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Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by HITsquad: 9:47pm On Jun 22, 2022
Vahat:
We got married two years ago. My challenge is that my partner has a higher sexual drive and love sex so much.

Ever since we do make love,she has never for once be the one to say she is satisfied and that I should stop despite that most time it takes me between 10 to 25 minutes atimes to cum. The highest I can recall that i stayed long was 32minutes before I cum, yet in all these it looks to her as if I have not started the work and she feel disappointed anytime I cum because from her body language;she demands more and can withstand even up to one and half hours to 2hours before she can be satisfied and I can't go such.

I tried all I can but honestly I don't feel like a man for not even for once tell me or appreciate me on bed by telling me 'thank you, please cum na, your have stayed long,I am satisfied etc but will always rather willing to consume more and more despite that she needs sex most time and I responds to her demand. Even when I am tired and sweating profusely I keep on just to please her and I am getting fed up over this. I have never taken sex enhancement drug and will never take such.

I don't want to complain to her about. her insatiable sexual drive and how stressful it is riding on me to avoid her hiding her sexual feelings to me or taken it as insult or hurt her feelings and at the same time the fear of her looking for satisfaction from elsewhere. Please advise on how to handle this challenge.
your climax delay is not bad atall... but you can improve that by understanding your body and learning how to delay it psychologically... know when you are "approaching" to cum... then distract your mind temporary, it will reset your climax point to several minutes back(mind your timing, if you're too late on your timing you won't be able to pull this trick) you can continue the circle many times,,, it will make you last as long as you want. it takes practice to perfect this trick.

and also learn to work on your pre-intimacy... sex is not all about penetration. good luck buddy.

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Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by felixawe(m): 9:50pm On Jun 22, 2022
Vahat:


Ever since we do make love,she has never for once be the one to say she is satisfied and that I should stop despite that most time it takes me between 10 to 25 minutes atimes to cum. The highest I can recall that i stayed long was 32minutes before I cum, yet in all these it looks to her as if I have not started the work and she feel disappointed

Bruh, it seems you are a baby, be matured. It takes time for a lady to cum.... 10-30 minutes isn't enough. Engage in forplay well , don't just penetration for 30 minutes and satisfy yourself only . Sometimes, ask how she wants it, allow her to climb you & do the rocking you would last longer than ever, ensure she's arouse. Sex is meant for bith parties (couples) to be enjoyed otherwise, it amounts to cheating . If you can't satisfy her quit & you would eventually quits all that come your ways by blaming the babe, work on yourself, avoid too much carbohydrates, make you trim your tommy. Pot belle isn't right to achieve your goal. Don't suffer that girl, every girl needs cum not only you otherwise, you will lose her to one lanky jobless guy who Sabi shocked
Call me pls
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by razzydoo(m): 10:06pm On Jun 22, 2022
Get one shaku shaku song wey address this issue. Omama yi bi steering ni. grin
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by darichlife: 10:15pm On Jun 22, 2022
Klass99:


So.....leg and waist dey pain you people, but una always want to knack. Somebody cannot even cuddle you people small to watch TV together, your gbola must rise and the next thing is to start pushing for knack grin.
that Guy No Just Get Sense Whenever E see Fine puna wey no Get Odour, automatic Response
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Gideon34: 10:30pm On Jun 22, 2022
Please Oga buy her a intimacy gadget and save yourself that stress make you no die
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Ogunleti01: 10:32pm On Jun 22, 2022
Op una don jam stubborn customer alagbase ee ti soko gba . Nah so one of my friends knack sotee him leg dey begin to shake! i tell am say Awo o dabi pe o ti setan to fe keru si koto

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Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Reflect7: 11:16pm On Jun 22, 2022
Klass99:


cheesy I don't mean to laugh, but this part of your narrative made me laugh. You need to change strategy, the whole scenario & love making session you described is enough to exhaust any sane person. I felt exhausted just reading and imagining it.

Can you stimulate her clitoris with your fingers or mouth instead, until she cums, then you mount her, take your pleasure and all of you rest? You need to have a conversation with her, no matter how difficult it seems. An honest conversation where you both express your sexual preferences in bed, what turns you on, what gets you to climax sooner rather than later and anything else that matters to each of you. Hopefully, all of which is natural and not unnatural.

I don't know any woman who likes being taken for as long as you described, there's the risk of becoming dry and bruised the longer a session takes. Additionally, penetrative sex doesn't cut it for most women, because there's little to no contact with the clitoris (which is most women's pleasure point). Re-think your strategy and have that conversation or you let her get on top and do all the work till she climaxes.

True. The easiest way out of his predicament is to learn how to finger a woman.

Tickle the right spot and she won't be desperate to be banged at all.

She'll just be cumming and cumming till she's tired.
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Stargurl20(f): 11:20pm On Jun 22, 2022
bukky1994:
this bad girl again
Lol.... grin pls, learn respect other's opinions.
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Stargurl20(f): 11:20pm On Jun 22, 2022
lipsrsealed cool
Hassanmaye:

Will you shut...
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Stargurl20(f): 11:22pm On Jun 22, 2022
President2001:

If you're giving this advice can you accept ?

Isn't that what guys advice men to do?
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Stargurl20(f): 11:23pm On Jun 22, 2022
GindoX:


This girl has never said anything meaningful since I know her. Did i even know her self
Quezion
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by greatbuc(m): 11:24pm On Jun 22, 2022
Hmm since you've cum to us. We cumrades will help you out.. simple. Turn the table on her.. let her be on top rocking. She will tire out and eventually clim.. make sure you stimulate her with x rated words of affirmation of her prowess. Check online for styles to reduce fatigue on your side.
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Stargurl20(f): 11:27pm On Jun 22, 2022
CheapHomes1:


Is that ur experience?
No. That's my opinion though... You can correct me if I'm wrong
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by thinkmoney(m): 11:44pm On Jun 22, 2022
Vahat:
We got married two years ago. My challenge is that my partner has a higher sexual drive and love sex so much.

Ever since we do make love,she has never for once be the one to say she is satisfied and that I should stop despite that most time it takes me between 10 to 25 minutes atimes to cum. The highest I can recall that i stayed long was 32minutes before I cum, yet in all these it looks to her as if I have not started the work and she feel disappointed anytime I cum because from her body language;she demands more and can withstand even up to one and half hours to 2hours before she can be satisfied and I can't go such.

I tried all I can but honestly I don't feel like a man for not even for once tell me or appreciate me on bed by telling me 'thank you, please cum na, your have stayed long,I am satisfied etc but will always rather willing to consume more and more despite that she needs sex most time and I responds to her demand. Even when I am tired and sweating profusely I keep on just to please her and I am getting fed up over this. I have never taken sex enhancement drug and will never take such.

I don't want to complain to her about. her insatiable sexual drive and how stressful it is riding on me to avoid her hiding her sexual feelings to me or taken it as insult or hurt her feelings and at the same time the fear of her looking for satisfaction from elsewhere. Please advise on how to handle this challenge.
Let her take charge during sexual activities. She too will tire out in due time
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Birdie124462(m): 12:01am On Jun 23, 2022
And this will in turn make her to be cheating on you especially when you can’t satisfy her sexually
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by GindoX(m): 12:39am On Jun 23, 2022
Stargurl20:

Quezion

O bere ni yen oo, onigberaga

Shaa pe mi. O seven o, thirty two, sixty five 05
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by GindoX(m): 12:40am On Jun 23, 2022
Shaa pe mi. O seven o, thirty two, sixty five 0520
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by kizyalex10(m): 12:50am On Jun 23, 2022
Vahat:
We got married two years ago. My challenge is that my partner has a higher sexual drive and love sex so much.

Ever since we do make love,she has never for once be the one to say she is satisfied and that I should stop despite that most time it takes me between 10 to 25 minutes atimes to cum. The highest I can recall that i stayed long was 32minutes before I cum, yet in all these it looks to her as if I have not started the work and she feel disappointed anytime I cum because from her body language;she demands more and can withstand even up to one and half hours to 2hours before she can be satisfied and I can't go such.

I tried all I can but honestly I don't feel like a man for not even for once tell me or appreciate me on bed by telling me 'thank you, please cum na, your have stayed long,I am satisfied etc but will always rather willing to consume more and more despite that she needs sex most time and I responds to her demand. Even when I am tired and sweating profusely I keep on just to please her and I am getting fed up over this. I have never taken sex enhancement drug and will never take such.

I don't want to complain to her about. her insatiable sexual drive and how stressful it is riding on me to avoid her hiding her sexual feelings to me or taken it as insult or hurt her feelings and at the same time the fear of her looking for satisfaction from elsewhere. Please advise on how to handle this challenge.
romance plays a very big role in satisfying a woman,especially a woman such as ur wife and also if u really want to defeat her easily,make her work as hard as u,example missionary and doggy is mostly our own position and we work hard during this process digging etc,let her be in charge by riding u,all these girls shouting harder cannot ride more than 5 mins at most so when she rides and wants to come down say no encourage her to continue ,first advantage about her riding u is that it makes them cum faster,two by d time all her joints are weak and u have gained enough strength from the initial missionary u started then u finish her off with doggy .u don win be dat

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Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by litaninja(m): 1:08am On Jun 23, 2022
Make person dey find 6 oranges everytime he wan run package?

techgen:
Simple solution...lick 6 oranges...and mount her, it will take for like 1hr before you cum...before then...she go dey cry foul...bet me, fear go catch her... she'll learn to calm down and respect elder grin
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by constyo: 1:47am On Jun 23, 2022
You don't want to complain to her abi? So what do you want us to do? To drink panadol for headache. You try.
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by poppy83(m): 2:35am On Jun 23, 2022
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Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by kolamilan(m): 3:10am On Jun 23, 2022
Pre-intimacy is the answer
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by babane2016(m): 4:12am On Jun 23, 2022
See how you can encourage her to take on a stressful job or activity. She will lose interest in long intercourse. You will even be the one to beg her to give you five minutes sex.
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Nobody: 4:29am On Jun 23, 2022
Stargurl20:
Let others do the work for you. Have you forgotten division of labour?
Lol

Na the timing amuse me self..

LMAO he said 32mins..

How did he even get that accurate timing?
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by ubola: 4:34am On Jun 23, 2022
This is one of the reasons we have more widows than widowers in our society. It is always good to know your partner's sexual strength b4 marriage. It's better for your wife libido to be lower than yours because it will bring a balance somehow. If she has high libido ,in a bid to satisfy her urge ,the man begins to take afrodisiacs like monkey tail, Viagra, tramadol to enhance their performance and sustain for more rounds. Now don't forget that scientifically each ejaculation contains over 300,000,000millions spermatozoa and to recover that will take 3weeks with balanced diet o. So imagine going for 3 or 4 rounds b4 day break and not eating balanced diet in this Buhari economy. Chances are that you will die and leave her widowed for your friends or family members to continue where you stopped I can't kill myself for what did not kill my father.
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by GreenVILLETiPS: 4:47am On Jun 23, 2022
Vahat:
We got married two years ago. My challenge is that my partner has a higher sexual drive and love sex so much.

Ever since we do make love,she has never for once be the one to say she is satisfied and that I should stop despite that most time it takes me between 10 to 25 minutes atimes to cum. The highest I can recall that i stayed long was 32minutes before I cum, yet in all these it looks to her as if I have not started the work and she feel disappointed anytime I cum because from her body language;she demands more and can withstand even up to one and half hours to 2hours before she can be satisfied and I can't go such.

I tried all I can but honestly I don't feel like a man for not even for once tell me or appreciate me on bed by telling me 'thank you, please cum na, your have stayed long,I am satisfied etc but will always rather willing to consume more and more despite that she needs sex most time and I responds to her demand. Even when I am tired and sweating profusely I keep on just to please her and I am getting fed up over this. I have never taken sex enhancement drug and will never take such.

I don't want to complain to her about. her insatiable sexual drive and how stressful it is riding on me to avoid her hiding her sexual feelings to me or taken it as insult or hurt her feelings and at the same time the fear of her looking for satisfaction from elsewhere. Please advise on how to handle this challenge.

Let her ride you. You will be surprised most of these ladies only love being on d receiving end. Let her be the one to do the riding and you will see how quickly tiree she would be..
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Tundex911: 5:34am On Jun 23, 2022
Hope no be ashy she be before cuz the way things look like make she no go outside go collect the Dickson...


Oluwa a wa pelu yin
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Stargurl20(f): 6:30am On Jun 23, 2022
Aurielfinizu:

Lol

Na the timing amuse me self..

LMAO he said 32mins..

How did he even get that accurate timing?
Tot I was the only one who tot about that. It's painful how most didn't find sarcasm in my comment of " division of labour." Even if I meant it, would he have truly done it?.
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by Stargurl20(f): 6:32am On Jun 23, 2022
GindoX:


O bere ni yen oo, onigberaga

Shaa pe mi. O seven o, thirty two, sixty five 05
sad sad sad
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by phemmyfour: 8:36am On Jun 23, 2022
Vahat:
We got married two years ago. My challenge is that my partner has a higher sexual drive and love sex so much.

Ever since we do make love,she has never for once be the one to say she is satisfied and that I should stop despite that most time it takes me between 10 to 25 minutes atimes to cum. The highest I can recall that i stayed long was 32minutes before I cum, yet in all these it looks to her as if I have not started the work and she feel disappointed anytime I cum because from her body language;she demands more and can withstand even up to one and half hours to 2hours before she can be satisfied and I can't go such.

I tried all I can but honestly I don't feel like a man for not even for once tell me or appreciate me on bed by telling me 'thank you, please cum na, your have stayed long,I am satisfied etc but will always rather willing to consume more and more despite that she needs sex most time and I responds to her demand. Even when I am tired and sweating profusely I keep on just to please her and I am getting fed up over this. I have never taken sex enhancement drug and will never take such.

I don't want to complain to her about. her insatiable sexual drive and how stressful it is riding on me to avoid her hiding her sexual feelings to me or taken it as insult or hurt her feelings and at the same time the fear of her looking for satisfaction from elsewhere. Please advise on how to handle this challenge.
You need to make her squirt multiple times. Don't always start with your dick, start with your magic fingers, let your hand make her soaked and possibly squirt before entering with your dick.

2. Why are you sweating profusely ontop of her, invite her to do some work. Let her be on top. Don't be doing missionary all the time. Let her take charge once in a while in cowgirl and reverse cowgirl, she LL be able to redirect your dick to her Gspot
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by GCFR: 9:01am On Jun 23, 2022
Klass99:


cheesy I don't mean to laugh, but this part of your narrative made me laugh. You need to change strategy, the whole scenario & love making session you described is enough to exhaust any sane person. I felt exhausted just reading and imagining it.

Can you stimulate her clitoris with your fingers or mouth instead, until she cums, then you mount her, take your pleasure and all of you rest? You need to have a conversation with her, no matter how difficult it seems. An honest conversation where you both express your sexual preferences in bed, what turns you on, what gets you to climax sooner rather than later and anything else that matters to each of you. Hopefully, all of which is natural and not unnatural.

I don't know any woman who likes being taken for as long as you described, there's the risk of becoming dry and bruised the longer a session takes. Additionally, penetrative sex doesn't cut it for most women, because there's little to no contact with the clitoris (which is most women's pleasure point). Re-think your strategy and have that conversation or you let her get on top and do all the work till she climaxes.

You said what is on my mind.
1.start specifically with cunnilingus, focusing on her clit
2.stimulate her until she comes or reaches orgasm. Possibly, multiple times
3.then let her mount and ride you for as long as she could hold out.
4.If some energy is still left in her , mount and ride her too, by the time you ejaculate.
5. The two of you should have been thoroughly exhausted.
Re: I Am Worried Over Her High Sexual Drive.please Advise by GCFR: 9:05am On Jun 23, 2022
Vahat:
We got married two years ago. My challenge is that my partner has a higher sexual drive and love sex so much.

Ever since we do make love,she has never for once be the one to say she is satisfied and that I should stop despite that most time it takes me between 10 to 25 minutes atimes to cum. The highest I can recall that i stayed long was 32minutes before I cum, yet in all these it looks to her as if I have not started the work and she feel disappointed anytime I cum because from her body language;she demands more and can withstand even up to one and half hours to 2hours before she can be satisfied and I can't go such.

I tried all I can but honestly I don't feel like a man for not even for once tell me or appreciate me on bed by telling me 'thank you, please cum na, your have stayed long,I am satisfied etc but will always rather willing to consume more and more despite that she needs sex most time and I responds to her demand. Even when I am tired and sweating profusely I keep on just to please her and I am getting fed up over this. I have never taken sex enhancement drug and will never take such.

I don't want to complain to her about. her insatiable sexual drive and how stressful it is riding on me to avoid her hiding her sexual feelings to me or taken it as insult or hurt her feelings and at the same time the fear of her looking for satisfaction from elsewhere. Please advise on how to handle this challenge.

1.start specifically with cunnilingus, focusing on her clit
2.stimulate her until she comes or reaches orgasm. Possibly, multiple times
3.then let her mount and ride you for as long as she could hold out.
4.If some energy is still left in her , mount and ride her too, by the time you ejaculate.
5. The two of you should have been thoroughly exhausted.

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