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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Kimikazi2: 11:51pm On Jun 04, 2022
Noblewealth:
Scholars in the house I need you all to solve thess for me..

Adio is twice as old as he was five years ago.His mother was then six times as
old as he was.she is now 35 years old.
How old is Adio?
How old was his mother when he was five?_
How old will he be when his mother is 50?
How old was Adio's mother when he was born?
What is the difference between Adio's age and his mother's age?
1. Adio is 10 years
2. Mother was 30 years
3. He will be 25 years when his mum is 50 years
4. Age difference 25 years

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Algold: 12:08am On Jun 05, 2022
Let me start with your sister
Kollins11:
My advice for every men round the world reading my comment right now.

Please do not borrow or dash any woman your money... If eventually you wanna help her with your hard earned money pls don't hesitate to fvck her like a beast before offering financial help... Fvck her as if rapture is about to take place tomorrow.

These creatures that bleeds in between their legs every month are nothing but parasites.. Don't give them free money. Make sure they work (fvck) for it before giving them your money.

Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Elidrisy20: 12:10am On Jun 05, 2022
Waka
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by ezewealth(m): 12:18am On Jun 05, 2022
Noblewealth:
Scholars in the house I need you all to solve thess for me..

Adio is twice as old as he was five years ago.His mother was then six times as
old as he was.she is now 35 years old.
How old is Adio?
How old was his mother when he was five?_
How old will he be when his mother is 50?
How old was Adio's mother when he was born?
What is the difference between Adio's age and his mother's age?
adio is 15yrs
No 2, 25yrs
No3, 30yrs
No4, 19yrs
No5, 20yrs
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by pacespot(m): 12:19am On Jun 05, 2022
One of the downsides of social media, it tends to give everyone a voice including a numbskull mofo like this woman undecided
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Fearme344: 12:21am On Jun 05, 2022
Africa women are the most hilarious creature on earth can you imagine what this vulture is saying to public... i pite people men getting married to Africa women.. omo my mind they china woman Amen
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Cutehector(m): 12:54am On Jun 05, 2022
Classickj:

So ur bf or hubby is shameless, for asking a little Favor from u
no dey answer that girl..she could be a househelp in reality.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Sleekfingers: 1:31am On Jun 05, 2022
Awon confused gender.....women collecting from a man Nko? I thought , y'all fools dey talk about gender equality.....
No wonder, most men see women has kitchen materials, I mean, kitchen, gadgets.....
Awon confused gender jatijati

No wonder, my grandmother said, awoku ni awon obinrin..... their madness is incurable....
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Holluwhakemmy(f): 2:19am On Jun 05, 2022
Authoreety:


Tell ur man I said he's a lucky chap..

But pls, dnt make him lazy
okay thanks
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Holluwhakemmy(f): 2:20am On Jun 05, 2022
Impregnablefolk:

I can't believe you're a Nigerian because d mentality wey our guls get is damaging. Not All Women Are The Same (NAWALT)! I luv u my dear!
Thanks
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Pauldollars(m): 2:26am On Jun 05, 2022
Kollins11:
My advice for every men round the world reading my comment right now.

Please do not borrow or dash any woman your money... If eventually you wanna help her with your hard earned money pls don't hesitate to fvck her like a beast before offering financial help... Fvck her as if rapture is about to take place tomorrow.

These creatures that bleeds in between their legs every month are nothing but parasites.. Don't give them free money. Make sure they work (fvck) for it before giving them your money.


You just described your Biological Mother, Biological sister and female relations.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by jimtemi1: 2:30am On Jun 05, 2022
I pity those who fall for this bullshit.if u don't help ur man, another woman will, then don't come here crying
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Michael004: 2:44am On Jun 05, 2022
Kollins11:
My advice for every men round the world reading my comment right now.

Please do not borrow or dash any woman your money... If eventually you wanna help her with your hard earned money pls don't hesitate to fvck her like a beast before offering financial help... Fvck her as if rapture is about to take place tomorrow.

These creatures that bleeds in between their legs every month are nothing but parasites.. Don't give them free money. Make sure they work (fvck) for it before giving them your money.

My man
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by blazepascal(m): 3:33am On Jun 05, 2022
virginprincess:
cheesy cheesy,funny but true, why should a hardworking and sensible man collects money from his woman,only lazy and shameless men would do such,women should also learn to respect and value hardworking men like she said.
what about a man that gives his woman money won't the woman be lazy
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Xpress24(m): 4:02am On Jun 05, 2022
Holluwhakemmy:
We are help meet nothing bad if we help each other financially.
I love this.

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by MartinsD12(m): 4:23am On Jun 05, 2022
Classickj:
A Ugandan female marriage counselor has told women to avoid giving their husbands money.

The Ugandan counselor identified as Zaituni Kakyama, said in a TV interview that even if a woman can afford to help her partner
financially, she should not do so. W.T. H
According to her, God made women to have a desire for more than they need, particularly clothing and shoes, so that men are driven to
work continually and not become lazy.

Kakyama added that men should let women spend their money so it can make them work harder for more. She also urged women to put
their egos aside and remain committed and polite to their spouses, no matter how successful they are.

She said;
“Whether she gets more money than he does, he has to take care of his wife and family as a head.
“I don’t give my man money because when I do, that leads to his destruction when he gets into the comfort zone of being given.
“You find women from such marriages saying their men don’t love them.
Remember how you convinced that woman to marry you, small things matter.”


https://newswirengr.com/2022/06/03/giving-your-husband-money-will-make-him-lazy-marriage-counselor-tells-women/
Nonsense entitlement character that's what all African women have, they want to be given everytime, so if men continue giving them money it doesn't make them lazy , why do we have so many slay queens up and down, go to various hotels and hook up spots you will find majority of ladies, girls, women are now lazy today , you will be shocked to find out even a jss3 ss1girls students are now going to hotels to be given money because of these their entitlement character of men should be the one giving them money and catering for their needs , this statement doesn't count .
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Alsenora: 4:32am On Jun 05, 2022
...one was so stupidly stingy that her child died just because she wouldn't assist the husband in paying hospital bills of their ailing child needing medical care as the man could no longer continue medical bills...meanwhile she could assist. However not all women are this callous minded . Reasonable, sensible and godly women/wife may be rare but they still exist
pansophist:
I fault the media for giving such an idiot platform to air her rubbish, ending up disgracing herself, and deceiving the gullible mind.

If its the duty of a man to provide, is it not also the duty of the woman to be supportive? So how can a woman be truly supportive if she can't support her husband with money when the situation calls for it? Imagine two people in a car, it makes sense if the other passenger can drive just in case the current driver gets tired or maybe collapse while driving.

A passenger refusing to drive because its the duty of the driver to drive is foolishness. Its self-defeating, because you're a team, and you must be able to assist in reaching your destination if the situation calls for it. Of course the driver knows its his responsibility to drive, but still, no one knows what might happen.

Lots of family have crashed because of selfish shortsighted foolish women that carry the "its your duty as a man to provide" slogan. I know someone that was deported just because he lost his job and the wife was like this foolish woman. He would have stayed in Germany if she was working and the husband and kids can stay based on her work permit. Selfishness is like corruption, you destroy the future for the greed of today.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by rainlover(m): 4:44am On Jun 05, 2022
virginprincess:
cheesy cheesy,funny but true, why should a hardworking and sensible man collects money from his woman,only lazy and shameless men would do such,women should also learn to respect and value hardworking men like she said.
ok I got you.. Women being the lowest class among humans should only collect from men?
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Dozie32(m): 5:18am On Jun 05, 2022
virginprincess:
cheesy cheesy,funny but true, why should a hardworking and sensible man collects money from his woman,only lazy and shameless men would do such,women should also learn to respect and value hardworking men like she said.

If them look well, dem go see say na your mama dey feed your papa..
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by ufotunang: 5:33am On Jun 05, 2022
Giving a girl money will also make her lazy and become baby mama... that is why many ladies want to be and desperate to be a man's baby mama because of his money and they do not want to work but just to be baby mamas
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Fashdeejay(m): 5:39am On Jun 05, 2022
virginprincess:
Yes,when a man constantly collects money from his woman he becomes shameless and senseless,no sensible man will constantly collects money from a woman when it is suppose to be the other way round.
this ideology is rather very full and lacks reason, a man who after setting his wife up loses his job and has to depend on his wife is shameless?? Yes, a man should take care of his home and if a time comes when he can't and the woman has the means to, so what then Does it make him less of a man? It's funny how lazy minded people just wake up and come up with principles that are so far from being sane .... And expect it to be the norm. If a woman chooses to give her man money, it doesn't change the fact that he is still a man, doesn't stop him from earning, doesn't stop him from spending on his woman either..... Don't be so quick to agree with principles propagated by bitter souls.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Shebbs: 6:23am On Jun 05, 2022
And Why Would A Hardworking And Sensible Woman Always Ask Her Husband For Money?

The Last Time I Checked The Bible Says The Woman Is A Help Mate And Not A Consumption Mate. This Is How You Decieve Them To Mount Pressure On Men, Sowing Seeds Of Entitlement Here And There When They Are Supposed To Be Hardworking And Industrious. There Are Alot Of Broken Homes And Domestic Violence Today Just Because Of Your Wrong Teachings, You'll Never Summon The Guts To Tell Them The Truth.

Our Fathers And Their Father's Fathers Had More Than One Wife, They Took Care Of Them With The Little They Had And Their Marriages Were Intact And Our Mothers On The Other Hand Were Very Handworking And Industrious.


Now, You See Alot Of Lazy Ass Ladies Married And Single Who Doesn't Want To Do Anything Gallivanting Around And Hoodwinking Men Into Spending Unnecessarily.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Ekpekus(m): 6:31am On Jun 05, 2022
Holluwhakemmy:
We are help meet nothing bad if we help each other financially.
May your wisdom continues to increase

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by phemmyfour: 6:33am On Jun 05, 2022
virginprincess:
cheesy cheesy,funny but true, why should a hardworking and sensible man collects money from his woman,only lazy and shameless men would do such,women should also learn to respect and value hardworking men like she said.
Ignorance
When is hard work synonymous to riches. He can be hardworking and earning less than you. Common sense should tell you that you have to support him financially to keep the home running smoothly
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by phemmyfour: 6:33am On Jun 05, 2022
Holluwhakemmy:
We are help meet nothing bad if we help each other financially.
Well said

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Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Nobody: 6:48am On Jun 05, 2022
Kollins11:
My advice for every men round the world reading my comment right now.

Please do not borrow or dash any woman your money... If eventually you wanna help her with your hard earned money pls don't hesitate to fvck her like a beast before offering financial help... Fvck her as if rapture is about to take place tomorrow.

These creatures that bleeds in between their legs every month are nothing but parasites.. Don't give them free money. Make sure they work (fvck) for it before giving them your money.

Show some respect, the fact that your mother is one of those creatures should tell you not all women are the same. I bet you can’t repeat this statement in front of her.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Nobody: 6:49am On Jun 05, 2022
Jman06:
This is why NO wise man should spend his hard earned money on a woman (except his mum and sisters). In relationship and marriage, women add no value to their men!
The mindset of an average lady in relationships with men is to drain their men of all resources until all his life forces have been completely drained and he dies. That's the cold truth!

Simps will not hear!
Your mother and sisters are still women, did your mom drain your dad until he died? Is your sister draining her husband? Your mom didn’t add any value to your dad in her marriage? You will reply now that they are saints. Great! Because of them, learn to use the word ‘some’ when describing women that have traumatized you.

Make una dey get sense, STOP GENERALISING.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by coputa(m): 6:52am On Jun 05, 2022
It is only a foolish woman that will take such devilish advice. One renown presidential aspirant said during an interview session that 'my wife is my banker of last resort'.what he means is that his wife always support him during financial distress. That's why they say that behind every sucessful man/home,there's a woman, A woman should support the man morally,spiritually and financially. WOMEN BE WISE.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by Nobody: 6:53am On Jun 05, 2022
Classickj:

And they will never hear
Tell your father to go and spend on his mom and sister since your mother’s didn’t add any value to your fathers in their marriages. Una go dey type women are this and women are that, without remembering you have sisters and mothers at home.

Most of you men don’t think before you type.
Re: Giving Your Man Money Will Make Him Lazy - Counsellor Advice Women To Be Stingy by harmony75: 6:55am On Jun 05, 2022
Don't give your lazy men money you should say. This is the mentality that make some women push their men to untimely death. The man will struggle and struggle no helper, when you see a man make efforts you too make efforts to help him and the family at large.

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