Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,195,296 members, 7,957,752 topics. Date: Tuesday, 24 September 2024 at 07:12 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? (65954 Views)
What Is The Best Way To Handle This Type Of Wildness In A Kid? / How Do I Handle This Kind Of Woman? / How Can I Handle This Issue With The Wife Of My Boss? (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (15) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by VULCAN(m): 12:11am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Notice how she spelt come as "cum". That is all you need to know. Her visit will lead to many things and in the end the friendship will be lost I also pray that your life will not be lost also 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Stevo35: 12:12am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Rape case loading.... |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by ToyinDipo(m): 12:12am On Jul 02, 2022 |
....like to CUM OVA, wahala 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by xest(m): 12:16am On Jul 02, 2022 |
JovialJune:na lie Aunty,go back to that text message and read it again to understand it properly well 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by grandstar(m): 12:19am On Jul 02, 2022 |
JovialJune: Oga, everyone will carry his own load. He is probably being wiser than most people here. What may seem very innocent may lead to disaster (Read Proverbs 27:12). It is better to be safe than sorry. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Af0nja: 12:20am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: So making deals behind the back of your husband is what makes an adult 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Anonymoususher: 12:21am On Jul 02, 2022 |
I have been battling same thing with my childhood friend's girlfriend of 9yrs. My friend is one of the Best Human being I have met. We have been through alot together yet haven't quarrelled OR fought since our childhood. He started dating this girl I think since 2012 OR so and I got to be friends with her too. Being that I am doing better than him, as my blossom friend without asking him I gave him a start up capital to start up a business and quit his poor job (he paid back though), I also gave him money to rent an accommodation and leave his parents house because I didn't like the fact that he was still squatting. His girlfriend happens to be my friend too (got close to her through my friend) and to her I have also been supportive especially with her accommodation which I gave to my friend to give to her, somehow she got to know that I was the one that raised the money. My problem is that she will come visit me to discuss issues bothering her, I always feel uncomfortable whenever she comes then I make sure we stay outside and not inside. Many atimes she seeks my opinion without even seeking her man's own then when I ask her if she has spoken with my friend she says he is busy. I only go-to her side along with my friend and most times she will say, you no dey come find person unless your friend follow you. Recently she was angry with me because she invited me to come eat what she prepared but I didn't go. All these makes me uncomfortable, my friend is a great guy and I will be sad if he starts thinking otherwise. I have my fiancee I love to the core and I pray she herself doesn't misunderstand what I am avoiding 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Kobojunkie: 12:27am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Af0nja:Making what deal? She asked to help a man who helped her family out of a predicament, with house chores since his wife is absent. She is not a child and is hence competent enough to know what makes sense and what does not in her own situation and for her own family's welfare. |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by iamme1234(m): 12:28am On Jul 02, 2022 |
JovialJune: Am not sure you think down before writing this shit What's her motive of coming If not for sex,if its house chores true true why didnt the said lady tell her own husband instead of the man that helps her own husband financially Go and seat down kid 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by vince96w2(m): 12:31am On Jul 02, 2022 |
JovialJune:you are talking as if sex is one way..what if it's her way to get close and seduce him actually? They have said Thank you .Why is she sending him such text again?Am damn sure her husband isn't aware of this.. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by vince96w2(m): 12:32am On Jul 02, 2022 |
DamnnNiggarr:Tell her you are doing fine..If she comes and her husband mistakenly meets her There, even if nothing happened, no explanation can help u 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by iamme1234(m): 12:32am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by yusufmurry: 12:34am On Jul 02, 2022 |
[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] JovialJune: Outside sex thought, why would you even encourage such visit for two married adults? No be only house chores she dey come assist? The guy complained that he needed assistance? Why do women think the only way to pay back good gesture is sex? Poverty isn't good at all. Know this and have peace of mind, that 99% of men thinks of sex either at first instance or second 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by yyba: 12:35am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Pographice:na lie |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Charly500(m): 12:36am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Op reply saying that is not necessary |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by godwon01(m): 12:36am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Don't use their financial vulnerability to break their home. The woman is very innocent. She can never make any move which I am quite sure of. If you do mess up with the lady, your help is no longer to be acceptable by God and you will get the repercussions in the future. Allow the woman to visit and don't make any stupid move otherwise the implications will be disastrous for you which I don't want you to imagine. |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by yusufmurry: 12:41am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: As simple as that Don't mind @Kobojunkie |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by godwon01(m): 12:46am On Jul 02, 2022 |
galantjoe:Not a good advice bro. This is a very sensitive issues and it can happen to anybody. Remember, they are old friends and the friendship should not break like that because of one useless pussy. Just a game of +-20 minutes and split a family. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Af0nja: 12:47am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: If you think her husband shouldn't know about it then you're irrational and a true Kobo junkie because you are mentally poor You don't even sound free minded, you sound mentally dry with your baseless debate. 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Af0nja: 12:52am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Anonymoususher: You are a good man with a great conscience. Keep it up sha, sometimes when good people do such things, it doesn't work out well for them. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by CaptainFM1: 12:55am On Jul 02, 2022 |
JovialJune: Hmmm....Devine visitation! There are two sides to a coin Sir. |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by yusufmurry: 12:56am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Berankis: Just my mind and thought. Modified: Not like some women's antics, it's all women antics |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by splashbaby(m): 1:01am On Jul 02, 2022 |
ibechris:Again you people are still telling us Obi is better…I can’t believe una lailai…Tell her you will let her know when to come. This way it will be forever…if it’s genuine concern or not, you don’t need to experience any of the two. Meanwhile, Avoid all politicians including Obi, na restructuring we need |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Nobody: 1:11am On Jul 02, 2022 |
DamnnNiggarr: She already said it all. She says she wants to cum over. Meaning when she comes visiting. She’ll cum all over you. |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by nedekid: 1:18am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Kobojunkie:Simple and streight forward! |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Boredberrry(f): 1:21am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Whois:why did you put the cum for block letters? |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Yankee101: 1:27am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Cum? Of course not. Thank her and decline |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by olamilekan9(m): 1:30am On Jul 02, 2022 |
ibechris: |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by godofuck231: 1:31am On Jul 02, 2022 |
You don't bring a rat home for dinner , they will bring in the whole colony and wreck you , you house is about to be compromised 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by Greatlee54: 1:42am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Grow up man! |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by lereinter(m): 1:43am On Jul 02, 2022 |
If ugochi is reading nl nko |
Re: How Do You Handle This Type Of Situation? by zedegit: 1:46am On Jul 02, 2022 |
DamnnNiggarr: Simply tell her that you appreciate her offer but that it wouldn't be necessary. Remember she said if you didn't mind but you mind. Don't encourage this no matter how harmless it looks. Besides you left too many details and clues. Who knows if the husband is in Nairaland? |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (15) (Reply)
‘I Cannot Withstand My Husband's Vigorous Lovemaking After Taking Manpower' / Would You Buy This For Your 14 Year Old Son/daughter? / How Do I Forgive Him?
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 71 |