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Alaigbopress:
Please Elders in the house I need a serious advice because I don't want to make mistake.

I met this girl about four months ago, I approached her and after some weeks we started dating. She told me that she broke up with ex boy friend last December because her parents were not in support of the marriage. She told me that she has nothing to do with the said boyfriend.

But recently I noticed that she still share the pictures of the ex boy friend on her Whatsapp status and even still use his pictures as her phone wall paper. I confronted her about that and she said it does not mean anything. Since we started dating she has not for one posted my pictures on her Whatsapp status but has posted that of her ex up to o three times.


The one that got me sad and made me threaten to dump her is that she posted a WhatsApp Status requesting that anyone who mention her Boy Friend's name will get a credit card rewards and most of her friends were mentioning her Ex's name and she was cool to post the screenshots of where they mentioned her ex's name. Know it that some of my friends are also her friend and they saw the status and they have been asking me if the girl is actually dating me or someone else.

Please Elders in the House what should I do. Should I quit this relationship or should I confront her and hear her out?. Please Mod move it to front page I beg You.

Bros you are just a side dick, just claim your position in peace, maybe u don't pay her maintenance fee and other things...

Comrade you deserve serious beating for been stupid.

Your the ex

Alaigbopress:
Please Elders in the house I need a serious advice because I don't want to make mistake.

I met this girl about four months ago, I approached her and after some weeks we started dating. She told me that she broke up with ex boy friend last December because her parents were not in support of the marriage. She told me that she has nothing to do with the said boyfriend.

But recently I noticed that she still share the pictures of the ex boy friend on her Whatsapp status and even still use his pictures as her phone wall paper. I confronted her about that and she said it does not mean anything. Since we started dating she has not for one posted my pictures on her Whatsapp status but has posted that of her ex up to o three times.


The one that got me sad and made me threaten to dump her is that she posted a WhatsApp Status requesting that anyone who mention her Boy Friend's name will get a credit card rewards and most of her friends were mentioning her Ex's name and she was cool to post the screenshots of where they mentioned her ex's name. Know it that some of my friends are also her friend and they saw the status and they have been asking me if the girl is actually dating me or someone else.

Please Elders in the House what should I do. Should I quit this relationship or should I confront her and hear her out?. Please Mod move it to front page I beg You.

Why call elders in the house if you're not ready for marriage?
Well, here in Africa, we elders don't encourage extensive boyfriend-girlfriend involvements if you don't have the intention of meeting her parents. So elders can't give you an advice on that...
Now here's the advice as a big brother. That girl is still a Player. If you get emotionally attached, you'll get burnt. So if u want her for pleasure, get it fast and be her next ex. She could probably know your value afterwards and start posting your pictures, who cares.
If you want her for something serious, you just have to detach and walk away. Respect your mum's sweat to grow you into a full young man. If any woman can't give you that respect in return, then see her as an empty space, non existent...
Just move on to better things

Black flag

You are in love... is unfortunate she doesn't feel anything for you. My advice is that you move on as quickly as you still can.

ERCROSS:
But wait ooo, is she the one that told you, you are her boyfriend, or na you just dey assume. Diz story no too clear

I don't think they are dating jare. He is dating her in his head.

MARYIAN:
Do you really need anyone to tell you that you're the side guy?

ILYSM

Alaigbopress:
Please Elders in the house I need a serious advice because I don't want to make mistake.

I met this girl about four months ago, I approached her and after some weeks we started dating. She told me that she broke up with ex boy friend last December because her parents were not in support of the marriage. She told me that she has nothing to do with the said boyfriend.

But recently I noticed that she still share the pictures


of the ex boy friend on her Whatsapp status and even still use his pictures as her phone wall paper. I confronted her about that and she said it does not mean anything. Since we started dating she has not for one posted my pictures on her Whatsapp status but has posted that of her ex up to o three times.


The one that got me sad and made me threaten to dump her is that she posted a WhatsApp Status requesting that anyone who mention her Boy Friend's name will get a credit card rewards and most of her friends were mentioning her Ex's name and she was cool to post the screenshots of where they mentioned her ex's name. Know it that some of my friends are also her friend and they saw the status and they have been asking me if the girl is actually dating me or someone else.

Please Elders in the House what should I do. Should I quit this relationship or should I confront her and hear her out?. Please Mod move it to front page I beg You.

Increase the money you giving her bro,change her phone as well

Hahahaha....... You are just wasting your time. Work on yourself first- you need to be financial comfortable. When you are comfortable, they will be following you like bee.

If your boyfriend/girl friend keep posting his/her ex, it shows that he/she might have left you for good but just having you as an option till a better partner comes around.

All these infants doing boyfriend & girlfriend

ifex370:
They will finish you today... Lol...


But guy seriously.. Breakup with this girl na... Is it that you don't have options?

One thing everybody should always have in this life.. Boy or girl, are options... You must always have a second option..

Why? Because people are mad.

I don't need a second option before I will break up with someone who is using me as her side boyfriend. I don't need any fuckkking option.
If I was in the ops shoes I'll simply begin to take her my side chick because that's obviously what he is to her

Thank God she is ur ex

Alaigbopress:
Please Elders in the house I need a serious advice because I don't want to make mistake.

I met this girl about four months ago, I approached her and after some weeks we started dating. She told me that she broke up with ex boy friend last December because her parents were not in support of the marriage. She told me that she has nothing to do with the said boyfriend.

But recently I noticed that she still share the pictures of the ex boy friend on her Whatsapp status and even still use his pictures as her phone wall paper. I confronted her about that and she said it does not mean anything. Since we started dating she has not for one posted my pictures on her Whatsapp status but has posted that of her ex up to o three times.


The one that got me sad and made me threaten to dump her is that she posted a WhatsApp Status requesting that anyone who mention her Boy Friend's name will get a credit card rewards and most of her friends were mentioning her Ex's name and she was cool to post the screenshots of where they mentioned her ex's name. Know it that some of my friends are also her friend and they saw the status and they have been asking me if the girl is actually dating me or someone else.

Please Elders in the House what should I do. Should I quit this relationship or should I confront her and hear her out?. Please Mod move it to front page I beg You.

Your SIMPlyness is next to non.
I for like slap sense into ur brain.

Buje1987:
. I swear this NL relationships wahala and brouhaha has helped me a lot in my relationship life. I read a lot of reviews and comment. Omo I go don even dump her long ago or I go just dey have sex with her low key and have my own back up also. I don’t leave girls like that because I love having sex with them while I keep quiet and have a serious relationship behind them once I noticed anything fishy.

Nice one comrade, you are be certified oya take small award, u deserve am

Alaigbopress:
Please Elders in the house I need a serious advice because I don't want to make mistake.

I met this girl about four months ago, I approached her and after some weeks we started dating. She told me that she broke up with ex boy friend last December because her parents were not in support of the marriage. She told me that she has nothing to do with the said boyfriend.

But recently I noticed that she still share the pictures of the ex boy friend on her Whatsapp status and even still use his pictures as her phone wall paper. I confronted her about that and she said it does not mean anything. Since we started dating she has not for one posted my pictures on her Whatsapp status but has posted that of her ex up to o three times.


The one that got me sad and made me threaten to dump her is that she posted a WhatsApp Status requesting that anyone who mention her Boy Friend's name will get a credit card rewards and most of her friends were mentioning her Ex's name and she was cool to post the screenshots of where they mentioned her ex's name. Know it that some of my friends are also her friend and they saw the status and they have been asking me if the girl is actually dating me or someone else.

Please Elders in the House what should I do. Should I quit this relationship or should I confront her and hear her out?. Please Mod move it to front page I beg You.

. Olodo pro max.

My guy u be mumu

czarr:
Except you are giving her money that girl wouldn't even care that you dump her.

Don't dump her to get bk at her
Dump her for your peace of mind.

Exactly you said it all.

Alaigbopress:
Please Elders in the house I need a serious advice because I don't want to make mistake.

I met this girl about four months ago, I approached her and after some weeks we started dating. She told me that she broke up with ex boy friend last December because her parents were not in support of the marriage. She told me that she has nothing to do with the said boyfriend.

But recently I noticed that she still share the pictures of the ex boy friend on her Whatsapp status and even still use his pictures as her phone wall paper. I confronted her about that and she said it does not mean anything. Since we started dating she has not for one posted my pictures on her Whatsapp status but has posted that of her ex up to o three times.


The one that got me sad and made me threaten to dump her is that she posted a WhatsApp Status requesting that anyone who mention her Boy Friend's name will get a credit card rewards and most of her friends were mentioning her Ex's name and she was cool to post the screenshots of where they mentioned her ex's name. Know it that some of my friends are also her friend and they saw the status and they have been asking me if the girl is actually dating me or someone else.

Please Elders in the House what should I do. Should I quit this relationship or should I confront her and hear her out?. Please Mod move it to front page I beg You.

You can see the hand writing boldly written on the wall and you are here asking a SIMPle question as a SIMPle man that u are.

U no get sense. Better Bleep that pussy as u like and go find yourself another bitch.

One thing about Nigerians is that, they will never tell you their mind towards you, they will show you through their actions, unlike White people that are very straightforward and open about their mind towards their partners. If a White woman isn't interested in you, she will say it plainly unlike some Nigerian girls that will be using excuses which will throw you into confusion. Oga man, you need to be very watchful of that your so called girlfriend. However, I think 4 months is not enough for you to start making demand in a relationship about what someone post on their Whatsapp statuses. She clearly had her past before she met you, so it is no surprising if she is still entangled in some of those pasts.

The guy must have bleeped her brain off
Women are emotional
If u truely love her u just need to bear it
But I can tell u from experience even if u marry her
That guy can still Bleep her any time he wish
Unless you wine her heart or u Bleep better
No any amount of money u give her can bring her back
Money can't control women u people think but good sex and romance

Alaigbopress:
Please Elders in the house I need a serious advice because I don't want to make mistake.

I met this girl about four months ago, I approached her and after some weeks we started dating. She told me that she broke up with ex boy friend last December because her parents were not in support of the marriage. She told me that she has nothing to do with the said boyfriend.

But recently I noticed that she still share the pictures of the ex boy friend on her Whatsapp status and even still use his pictures as her phone wall paper. I confronted her about that and she said it does not mean anything. Since we started dating she has not for one posted my pictures on her Whatsapp status but has posted that of her ex up to o three times.


The one that got me sad and made me threaten to dump her is that she posted a WhatsApp Status requesting that anyone who mention her Boy Friend's name will get a credit card rewards and most of her friends were mentioning her Ex's name and she was cool to post the screenshots of where they mentioned her ex's name. Know it that some of my friends are also her friend and they saw the status and they have been asking me if the girl is actually dating me or someone else.

Please Elders in the House what should I do. Should I quit this relationship or should I confront her and hear her out?. Please Mod move it to front page I beg You.

Bro na you be the Ex here, in fact you don't even exist, she sets her friends up to be calling her by her boyfriends name and you're calling the guy her Ex, bro you're the Ex o, nor let anybody deceive you, disconnect yourself from that girl make HBP nor go kill you, she's love struck, she's hooked on that guy, that girl nor send you one bit, she use you hold her side pending when she will reconcile with the dude, they're back together so you're of no use, move on bro, avoid more embarrassment and heartache.

Dnt bring ur nonsense here pls.... Lov ur gf while she loves her ex, ur damn business

chatinent:
Comrade,

Abeg clear me this part...

Dem call their own dating marriage?






Comrade Most High, with due respect, how old is your stupidity?

The fool made up the story.

Sucre6:
Op, how old is this Simply simping attitude of yours?

See comrade lemme clear you, that girl is using you as a rebounce and she doesn't respect you one bit, lemme burst ya head, her supposed ex still bangs her on a daily, for her giving you the fairy tells of them.breaking up on the account that their parent isn't in support of their union is a bull crap, it never happened.

Op read this last part 10 times slowly repeatedly.

That girl don't love you and she sure doesn't respect you, she still fvcks her ex daily, each time she tell you "he's my ex what she actually meant is that he's her SEX. She's just keeping you as a back up plan should in case the ex gets tired fvcking her brains out and dumps her finally, swallow the pills and serve her breakfast, tell her to go fvck her self retain your little self worth if it is still remaining and move the hell on

Gotta quit advertising you simps, not that y'all even pay me to do such, y'all never learn

Facts.

To him whom brain is GIVEN, sense is expected!!! How girls like that h5et you guys hooked is nothing short of a mystery...


Kontinu...

Alaigbopress:
Please Elders in the house I need a serious advice because I don't want to make mistake.

I met this girl about four months ago, I approached her and after some weeks we started dating. She told me that she broke up with ex boy friend last December because her parents were not in support of the marriage. She told me that she has nothing to do with the said boyfriend.

But recently I noticed that she still share the pictures of the ex boy friend on her Whatsapp status and even still use his pictures as her phone wall paper. I confronted her about that and she said it does not mean anything. Since we started dating she has not for one posted my pictures on her Whatsapp status but has posted that of her ex up to o three times.


The one that got me sad and made me threaten to dump her is that she posted a WhatsApp Status requesting that anyone who mention her Boy Friend's name will get a credit card rewards and most of her friends were mentioning her Ex's name and she was cool to post the screenshots of where they mentioned her ex's name. Know it that some of my friends are also her friend and they saw the status and they have been asking me if the girl is actually dating me or someone else.

Please Elders in the House what should I do. Should I quit this relationship or should I confront her and hear her out?. Please Mod move it to front page I beg You.

By their fruits we shall know them

Alaigbopress:
Please Elders in the house I need a serious advice because I don't want to make mistake.

I met this girl about four months ago, I approached her and after some weeks we started dating. She told me that she broke up with ex boy friend last December because her parents were not in support of the marriage. She told me that she has nothing to do with the said boyfriend.

But recently I noticed that she still share the pictures of the ex boy friend on her Whatsapp status and even still use his pictures as her phone wall paper. I confronted her about that and she said it does not mean anything. Since we started dating she has not for one posted my pictures on her Whatsapp status but has posted that of her ex up to o three times.


The one that got me sad and made me threaten to dump her is that she posted a WhatsApp Status requesting that anyone who mention her Boy Friend's name will get a credit card rewards and most of her friends were mentioning her Ex's name and she was cool to post the screenshots of where they mentioned her ex's name. Know it that some of my friends are also her friend and they saw the status and they have been asking me if the girl is actually dating me or someone else.

Please Elders in the House what should I do. Should I quit this relationship or should I confront her and hear her out?. Please Mod move it to front page I beg You.

Op, please don't ever dump that babe. SIMPly trap here , tear her pussy with sex while looking for a real serious babe. Then rump her. Don't ever go far with such babe.

She dey miss the preek