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Who was at fault in your last relationship? You or your ex?

Nice girl
Not lazy
Worked for her money
Never asked me for money
I wouldn’t hesitate to marry her sef if I wanted.

But na my Ashawo age be this abeg
I gats enjoy am full time

Don’t want to waste a good girls time

Most people won't accept responsibility for their failed relationship..I'm here to read lies

Watch how everyone will play the Victim card here!

Especially the ladies.

It was me but technically not me

I was insecure about her friendship with a guy and told her about it. She said he was just a Friend.
Mama begin dey vex and that was the beginning of the end our situationship.

I had to call it quits because me sef get standard and you don't take me for granted. It is either I am the main guy or I'm out. I no dey do 2nd choice except say I wan play

Just last week I found out that the same guy that was giving me small headache is now her boyfriend.

Female? Nahh I've never and will never trust that gender.

Lol madam simply started giving attitude. I noticed and asked her. She told me she wasn’t feeling it anymore..I asked her why she had no reason.

Had to breakup and block her everywhere. One of the hardest things I’ve ever done

while i was busy trying to secure a job, baby girl was busy asking another out in church. She gave me her phone to charge and i went through her whatsaap, still hang around for the last and memorable but raw bang before telling her. That bang resulted in pregnancy which i refered her to the church guy... That was her punishment

Vikkoh:
It was me but technically not me

I was insecure about her friendship with a guy and told her about it. She said he was just a Friend.
Mama begin dey vex and that was the beginning of the end our situationship.

I had to call it quits because me sef get standard and you don't take me for granted. It is either I am the main guy or I'm out. I no dey do 2nd choice except say I wan play

Just last week I found out that the same guy that was giving me small headache is now her boyfriend.

Female? Nahh I've never and will never trust that gender.

Exactly my situation

She got too close to another guy and was even giving him more moment on chat than she gave me.


While this was occurring, she got more cold, short replies thingy towards me while giving the guy hot gist like this and even giving me attitude

Omo she started gossiping about our relationship give the guy oo

Though i treated her bad in a way, what I mean is often she likes calling me at unnecessary and busy hours and I remember telling her she calls me too much.
I also remember shouting at her cus she mocked me in front of my friend
Few other minor things like that, she take am begin dey follow another man

It’s pleasant to learn that after more than one year, her relationship with the guy she left me for hit the rocks and was very toxic one.



I was never pleasant, I never got physical with her, but whenever she insulted me, I would block her on WhatsApp for few days, or just prefer to be alone.


But I did so so so much for her. That even the boyfriend she left me for, has never done for her. Infact the amount of aid I’ve given her since she left the relationship pass the assistance her boyfriend don give am as they’re dating imagine your ex aiding you more than the boyfriend you went to after leaving him can make you look stupid but hey before you bash me I do the assistance same way i assist anyone who begs me for assistance, now they’ve broken up from what she’s telling me but such is life for you.

We realized that it is time that our love died a natural death.

Main boyfriends eat leftovers with billings. Know this and know peace.

Vikkoh:
It was me but technically not me

I was insecure about her friendship with a guy and told her about it. She said he was just a Friend.
Mama begin dey vex and that was the beginning of the end our situationship.

I had to call it quits because me sef get standard and you don't take me for granted. It is either I am the main guy or I'm out. I no dey do 2nd choice except say I wan play

Just last week I found out that the same guy that was giving me small headache is now her boyfriend.

Female? Nahh I've never and will never trust that gender.

They always have a backup package. Trust them at your peril.

Madam went to cheat, she still had the guts to wear the jean jacket i gave her, still took loved up pictures and posted on whatsapp

She lied, denied, convinced but i no gree.
She beg beg tire, i can never continue with a cheating girlfriend, the next year, madam got pregnant for the guy, after birth they broke up lol, baba said the child is not he’s, as he was not the only one shining her congo meat. She is now a single mother and jumps from one dîck to another


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

None of us did any wrong.
I was travelling abroad and he said he won't be able to keep up with the long distance(i sensed he was insecure) so we had to part ways peacefully but we are still good friends though.

I'll stay invisible here and read comments

Dorwadora:
I'll stay invisible here and read comments

You got to my dear. Because you're already married.

Omo fear women oO...
Everything was all rosy and sweet, all of a sudden, in her place of work, she started receiving this kinda late calls and was using bedroom voice for the guy...Ahhhh, Nooo!! That voice sounds familiar and unique to me alone but as a coded guy I comport myself, she noticed a little bit and said was it because of the call and I told her YES oO...I won't hide my feelings, cos I always own up to every sh*t/responsibilities bordering me like a fearless terrorists...!!

So she began singing to me like a well decorated choir mistress, but I know that lyrics of "He's just a friend" and this was the first time he was calling, and I quickly interrupted and reminded her that I was once just a friend and I know what I did...

It didn't take long before my observations becomes reality, I visited her one day and saw a new jotter, I was about to glance through and she pounced on me and collected it saying it's girls things... that stroked my awareness but I shrugged it off

On a very fateful day as devil may have it, I visited again but she told me she went out to get something before my arrival but she dropped her keys with someone, I got the keys and was jejely pressing my phone, then a call came into my phone and requesting I call out a friend phone number for him, I told him I will get back to him while I put it into writing...make I carry paper and pen oO, I now saw that jotter and said lemme even see the girls thing afterall we talking about my GF of a year plus here who doesn't hide anything from me (so I simpingly thought tho)

I opened it and at the middle page was her diary, I read all the rubbish she wrote inside, that same guy who was just a friend had already collected his maximum 3points, another guy in her neighbourhood whom we only shake hands whenever I come around has collected maximum 3points (No...this one should be 6points home and away because he was closeby) and the most painful aspects was that I was even the side boyfriend of her main boyfriend in Lagos... wow...so I have been dating a community project all this while I said to myself...

Well no issues shaah, I comfort myself like nothing happened and left her side, I maintained full status quo like nothing happened and what happened next should better be left unsaid because she's always a guests on NL and I like my anonymous status here...

Jennyclay:
All of you talking ill about your girlfriends saying your girlfriends was at fault.. All of you are Lairs!!

I'm 100% pretty sure that you guys were the ones at fault in that relationship... and I'm so happy that your girlfriends used Cutlass to cut the relationship.

MR Linus everywhere!!

Aunty rest!!
You really need am

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Slynation:
Omo fear women oO...
Everything was all rosy and sweet, all of a sudden, in her place of work, she started receiving this kinda late calls and was using bedroom voice for the guy...Ahhhh, Nooo!! That voice sounds familiar and unique to me alone but as a coded guy I comport myself, she noticed a little bit and said was it because of the call and I told her YES oO...I won't hide my feelings, cos I always own up to every sh*t/responsibilities bordering me like a fearless terrorists...!!

So she began singing to me like a well decorated choir mistress, but I know that lyrics of "He's just a friend" and this was the first time he was calling, and I quickly interrupted and reminded her that I was once just a friend and I know what I did...

It didn't take long before my observations becomes reality, I visited her one day and saw a new jotter, I was about to glance through and she pounced on me and collected it saying it's girls things... that stroked my awareness but I shrugged it off

On a very fateful day as devil may have it, I visited again but she told me she went out to get something before my arrival but she dropped her keys with someone, I got the keys and was jejely pressing my phone, then a call came into my phone and requesting I call out a friend phone number for him, I told him I will get back to him while I put it into writing...make I carry paper and pen oO, I now saw that jotter and said lemme even see the girls thing afterall we talking about my GF of a year plus here who doesn't hide anything from me (so I simpingly thought tho)

I opened it and at the middle page was her diary, I read all the rubbish she wrote inside, that same guy who was just a friend had already collected his maximum 3points, another guy in her neighbourhood whom we only shake hands whenever I come around has collected maximum 3points (No...this one should be 6points home and away because he was closeby) and the most painful aspects was that I was even the side boyfriend of her main boyfriend in Lagos... wow...so I have been dating a community project all this while I said to myself...

Well no issues shaah, I comfort myself like nothing happened and left her side, I maintained full status quo like nothing happened and what happened next should better be left unsaid because she's always a guests on NL and I like my anonymous status here...

damn your girlfriend na cheerful giver like most naija babes

Never been in a relationship

Nobody was at fault....not what I wanted.

Asked her a couple of times to enter her London but she declined, however, her friends let me enter both London and New York all join.

So

I get chairs and table I dey sell popcorn also

It was their faults - it taught me never to give my 100% to any woman.

Actually it's her mother and sister...

Infact her whole family!

Trust women at your own risk in life

All they want is money and nothing more, do your own and move on

Me...

I cheated,we broke up.
I went back to the guy I cheated with.ONE OF THE BEST DAMN FLING I EVER HAD IN MY WHOLE LIFE.Omo, If that niggar can give that much on a fling I wonder how e go be if na real thing mehn

My ex just dey para that night.I remember how he tried removing his suit that night like say na nightgown.Snashed my phone,called my fling.
I warned him not to find out who he is oooo.Niggar come go do small detective work.
Him humble!Quiet like pikin..AFTER VISITING his social media pages. .
Him come dey beg make I no see the guy again, ofcourse e see who pass am by far in every sphere.
Better food wey I just put for mouth....make I no finish am?

Clean sweet, chivalrous guy! Exactly wetin I like chop but the upgraded pro- premium version.

I warn am oooo,say I just dey respect am.He should quit treating me anyhow.E no gree!

He begged me to stop seeing him!

How!?!?
I tried,but e haaaarddddddd.Guy wey if him pull him preek for my eye dey big like Roast chicken dipped in barbecue sauce, spiced with hot chilli pepper and a chilled nkwu enu to join?!Ife n'alike

Nna,them no dey free that kind food na!

I tell am hoo haaaa say the guy don scatter my brain to pieces!NO REMEDY.

Charley, wherever you are, thanks for giving me one of the best times of my life.

Their lying nature ended the relationship

I say "they" cos they're more than one