I know 3 people whose younger sister married the man they were to marry.

1st one - 4 months to the wedding - Help me drop my sister in school. Sister got pregnant. Family insisted he marry her.

2nd one - Few weeks to wedding, came to announce he preferred the sister. Everyone prayed sister would decline. She didn't. She went ahead to marry him.

3rd one - Man lived abroad and someone connected them. They had talked and planned for months. Man visits Nigeria, came to the house, met sister and she hosted him until the main babe came home. Man says he now wants sister.

By some very rare coincidence, all 3 ladies are over 47 today and haven't gotten married yet.

Gisting about it today with a friend, she is asking if the sisters should be forgiven or if we should hide our sisters.

What can I say?

I don't know biko.

My own sister would never marry or even get an inch close to a man connected to me in any way, but I guess we are all different.

Ladies, what do you say? @bukatyne

Let's discuss and learn.

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It is a coincidence

Omo those younger sisters stole their elder sisters' husbands. If not, how come all 3 ladies have not yet married and they are all above 47 years?

But should ladies start hiding their sisters??

Malory:
It is a coincidence

angelfallz:
Omo those ladies stole their sisters' husbands. If not, how come all 3 ladies have not yet married and they are all above 47 years?

They probably had their hearts shattered by the experience, and have yet to recover.

There are many others who experienced something similar and were able to move on almost immediately from it to have wonderful marriages. Look those stories up.

So happy the men found the true love of their lives.

The sisters were always the target from the onset

True.
You seem to think I went to look for the story I posted.

Kobojunkie:
They probably had their hearts shattered by the experience, and have yet to recover.

There are many others who experienced something similar and were able to move on almost immediately from it to have wonderful marriages. Look those stories up.

[quote author=angelfallz post=114064177]I know 3 people whose younger sister married the man they were to marry.

1st one - 4 months to the wedding - Help me drop my sister in school. Sister got pregnant. Family insisted he marry her.

2nd one - Few weeks to wedding, came to announce he preferred the sister. Everyone prayed sister would decline. She didn't. She went ahead to marry him.

3rd one - Man lived abroad and someone connected them. They had talked and planned for months. Man visits Nigeria, came to the house, met sister and she hosted him until the main babe came home. Man says he now wants sister.

By some very rare coincidence, all 3 ladies are over 47 today and haven't gotten married yet.

Gisting about it today with a friend, she is asking if the sisters should be forgiven or if we should hide our sisters.

What can I say?

I don't know biko.

My own sister would never marry or even get an inch close to a man connected to me in any way.
Lols. Dem EMILOKAN Gangs!

What about the one that was abroad and came back?

VeryWickedMan:
The sisters were always the target from the onset

Lol what about the women?

garriAndsugar:
So happy the men found the love of their lives.

angelfallz:
What about the one that was abroad and came back?

Facebook friends list, posted sister's pic on WhatsApp status, peeped her @ video call, etc. So many ways.

angelfallz:
True.
You seem to think I went to look for the story I posted.

Nope, that is meant for one whose story you quoted.

Hide yr sister for what na, sha na yr sister tell the man to marry am.

Well that lady wey know 3girls no well too

Hmmmm very possible.

VeryWickedMan:


Facebook friends list, posted sister's pic on WhatsApp status, peeped her @ video call, etc. So many ways.

Lol. But forget, things are happening

ojun50:
Hide yr sister for what na, sha na yr sister tell the man to marry am.

Well that lady wey know 3girls no well too

angelfallz:
But should ladies start hiding their sisters??

If it were to be men that snatches their brother's girlfriend to marry what will you women be saying? Blame the so called sisters for doing the overtaking and besides some of you women lack good manners which the sisters might not be lacking

angelfallz:
I know 3 people whose younger sister married the man they were to marry.

1st one - 4 months to the wedding - Help me drop my sister in school. Sister got pregnant. Family insisted he marry her.

2nd one - Few weeks to wedding, came to announce he preferred the sister. Everyone prayed sister would decline. She didn't. She went ahead to marry him.

3rd one - Man lived abroad and someone connected them. They had talked and planned for months. Man visits Nigeria, came to the house, met sister and she hosted him until the main babe came home. Man says he now wants sister.

By some very rare coincidence, all 3 ladies are over 47 today and haven't gotten married yet.

Gisting about it today with a friend, she is asking if the sisters should be forgiven or if we should hide our sisters.

What can I say?

I don't know biko.

My own sister would never marry or even get an inch close to a man connected to me in any way, but I guess we are all different.

Ladies, what do you say? @bukatyne

Let's discuss and learn.

#chiomaifeanyieze

©️Chioma Ifeanyi-Eze

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First of all ewwww disgusting
Secondly no if the man said he prefers my sister and she accepts then good for them , they deserve each other ,why would I hide my sister because of man ?? This is not a loss it's a blessing in disguise, if I hide her today what of tomorrow ? My children's aunty boya I should kuku erase her from the face of the Earth on top of prick matter , if clothe no size me I go give person wey e size , since men want to be passed around like hand me downs
My sister is not mad , she'll even be irritated at his lack of self respect and indisciplined behavior , that's if she's the same sister I've been mentoring since childhood, no sensible woman would accept to settle down with a man who does not acknowledge her relationship to her family that's if she comes from a good family or has a love for her folks

Most times what causes this is that some people's parents have informed them that marriage is the end goal and now it's a competition of who gets it first , I can't say if they have happy marital life but I know for sure that they will remember it everyday they see themselves , they'll feel guilty , insecure , they will feel threatened by the sister whom they believe they betrayed , they will have wild imaginations of what if ? What if this man changes his mind , what if there's another person

Basically most women who agree to such have low self esteem and believe marriage is a goal , they attach a lot of importance to it and therefore they jump when they see the first boat no matter where it's coming from or who was on it
How to prevent it ? Me personally I don't think I have the energy to be imagining such a funny story , my sister remains my priority before any man , she knows this much , we've suffered together , all I want for all my little ones is peace and happiness , I don't know where those 3 picked their sisters from

It is good that the men went for their best interests and desires. Men have the right to change their minds. If dem no wan do, make dem no do; it is not by force to continue.

Things happen anyway. But personally it seems so odd for a girl to be attracted to her sister's man. I see him as family already. Those 3 ladies are still single even at 47 because they couldn't see past the betrayal. They must have been really hurt deep deep inside. Orisirisi!

VeryWickedMan:
The sisters were always the target from the onset

I don't think they are the initial target,this is simply the theory of okafors law no 2 been proven again,it states the inconvenient truth that if you have a woman and you are treating her well,you have a high probability of also dating her close friends,sisters,aunties and even in some cases the mother,many women are expressive and like to boast about how generous ,rich and also the sexual prowess of her partner, indirectly feeding the fantasy and subconscious of her friends with an erotic image of a father Christmas in shining armour.

LadyD22:


First of all ewwww disgusting
Secondly no if the man said he prefers my sister and she accepts then good for them , they deserve each other ,why would I hide my sister because of man ?? This is not a loss it's a blessing in disguise, if I hide her today what of tomorrow ? My children's aunty boya I should kuku erase her from the face of the Earth on top of prick matter , if clothe no size me I go give person wey e size , since men want to be passed around like hand me downs
My sister is not mad , she'll even be irritated at his lack of self respect and indisciplined behavior , that's if she's the same sister I've been mentoring since childhood, no sensible woman would accept to settle down with a man who does not acknowledge her relationship to her family that's if she comes from a good family or has a love for her folks

Most times what causes this is that some people's parents have informed them that marriage is the end goal and now it's a competition of who gets it first , I can't say if they have happy marital life but I know for sure that they will remember it everyday they see themselves , they'll feel guilty , insecure , they will feel threatened by the sister whom they believe they betrayed , they will have wild imaginations of what if ? What if this man changes his mind , what if there's another person

Basically most women who agree to such have low self esteem and believe marriage is a goal , they attach a lot of importance to it and therefore they jump when they see the first boat no matter where it's coming from or who was on it
How to prevent it ? Me personally I don't think I have the energy to be imagining such a funny story , my sister remains my priority before any man , she knows this much , we've suffered together , all I want for all my little ones is peace and happiness , I don't know where those 3 picked their sisters from

I doubt you are a lady!
If peradventure you are, the bolded is strange!
As far as Nigerian ladies are concerned,
even the guy they've turned down outrightly dare not look at their friends much less their sisters.

Ladies, stop being desperate to get married, that’s the crux here. Families too should stop stigmatizing unmarried ladies. Marriage isn’t Valhalla but slavery (most of them)

The one I know of involved two cousins bearing the same name, Onyinye (not real name) and the same surname. Man came back from abroad to meet Onyinye that someone referred him to only to be directed to the wrong Onyinye's house by a man he met in the village on hearing the surname. Meanwhile the two girls' families were not in good terms so the two girls were not talking at that time. Las las, the man started talking to the Onyinye that he met. The original Onyinye who no dey come village waited for the man they had referred to her to no avail only to hear of her cousin's actions later. The sad part is that the second Onyinye knew quite well that this man didn't come for her because Onyinye is her second name which she didn't even answer much at that time but as Ernesto De La Cruz in the movie COCO says, she seized her moment and didn't give a fucck. They are married till date and they both live in Canada or so, I'm not sure if it's Canada or the USA. Vaginarians are each others nightmares.

The men in question were never in love with the ladies in question, it was just a case of going to the market to buy a red shoe, you pick it up and as you're about to make payment you see a black shoe that's more attractive than the red one, then you drop the red one and make payment for the black one.

People like that don't know what they want and would easily cheat on their wives in marriage.

This I have seen.

Blame the sisters. Even if the men made advances at them, they were suppose to decline it. Knowing fully well these men are already engaged to their sisters.

May I not have terrible sisters like these

This matter serious but it certain they all knew what they wanted at first

Are your sisters hideable?
Be a 'sister' too. Be segzy whenever you're with them.

Is marriage an achievement

The sisters are all traitors. Some people don’t just know their limits.