That's the irony of life

It true because some personality type attract each other like sanguine attract melancholy and choleric attract phlegmatic temperament.

ford101:
idiot

maka why

That's why s3x is integral..

Divoc19:
Yes. This is the reality of my time.
I can't do marriage/slavery again.
Finances to make the little ones know that life can be better. I am very hard-working. With God on my side. I'll do better.
Thank you

Why not try separation first? Divorce with three children may be extreme for a start.

Rehabilitation is possible with prayers and rejuvenated love from out of sight.

OBTOREPA:

Packing to meet Good man

lols after having 3 kids? And who is this good man that isn't married

vickydevoka:

To his father's house n later be disturbing h brothers for money and de whole family will be left frustrated

hahahahhahahaaaa how you take sabi?

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

It's a..... It's almost a law that most people don't know about, so after you've realized this fact..... almost fact, people who see relationships on the surface level may never understand this fact...... Almost fact.

Divoc19:
The issues are plenty. But I will need space before I lose my sanity.

if u stay in osun, i will welcome u and ur 3 children

The reason is because like poles repel and unlike poles attract

PumpumPrince:



sadly Only one wifey material on nairaland & shes lightskin....her name is Wumi2017, my babe!! (no ooofencse)

Wumi omo ibadan

She sef kuku dey find husband

Thank you.
The signs we there I have been hopeful all along

Originalsly:


Guys do not change.... whatever it is about him that makes you want out .... was always with him... was there before you marry him... but were you looking for signs?... studying him his ways?.... or brushed aside all signs of trouble and hoped marriage will wipe them away? .

Thank you.

Draslo:

you should both consider the best co-parenting options so as not to break those kids. No matter your collective decisions, ensure their mental wellness is in check.

God bless and goodluck

Never again.
God help me.

TrollsNeverDies:
are you planning on remarrying?

Hope you have a good source of income?The street is rugged.

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Yes. It is not a divorce just separation for my sanity.

MadamExcellency:


Why not try separation first? Divorce with three children may be extreme for a start.

Rehabilitation is possible with prayers and rejuvenated love from out of sight.

Then I'll number among the "Bad men"

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Eyahh I can feel your pain.At this point in time, your kids should be your priority now and make sure you don't allow any man treat you the same way again.
Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and not for suffering.

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Life no balance...

At all

Johel:



Life no balance...

bukky1994:
hahahahhahahaaaa how you take sabi?

I get plenty sister.

Divoc19:
Never again. God help me.

how old are you? sorry to ask

Divoc19:
Thank you dear friend.
Oil dey your head and God will bless you more.

I am now convinced that a very few are truly lucky. This is my teenage love. I pray never to fall like this again. It's like a charm.

You should be 31/32, lived in Ogun state but now in Lagos... I might be wrong.

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Sad! If domestic violence isn't involved, perhaps you can try separation for a while before going for divorce if reconciliation is unattainable.

I believe children are better off growing up with their 2 parents but not in a toxic atmosphere.

May God guide and strengthen you to cope with the situation and take the right decisions. Please don't fall for the gimmicks of men who may want to seize the opportunity to deceive you into relationships that ultimately leads nowhere and damages further. God will empower you to meet your financial obligations. He'll touch your husband's heart to play his role with regards to the children.

You need a strong support base comprising mainly of close family and trusted friends. Make good use of that to avoid getting depressed.

All will be well. We'll rejoice with you in due season.

In otherwords girls are badt

vickydevoka:

I get plenty sister.

lols really? Na I'm be say them go they bill you wella

Why do you people always feel the need to police women's vaginas ?

Do you have the same sentiments for men who divorce their wives ?

Blunttruth:

If it had nothing to do with domestic violence,I don't support it you leaving. Except you know you will face the children and remain single. Not later you will start dragging a married man.

Marriage is the most dangerous thing/venture people go into.

There is nothing like love. Love is scam and pretence.
Hence, tell me why a girl/guy who claimed to have loved you would want to curse hell out of you , see no good part of you because things got wrong.

Again, Love, especially in Africa is dominated by sex and money. Take this out, true character of individuals involved will be exposed.

Otherwise, tell me why a girl would want a rich husband and also tell me why a guy would want a sexually looking girl. Alas!

@OP, your story is one-sided. Either of you might have been wrong. The hand you stretched to your husband is what he's giving you back. There is no man/woman that gets peace from his family that would want to go outside or make troubles.

Take responsibility of your ordeal and move on with your life. Marriage is not a do-or-die affairs. It's only in Africa culture that divorce is seen as great crime.

If you're financially stable, you will not feel the pain much but African girls think it's just marrying a rich man and giving birth. Develop yourself, so that when e go happen, you don't come on social media and be crying foul. #GetSense
Every breakfast delayed isn't denied. Las las, all men go collect.

Thank you sis. May God bless you richly.

delpee:


I believe children are better off growing up with their 2 parents but not in a toxic atmosphere.
All will be well. We'll rejoice with you in due season.

VeryWickedMan:
I love failed marriages

Me too.

I sure say I dey like am pass you.

After snapping all those prewedding pictures and doing pepper dem to us wey no go ever ready to marry, the whole thing go just come crashing and they will only come to Nairaland to weep.

So divoc19 abi covid19, continue weeping biko because I dey enjoy am

In fact, make I dance small sekem on your behalf now.

High star for the red pillar

satandeterrible:
Looking at many disgusting fools here supporting the woman.
You guys don't even know whether she was a useless wife, a stupid cheat or simply an irresponsible woman.
She might even be the oppressor.

But because na woman, fools and stupid idiots like y'all up there dy offer encouragement.

This woman might be more evil than the devil himself. She might have been a disgusting thorn in her husband's flesh. Now the man has woken up and will no longer tolerate her excesses.

But stupid, rabid dogs like y'all commenters up there are all supporting the woman.

Nonsense!