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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by areeo(m): 1:02pm On May 14, 2022
Omo!!! Be calming down bros.
Yamiriflathead:
U be mumu girl. Those things wey u do for ur 20s when turn u to evening newspaper 9 u carry enta 30s.
You deserve to remain unmarried all your life
Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by pocohantas(f): 1:07pm On May 14, 2022
You guys don’t get tired of disguising as females. Agenda must agend. Smh…

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by GloriousGbola: 1:12pm On May 14, 2022
magnoliaa gang

seun should add non binary for gender ID.

or maybe gender fluid. or just straight up confused

fellas be on this platform with multiple personalities and genders cheesy

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Wizywiz(m): 1:13pm On May 14, 2022
Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question
grin >: grin one chill bottle for you.....she is a confused woman

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Zico007: 1:13pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:


.I was just expecting you guys to drop something. How to fix this. Since you're Men and you know what attracts you aside from beauty and body....



To me you already fk. I don't waste my time on any lady. You proof to big,l move on to the next. She act super woman, I move on. Too many ladies now for one to feeling on top of the world. I hope he reply your text.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by weslay: 1:15pm On May 14, 2022
It's crazy how most ladies just think of things that doesn't exist and begin to act based on them.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Paulpaulpaul(m): 1:16pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

Sis, nobody wants you to be unhappy. It breaks my heart to read your replies; you're still calm despite the dragging. But it's your fault if you lose that man. Truth be told, don't play mind game with people. Be real and let the best/worst happen.

If he appears less interested, ask him if you not his kind of woman. It's not a crime to be expressive. You don't just ghost a man and expect him to be running after you.

Men have a lot to deal with.

IF YOU LOSE HIM FINALLY, MAY GOD SETTLE YOU.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 1:28pm On May 14, 2022
jackals

The fellas who commented before me have already said my mind, so I'll just cut the chase undecided....

Give him a call and check up on him and if the flow of the convo seems awk, then fix another date with him....

If he doesn't pick, then maybe send him a voice note on WhatsApp...

"Hello xyz, how're you doing? Hope you're fine, emmm, sorry I bailed out on you for couple of days, I had some personal stuff to deal with, I'm sorry if it gave you the wrong impression.... So emmmmmm, I really enjoyed our last date together and I was hoping we could do it again, don't worry, the nights on me, lol, how does tomorrow evening sound?"

I think something of sort could work, but if that doesn't, then move on undecided....

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Wizywiz(m): 1:30pm On May 14, 2022
godofuck231:
dm me , you can't put your business all in public first you are compromising your relationship
grin can't u see her profile says no Dm grin..she doesn't deal on Dm's she is queen Elizabeth all men should bow and worship her if they want her cheesy

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Wizywiz(m): 1:40pm On May 14, 2022
Connected1:

You should probably marry her, since you seems to understand her better.

Rubbish.
so u follow dey notice am... grin...

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by MadeINchenzen2: 1:57pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
If your pucci is still intact he should have called or text you by now ! grin

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by neonly: 2:04pm On May 14, 2022
Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 2:04pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.
A fool at 40 is a fool 4
I can't eat ur Cake nd have it back,
In America Guys no send gals, na only Nigerian mentality guys de Mumu on top gals matter,


Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Newboss(m): 2:04pm On May 14, 2022
How can a stupid person claim to be intelligent?

What a fûcking dumbass

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by XDaBOSS(m): 2:05pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:


I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

Not replying a sign of disrespect on the young man (my opinion though). You should have informed him about your absence (come up with some good excuses not to see or chat with him since you want him to miss/want you more).

Mind you, it was wrong for to view his chats n not reply back. If same was done to you, how will you feel or react?

Call him and try give a good reason for not replying his chats or calls (the truth). If he truly has interest in pushing what ever you to have/had further, he'll understand.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by fredoooooo: 2:05pm On May 14, 2022
Olowoshako:
U just believe he not busy, so u should be he priority coming to Nigeria. Common sis he also have something doing. If he fail to call u call him.
Person wey dey mad .. bobo get important things to do than her nonsense. Imagine the shediot fit get someone waitin for her somewhere ó but no , na bobo Americana she want ... very useless elements grin cheesy grin cheesy

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 2:05pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.


Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
A fool at 40 is a fool 4
U can't eat ur Cake nd have it back,
In America Guys no send gals, na only Nigerian mentality guys de Mumu on top gals matter,

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Jesse781227(m): 2:05pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

This is hysterical

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by kingthreat(m): 2:07pm On May 14, 2022
Your attitude was a total put-off. Guy knows what he wants and doesn't want unnecessary drama. He is focusing on his other options

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by penearth(m): 2:07pm On May 14, 2022
Keep forming, when u r busy disliking ur nature qust to settle down for making guy.
Rush to him with apologize by calling him if he has not gone for another girl

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by LadyTara(f): 2:07pm On May 14, 2022
undecided undecided undecided

After seeing pocohantas' comment had to go back and check, it's actually one of those red pillers out to create social engineered threads against women.


This nonsense nor dey tire una? undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided. For a people who feel women are nothing,you lots spend so much time on women and their issues sha. Smh.


I had my doubts as to why a lady will give out her real age on a thread where it can back fire on her face.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by davidtemi(m): 2:08pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
I am currently doing same to a girl. I chatted her, she read and never replied for days. Now she's d one chatting me up for days now, I read and not reply too. But d tin is I will go back to her surely

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by jclassiq(m): 2:08pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

I guess that's why you are still single at 33. First you are not in control of your self. You are acting desperate. Then you want to correct the impression by playing mind games. Good luck to you.
I have nothing to do with people who think it's cool to play mind games. Immaturity at best. Stupidity at worst.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by zakkxx: 2:08pm On May 14, 2022
You are doing hard to get at 33? No be juju be that? You are free to express your love to any body but don’t sleep with them till your wedding night! Simple this is the area u form hard to get!

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 2:08pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:


I'm not with any man. Men have an habit of underating you when you show them how much you care. Between, I just wanted to see how consistent he is. I just dropped an SMS for him on his local number hoping he reply.

Are you a man? How do you know this? undecided

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by dogwen: 2:08pm On May 14, 2022
Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question
The more reason there are more single ladies than usual. After showing him attitude, she expects him to continue following her like he is under a spell. It happened in the past, but not in today's world.
Tomorrow now dem go say "all men are the same".

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Roseey0(f): 2:08pm On May 14, 2022
grin
Sorry my dear
That's what happens when you don't bond with people before meeting them.

Be vulnerable for once and let him into how you feel. Hard right ? but that is the best way you can get the best out of this relationship. If it works, ok and good, if it doesn't, best for you. You shouldn't be discussing marriage with someone you haven't bonded with

All this recommended relationship thing, na so e dey be. Both of you are still forming.
Most times it just doesn't work. Or when it works, you both will keep pretending

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by dododawa1: 2:09pm On May 14, 2022
Nonsense story story
Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Stayingtrueee(f): 2:09pm On May 14, 2022
Puskas:
Vagina people and their victim mentality. Imagine how this one is blaming the innocent man for respecting himself. You shunned his WhatsApp messages for two days and you still expect him to be crawling on his knees begging you to reply his chats. Who does that except a man suffering from Simpson disease. If you are beautiful with a good character just like you described yourself you should have married in your twenties and not being desperate to marry in your thirties. Let me ask you one question. If the man is foolish enough to continue chatting with you and later marries you what exactly will you offer him apart from your worn out pussy? Be truthful and answer this question
Na wah undecided

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by SocialJustice: 2:09pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
33 and behaving like a kid. You better call him, you think you're the only girl he came all the way from America to see. He's working down his list of pretty girls and believe me, you're probably not the best candidate in that list.

No need to apologise or guilt trip yourself but call him and try pushing the conversation from where you destroyed it.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by mcdokwe(m): 2:09pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.
Awa
Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

You're not ok!

You're interested in someone that has shown interest in you and you are still playing kid at your age. I thought they said wisdom comes with age?

I hope her never gets to call you again and moves on to someone more serious and hopefully, you grow some sense before a new person comes around.

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Re: Why Are Men Uninterested Nowadays by Nobody: 2:09pm On May 14, 2022
jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested
The same thing you have been doing... Now you are 33, still doing it.

Keep doing it and expect not to remain the way you are.

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