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Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by CowbellY: 2:16pm On Jun 13, 2022
KiNg0G:
Have been clubbing since I was 16 and now that am an adult it's getting worst..

Wednesday I club, Saturday you find me there... Sunday it's confirmed. This has really eaten my finances deeply being a night walker I can't just help myself.

I tried several times buying same drinks I buy in the club outside at a cheaper rate, vsop and the rest and keep them in my fridge just to keep me indoor during weekends like this.. No way! As soon as it gets dark the urge to go mingle around with different new faces, pick new figure 8 and probably get to meet new ballers in town always wins.

This is an habit I really want to let go, please clubbers how can I go about it?
Are you in a relationship ? perhaps a change of environment where access is limited could help too
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by robinso01(m): 2:40pm On Jun 13, 2022
shogsman:
Develop it like it's that fuvking easy, you want him to comb through thousands of tutorials, possibly pay thousands for training for months in order to develop a lousy game that won't provide him any monetary value cos he goes to club too much
You don't need to pay a dime to learn game, he can find a friend who knows how to play or he can go through the game instructions. As if the clubbing provide him any money? If not that he's wasting money on the clubbing. And for your info, game is easy to play.
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by smasher1(m): 2:49pm On Jun 13, 2022
Osuman:
The truth is that you are addicted to clubbing.
First, go far away from club environs.
Second, try get a partner for yourself.
Thirdly, try to get busy at that particular time of the day. Maybe visiting the gym or a hectic activity that will make you tired and sleep off.
He's not just addicted to club. It's his friends. He either changed them all to people that stays indoor or he stops having friends. That's the solution.
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by Jeezuzpick(m): 2:56pm On Jun 13, 2022
KiNg0G:
Have been clubbing since I was 16 and now that am an adult it's getting worst..

Wednesday I club, Saturday you find me there... Sunday it's confirmed. This has really eaten my finances deeply being a night walker I can't just help myself.

I tried several times buying same drinks I buy in the club outside at a cheaper rate, vsop and the rest and keep them in my fridge just to keep me indoor during weekends like this.. No way! As soon as it gets dark the urge to go mingle around with different new faces, pick new figure 8 and probably get to meet new ballers in town always wins.

This is an habit I really want to let go, please clubbers how can I go about it?
You are asking your fellow club crawlers for advice on easing off clubbing?

That's like a drunk asking his fellow drunkards for tips on quitting the Juice!

You serious so?
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by snoopz: 2:58pm On Jun 13, 2022
You still get money na, na why you dey jump to the club...
Find something else that give you joy like clubbing, or change your club location, there are other places you can spend less than 10k and still feel alright at night
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by kareemkamil(m): 2:59pm On Jun 13, 2022
Just look for something else to do, or pick interest on something, to do during outing time
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by Simpubozz(m): 3:59pm On Jun 13, 2022
Clubbing is overhyped though..
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by DonBenny77(m): 4:33pm On Jun 13, 2022
alizma:
Oga no dey give people fake news na, na Wike shot down all the night activities within that area. If you are not current about the happening in an area don't give wrong info about the area.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/dailypost.ng/2022/01/01/gov-wike-bans-nightclubs-prostitution-in-port-harcourt/%3famp=1
Shut up i be PH boy no be to post link that one na new news.
Cubana don shut down years ago.
Club no dey ph sef
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by jeyselassie(m): 4:47pm On Jun 13, 2022
KiNg0G:
Have been clubbing since I was 16 and now that am an adult it's getting worst..

Wednesday I club, Saturday you find me there... Sunday it's confirmed. This has really eaten my finances deeply being a night walker I can't just help myself.

I tried several times buying same drinks I buy in the club outside at a cheaper rate, vsop and the rest and keep them in my fridge just to keep me indoor during weekends like this.. No way! As soon as it gets dark the urge to go mingle around with different new faces, pick new figure 8 and probably get to meet new ballers in town always wins.

This is an habit I really want to let go, please clubbers how can I go about it?
do you have a girlfriend or are you married?
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by zakkxx: 4:56pm On Jun 13, 2022
If U stay in Lagos and u are a Christian go to Bride assembly church Ijesha! They do all night every Friday! U can also join on line through YouTube. Go and party with Jehovah instead of the world! The pastor Moses Alu was a cluber like u, his own is worse because he goes to London to party at weekends! He told God now that I am a pastor I will replace my clubbing with prayers every Friday! After the vigil u will b tired u need rest befor u know Sunday done reach! Go to church and get ready for work on Monday! Your problem is solve! Only Jesus can set u free! God bless u!
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by Haykings02: 5:08pm On Jun 13, 2022
Very simple, get married immediately, once your bills start pilling up, nobody go warn to stop. I come in Peace.
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by ipswitch: 5:09pm On Jun 13, 2022
Oh! From party to party� E ma.club pa ni? Oginni? Friend, pray.
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jun 13, 2022
KiNg0G:
agbeg shift, you not useful must you comments
He asked a valid question, what help do you need cron Nairaland community?, House arrest?.
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by kelvinatkins(m): 5:45pm On Jun 13, 2022
[quote author=DonBenny77 post=113734647]Senior man anything for your boy
Just gimme one bottle of VSOP from tonite's budget make I use boost my business.
Apply wisdom if it's affecting your finances.
Here in the south Big boys go to bars and drink beer you fit drink overnight you never spend 20k
Na why Cubana close down for PH.
We are wiser
Learn to love beer
Abobi/Senior you sabi the thing.
Wetin VSOP go do Legend or Guinness stout go do am better
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by Daytrader1: 6:05pm On Jun 13, 2022
Buy loud invite babe, smoke, chop, Bleep, smoke, chop, sleep. Thank me later
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by DrDunamis(m): 6:23pm On Jun 13, 2022
KiNg0G:
Have been clubbing since I was 16 and now that am an adult it's getting worst..

Wednesday I club, Saturday you find me there... Sunday it's confirmed. This has really eaten my finances deeply being a night walker I can't just help myself.

I tried several times buying same drinks I buy in the club outside at a cheaper rate, vsop and the rest and keep them in my fridge just to keep me indoor during weekends like this.. No way! As soon as it gets dark the urge to go mingle around with different new faces, pick new figure 8 and probably get to meet new ballers in town always wins.

This is an habit I really want to let go, please clubbers how can I go about it?
Be free from your ungodly addiction in Jesus name,Amen.
You must be born again
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by waploger(m): 6:47pm On Jun 13, 2022
KiNg0G:
Have been clubbing since I was 16 and now that am an adult it's getting worst..

Wednesday I club, Saturday you find me there... Sunday it's confirmed. This has really eaten my finances deeply being a night walker I can't just help myself.

I tried several times buying same drinks I buy in the club outside at a cheaper rate, vsop and the rest and keep them in my fridge just to keep me indoor during weekends like this.. No way! As soon as it gets dark the urge to go mingle around with different new faces, pick new figure 8 and probably get to meet new ballers in town always wins.

This is an habit I really want to let go, please clubbers how can I go about it?
Make I drop my aza... make you give me small rabas make I help you stop clubbing
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by Wwwq: 6:49pm On Jun 13, 2022
When you go broke you will stop
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by jahofa: 7:18pm On Jun 13, 2022
Buy the drinks. Do barbeque @ Home. Call ur girl to call Her Girls.. Everything go cheao
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by SPAMBOX7: 7:28pm On Jun 13, 2022
KiNg0G:
Have been clubbing since I was 16 and now that am an adult it's getting worst..

Wednesday I club, Saturday you find me there... Sunday it's confirmed. This has really eaten my finances deeply being a night walker I can't just help myself.

I tried several times buying same drinks I buy in the club outside at a cheaper rate, vsop and the rest and keep them in my fridge just to keep me indoor during weekends like this.. No way! As soon as it gets dark the urge to go mingle around with different new faces, pick new figure 8 and probably get to meet new ballers in town always wins.

This is an habit I really want to let go, please clubbers how can I go about it?
Find better thing wey go set occupy your time every evenings dey do. Thank me later
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by John360comng: 8:44pm On Jun 13, 2022
robinso01:
You can buy video game and invite any of your friends to play with.if you don't have interest in video game b4,develop it. Once you develop interest in it,you won't even remind club.
What of Video games turn his new addiction?!
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by robinso01(m): 8:46pm On Jun 13, 2022
John360comng:
What of Video games turn his new addiction?!
At least he won't be spending anything on it, and he will only keep him busy. It even helps to save some cash by staying indoor.
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by HiFive: 9:10pm On Jun 13, 2022
Carcholce:
cheesy Tomorrow is Monday day.
Next tomorrow is Wednesday day. grin
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by Emdebby2: 9:51pm On Jun 13, 2022
If you really need help, go and see a therapist.
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by srclark: 12:20am On Jun 14, 2022
KiNg0G:
Have been clubbing since I was 16 and now that am an adult it's getting worst..

Wednesday I club, Saturday you find me there... Sunday it's confirmed. This has really eaten my finances deeply being a night walker I can't just help myself.

I tried several times buying same drinks I buy in the club outside at a cheaper rate, vsop and the rest and keep them in my fridge just to keep me indoor during weekends like this.. No way! As soon as it gets dark the urge to go mingle around with different new faces, pick new figure 8 and probably get to meet new ballers in town always wins.

This is an habit I really want to let go, please clubbers how can I go about it?

Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by Nobody: 2:19am On Jun 14, 2022
Get a partner to cure one addiction with another addiction?

Osuman:
The truth is that you are addicted to clubbing.
First, go far away from club environs.
Second, try get a partner for yourself.
Thirdly, try to get busy at that particular time of the day. Maybe visiting the gym or a hectic activity that will make you tired and sleep off.
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by princewarri1985: 4:30am On Jun 14, 2022
una don see where enjoyment kill person before? we party everyday during my days in lagos and that was when i had the best time of my life, if am to go back i want to do it all over again because i spent 10 years in lagos and warri is getting boring to me, damn! the city that never sleeps i miss page nite club, option nite club, the place nite club in GRA ikeja, the place in GRA ikeja is where we rub shoulders and chill with celebrities in the VIP section, i met rita dominic in the place in GRA ikeja and we chatted, i miss my real nigga ezekiel who is a real party animal and well known figure in all the clubs in ikeja and allen, with that nigga influence you go enter any club, and chilling in the VIP section na childs play for us because we spend money, abi na perkers bar for allen wey we dey go chill before clubbing hours? abi na the countless club girls we take home every time we go clubbing for better knacking? i left lagos 15 years back and i want to go back. U CAN SEE U HAVE MALARIA. LOL LOL
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by Lifeomann(m): 4:33am On Jun 14, 2022
Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously cool speaking

Op too much of everything is not good o grin

Let this be your memory verse from now onward before you kick bucket o, no go dey do pass yourself o.

Remember to choose wisely because na only you fit advise yourself and that's the best advice you can ever get.

Dem no dey tell person o na you go carry eye see your Bleep ups when time reach.

Remember that cool
give that niggar, some piece of advice!
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by Hullabaloon: 3:57pm On Jun 14, 2022
edosignature:
A lady (childhood friend) once told me she can't do without clubbing on Fridays, Saturday Sunday that practically she might die if she stop. She is now my patient & married to a man (pastor) who knowns nothing about her medical conditions & history.

A times I felt & feel great concern for the man when ever he brags & proud about the woman.

I've make it a certain to personal monitor the lady to make sure her children don't get the diseases from her through adequate routine checkup & adherence to her medications.

Guys be vigilant when choosing a wife.
What's her medical condition?
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by edosignature(m): 5:31pm On Jun 14, 2022
It's personal & can't tell you.

Hullabaloon:
What's her medical condition?
Re: Too Much Clubbing Is Killing Me, I Need Help by Hullabaloon: 10:28pm On Jun 14, 2022
edosignature:
It's personal & can't tell you.
I don't even know you neither do I know the lady. And will never know both of y'all till I leave this world. So I don't understand the confidentiality
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