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Ayomi90:
If you cannot submit to ur husband then you shouldn't go into marriage.

As simple as ABC.....


Intelligent woman understands submission isn't weaknesss..But, the other type of woman see it as slavery..And will rebel against it...

9jaRealist:
And you have surveyed all those “divorces” to know for certain they not “on some events observed in marriage”?
Next time you call someone a “simp” hold up a mirror, because it fits someone merely cramming-and-regurgitating drivel.
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Seems you have turned this into argument, if u were a lady am sure your type won't submit, then u will end up being a single bittered mother. If u are a guy u ar just the definition of simp

royalfly:
I just don't understand why people believe nonsense. We'll the Bible said honor your wife. I agree. Do you honor a stranger? Who is a wife? The one who has submitted to her husband. That is the one that would be honored. So if you desire honor, submit. See this life has principles.. let's work with the principles and let go of this rebelist way of life.

Try mentioning me properly next time after you read and fully comprehend my comment. It's not that hard.

Heterodox:
Yep.

Some days soon, you will have reasons to differ on your assumption that submission is slavery.

Besides, are you christian?

Prenonjebose:
Marry someone you respect or who respects you. Someone you respect for specific attributes. Then, submission would wear a cloak of respect and love. Submission is not oppression. Ladies, marry not a man you don't respect, to save yourself stress. Most men desire to be respected by their women irrespective of occasional difference in opinions or superiority of thought.

EVERYONE desires (and inherently deserves as a human being) to be respected…
And frankly NO-ONE (male or female) should be in a relationship in which they are not respected.

Respect is NOT reserved for only one gender, and in any case is EARNED and not simply bestowed…
Nevertheless, EVERY human being inherently deserves to be respected until and unless proven otherwise.
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koyyess:
Try mentioning me properly next time after you read and fully comprehend my comment. Its not that hard.

Your signature page says it all bye.. you are unredeemable

Ayomi90:
Seems you have turned this into argument, if u were a lady am sure your type won't submit, then u will end up being a single bittered mother. If u are a guy u ar just the definition of simp

You continue to expose your PRIMITIVE SEXIST mentality…
By thinking the worst possible thing to happen to women is not being married. SMH
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If only these pastors can preach love and mutual respect between both couples with the same energy and vigour they're using to preach submission, maybe there won't be so much crises going on in most marriages. It takes two to make a marriage work not just submission from the wife.

9jaRealist:
Anything that’s “living” evolves…
Thus, the Bible itself may (arguably) not be primitive but certain interpretations of it are!
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That is your interpretation of the bible. However, the bible is clear and it requires the spirit of God for deeper understanding of the bible.

The words in the bible are new everyday. Keep reading and involving the spirit of God in your study and you will learn new things.

You will understand the concept of submission, as defined and explained by the bible, better when you involve the spirit of God in your study.

Ego and pride won't allow them especially when they have small change to cope with

9jaRealist:
You continue to expose your PRIMITIVE SEXIST mentality…
By thinking the worst possible thing to happen to women is not being married. SMH
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You win. In short, you are right, are you happy now?

royalfly:
Your signature page says it all bye.. you are unredeemable

Not redeemable to your zoo slavery version practice of submission. Go and get it from animals in the bush.

dominique:
If only these pastors can preach love and mutual respect between both couples with the same vigour they're using to preach submission, maybe there won't be so much crises going on in most marriages. It takes two to make a marriage work not just submission from the wife.

Kpom!
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Pride and ego won't allow women especially those who have small change to cope with

Deborah98:
The word submission don suffer for Nigerian men month. Any small thing submit... interesting. You don't force your wife to submit to you. You love her to submit to you. It's a two way thing. Wives submit yourselves unto your husband and in return husbands love your wives shikina..

Yes nah.

What else are u trying to say?

Deborah98:
The word submission don suffer for Nigerian men month. Any small thing submit... interesting. You don't force your wife to submit to you. You love her to submit to you. It's a two way thing. Wives submit yourselves unto your husband and in return husbands love your wives shikina...

There was no 'in return' in the Bible though.

Both instructions (love & Submission) for Husbands & wives were not stated as conditional instructions.

That what the Bible says. It's the final authority for Christians. Modern women are only happy with the part that promises them blessing. When they hear submission, they become flustered and disruptive.

God save our men

UyaiIncomparabl:
Una no dey tire for this submission matter.

Always so obsessed with "submission".

NAwa o.
Common submission don turn big wahala for una.

Women are to submit and men are to love. End of discussion

Wallade:
That is your interpretation of the bible. However, the bible is clear and it requires the spirit of God for deeper understanding of the bible.

The words in the bible are new everyday. Keep reading and involving the spirit of God in your study and you will learn new things.

You will understand the concept of submission, as defined and explained by the bible, better when you involve the spirit of God in your study.

I have no issue with the Bible, but with how certain folks interpret it…
It’s no different from how certain fundamentalists interpret the Quran.

Perhaps if they followed your counsel….
They will “learn new things” and drop their Middle Ages interpretation.
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Zony94:
Pride and ego won't allow women especially those who have small change to cope with

While insecurity and a fragile ego won’t allow some men desist from a primitive sexist view of relationships…
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sgtponzihater1:
That what the Bible says. It's the final authority for Christians. Modern women are only happy with the part that promises them blessing. When they hear submission, they become flustered and disruptive.

God save our men

Men should have sense.

Stop marrying feminist.

Easyvibez:
Pastor David Ibiyeomie - Submission is not Weakness

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOyaut7og1Q

Love is Commandment, Submission is not Weakness. This two are Biblical Principles for Marriage, created to ensure success in the home.

https://www.facebook.com/616387396569190

true sermon

Easyvibez:
Pastor David Ibiyeomie - Submission is not Weakness

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOyaut7og1Q

Love is Commandment, Submission is not Weakness. This two are Biblical Principles for Marriage, created to ensure success in the home.

https://www.facebook.com/616387396569190

The small BSc go gree them so?

Leave people involved in a relationship to decide what’s best for themselves

Basicend:
Why?

By what standard or reason?

For the good of our dear country bro

You are right my dear..Nigerian men thinks submission will just come like that without giving out love in return..

Deborah98:
The word submission don suffer for Nigerian men month. Any small thing submit... interesting. You don't force your wife to submit to you. You love her to submit to you. It's a two way thing. Wives submit yourselves unto your husband and in return husbands love your wives shikina...

bewla:
Nice of you


But to the one who appreciate you

Yes

Deborah98:
The word submission don suffer for Nigerian men month. Any small thing submit... interesting. You don't force your wife to submit to you. You love her to submit to you. It's a two way thing. Wives submit yourselves unto your husband and in return husbands love your wives shikina...

Did Bible say love before submission? I think the Bible says wife submit to your husband and husband love your wife.

Easyvibez:
Pastor David Ibiyeomie - Submission is not Weakness

Video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOyaut7og1Q

Love is Commandment, Submission is not Weakness. This two are Biblical Principles for Marriage, created to ensure success in the home.
https://www.facebook.com/616387396569190

Submission is over hyped in understanding that part of the scripture, the Bible first instructed the men to love then submission follows suits.
Don't expect submission from a woman simply because you have an over drive third leg without doing the needful.
If you do any how,you will see anyhow.
After all women also have blood and vein flowing in them,they are not ambassadors for shock absorbers.

BloomingDale:
There is no iota of submission in my body. Rather I will prefer the man submit to me. Not everyone believes in your misogynistic Bible and quoran that was made to cage the feminine energy.

You go still drag Qur'an enter Christian thread. Una do dey tire? No be Qur'an Mr Pastor read dey talk this one. Leave Islam out of this.

Problem for christians and church goers.

Fahdiga:
For the good of our dear country bro

You can only submit to someone you feel is bigger and more powerful or influencial than you.

If Kwankwanso feels Obi is not such, I agree with him.

Obi can still find another Nigerian.