Divoc19:
Very true, they sometimes turn good to bad. They are so manipulative by hiding their other side while the good people will be praying and be hopeful till their death.

I think we really need to rethink this whole good people and bad people labels. What makes a person a good person? A lot of the characteristics we associate with so called "good people" are actually toxic.

For example, you're saying that some good people are prayerful and hopeful till their death. Isn't that nonsense?? If someone treats you badly, you respond accordingly instead of allowing them to continue disrespecting and mistreating you. Being assertive and not tolerating any nonsense from anyone doesn't make you a "bad person". In fact, it makes you a healthy human being

What you're referring to as good people are naive people

blinking001:

Just have it at the back of your mind that you aren't going to remarry because your chances are really slim now. You aren't going to get genuine love from men especially after having 3 kids. The streets is cold.

Ensure that you're financially stable else you'll experience premium suffering in this life.

I wish you Goodluck.

If a man can't genuinely love a woman with 3 kids, what makes you think that he can genuinely love a woman without any kids?

ustanejnr:
The truth about this subject is

Bad people always end u with good people, because the know better and the can manipulate a good person into marriage.
Two bad people won't work, becos them know themselves

Naive people =/= good people

This sounds so right but not everybody can do this.

bepositive11:

If someone treats you badly, you respond accordingly instead of allowing them to continue disrespecting and mistreating you.

He could even love another woman with 8kids if he has the right chemistry with her.

It's only painful when the chemistry is not mutual. Like it is in my case. Because love is blind

bepositive11:


If a man can't genuinely love a woman with 3 kids, what makes you think that he can genuinely love a woman without any kids?

Divoc19:
It's probably time to clear my Monika issues.
Divoc19 is Covid19.
2ndly. That's how I have been feeling all these years. It's time to get a life for me.

Dont deactivate pls. I need you here, reason i dont missbehave.

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

I have nothing to say, my words are simply put. WOMEN ARE MANIPULATIVE.

Human are manipulative. Hence the heart of man (human) is wicked

PlaysNigeria:

I have nothing to say, my words are simply put. WOMEN ARE MANIPULATIVE.

ustanejnr:
The truth about this subject is

Bad people always end u with good people, because the know better and the can manipulate a good person into marriage.
Two bad people won't work, becos them know themselves

Lol reminds me of a male thief and a female prôstïtute.

You didn't get my point. My comment was not addressed to you. It was addressed to that man who thinks that the more children a woman has, the less lovable or desirable she becomes to a man

If that is the man's condition, even his so called love for the woman with no kids is not genuine

Divoc19:
He could even love another woman with 8kids if he has the right chemistry with her.

It's only painful when the chemistry is not mutual. Like it is in my case. Because love is blind

Those people who cannot do it have personal issues to address. Sometimes, it's because their parents mistreated and disrespected them, so they learned to tolerate it

From the get go, we need to filter toxic people out -- be it friends or romantic partners

Divoc19:
This sounds so right but not everybody can do this.

Exactly, this is so me.

bepositive11:
Those people who cannot do it have personal issues to address. Sometimes, it's because their parents mistreated and disrespected them, so they learned to tolerate it

From the get go, we need to filter toxic people out -- be it friends or romantic partners

I get your point. My case is not another woman case. Generally, we all know 'it feels good loving somebody and somebody loves you back'

bepositive11:
You didn't get my point. My comment was not addressed to you. It was addressed to that man who thinks that the more children a woman has, the less lovable or desirable she becomes to a man

If that is the man's condition, even his so called love for the woman with no kids is not genuine

Exactally why it happens so the good could fix the bad.

Divoc19:
Exactly, this is so me.

That's unfortunate. I hope you learn how to break free from it

Yes. Now, that I am more aware, am re-orienting myself.

bepositive11:


That's unfortunate. I hope you learn how to break free from it

Use to think like this until I realized some bad should be left alone.
E get why.

Hoodyrich:
Exactally why it happens so the good could fix the bad.

Divoc19:
Yes. Now, that I am more aware, am re-orienting myself.

That's great.