I blame the husband for every broken home in Nigeria.
The only thing a Nigerian woman want is sex, I mean good sex. If that happened every other thing is an addition.

This does not always be like this.

ustanejnr:
The truth about this subject is

Bad people always end u with good people, because the know better and the can manipulate a good person into marriage.
Two bad people won't work, becos them know themselves

Very well said. This is mostly the cause for good and bad getting married bt good can end up with good if they are smart and bad can end up with bad if they like each other despite their flaws.

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Sorry love
U seen a good person but ma worry better days ahead

hardon1:


Why in your opinion do you think you are the good women here.

nobody know you more than yourself.

blinking001:

Just have it at the back of your mind that you aren't going to remarry because your chances are really slim now. You aren't going to get genuine love from men especially after having 3 kids. The streets is cold.

Ensure that you're financially stable else you'll experience premium suffering NACKING in this life.

I wish you Goodluck.

fixed

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Him no get money. Forget

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Him no get money. Forget na u de try sustain dem.

bukky1994:
OK, where are you packing to?

To his father's house n later be disturbing h brothers for money and de whole family will be left frustrated

What do we do?

NeedAdvice00:
I'm a good man and I will marry good woman

so you never even marry? After one year of marriage come and tell us how far.

Cypress042:
Now tell me how this thread would add value to a common man's life?

If you're done pack your things and leave is not a do or die affair

you have said nothing

Tonnyray:
Good Men Marry Bad Girls, Bad Girls Marry Good Men
A lie from the pits of hell society has been programmed to swallow hook, line and sinker.
In this life, learn to think for yourself and swim against the tide.
Shalom.

brotherly , oju yin ree, Otojometa

Lightorder:
you have said nothing

My intention wasn't to say anything either. shift for road joor

MarketDispatch:


Why not shed more meaningful light on why you are leaving the marriage.

If she sheds more light,won't the light blind blind you?
Keep walking in the dimness maka Anya ichakpo GI.

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Tell me the honest truth. Are you eyeing another big gbola? Someone told me that the heart of a woman is very deep.

Mark my my words, this marriage thing scare the shit outta me cos these women are devil from the pit of hell, they will oppress the man, lie against him and always claim victim of oppression. I am above 30 but hmmmm thinking so hard of a way to give this marriage thing atry due to pressure from family and society.

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Please, don't quit yet! Have you talked to God about the conflict?
Have you asked yourself what you are doing wrong?
Have looked at the strength of your partner and not magnifying his weakness?
Have tried using love and submission to win him over?
Do you daily pray in love that God should change him?
Have you asked yourself if there is any marriage without a challenge?
Have had a one on one gentle talk and not quarrel with your partner?
Have you involved both families to settle this problem?
Have you involved your religious leaders or marriage counsellors?
Have you counted the cost of the effect of a broken marriage on your kids?
Is there any thread to life by violence?
Can you forgive and let go?
Can you endure a little more?
Humble yourself and pray and fast as the Devil wants to break your home. But through prayer and fasting, y6can resist him. Please don't quit. Hang on a little more. I speak peace to your marriage and rebuke the Devil trying to break your family in Jesus's name. Amen

Look at them again am sure lack of money caused this

Cypress042:
My intention wasn't to say anything either. shift for road joor

stay home and quit ‘ parking the bus’

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Better stay in your marriage except there is threat to your life.

There is nothing out there

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

So sorry about your experience.

The two sentences are the same.

Divoc19:

Good women don't like good men.

They see good men as being complacent or not man enough to deserve their respect and submission so they go for bad men.

They want good men, but he must have some bad qualities. More like they want a mix of Pastor and Rambo/Terminator. 100% good man is not acceptable by women. He go remain single till he die like Jesus Christ

Good women know the characteristics of good men, they just prefer bad men. If good man come they will run away from him.

But if bad man come, will accept him. I know lot of females that had bad first relationships, second and third time, they still picked bad men again and again.

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Not always all the time. I'm a good man and I married a good woman.

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

SO THAT BOTH CAN COMPLIMENT AND RAISE GODLY CHILDREN

Why is your moniker related with divorce? there are somethings you guys plate with that will later play out in ones life.. and why do you feel divorce is the only solution left.. Instead of coming to Nairaland why not report your Husband to his People.. Like his mom, dad, sis, bro, uncle, pastor, or elderly men or women only in your area.. What do you do that he does not like that you continue doing or are you all these mumu future is female kind of.. you have 3 kids raising them alone without putting hands together financially he go hard you, except you are the bread winner.. And if Na one mumu man dey one corner dey given you mind, you better have a rethink because e go be scam.. I advice you Dnt divorce.. if he does not involves violence like hitting you or threatening to kill you don't divorce still patient.. But you can take a leave like a month or 2 for your brain and the brain of the man to reset..

I got married and regretted why I didn’t do it earlier. Marriage is the sweetest thing I have ever experienced. Don’t say everything, don’t hear everything , don’t see everything and don’t know everything. It is work in progress. MAKE IT WORK. Arm yourself with “I am sorry “ always and you will turn out like me, rushing home straight on time to be welcomed with kisses . The union between my mum and dad worked , I am suppose to do better

If you're parking out i gladly wishing you safe journey and good luck in your future endeavour pls don't forget to drop key to where your husband will seen it and don't park your husband things oo just because he is not around.



At least your husband is not lose, if i be your husband i will not bother myself on remarry soon just focus on my life and taking good care to my three children that in your custody

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Will you kindly be patience? God is with you He will compensate you and the doors of goodness are with Him. Stay happy all the time.

So which one are you? The good one that married a bad person or the bad one that married a good person?
Let’s hear from his ends also because your gender are full of surprises sha. Meanwhile I’m happy you are happy no matter the ordeals. If there’s life there’s hope. Keep the faith and hope alive. Success all the way