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Re: Marrying A Feminist by Ishilove: 12:03pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Echoban:And you know this just by merely looking at his pictures? 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by bigtt76(f): 12:04pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Just understand her rights and boundaries. Treat her as an equal and drop your ego. Dasss all Echoban: 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by TheRedpillguy: 12:04pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
BloomingDale:Yep it's a cult. |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Echoban: 12:05pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
desireoge: Do u submit to ur husband same way ur husband's submit to u?? |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Echoban: 12:12pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
bigtt76: U and I know it's sincerely not too possible to be a man without an atom of ego. The version of human without ego is d woman.. Men generally has ego issue and that's what makes them a man , some are just outspoken than the rest, The likes of Gov Wike, Fayose , Akeredolu and co. , Compare to non talkertive ones like Gov Ugwanyi of enugu but that ego is inbultly there. Or have u seen any man without ego? Are u happy with their dull dull life ?? Anyway, fenks. |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by NybenSBF101(m): 12:15pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Run |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:26pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
..... Any woman who feels she can't be submissive to her husband should not go into marriage. Same thing as a man who can't love his wife. These things are very simple. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by hopman98: 12:28pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Jashub:seniorman, ur sense na heavenly sense, i tuale 4 u. Ur brain dey reason like einstein own 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by efficiencie(m): 12:39pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Novemberaura: Feminists believe men and women are EXACTLY EQUAL. So if you marry a feminist you are not the head of the house; she is not going to submit to you and she will have absolute control over her time, body and money just as you do. She decides how many children she wants because it's her body and it's her choice. She is not going to be your cook. She will not be your cleaner and she will not be your assistant. She has absolute control over how she dresses and how she presents herself. She is not subject to you, her husband, in any way. A nanny will raise your kids for you because she will be busy with her career and education. Her standards are high performance, ultra intelligent and accomplished men and she will not sleep or rest until she beats that standard. You will forever be a beta male to her because the alphas are her standard and her ultimate ambition is to beat the alpha males to become the supreme alpha female. Marry a feminist at your own risk! 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by lookingfly: 12:39pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Kollins11:well I don't know if you have knacked her before to be very sure of what you said. I've also come to realize that, there is no gal that hasn't hoed before even under 18 gals now have body counts. If you like that lady, na to marry face front. |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by OlawaleBammie: 12:40pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:will u shut up and let the right thinking people contribute?? Discussion is not for everyone pls, not even a bipolar disorder patients. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by efficiencie(m): 12:43pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Novemberaura: Marry her. Nairaland needs the content that you will eventually share. |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 1:09pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
SenatePresdo:What exactly are the man's duties? And what is the wisdom in paying most of the bills when you and your spouse can both work and share the bills instead? Since the beginning of the beginning, Marriage has always been a choice, and and an agreement between a man and a woman. Choosing to carry the burden alone in marriage is also a choice same as sharing the load is. Why would you, a non imbe_cile make the decision to carry it yourself when a better alternative allows you to share the burden with your partner instead and live longer for it? 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 1:10pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
realmindz:I am instead a follower of Jesus Christ and so I am instructed to believe all men and women equals - Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 1:16pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Jaisman26:Correction! If you have ever actually read the Bible,you would have realized that submission in marriage was instead a curse God placed on women in marriage and hence marriage itself since it comprises a man and a woman - Genesis 3 vs 16b. And it is from this same curse - Genesis 3 vs 16 - 22 - that God then sent Jesus Christ to redeem man from offering salvation/redemption from the curse, preaching equality instead. So sincd your Bible tells you submission is a curse on marriage - nothing natural about the curse. So, maybe you mean instead that you abide by Islamic tenets in this. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 1:21pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Angrymode:1. Why should men be the boss and why should women be the slaves/servants to men in this? 2. No clear definition of roles where? Marriage is meant to be an agreement between a man and a woman and hence unique in each setting. So if you are calling for a society level definition of roles in the family, don't you see how that goes against the very grain of what marriage is? 3. Well, what's "love/respect" got to do with it abeg? So long as a man and woman agree to be partners....why does there need to be "love/respect" between them as defined by any other standard out there when their agreement is the only required standard as far as marriage is concerned? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 1:27pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Thomthom:um.... submission in marriage is God's curse on woman and hence marriage since Genesis 3 vs 16b, and that is cursed aka that which exists under a curse is unholy and unacceptable in the sight of God. That same curse in Genesis 3 vs 16-22 , God then sent Jesus Christ to redeem men from, commanding them to no longer live in submission to the curse- Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10. So, if as a so-called Christian, you chose the curse over that which Jesus Christ commands, what that infact means is you reject Salvation/Redemption from the curse and hence establish yourself as one who is against Jesus Christ, God's Truth. So, you need to review your claim as their is nothing holy/Christian about choosing to live under God’s curse.. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 1:29pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
mekuso89:Why do I have to submit when I can altogether throw submission out the door? Submission isn't the only form of relationship out there. There is partnership where both individuals are equally yoked instead. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 1:29pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Amumaigwe:Is submission the only type of relationship you know of or what? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 1:34pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Deandean:1. Not an exemption. Instead those who will grace the presence of God are those who live above the curse. 2. It is? Where is this study abeg make I read to. By the way, I am not a feminist but a follower of Jesus Christ aka a Jesusian and according to Him, men and women are equal- Matthew 23 vs 8 - 10. And divorce is not a sin. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Nobody: 1:41pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
rickpat: Who is paying them same with men? get your fact right abeg |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Caleycashh: 1:42pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:This your useless and unhealthy family arguments... is one of the reasons for any well to do and full fledged man shouldn't marry a feminist, imagine marrying a woman arguing with me like this, your father house straight... rubbish!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 1:42pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
nighter:1. Where in the law or in stone are these duties spelt out for you? 2. A ship isn't what you are running. Instead what you are talking of is a relationship and it takes more than one person to make a relationship work. Marriage is defined as an agreement between a man and a woman - it takes a man and woman to make a marriage. So why do you prescribe only submission can work when there are other types of relationships apart from the master/slave kind you are used to? 3. Why? 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by bukatyne(f): 1:44pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Novemberaura: Reading this tread, you don't sound like a man ready to marry and be a husband. As a man, you are to find a wife whose goals align with yours (and vice versa) and court her to determine you both agree enough to proceed to marriage. Your girlfriend said she is a feminist; what does that mean to her? What does it mean to you? It is not a function of who she defines herself to be; it is a function of who she has proven to be under your scrutiny. What does marriage mean to her? What does submission mean to her? If she doesn't subscribe to submission, what is her view towards marriage? Can she give practical examples? Even if a woman claims to hate feminism tomorrow, you still need to examine her to see she fits. You; and not Nairalanders. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Who mentioned anything about slavery or you don't know how to read? Value yourself as a woman, I said. Find a man who respects and loves you. You find one, submit to him. Where did you see become a slave? 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Nobody: 1:54pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Pierocash: The men back in the days are those we submit to 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Marrying A Feminist by Caleycashh: 1:54pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
BloomingDale:Lol... no one is gonna buy that crap!, certainly not here in Africa, if women were here first why aren't you bigger, stronger, more intelligent, adventurous, good in sports, amazing inventors, pay grooms price and finally why aren't men giving birth to children!?, even nature let's you know it's a male's world, keep digging and researching rubbish, funny enough the scientists that did this research will mostly be men!, go and humble your self and marry!, quit being stupid! |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by BloomingDale(f): 1:55pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Caleycashh: The only important characteristic which nature is concerned about, is the ability to procreate, and a strong immune system which favors the woman. Anything outside of that is just noise. Women don’t need men to procreate. 4 Likes
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Re: Marrying A Feminist by Kobojunkie: 1:59pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
nighter:1. You mentioned submission, and submission is defined as a type of master/slave relationship. 2. Again to the statement in bold, why? 3. See #1 above. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Caleycashh: 1:59pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
[quote author=BloomingDale post=114144918][/quote]I reiterate it's all trash to support feminist movement!!!... Men have being marrying more than 1 woman from time immemorial, shows you a woman cannot function fully without a man, every woman yearns for a powerful man in their lives, this is fact and reality not some rubbish scientific research to buttress your feminist trash ideologies, it ain't working, they should try harder!!! |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by BloomingDale(f): 2:03pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Caleycashh: Statistics show that women can function more effectively on their own. Men, not so much. Women are emotionally stronger than men. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying A Feminist by Caleycashh: 2:04pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
BloomingDale:Hahahaa, are you talking to a toddler or what!?, women don't need men to procreate!?, Yes you need Baboon to procreate!, ana kogeheri!!! |
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