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Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Classickj(m): 11:49am On Jun 04, 2022
A Ugandan female marriage counselor has told women to avoid giving their husbands money.

The Ugandan counselor identified as Zaituni Kakyama, said in a TV interview that even if a woman can afford to help her partner
financially, she should not do so. W.T. H
According to her, God made women to have a desire for more than they need, particularly clothing and shoes, so that men are driven to
work continually and not become lazy.

Kakyama added that men should let women spend their money so it can make them work harder for more. She also urged women to put
their egos aside and remain committed and polite to their spouses, no matter how successful they are.

She said;
“Whether she gets more money than he does, he has to take care of his wife and family as a head.
“I don’t give my man money because when I do, that leads to his destruction when he gets into the comfort zone of being given.
“You find women from such marriages saying their men don’t love them.
Remember how you convinced that woman to marry you, small things matter.”


https://newswirengr.com/2022/06/03/giving-your-husband-money-will-make-him-lazy-marriage-counselor-tells-women/

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by virginprincess(f): 11:54am On Jun 04, 2022
cheesy cheesy,funny but true, why should a hardworking and sensible man collects money from his woman,only lazy and shameless men would do such,women should also learn to respect and value hardworking men like she said.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Holluwhakemmy(f): 12:00pm On Jun 04, 2022
We are help mate nothing bad if we help each other financially.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Nobody: 12:31pm On Jun 04, 2022
so you cant help him when he hisin need why call him your man

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Kollins11: 12:32pm On Jun 04, 2022
My advice for every men round the world reading my comment right now.

Please do not borrow or dash any woman your money... If eventually you wanna help her with your hard earned money pls don't hesitate to fvck her like a beast before offering financial help... Fvck her as if rapture is about to take place tomorrow.

These creatures that bleeds in between their legs every month are nothing but parasites.. Don't give them free money. Make sure they work (fvck) for it before giving them your money.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Classickj(m): 2:20pm On Jun 04, 2022
Holluwhakemmy:
We are help meet nothing bad if we help each other financially.
God bless you

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Holluwhakemmy(f): 2:21pm On Jun 04, 2022
Classickj:

God bless you
Amen

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Classickj(m): 2:24pm On Jun 04, 2022
virginprincess:
cheesy cheesy,funny but true, why should a hardworking and sensible man collects money from his woman,only lazy and shameless men would do such,women should also learn to respect and value hardworking men like she said.
So ur bf or hubby is shameless, for asking a little Favor from u

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Ballzproblemm: 2:24pm On Jun 04, 2022
then giving a woman money will make her what. , you see how this gender think sometimes, avoid African women

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Classickj(m): 2:25pm On Jun 04, 2022
Kollins11:
My advice for every men round the world reading my comment right now.

Please do not borrow or dash any woman your money... If eventually you wanna help her with your hard earned money pls don't hesitate to fvck her like a beast before offering financial help... Fvck her as if rapture is about to take place tomorrow.

These creatures that bleeds in between their legs every month are nothing but parasites.. Don't give them free money. Make sure they work (fvck) for it before giving them your money.

cool cool cool cool smiley

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by virginprincess(f): 2:30pm On Jun 04, 2022
Classickj:

So ur bf or hubby is shameless, for asking a little Favor from u
Stop acting like you don't know what the lady is talking about.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Truvelisback(m): 3:35pm On Jun 04, 2022
So giving ur woman money won't make her Lazy. Na Craze dey worry dis one.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Jman06(m): 3:55pm On Jun 04, 2022
This is why NO wise man should spend his hard earned money on a woman (except his mum and sisters). In relationship and marriage, women add no value to their men!
The mindset of an average lady in relationships with men is to drain their men of all resources until all his life forces have been completely drained and he dies. That's the cold truth!

Simps will not hear!

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Classickj(m): 4:07pm On Jun 04, 2022
virginprincess:
Stop acting like you don't know what the lady is talking about.
Am not an actor
I don't know what she talking about
Mind to explain it

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Classickj(m): 4:08pm On Jun 04, 2022
Truvelisback:
So giving ur woman money won't make her Lazy. Na Craze dey worry dis one.
She day ment cheesy grin

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Classickj(m): 4:08pm On Jun 04, 2022
Jman06:
This is why NO wise man should spend his hard earned money on a woman (except his mum and sisters). In relationship and marriage, women add no value to their men!
The mindset of an average lady in relationships with men is to drain their men of all resources until all his life forces have been completely drained and he dies. That's the cold truth!

Simps will not hear!
And they will never hear

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by loswhite(m): 5:06pm On Jun 04, 2022
virginprincess:
cheesy cheesy,funny but true, why should a hardworking and sensible man collects money from his woman,only lazy and shameless men would do such,women should also learn to respect and value hardworking men like she said.
Gender Equality....lol

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by loswhite(m): 5:07pm On Jun 04, 2022
virginprincess:
cheesy cheesy,funny but true, why should a hardworking and sensible man collects money from his woman,only lazy and shameless men would do such,women should also learn to respect and value hardworking men like she said.
A woman gives to a man automatically he is no longer sensible.....SMH.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by virginprincess(f): 5:14pm On Jun 04, 2022
loswhite:
A woman gives to a man automatically he is no longer sensible.....SMH.
Yes,when a man constantly collects money from his woman he becomes shameless and senseless,no sensible man will constantly collects money from a woman when it is suppose to be the other way round.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by siofra(f): 5:17pm On Jun 04, 2022
Walala!!

Whoever earns most should contribute more to the upkeep of the house.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by pansophist(m): 5:18pm On Jun 04, 2022
I fault the media for giving such an idiot platform to air her rubbish, ending up disgracing herself, and deceiving the gullible mind.

Its true that its the duty of a man to provide, but is it not also the duty of the woman to be supportive? So how can a woman be truly supportive if she can't support her husband with money when the situation calls for it? Or how do women like her understand the word "support"? Sex is not support.

Imagine two people in a car, it makes sense if the other passenger can drive just in case the current driver gets tired or maybe collapse while driving. A passenger refusing to drive because its the duty of the driver is foolishness. Its self-defeating, because you're a team, and you must be able to assist in reaching your destination if the situation calls for it.

Lots of family have crashed because of selfish shortsighted foolish women that carry the "its your duty as a man to provide" slogan. I know someone that was deported just because he lost his job and the wife was like this foolish woman. He would have stayed in Germany if she was working and the husband and kids can stay based on her work permit. Selfishness is like corruption, you destroy the future for the greed of today.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by JOACHINpedro: 5:28pm On Jun 04, 2022
Na this kind talk dey make some men ask themselves "Must I have a particular female that I call my partner? No be to just dey my dey, dey bleep as I want"

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by loswhite(m): 6:25pm On Jun 04, 2022
virginprincess:
Yes,when a man constantly collects money from his woman he becomes shameless and senseless,no sensible man will constantly collects money from a woman when it is suppose to be the other way round.
Lol a woman can constantly collect money but it is not shameless and senseless but as soon as you give to your so called lover he is now senseless....� for yourself.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Agricmoney(m): 7:07pm On Jun 04, 2022
whatever is good for the goose is good for the gander



Anyway, Agriculture is life.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Clonelord: 9:24pm On Jun 04, 2022
Giving you his sperms will make him dry
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Dorwadora(f): 9:24pm On Jun 04, 2022
I see a hijab on their head.

I guess this her reasoning is affected with religious philosophy. All those "God made men head" nah super story.

Nobody is and will ever be head over me. Financially and emotionally the support must be equal and non partial.

That's how as a woman you'll be respected and be a good role model for your children.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by candidbabe(f): 9:25pm On Jun 04, 2022
cool cool cool cool
Madam counselor put your advice right into your pocket and vamoose..

This is how you destroy marriages by deceiving the gullibles.
If a wife cannot help the husband in the time of distress who else will.
NANSENSE!!!!

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Legalcriminal: 9:25pm On Jun 04, 2022
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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by jeff1607(m): 9:25pm On Jun 04, 2022
Washing machine for women nko?
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Kekenary: 9:25pm On Jun 04, 2022
Na this type dey pay men to knack am. Believe anything on the media at your peril.
Classickj:
A Ugandan female marriage counselor has told women to avoid giving their husbands money.

The Ugandan counselor identified as Zaituni Kakyama, said in a TV interview that even if a woman can afford to help her partner
financially, she should not do so. W.T. H
According to her, God made women to have a desire for more than they need, particularly clothing and shoes, so that men are driven to
work continually and not become lazy.

Kakyama added that men should let women spend their money so it can make them work harder for more. She also urged women to put
their egos aside and remain committed and polite to their spouses, no matter how successful they are.

She said;
“Whether she gets more money than he does, he has to take care of his wife and family as a head.
“I don’t give my man money because when I do, that leads to his destruction when he gets into the comfort zone of being given.
“You find women from such marriages saying their men don’t love them.
Remember how you convinced that woman to marry you, small things matter.”


https://newswirengr.com/2022/06/03/giving-your-husband-money-will-make-him-lazy-marriage-counselor-tells-women/

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Diligent1(f): 9:26pm On Jun 04, 2022
Noted

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