EmzyT:
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Oh please get lost, who cares if you felt disgusted reading it or nah?

And as for your question of what is wrong in being friends with a lady? There's absolutely nothing wrong in being friends with a lady okay? But even you girls friendship isn't free, you must always find a way to bill the guy

I Love the Level of Self-worth the OP got for himself. “It's either we're dating or nothing” kinda mentality

Besides why being "Just friends" with a lady who turned you down? If you should grow the balls to ask a guy out and he goes to turn you down, would you stoop so low to being "Just friends" with him while seeing him cruising with other girls? Someone like you, out of jealousy might even poison or stab him to death in his sleep Who's ready to go through such emotional torture? Besides, I've had ladies who grew the balls to ask me out and I turned them down. Guess what? It resulted to keep Malice bitterness, hate, bad-mouthing me to people, but did I care? Hell nah

There are more than 1Billion people on this earth, so him rejecting her advances of being friends with her shouldn't be a big deal. She should go make friendship elsewhere

omotoshodontee1:
@OP,we surely cut from the same cloth,90%of male n female friendship is always parasitic..ur head dey there bro...

Sukkyy2010:


I support the act of being kind to people randomly without expecting payback and I support the Op for Declined acquaintance with the lady due to the fact that op is emotionally attracted to the lady and it won't be emotionally healthy to keep such acquaintance. Since the lady has nothing to do with Op( and she knew op is emotionally attracted to her) then best she could have done is to avoid op in order to help his emotional State.

Opeyemic01:


I like the way you write and if you ask, you did not do well only, but you also did very very well in the way you handled her. Her case is a case of wanting to eat your cake still want to have it. It can never possible. Ignore those bashing you, they can go and help who turn them down, it's their choice

bluefilm:


Congrats, man.

You're doing well.

You are on the right path.

The Red Pill is really working wonders in your psyche.

Don't ever let any bitch sink her fangs into you.

They are not worth it all.

Looter100:
Bro never answer anyone telling you why are you saying it here that you're pained or anything,it's normal to put up things related to this section if not nothing would be interesting and less to learn.nice topic brr❤️❤️❤️

Demigod22:



Standing Ovation to the living orator. I have been searching for your comment or opinion, I was already feeling bad not seeing your comment until I sighted this. You too good bro.

EmzyT:


Lmao do you know me bro? I'm just curious. I barely make comments on this forum.

Ijoh:


Even me too know you sir.
The Boss

Demigod22:
I met a Muslim lady in my final year, she was in her penultimate year. I was having reckless sex with plenty girls so my guys prevailed on me to at least get a girlfriend.

I started asking this girl out towards the end of the first semester till we resume for second semester. She turned down my proposal, she said she promised herself not to go into relationship throughout her school years, unless I will wait for her to graduate before she can consider anything. I told her the waiting is not necessary, I will meet other people and my life is not pause.

I moved on and after my final exam I return to Abuja while she is in her final year. She started calling to seek advice on how to go about her I.T program, I consider it harmless so I gave her the advice. When she was done with her I.T I expected her to stop calling but she won't stop.

She calls and even complained that I don't call. She requested three project topics from me, I sent it to her. Then one evening she chatted me up and we had an argument because I told her I am not religious and she wants to enforce religion on me. After the argument she informed me that she lost the topics I sent earlier that I should resend it which I ignored. Since then if she is calling I don't answer nor reply her messages.

She called me the last time and I told her bluntly that since we didn't date while I was in school, we can't date again, I don't do distance relationship. And then I don't want us to be friends either because it's not good for my emotional health. She was hurt but I was happy.

Most girls will turn you down and they still have the confidence to seek your help, asking for favour, believing you will be simping for them.

I grew up with abundance mentality, I don't beg for relationship, I ask. I didn't bring this story here to bash the ladies but to just engage you guys why a girl will think she can get favour from whom she turned down.

My female friends think I am blunt and don't consider people's feeling when I am doing or saying something especially towards women.

Ijoh:


Even me too know you sir.
The Boss

EmzyT:
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I don't know for anyone else but for you, I'm wealthier compared to yourself You just displayed your poverty mentality so I do not need a prophet to tell me that. I'm sure you're one of those miserable fools who troll celebrities on social media for no just reason simply because they post every of their lifestyle online or brag about their assets Go get a life you miserable old man

And lest I forget. YES, I'm a Yahoo boy! Atleast being called a Yahoo boy because you look young and wealthy And on dread is better than being a Poverty stricken sad little-man on Low cut. Sooo? What's next?

Karleb:


Please stop thinking like this.

The help she's trying to get from him is what she could get elsewhere but the girl prefers to do so from him because she's enjoying it. You don't want to know how much women enjoy attention.

If she couldn't help the young man by breaking her promise to date him why should she expect him to be her bestie when he has his own standards too.

Imagine complaining someone who isn't your partner doesn't call you? No be juju be that?

EmzyT:


Lmao do you know me bro? I'm just curious. I barely make comments on this forum.

SarutobiEky:
easy nau, brother. Take am.easy.. this hard tackle rough for the babe nau. By the way, I get desire to start coding.. Abeg we fit communicate bro?

seanwilliam:


If you die tomorrow, na sense kill you..

Help2020:

She told you she promise herself not to date why schooling, not as if she turned years u down for another guy,. Op tell me what she did wrong that warrant your hustle attitude towards her?
You don't deserve the girl,shame on you..

justscorchone:


There's nothing next my guy just deal with your pain. [\quote]

Pain? Mumu, the way y'all rush to tell someone he/she is pained on this forum as if the person is being held responsible it being debited for your you guys stupidity is something else


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And enjoy daddy money while it last.

Demigod22:


LoL, most times, on few occasions you drop comment on this forum, you always have a way of dropping intelligent and funny comment, so I always look forward to seeing your comment.

EmzyT:



You wan learn coding and decoding? I laugh you bro you get the patience and perseverance? I know what it took me to be where I am today, all thanks to my cousin who'd be in his Mid-late 30s Right now (now in US) And honestly speaking, teaching someone programming without the person being presently present is never easy!

I'll advice you; if you're really serious about learning coding and decoding, then try as much as possible to enroll yourself in a nearby cafe or centre where a tutor teach those stuffs. It's like a lesson class and don't forget it would require alot of money and effort (Programming is like a woman, if you don't give it the necessary attentions it needs, you'll never be able to know what you're doing there

YouTube is a very powerful tool too for understanding more about it. You can make some research on YouTube and watch some Random Videos too. It'd help you alot.

Good luck.

Demigod22:
I met a Muslim lady in my final year, she was in her penultimate year. I was having reckless sex with plenty girls so my guys prevailed on me to at least get a girlfriend.

I started asking this girl out towards the end of the first semester till we resume for second semester. She turned down my proposal, she said she promised herself not to go into relationship throughout her school years, unless I will wait for her to graduate before she can consider anything. I told her the waiting is not necessary, I will meet other people and my life is not pause.

I moved on and after my final exam I return to Abuja while she is in her final year. She started calling to seek advice on how to go about her I.T program, I consider it harmless so I gave her the advice. When she was done with her I.T I expected her to stop calling but she won't stop.

She calls and even complained that I don't call. She requested three project topics from me, I sent it to her. Then one evening she chatted me up and we had an argument because I told her I am not religious and she wants to enforce religion on me. After the argument she informed me that she lost the topics I sent earlier that I should resend it which I ignored. Since then if she is calling I don't answer nor reply her messages.

She called me the last time and I told her bluntly that since we didn't date while I was in school, we can't date again, I don't do distance relationship. And then I don't want us to be friends either because it's not good for my emotional health. She was hurt but I was happy.

Most girls will turn you down and they still have the confidence to seek your help, asking for favour, believing you will be simping for them.

I grew up with abundance mentality, I don't beg for relationship, I ask. I didn't bring this story here to bash the ladies but to just engage you guys why a girl will think she can get favour from whom she turned down.

My female friends think I am blunt and don't consider people's feeling when I am doing or saying something especially towards women.

Demigod22:


I sighted an intelligent man, his name is Karleb. You are on point bro.

Demigod22:


While chatting with her that evening, she wasn't comfortable with my free attitude to life. I told her that I am not religious. I prioritize humanity not any imaginary fantasy figure. And she said everything possible for me to retract my words or opinion. She insisted that I should worship God. We had huge disagreement over the religion issue.

Demigod22:
I met a Muslim lady in my final year, she was in her penultimate year. I was having reckless sex with plenty girls so my guys prevailed on me to at least get a girlfriend.

I started asking this girl out towards the end of the first semester till we resume for second semester. She turned down my proposal, she said she promised herself not to go into relationship throughout her school years, unless I will wait for her to graduate before she can consider anything. I told her the waiting is not necessary, I will meet other people and my life is not pause.

I moved on and after my final exam I return to Abuja while she is in her final year. She started calling to seek advice on how to go about her I.T program, I consider it harmless so I gave her the advice. When she was done with her I.T I expected her to stop calling but she won't stop.

She calls and even complained that I don't call. She requested three project topics from me, I sent it to her. Then one evening she chatted me up and we had an argument because I told her I am not religious and she wants to enforce religion on me. After the argument she informed me that she lost the topics I sent earlier that I should resend it which I ignored. Since then if she is calling I don't answer nor reply her messages.

She called me the last time and I told her bluntly that since we didn't date while I was in school, we can't date again, I don't do distance relationship. And then I don't want us to be friends either because it's not good for my emotional health. She was hurt but I was happy.

Most girls will turn you down and they still have the confidence to seek your help, asking for favour, believing you will be simping for them.

I grew up with abundance mentality, I don't beg for relationship, I ask. I didn't bring this story here to bash the ladies but to just engage you guys why a girl will think she can get favour from whom she turned down.

My female friends think I am blunt and don't consider people's feeling when I am doing or saying something especially towards women.

AishaDant:
Op, you are a complete child!

I am disgusted reading this.

Why do most Nigerian men always want something?

What is wrong with just being friends with a female? Smh!

Demigod22:


Thank God we still have few reasonable people like you on this forum, unlike the dimwits supporting their manipulative, gaslighting fellow.

AishaDant:
Op, you are a complete child!

I am disgusted reading this.

Why do most Nigerian men always want something?

What is wrong with just being friends with a female? Smh!

Karleb:


Please stop thinking like this.

The help she's trying to get from him is what she could get elsewhere but the girl prefers to do so from him because she's enjoying it. You don't want to know how much women enjoy attention.

If she couldn't help the young man by breaking her promise to date him why should she expect him to be her bestie when he has his own standards too.

Imagine complaining someone who isn't your partner doesn't call you? No be juju be that?