| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Nobody: 10:58am On May 31, 2022 |
Emaprince:
Your last line caught me, man. I can't even imagine that.
My personal experience. I once met a girl online and after weeks and much chats, she visited me. She looked so much like my elder bro wife. I had goose pimples all over myself. She came and I was so cold..with so much running through my mind. She found out I wasn't excited cos the energy I was giving off wasn't romantic in any way again. I told her the truth and showed her pic of my bro wife. Bottom line, I didn't go far with her as I know I can't get an erection for her. She left, I blocked her everywhere and deleted her number. So when I hear about people having amorous affair with their inlaws, I wonder how.
As for this topic.. I have always said it here that when you see women crying, praying and fasting for a husband, one would think that any man getting married to them will be lucky. But the opposite is usually the case. They will come and destroy his relationship with friends and families...and also cheat on him. Some will go as far as getting pregnant outside her marriage and the pin the bastard on the man. Women have made marriage to look like a health risk for men. Thats why men are scared of committing to it..while women are desperate for it. You are calling a child a woman carried for 9 months a bastard? God help you like seriously. Don't be surprised you might be a bastard nna m. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by BleedTears: 11:00am On May 31, 2022 |
DamnnNiggarr:
My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.
My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.
It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success.
It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.
I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.
please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective.
please save my family.
*Modified*
Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama,
She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.
Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family.
Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.
If you're very sure you are not sleeping with your brothers as she said. Such accusation is not what you're supposed to take likely, you suppose to send her packing with immediate effect. On that vain that you're not sleeping with your brothers wife, tell your brother that I said you and him are very foolish to allow 2 total strangers to come in between both of you. Yes your wife is a stranger, you people are just trying to bond. She is not your relatives or your blood. What brought both of you together is the union called marriage. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Nobody: 11:00am On May 31, 2022 |
Obakovicho:
Summon your wife to ahoada shrine in rivers state to proof her accusations, if she is lieing she'll go mad and die which will wipe out her family or she appeases you by announcing that she wrongfully accused you It's the man that needs to be summoned and not the wife. The OP cheated and the wife has every right to be angry. Let him seek for someone the both women respect for counseling. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by whodeyhere: 11:01am On May 31, 2022 |
glory008:
My advice is let your younger brother act like is dieing than he should tell the wife to call you and your wife to come, your brother will now tell the 2 women to make peace among themselves and let him faint at the process
You will now tell them to make peace while you form like you are taking him to the hospital and lock the 2 women in the house
Until they make peace don't open the door for them
Mean while the children should be with your sister or their grandparents Hey Glory!!!, this is tooo funny.. I don't know why. sounds like something nollywood people can do. Perhaps it might work though. |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Pootle: 11:03am On May 31, 2022 |
why u sef too close to ur brother wife...i keep my distance with women very far except my mum 2 Likes |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Deivid10(m): 11:03am On May 31, 2022 |
Bro. Just get your wife to apologize to your brother for such comment..... If you can't stand your ground on what is right in your home stop crying foul....
Na your wife cos problem..... So no pretence, ensure u get her to fix it..... Or
Kiss the relationship you have with ur sibling and family Goodbye.
She wanted to distroy their family.... She failed... Him accepting you without u being remorseful.... Is like giving u guys room to strike again.
Be Serious! |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by JesusIsAMuslim: 11:05am On May 31, 2022 |
Why on earth will you be closed to your brother's wife to the point of raising doubts in their mind of your woman. You are the senseless and selfish one, here. Love your brother and his kids deeply, appreciate the good thing your brother's wife is doing from a distant. How should that be too much for you to do? Your brother's wife is not your friend, even if she was originally before their wedding, you need to stop being friends for the sake of your family.
I love my brothers so much but I don't want to have any relationship with their women whatsoever. Their kids take all of my interest. And I'm totally uninterested in what my brothers relationship with their partners is like. I expect my siblings do that for me in return. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by JovialJune(f): 11:09am On May 31, 2022 |
MaskSubzero:
this is the kind of comment I was looking out for.
OP kindly ignore those two jobless attention seeking idiots by moniker acidbath and jovialjune.
it's obvious they both have a failed marriage.
they won't address nor bring solutions or advices, rather they'll heap blame on you.
cursed lots Wayray Alaso 4 Likes |
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| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by ngwababe(f): 11:10am On May 31, 2022 |
But did you do anything with your brother's wife? If no, that means you didn't stand as a man to rebuke your wife when she uttered those evil allegations, na wetin make your brother dey change. 1 Like |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by adisabarber(m): 11:14am On May 31, 2022 |
If your wife openly accused you of sleeping with your brother's wife and you are sure it is not true then send her packing. DamnnNiggarr:
My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.
My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.
It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success.
It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.
I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.
please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective.
please save my family.
*Modified*
Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama,
She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.
Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family.
Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.
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| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Acidbath: 11:17am On May 31, 2022 |
MaskSubzero:
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| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Collins4u1(m): 11:20am On May 31, 2022 |
Wives scattering families since 1700BC |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Acidbath: 11:21am On May 31, 2022 |
DamnnNiggarr:
*Modified*
Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama,
She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.
Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family.
Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.
Back this up with the truth. You are still lying. Your brother found out something about his wife and started tying loose ends. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Bigpapi1: 11:24am On May 31, 2022 |
Terrible women everywhere
We wey no get wife get peace of mind |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Nobody: 11:29am On May 31, 2022 |
almarthins:
Wetin u dey talk?
Person no fit be friend to his brother's wife again. Me I was friend to my brother's wife o!
Na the woman get problem not the man. If d man na womanizer she go get mouth and mind to dey do any how?
both the woman and the man are at fault, women are the cause of 60% home breakages 1 Like |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by SirZeek(m): 11:29am On May 31, 2022 |
For me, its the way you're trying to twist the narrative to look like the victim. It should've been "your wife is accusing you of sleeping with your brother's wife" If you're really innocent, then DO IT   2 Likes |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by bullabong(m): 11:31am On May 31, 2022 |
DamnnNiggarr:
My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.
My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.
It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success.
It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.
I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.
please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective.
please save my family.
*Modified*
Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama,
She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.
Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family.
Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.
From your story I think you actually slept with your brothers wife,that is why the problem lingers. You messed up!! 1 Like |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by alizma: 11:32am On May 31, 2022 |
DamnnNiggarr:
My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.
My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.
It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success.
It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.
I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.
please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective.
please save my family.
*Modified*
Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama,
She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.
Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family.
Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.
The truth is that you guys are never getting back together again. embrace this and manage the little respect and relationship you still have each other. You want to know why? 1) your wife was not comfortable with the closeness and I believe she told you about it but you tried to wave it aside then she took her last shot. 2) the other lady like she said will never see your wife as a family because she has seen someone who wants to break her home not for something she did but a complete lie 3) your wife is very much comfortable with the way things are now. You are the only person complaining, she is not. 4) once trust is broken, it remains broken. The only person that can change the whole thing is the same person that started but be rest assured that such open confession that she lied against her co wife will not happened and even if it happens, no one in the family will see her as someone to trust again. So accept what happened as it is and move on. Love your wife, your brother and his family and move on like nothing happened. Things may naturally reverse back but trying to make it work by human efforts will make things worst. 1 Like |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by MansoryMX(m): 11:37am On May 31, 2022 |
DamnnNiggarr:
My entire family which includes my brothers' wives and their kids and my sisters' families was once a peaceful and an enviable large family but right now, the devil wants to destroy the family through our wives.
My wife and my younger brother's wife who were once greatest friends are now mortal enemies, they don't talk nor regard themselves as humans, this enmity has lingered for long despite me and my brother's efforts and that of my entire family, both extended, to resolve the issues between them, over the years but all to no avail.
It becomes worse by the day as we have tried everything humanly possible that is within our reach to quell the situation, but no success.
It is that bad that as I'm typing this, their enmity is starting to effect me and my brother's relationship, as my younger brother no longer calls nor chats me as he normally does. Even if I called nor chatted him, he won't pick up and neither the missed calls nor the chats would be returned.
I want to try something different, a totally different approach in tackling the situation, that's why I brought it here. I don't want anything to come in between me and my brother nor my family. I don't want anything to happen to neither my brother's wife nor my wife because the heart of man is evil, that's why I'm seeking for a resolution to the ugly situation.
please all your opinions will help a great deal in approaching it from a different perspective.
please save my family.
*Modified*
Obim, My wife is actually the cause of the whole drama,
She accused my brother's wife of having extramarital affair with me due to how close I was with her as a result of the love they(my wife and her) had for each other. It lead to a very heated quarrelling and the lady vowed never to forgive my wife in her life time and my wife whole heartedly accepted the conquest. Obim said if that will keep her away from me that it's a welcome development.
Now, how it's affecting my family is that my kids no longer go on vacation to their place likewise their kids no longer come over to my house during vacation and many more troubles it has caused my entire family.
Initially, My brother understood that it was one of the wahalas associated with women but I'm surprised and confused about his recent change in attitude.
Them nor dey put mouth for family affairs. Make una go settle una matters una selves with family elders or suffer am una selves. Nothing to advise you o |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by djembapat(m): 11:41am On May 31, 2022 |
I remember back in the days, my neighbour and i were so close that after work we hanged out together. Guys stuff. Drink beer, watch football match. Later i noticed my neighbour changed towards me, so i have to approach him when he no longer picks my call. He told me his wife said i press her yansh and i have been trying to sleep with her. I was like WTF. Since then i dey fear woman ooo. Months later she came to apologize but me i don lock up for them ooo. I no want wahala. |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Charly68: 11:41am On May 31, 2022 |
The accusation is too grievous and sickening, you have tolerated the woman too much.. send her to her father's home for now at least for you to have your sanity .. there are things you should least be bothering yourself about in marriage.. since she has chosen to bring trouble into your life through her sense of suspicion and insecurity .. let her give you leave of absence for now.. you and your brother will sort things out with time. Time heals .. |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Lazenby007(m): 11:42am On May 31, 2022 |
You and your brother should bring the two of them out and flog the tonto out of them. And give them two weeks to reconcile or else they go to their father's houses.
No be every matter dialogue dey solve o. Some like this one na iron hand- FLOG DEM!.
But I go ask you one question: Did you truly sleep with your brother's wife? Because if you did,no action taken go work for you o. |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by drlateef: 11:42am On May 31, 2022 |
You should call family meeting excluding the wives. You and your brother should resolve never to be separated by your wives. You should swear by shango, Ogun, obatala, amadioha, Jesus and anything you worship that you never had anything to do with his wife. After that the family should resolve and stand by it, that both of you should talk to your wives, that you are convinced there’s nothing going on in terms of infidelity, and that the two women must reconcile their differences or else, or else both of them must be divorced so as not to divide your family. Insist on divorce within 7 days unless they reconcile.
That will do the magic when they see that you are both serious. |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by MadamOk(f): 11:43am On May 31, 2022 |
My broda in family we will surely have issues, fight, disagreement and so
If you really want your family to be united again, call your brother and his wife apologize for everything either you and your wife his wrong or not, ask her to apologise too
You all should embrace love, peace and harmony.
And lastly tell your wife to mind her mouth shon shon should stop in between her co-wife
She should learn to breddle her mouth 1 Like |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by gigabyte13: 11:48am On May 31, 2022 |
Fear that gender...
Wether you do am or not, someone is deceiving someone...
Make una no allow those foreign being called wives scatter una oooooo.
It is very very important, because if yawa gas now, dem go waka go where they came from. E go remain una with una shattered , battered and scattered family. |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Ekugbeh(m): 11:48am On May 31, 2022 |
She accused you of an extramarital affair with your sister-in-law. Ask her for prof, if she can't, then she either go and make amends or divorce. |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by MrCuteking(m): 11:50am On May 31, 2022 |
Richy4:
If I was to be in your shoes,
<<I will try every thing I could to ask my brother to meet me on a neutral ground...
<< On that day, I will ask him to tell me exactly what the wife said was the problem...
<< I will also tell him what my wife told me was her grievances....
<< I will take him to memory lane on how we were before we got married and how our parent played major role to unit us together as one..
<<I will beg him not to let us fight because of the women that we married no matter what..
<<Next week, I will suggest we go to an amusement park with our kids without the wives...None of them should be present...
<< Let them keep on fighting but as for me and my brother and their kids we will not...I won't want anyone to destroy the peace and harmony our parents instill in us while growing up as kids..
<<That's what I will do buddy...But both of you can't achieve this if they were the ones wearing the bigger trouser...No disrespect... Thread closing comment. Coming from a real man. 1 Like |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by tonididdy(m): 11:53am On May 31, 2022 |
Do these women in question have jobs?  |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by Ndidi2: 11:54am On May 31, 2022 |
Charly68:
The accusation is too grievous and sickening, you have tolerated the woman too much.. send her to her father's home for now at least for you to have your sanity .. there are things you should least be bothering yourself about in marriage.. since she has chosen to bring trouble into your life through her sense of suspicion and insecurity .. let her give you leave of absence for now.. you and your brother will sort things out with time. Time heals .. Are u kidding here? You really think if he is innocent he will be seeking for advice here? If l am wrongly accused of such nonsense hell will let loose... Inukwa.. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by luckydion(m): 11:58am On May 31, 2022 |
Tell Us the truth. Everything both the problem and the solution is in your hand.
First, Prove to your wife u didn't do it, i.e. you are innocent of the accusation.
secondly, After you have settled with your wife and she is at peace with you Move on to your Brother and prove yourself innocent,
Thirdly, apologies to your brother sincerely
fourthly, Move to your family member and appeal for peace.
conclusion:
note: in all these movements, your wife must play along with you for peace.
because you can't settle with them without settling first with your wife and wife be at peace with them
good Luck! |
| Re: My Family Is At The Verge Of Destruction by MaskSubzero: 11:58am On May 31, 2022 |
Acidbath:
drug addict spotted.
locate the nearest rehab soon |
