IsellSmartTvs:
If pesin don see video of V
Does it mean he neva see d gal unclothedness

cowboyvs:


I appreciate the humour but not a joking matter bro.

cowboyvs:


I never considered her a public hole. We are talking about a woman I was considering setting down wit.

cowboyvs:


We all have certain milestones we’ve set for ourselves. I dnt wanna marry late. I feel time is already ticking and I wanna settle down. Period.

falcon01:
Bruh let me tell you something, no body is perfect but some things you just can't look away. Personally I wouldn't want to be with her, I wouldn't be with her but since you forgave her after the first cheating (having sex with someone else) means you have no problem with that type of person. I'll advice you based on the type of person you are. The fact that you saw her telling guys she's in a serious relationship means she's either lying incase you read the text or she actually loves you, but its stùpid for her to send that video. Call her sit her down ask her what's her problem? Why does she do what she does? Is it for money? Is she a nymphomaniac? Is it a psychological issue? Can she control herself? Let it be some sort of agreement tell her you don't want to be with someone like that, can she change? Giver her one more chance, Tell her to cut off every guy she's with except for serious friend with no strings attached and family, desist from her degrading and disrespectful lifestyle. Make sure she agrees she's willing to change and tell her anything that happens due to her not changing is definitely her fault, then continue with her don't like nose into her, don't check what she does give her like 3 months then unexpectedly collect her phone and check. If you see anything bruh leave her and run she ain't never gonna change ever except if you are willing to stay with a good LovePeddler. Tell her to limit her social media activities, keep her occupied if she always have time. If it was I I'm throwing her out the moment u saw the first message by the guy but for you base in who you are give her one more chance. Make an agreement then put eyes on her don't be suspicious don't act suspicious don't check her phone just be free with her, after 2 to 3 months collect her phone check it. If chats are deleted, red flags, if she's still doing her stuff kick her out and run, never turn back.

Phew!! That was longer than I expected.

cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent. So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids. So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely. But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp. There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them. So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired. Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

ZirdoRoray:

Only a simp will take back a woman who has cheated on him. See bros, the love can never be the same again. He is scared that he won't find another woman, there are better women out there. The issue is men refuse to exercise their options as they are polygamous in nature. Women have understood this that is why they cheat liberally, look it takes two to cheat. Why is it that we have more infidelity than loyalty going on in the world, because that is how the world works. If the OP was also exercising his option, he won't feel this bad. The lady loves him dearly that is why she cares for him but that doesn't mean she can't sleep outside. It is only fun. Love and loyalty are not the same thing, that is why we have polygamous and open marriages. You can love someone and still have other options. Guilt feelings have been attached to infidelity which is not supposed to be so. Man search deep down within you whether you won't have fun with other ladies from time to time but won't give your wife your all. Sex is not love, she is not emotionally attached to the man, she is only sexually attracted to him. She is emotionally attached to you, so she can't leave you. The issue is respect and reputation is more important for men than women. If you want a woman who will be sexually attracted to other men from time to time then continue with her but also do your thing. Believe me you can't catch her again. She is polygamous by nature if not, nothing on earth will make her do this. Either you accept the fact her loyalty will always be questionable an move along or you leave the relationship. The only thing is she will get it outside but you will always be there number one. Ladies mature faster than men because they become sexually active earlier and therefore understand the way life works.

cowboyvs:


I loved this girl so much but with this last action I feel she has finally crossed the rubicon.

IamDora:



Lol, did I just read where u said u are not getting any younger and really want to settle down? are u a lady? u re funny dear

Listen, men marry when they want okay? We ladies are the ones that marry who is ready, so u better calm down and have a rethink, marriage is not something u rush into.

Michelle55:
You better focus on yourself and leave that girl, she's in the whoring stage and there's nothing you say or do now that would deter her from getting dicked by others.
On the other hand, you can decide to be a gentleman and accept her back, the choice is yours bro.

cupidhero:


This whoring stage you speak of is actually real?

The thing use style funny. So person go just wake up and decide to be having sex like animal and think it is normal. Na wa.

cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent. So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids. So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely. But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp. There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them. So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired. Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

SaiRuiMall:

Wisdom

cowboyvs:


This girl behaves more matured than even some 30-yr olds that I have dated in the past. She doesn’t nag, doesn’t give me headache, is not quick to anger and so many other good features. Reason why this is a difficult one for me.

cowboyvs:


English is not our mother tongue. As I said earlier, she is Edo and I am Igbo. Besides, she is a brilliant girl. I am jst disappointed with her whori*h tendencies. I know nobody is perfect but I can’t live with a cheating partner. I can’t tolerate that.

cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent. So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids. So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely. But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp. There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them. So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired. Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.