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I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

This is unacceptable but move on with your life, a better person will come

Be more observant next time, don't ignore some signs

You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tears, next time go for Money not Love

Omo, last last you go dey alright.

Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tear,

Aren't you broke?!

God1000:
This is unacceptable but move on with your life, a better person will come

Be more observant next time, don't ignore some signs

Guyy, everybody go chop breakfast. There is nothing like been observant. Everyone looks so good and perfect until things just change quickly and heart break comes.

Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tear, next time go for Money not Love

He was perfect till we graduated, money was not the bane of the relationship because we were both students most time we knew so we were both broke.

Come, I'll give you a shoulder to lean on.

All I can say dear is "know your worth " make sure your worth can attract men of worth and in 2yrs time you will laugh at the heartbreak you are having now.

Gracelander:
He was perfect till we graduated, money was not the bane of the relationship because we were both students most time we knew so we were both broke.

What do you know about a guy being perfect??
He was perfect n yet he still dumb you for another lady, don't give all your heart to a Nigerian guy, don't suffer or struggle with him, they are not worth the sacrifice my dear, they are all Useless

Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tear, next time go for Money not Love

bad advice

Omo..which kind wahala be this? Folks just dey chop breakfast left right center. Wtf.


Op..you are gonna be okay...chin up. Another man who knows your worth will find you.

Onyi22:
What do you about a guy being perfect??
He was perfect n yet he still dumb you for another lady, don't give all your heart to a Nigeria guy, don't suffer or struggle with him, they are not worth the sacrifice my dear, they are all Useless

jus look at! na person born this she goat o

OnlineArchitect:
Come, I'll give you a shoulder to lean on.

and a preek to cry on �

OnlineArchitect:
Come, I'll give you a shoulder to lean on.

and a preek to cry on

Such is life grace... I went tru your previous post were you said he was still job hunting . Does he now have a good job? You said you suffered together with him... Well, one way or the other we have all suffered heartbreaks and that is why i don't do relationships no more.. You have to try to move on, it's not gonna be easy, delete every memory of him, numbers, things that make you remember him.. Time is of the essence here. Time will heal you.I just cannot say for how long. Be strong!

Jack005:
Such is life grace... I went tru your previous post were you said he was still job hunting . Does he now have a good job? You said you suffered together with him... Well, one way or the other we have all suffered heartbreaks and that is why i don't do relationships no more.. You have to try to move on, it's not gonna be easy, deleted every memory of him, numbers, things that make you remember him.. Time is of the essence here. Time will heal you.I just cannot say for how long. Be strong!

Thanks for your kind words, he's doing some stuffs online though it pays less than 40k monthly

Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tear, next time go for Money not Love

Gracelander please don't listen to this werey.

Because nemesis must surely catch people like her one day.

I'm so sorry for the fate you found yourself into dear.

But I do advice that the best thing you should do is just move on

Hold yourself. Be energetic ....and surely a good tide will still come to your side.

Goodluck dearie

Ihate reading things like this
Very annoying
What y'all seeing in this gender
Falling inlove with cursed beings try
This gender can only bring pains

Candidlady:
Ihate reading things like this
Very annoying
What y'all seeing in this gender
Falling inlove with cursed beings try
This gender can only bring pains

If I should loose a Krakatoic cold straws on you on your flops against men always.
Your ever degrading words against men, i don't think you will like it.


For damn sake you are indirectly cursing your cute father. He deserves better

Hmmm, all diz Fictional heartbreaks tales. Or We are now having Female Simps too

How do we call this lady?
If it was my gender that got this heartbreak, Nairaland redpillers will tag the hell SIMP

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

I read your post, I feel very sorry for you that i cried..
I had similar experience but i am a guy..
Loyalty is the hardest thing to find on earth..
To me it's worth more than love..
Can i contact you?

Onyi22:
You r crying over a broke Nigeria guy who is not worth your tear, next time go for Money not Love

Many had gone for money and no more.

OP, mine and other encouraging words may not be enough but know that your sacrifice will not vanish as God will compensate you with your dream husband, career, home, finance, children and every other good things your heart desires.

Please stay strong

Serenitys:
I read your post, I feel very sorry for you that i cried.. I had similar experience but i am a guy.. Loyalty is the hardest thing to find on earth.. To me it's worth more than love.. Can i contact you?

You wan replace the guy sharp sharp

Tokskob2008:
You wan replace the guy sharp sharp

Nope, she is in love and fighting to let go..
Jumping into Love or relationship will not heal the broken part.
She needs to heal, same with me.

Tokskob2008:
You wan replace the guy sharp sharp

Sometimes, two hurting hearts have a way of mending one another.

Gracelander:
I never knew this is what heart break feels like, I'm shattered and broken.

I started dating him from 100 level till we graduated, it's been five years now. We suffered and passed through a lot together, I made a lot of sacrifices for him and even had two painful abortions for him.

But he always complained that I got fat and he liked slim girls, he broke up with me in the most excruciating manner. I noticed changes a few months back but he kept lying to me not knowing he was seeing another girl.

The girl chatted me up few days back to know her stand and I told her everything, he even posted pictures he had with the girl, this is someone that hates pictures and hardly takes one with me regardless of how much I beg. He doesn't even post his own pictures but he's already posting the girls pictures.

The girl is his spec and more attractive than me... I'm just ashamed of myself. The girl decided to stick with him even after everything I told her so she could leave him including the abortion part.

I've wished him well but I'm in serious pain, I've been crying for days now and unable to eat. I gave him everything, he was my first ever guy. I wish he could come back, I'm ready to forgive him.

How can move on from this heart break, it's killing me slowly.

get back on your feet, dust yourself up and move on with your life....no worries, some other dude will like you just the way you are.

Move on. Guys have experienced worse and stop saying you stayed by him, did you help him financially? Your abortion you weren't forced do stop saying you committed abortion for him.