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Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Izzyboy19: 4:24pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
If it doesn't hurt you today, it will hurt tomorrow, if she was so valuable to her previous lover, he will have married her, stop taking care of another man's responsibility because you wanna pls a lady, it will end in premier tears las las, #NO TO SIMPING 5 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Jashub: 4:25pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Moral of the story : never take care of another man's bastartd . If possible keep them far away from you for the sake of your financial security 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Why don't single fathers get so much hate? Most of you dissing single moms forget that it took two to make a baby... She stayed and the father left... That makes her a bad person? I guess being a responisible parent is a sin... 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by izzyvol(m): 4:33pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Nah, if the previous lover adore and value her and she is not just a sex object to him, he would have married her, Any man that just get married to a singles mom that still keep contact with her ex is playing with future fire 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Jashub:I know you're an alpha... And you're desperate for likes... But calling fatherless children bastards is a dirty thing to do... Their fathers left and you're demeaning them for their unfortunate situation? Do you know how many of your redpill colleagues were raised by single mothers? Because your father didn't leave doesn't mean you're better than anyone else... Many children raised by single moms have excelled... You're still a nobody on the intenet with a shi**y opinion... 19 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by tommy589(m): 4:36pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
BoredBerry: Thank you boredberry 4 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Jashub: 4:39pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
BoredBerry:Look at this baby-producing machine ...abeg swerve from my mentions with your self-imposed stupidity. If you like train another man's bàstard . That's your fvcking prerogative 20 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
tommy589: My dad left... Chose alcohol and prostitutes over his own kids... I won't be blamed for that... 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Jeon(f): 4:56pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Jashub: An average black man can't express his saying without insulting himself. How do you know that she's a baby producing machine?. have you met her one -on-one?. Guy you're only talking about ur mother[ cuz you came out from her vagina making her an ancient baby machine while BoredBerry is still making a better advance for her proper life ]. sorry for the statement. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by zionmde: 5:00pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Jashub:What of if the single mom is earning well in her career. Will u still be talking of financial security As for the children u called bastard, God will visit u soon. U think u are comfortable and fortunate enough to denigrate an innocent human like that, God will surely judge u. 11 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Laggafin: 5:13pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Jashub:I felt like tearing u apart into miserable shreds but i realised dis days common sense is no longer common.. So cause u were raised by ur parents makes it kool to spill trash to single modas? Karma is a bitch and trust me u wil never raise ur own kids 6 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Maverick777: 5:18pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Izzyboy19:I don't know why but...I'm literally crying. like could this really happen? |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Jeon:Thanks... I jist wonder why he took it out on the children... Calling them bastards... I'm the proud daughter of a single mom... And the stigmatization only pushes me to do better and make her proud... Haters can rot in hell 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by WatchYourSix: 5:22pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
This scenario plays out more often....single mothers like to go back to their ex...when the opportunity comes along..especially whem the ex is now rich and better Some say they do it for themselves mostly becos they usually never stop loving their ex.. -Some say they prefer having their kids with one man and also for their child to be with his or her real father I feel these scenario happens more often becos many single mothers marry who is available...not usually for love.. -they marry who is availble to help them with their financial responsibility......they jump at who will take away the society-imposed stigma of being a single mother.....know this if you are getting into bed with a single mother.. Thats why when their old flame comes along, they dont need to think it twice before dumping you..since you are just a means to an end I remeber my uncle used to say he couldn't scold his wife's son without the wife saying somethig like "you are too hard on my child".. ..there's always this tension whem he does... ...its always gonna be her child..not yours,even with a formal adoption .....and shes right. You ddnt father the child, so your behavior with the child will always be under scrutiny.. If you are an amazing step father: youll still hear something like and he's not the real father ooo..hes so nice... if you scold..youll also be in trouble for doing so to another person's kid ..something that will ordinarily not come up if you scold your own biological kid... If you want to be that man who a woman choses for convinience, financial help, and societal pressure...go ahead....just know the risks are always there because people will at the end of the day do whats best for them....even if it hurts you like a thousand knives plunged into your heart 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Jeon(f): 5:22pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
BoredBerry: NO BÀSTARD. IT TAKES TWO TO MINGLE. 3 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Prettygirl200(f): 5:28pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Am a woman, but I won't advice any single guy to marry a single mother, imagine the story that was nartated up there, after all these sacrifices made by that man, the children still abandoned who looked and trained them to go reconcile with their dad? Who does that. Who on earth with conscience will do that, imagine the pain that man will be in he will be full of regrets living miserably. It didn't happen to me but immediately I read that story I felt pain for the unknown person, so instead of going through all these later in future, it better u don't get yourself involved with them, or better still if u must marry den don't take responsibilities of any man's child. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Jashub: 5:43pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Laggafin:Take your stupidity far from my mentions 4 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Jashub: 5:46pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
zionmde:If you'd put this much effort in minding your business you would have gone far in life But since you've chosen to be emotional over social media commentary , then I'll assume you're just one of the many jobless blokes on this forum 4 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by tommy589(m): 6:31pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: You are going to be a bad judge.Someone narrated his own side of the story and you have passed judgement I am proudly raised by a single mom 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Prettygirl200(f): 6:38pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
tommy589:This is my opinion, for those singles guys out there that like to marry single mothers, or like taking full responsibility of their kid or kids am not against them, it's their choice. But if am given the chance to advise any guy I won't advice him to and if am to b a guy I won't marry a single mother that's it. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by tommy589(m): 6:52pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: I am disappointed that this comes from a woman. Shit do happen. My homely,pretty,religious younger sister through no fault of hers has been a single mom quite a while. She did not wish it Our dreams and aspirations is for a better future. But is it for us to decide? 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by rickleye: 6:55pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
I am sorry but I don't believe this story. Even if the woman would go back, the kids know who their true father is. The person who took them to camp and put clothes on their back and took them to school. Nurture vs Nature . When you adopted them - didn't they take your name ? I have never met any woman who after dropping the dead beat husband/father goes back after that long. Something smells fishy. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Prettygirl200(f): 7:12pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
tommy589:Ur disappointment will not add or remove anything from me, like I said this is my opinion except offcourse u are a lady behind this monicker. I rest my case!!!! 10 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by WatchYourSix: 7:50pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Prettygirl200: You are unapologetically vawulent nonchalant .... me likey.. 1 Like |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by cooltola(m): 7:56pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Single dad should marry single mom and the equation is balanced . 2 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by cooltola(m): 8:03pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Such is life, some women are single moms because their boyfriend or husbands were abusive, womanizing or just plain deadbeat dads. No one is above mistake. ,marry or date who u want. Just do not be unequally yoke and avoid irresponsible , unserious men and women. A single dad should date a single mom, avoid irresponsible people. E.g . A man who has kids by multiple women, do not work do not care about his kids and he claims to be a player is another redflag. Do not go date such folks because they are good looking 6 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Nicepoker(m): 9:53pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Single moms are like armed bandits going on rampage to create a Carnage 1 Like |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by HOMA777: 10:07pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
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Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by luminouz(m): 10:27pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Prettygirl200:Gold plated!!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by luminouz(m): 10:34pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
tommy589: You didn't tell anyone your sister's story here. How do we know what went wrong before you assumed the worst? Besides, you think it's right for a man to train other men's kids and be repaid with such betrayal? That's wrong. One of the tenets of the redpill is never be the retirement plan or second option of anyone. Hardworking single moms can raise their kids and i won't question them. Hell, they can even have a boyfriend and I won't even mind because she is a human being with needs. But it is wrong when such women use another man to foot the bills of those kids and end up dumping him, for the useless pûnk who gave her those kids again, just because he is now rich. Many men will marry a widow or even single moms whose baby daddys are dead but not those who are still alive, to avoid these dudes suddenly coming out of the blue and reaping the rewards of what the stepdads laboured for. 6 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Nazgul: 10:39pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
If that story is true, those kids are heartless bastards. The issue here isn't the wife, it's them. How could they turn their backs on the man who made them what they are today? This is so wrong 5 Likes |
Re: Reason You Should Not Give A Bleep About Single Mom As A Guy by Bukola94(m): 11:13pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
WatchYourSix:May God bless you and bless those that always say the truth, no matter the circumstances. This your story is as if u are directly saying the story of my life. I was raise by a guardian, it took years before I knew my biological parent 2 Likes 1 Share |
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