. You're in essence another man's LEAVING!

Olosho, how many is your body count?

You bloody, unconscionable abortion specialist!

Ninisun:
From your gibberish, where you are from is well displayed! Dysfunctional family and untrained boy in diaper

okay, you're literally deflated now. Idiot!

Your toto need major surgical realignment for your husband to ever get any form of stimulation!

Fearlez:
okay, you're literally deflated now. Idiot!

Your toto need major surgical realignment for your husband to ever get any form of stimulation!

Just hear yourself... spitting out vulgar words. Who trained you abeg? This is 100% shameful.

Ninisun:
Just hear yourself... spitting out vulgar words. Who trained you abeg? This is 100% shameful.

after being beaten black and blue, you're Pretending to be the victim because you lost in the textual jostle.


Women! Typical! They never take responsibility.

Now get out!

Find out about her story , make your observation and then take your decision, some women become single ladies today because the fell into the hands of wrong men. When you see a beautiful heart, indeed you will know that it is not what you can afford to let go.. Let's stop being biased in our assessment of people.. Some immature folks are too judgemental .