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Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Styx01: 12:27pm On May 12, 2022
I think you are just expressing unnecessary sentiment in this whole thing. Separate sentiment and reality and be bold to speak truth to issues.
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Ezemeiyogu(m): 12:38pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
This is pure description of what I am doing now. A big fool. All these and even more is what I will say if someone had posted this and I am to respond or give advice. Dude I talk to people about not being simps teach them the redpill shit . Make them know that no girl is worth their time etc but here u am defying all what I teach , some times it is not as easy as it seems. I am one of those guys that have never been in love before, I just Bleep this girls and that's it. But this time everything changed. I can't even imagine is doing this. But somehow I know I am more after revenge that actually having her back. I still want to see how I can get her back, waste a handful of her years and send her out on our wedding day. This might not sound real but that is exactly what I will do if my plot twist works.




See me laughing at this.
U can't do "Fadding" sir. If that girl enters you again eeh, u go mad on top love. The best way to forget who u had love or still loving is not to take them back but to let them go.

For now, desist from pursuing another girl. Rest and love ursef u Don try.
This is one thing about those of u feeling hard men for love. When love hold them, them go wan turn sth else.
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by okuta007: 12:51pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I have not been able to get her out of my mind.

She moved on got dumped by the guy in less than one month and she contacted me 5 days ago and I responded today. I tried settling it out and she said I responded late. That it can't work now. She even said she was going to see another guy . Like wtf.

What type of useless mind game is this please.
The fact is I love her so much. She is not the type that is after money or material things.
And I don't believe in double dating. We have been moving alone for 5 years now. I don't know how to get her off my mind. I have watch countless YouTube videos on how to get an ex off your mind but non is working. I have tried having sex with different girls just to get her thoughts off but its not working. This thing is affecting my hustle seriously.

Damn, let me drink some beer.
Life has been unfair to me relationship wise cry

small boy PLEASE listen to me and listen very good, i was in yours shoes a quarter of a century ago and i can tell u what’s wrong with you


LOW SELF ESTEEM - so how do you get over it? you form a cycle of friends and associates of only those who love you, respect you and make you feel good about yourself - no matter who they are, either rich or poor - you have simply lost your self pride and self worth and your ex knows that - and you can’t live your life that way -

PLEASE LET HER GO ….. To toughen your stand, and inoculate your system against the virus of lust plaguing your mind, go get a plain sheet of paper and write every bad thing she has done to you that you can remember - put every single one of them on that paper -

when’re you feel weak and trying to contact her - take out that paper and read every word you wrote about her and let it sink into your head - dwell on what you wrote about her for a few minutes - then ask yourself the simple question, IS THIS WHAT I WANT FOR MY LIFE ? -


once your head tells you NO, which naturally it will- then put on your slippers or shoes and take a walk outside - walk to relieve whatever tension is building up inside you and i bet you while u are taking such walk - the universe which rewards the bold and courageous will arrange a meeting between you and someone who will make you forget her faster than you think

But for this to happen - you have to follow these steps i just shared with you

if u have any of her pics on your phone and u are not disciplined enough to stop looking at it and dwelling on it - then delete them fast

if there is anything she gave to you as a gift which serves as constant reminders of her place in your life - gift it out, destroy it or keep them with a friend or family for now while u heal - If there is a song you all listen together - stop listening to such songs and if it plays in. your head constantly- then get music system to play your own favorite oldies song you use to love listening to even before you met her - i know this sounds trivial but never trivialize the effect of things like this

Lastly - get busy with your life - never stay idle by yourself - when you are not working or improving yourself - always be in the presence of friends and family so u don’t have time to think about her more than necessary and block her phone number - delete it from your phone and VALUE YOURSELF, LOVE YOURSELF , have some PRIDE and tell yourself this - I MUST MAKE MONEY so I will employ her one day as a house girl to my driver - get to out the fire and passion to succeed in life back - go make it and when u do, mark this on the wall - she will come back crawling, they always do - and then IF u like, Bleep her mercilessly and after which - walk her to your door and tell her - her pus sy is so slack and unappealing and you don’t ever want to see her again - take your pound of flesh - Life is a game, ALWAYS PLAY TO WIN and don’t you ever forget that - Life is not meant for the weak


now i know my advise is kinda extreme but i want other simps who are in a worse situation than you. here reading my piece to develop a spine….. God bless you!

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Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by sehin79(m): 12:55pm On May 12, 2022
You have been hypnotize with kayamata.. no shag am again ooo.. all you need is break the covenant of the shagging u already did with her.. just pray a prayer like this by saying I break every shaging covenant I have with this lady call her name..
come back and thank me later it works like magic..
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Prettychild(f): 12:59pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
This is pure description of what I am doing now. A big fool. All these and even more is what I will say if someone had posted this and I am to respond or give advice. Dude I talk to people about not being simps teach them the redpill shit . Make them know that no girl is worth their time etc but here u am defying all what I teach , some times it is not as easy as it seems. I am one of those guys that have never been in love before, I just Bleep this girls and that's it. But this time everything changed. I can't even imagine is doing this. But somehow I know I am more after revenge that actually having her back. I still want to see how I can get her back, waste a handful of her years and send her out on our wedding day. This might not sound real but that is exactly what I will do if my plot twist works.
lol! Don’t even try that cos you will still be the one to suffer. What if after doing that, you discover that she is pregnant? Shey you will still be tied down? Just let her be, block her lines , delete her pictures and move on
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by bahdpersona(m): 1:00pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
This is pure description of what I am doing now. A big fool. All these and even more is what I will say if someone had posted this and I am to respond or give advice. Dude I talk to people about not being simps teach them the redpill shit . Make them know that no girl is worth their time etc but here u am defying all what I teach , some times it is not as easy as it seems. I am one of those guys that have never been in love before, I just Bleep this girls and that's it. But this time everything changed. I can't even imagine is doing this. But somehow I know I am more after revenge that actually having her back. I still want to see how I can get her back, waste a handful of her years and send her out on our wedding day. This might not sound real but that is exactly what I will do if my plot twist works.
lol.That's what any man in his right sense would do too. You just convinced us you're not worshipping her.
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by friendlyadvice: 1:04pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I have not been able to get her out of my mind.

She moved on got dumped by the guy in less than one month and she contacted me 5 days ago and I responded today. I tried settling it out and she said I responded late. That it can't work now. She even said she was going to see another guy . Like wtf.

What type of useless mind game is this please.
The fact is I love her so much. She is not the type that is after money or material things.
And I don't believe in double dating. We have been moving alone for 5 years now. I don't know how to get her off my mind. I have watch countless YouTube videos on how to get an ex off your mind but non is working. I have tried having sex with different girls just to get her thoughts off but its not working. This thing is affecting my hustle seriously.

Damn, let me drink some beer.
Life has been unfair to me relationship wise cry

have u tried killing her? that would solve a lot of your problems
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Kaybaba5(m): 1:32pm On May 12, 2022
Carcholce:
You should add sniper into the beer and drink it.

Deaths to SIMP.

For wetin naw
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by hahn(m): 1:38pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I have not been able to get her out of my mind.

She moved on got dumped by the guy in less than one month and she contacted me 5 days ago and I responded today. I tried settling it out and she said I responded late. That it can't work now. She even said she was going to see another guy . Like wtf.

What type of useless mind game is this please.
The fact is I love her so much. She is not the type that is after money or material things.
And I don't believe in double dating. We have been moving alone for 5 years now. I don't know how to get her off my mind. I have watch countless YouTube videos on how to get an ex off your mind but non is working. I have tried having sex with different girls just to get her thoughts off but its not working. This thing is affecting my hustle seriously.

Damn, let me drink some beer.
Life has been unfair to me relationship wise cry

Call her after a week and tell her you went for an hiv test and it came back positive.

Then switch off your phone wink
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by JBoss25(m): 1:39pm On May 12, 2022
Carcholce:
You should add sniper into the beer and drink it.

Deaths to SIMP.
you wicked o grin
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by GooodHardDick: 1:40pm On May 12, 2022
Ninisun:


He is not a simp, he knows he messed up by always pummeling the young lady. Op is an abusive boyfriend and so for her safety, let her get another man. Op move on or find a female boxer you can date.

As expected.

A runs girl will always support her fellow runz girl. Werey said he messed up? Are you OK? Who are you trying to emotionally manipulate?

Apart from your over used pussy, what exactly can you offer a man in a relationship apart from sex?.

The OP is not only a simp. But a stupid SIMP pussy ass weak man.

Your gender is busy prostituting around and of course, you see nothing wrong with that. Olosho! This is exactly why we keep saying Nigeria girls are useless. All of them.
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by GooodHardDick: 1:50pm On May 12, 2022
gassbee:
u v not really been in love with someone so deeply, everything is not simp

What a simp man you are!
This is exactly how SIMPS talks!

A man loves logically with his brains and not with emotions and feelings like you SIMPS! A man gives about 0.-0001% of his love to a woman, knowing the fact, she can opt out anything and of course, he won't feel anything whatsoever.

You Simpson are too emotionally, weak and easily manipulated by a girl. Your kinds can do anything for a girl just because she has manipulated you. (this is known as emotional manipulation). This is exactly why we keep calling your kinds SIMPS and pussy ass niggars.

Swallow the red pill or continue simping. The choice is yours!
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by CAPSLOCKED: 1:55pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
na I am not a simp. I can even say I am one of the meanest redpillers but in real real life the redpill shit is garbage. So shove your simp talk up your ass

YEAH YOU'RE NOT A SIMP BUT AN EMOTIONAL WRECK AND SERIAL LOSER. I'M JUST GOING TO POINT IT OUT TO YOU THAT IN TWO MONTHS TIME MAX YOU'LL REMEMBER THIS THREAD AND HOW STUPĮD YOU WERE. LOOK AT THIS EMBARRASSING MAN AND HIS EMBARRASSING THREAD. GOOD LUCK THOUGH.

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Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by BalogunIdowu(m): 2:21pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I have not been able to get her out of my mind.

She moved on got dumped by the guy in less than one month and she contacted me 5 days ago and I responded today. I tried settling it out and she said I responded late. That it can't work now. She even said she was going to see another guy . Like wtf.

What type of useless mind game is this please.
The fact is I love her so much. She is not the type that is after money or material things.
And I don't believe in double dating. We have been moving alone for 5 years now. I don't know how to get her off my mind. I have watch countless YouTube videos on how to get an ex off your mind but non is working. I have tried having sex with different girls just to get her thoughts off but its not working. This thing is affecting my hustle seriously.

Damn, let me drink some beer.
Life has been unfair to me relationship wise cry

Had sex with countless girls to get her out of your mind...
this is so.....
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Frankcasanova(m): 2:22pm On May 12, 2022
Naija men need to man up. All I see is weak men all over. Try and man up bro. Move on man. You have dreams to actualize.
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Juniorangel(m): 2:30pm On May 12, 2022
Let me see any girl that will come and be making me mumu like op.... Mtchewwww nonsense.
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by gassbee: 2:38pm On May 12, 2022
GooodHardDick:


What a simp man you are!
This is exactly how SIMPS talks!

A man loves logically with his brains and not with emotions and feelings like you SIMPS! A man gives about 0.-0001% of his love to a woman, knowing the fact, she can opt out anything and of course, he won't feel anything whatsoever.

You Simpson are too emotionally, weak and easily manipulated by a girl. Your kinds can do anything for a girl just because she has manipulated you. (this is known as emotional manipulation). This is exactly why we keep calling your kinds SIMPS and pussy ass niggars.

Swallow the red pill or continue simping. The choice is yours!
u v not rolled n spent quality time in a relationship, u talk like someone that patronises oloshos
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Kaypeeboss(m): 2:38pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
na I am not a simp. I can even say I am one of the meanest redpillers but in real real life the redpill shit is garbage. So shove your simp talk up your ass
The guy Don deny the redpill movement!!! Bro see one truth people don't tell you.everyone feels bad after a Break up,but people pretend to be strong until they actually become strong,many will pretend until that strength comes
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by GooodHardDick: 2:43pm On May 12, 2022
gassbee:
u v not rolled n spent quality time in a relationship, u talk like someone that patronises oloshos

What a SIMP!

Your kinds are way too emotionally weak and can easily be manipulated and controlled by a girl. Stop being emotionally weak, calling it love. That is stupidity, not love.

Swallow the red pill bro and be delivered from this Simpson disease that has destroyed our society!!!. The choice is yours!

We the Red pillers are ready to welcome you.

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Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Ndidi2: 2:46pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
Dude it's far from mindset. she is my first love and we are actually suppose to get married. I trusted her with everything. Though her reasons for leaving is quite legit but I was not expecting it
ls a matter of time..
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by gassbee: 2:46pm On May 12, 2022
GooodHardDick:


What a SIMP!

Your kinds are way too emotionally weak and can easily be manipulated and controlled by a girl. Stop being emotionally weak, calling it love. That is stupidity, not love.

Swallow the red pill bro and be delivered from this Simpson disease that has destroyed our society!!!. The choice is yours!

We the Red pillers are ready to welcome you.
see this olosho ambassador that cant maintain a simple relationship
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Nobody: 2:46pm On May 12, 2022
GooodHardDick:


As expected.

A runs girl will always support her fellow runz girl. Werey said he messed up? Are you OK? Who are you trying to emotionally manipulate?

Apart from your over used pussy, what exactly can you offer a man in a relationship apart from sex?.

The OP is not only a simp. But a stupid SIMP pussy ass weak man.

Your gender is busy prostituting around and of course, you see nothing wrong with that. Olosho! This is exactly why we keep saying Nigeria girls are useless. All of them.


It has always been sweet to use my husband as my sugar zaddy...while your mother did hers with other men that gave rise to an irresponsible abusive boy (YOU) cheesy grin
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by meobizy(f): 2:53pm On May 12, 2022
Everything dey your side if ex na your problem. If I resign from a job no child of Satan will make me regret the action. Na the same thing with exes.
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by bigiyaro(m): 3:22pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
na I am not a simp. I can even say I am one of the meanest redpillers but in real real life the redpill shit is garbage. So shove your simp talk up your ass
gerrarahia....u b big simp. She has moved on, finished one relationship and moving to another, you are still hia blabbing shi*t, fvcking simp waiting for left overs.
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by chaloskyx: 3:35pm On May 12, 2022
go and hustle the girls choice in a man is based on finances if you no carry you would always be last
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Isrolad25: 4:31pm On May 12, 2022
I feel telling him he’s a simp is really wrong… I’m going through the same thing but the fact is that he just have to man up. The fact that you guys had even parted ways for like 3 months before then she left you for another guy…. I can’t even take that shit around someone else having sex with my babe and I want her back… we rather be knacking than to consider her as my future partner with all what she did… Some ladies are really toxic too which they will bring the abusive trait in you out. Same thing is happening to us bro.. I just made up my mind I will never go back to her… same thing she has on her mind also. You are a man bro… focus on your strength on your future once you are making it she will find you but by then it will be late because definitely you you see another beautiful soul that you need. Anytime your soul tells you to go back always remember she left you for another guy…. That other gender are something else.
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Aaay: 4:49pm On May 12, 2022
This simp is worrying about love while real men are worrying about making money
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by BRATISLAVA: 4:59pm On May 12, 2022
Lifeemetu:
It also happened to me.
She was the one who ended the relationship after discovering she was 5months older than me. After 2months of dating another guy she came back. I maintained my stand even tho it took me a month to absurve the heart break when she called the relationship to an end.
I told her that my age hasn't changed that am still 5months younger than her.
So maintain the stand that its over between you both. Don't even think about you would have married her again. Continue reminding yourself the reason why she left you. And try to armend that reason. Mine wasn't what can be armended so I try as much as to know your age first before even talking to you self. So as such stuff not to repeat itself.

Airsaylongcome...
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by 6pack: 5:01pm On May 12, 2022
Lol so this post hit front page lmao. I suprise to see 107 mentions grin
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by doris4u(f): 5:05pm On May 12, 2022
6pack:
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago. I have not been able to get her out of my mind.

She moved on got dumped by the guy in less than one month and she contacted me 5 days ago and I responded today. I tried settling it out and she said I responded late. That it can't work now. She even said she was going to see another guy . Like wtf.

What type of useless mind game is this please.
The fact is I love her so much. She is not the type that is after money or material things.
And I don't believe in double dating. We have been moving alone for 5 years now. I don't know how to get her off my mind. I have watch countless YouTube videos on how to get an ex off your mind but non is working. I have tried having sex with different girls just to get her thoughts off but its not working. This thing is affecting my hustle seriously.

Damn, let me drink some beer.
Life has been unfair to me relationship wise cry
You broke up with her, why are u now concerned
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by macfish101(m): 5:13pm On May 12, 2022
Rasta, why drink and drive when you can smoke and fly
Re: My Ex Is Making Me Depressed by Prosperofplay: 5:15pm On May 12, 2022
Guy! You be bastard.
If I see you real life Na cord I go wipe you for back

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