Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Parking to the unknown world.

I wish you otherwise.

I wish you luck!

KingDash:
Come make i wife you

more like come for hookup

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Because good guys don't have time to be running after a lady forever unlike bad guys. Same way good ladies expect guys to do alot of wooing before they agree but trust me, 98% of good guys don't have that time, because they know what they have for the person is genuine so it's either a yes or they leave.

Most good ladies are their own problem

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

I still pray your marriage works provided it's not abusive.

KingDash:
Come make i wife you

If you marry her you gotta be as toxic as the hubby. If not one chance for you

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olabrinks:
Assuming you’re in the U.K. or USA, you will easily meet someone else, and possibly re marry if that’s what you want. But Nigeria, it’s hard. The men in Nigeria are not exposed to life, they see single mothers as abomination.

If you can relocate to the U.K. with your children, you will be better off. Start afresh your life is just beginning.

That's not true. Haven't you heard that UK is the home for all single mother who left Naija?

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

Why na

Midas01:
Why do you people always feel the need to police women's vaginas ?

Do you have the same sentiments for men who divorce their wives ?

Yes I do. What is a sin is a sin. My opinion if it were a man is same. As a man if you know you cannot stay alone after divorce then do not separate from your wife. That's why in marriage you do not rush in. Take your time and DO NOT ignore red flags.

ustanejnr:
The truth about this subject is

Bad people always end u with good people, because the know better and the can manipulate a good person into marriage.
Two bad people won't work, becos them know themselves

What is your definition of a bad person?

blinking001:

Just have it at the back of your mind that you aren't going to remarry because your chances are really slim now. You aren't going to get genuine love from men especially after having 3 kids. The streets is cold.

Ensure that you're financially stable else you'll experience premium suffering in this life.

I wish you Goodluck.

Even single and untouched ladies with cool job/business never see road marry sef

Not always...

batb:

That's not true. Haven't you heard that UK is the home for all single mother who left Naija?

they’re single mothers everywhere. But men in the U.K. and USA are more open to date single mothers. People are less likely to hold onto their dead marriages abroad, so more single fathers available. She’s more likely to see a success story overseas. The economy overseas is also more favourable to single mothers

And so

Sorry ,... Tell us more ...

ustanejnr:
The truth about this subject is

Bad people always end u with good people, because the know better and the can manipulate a good person into marriage.
Two bad people won't work, becos them know themselves

What about two good people?

JBriel:



The meme got me. You're a violent trouble maker I swear

Aswr this guy is a comrade from d department of vawulence...
Na d meme off me...

Divoc19:
Why does this always happen please?
Packing out soonest.
Done.
11years, 3kids.
Dusted.
Kudos to the successful ones out there.
This is my fate.
Am happy and unhappy

So, who is the bad one between the two of you?

culf:


Because good guys don't have time to be running after a lady forever unlike bad guys. Same way good ladies expect guys to do alot of wooing before they agree but trust me, 98% of good guys don't have that time, because they know what they have for the person is genuine so it's either a yes or they leave.

Most good ladies are their own problem

Very true.

Munzy14:

Even single and untouched ladies with cool job/business never see road marry sef

Walahi! That's life.

The fact ur good does not mean bad things won't happen to you, and
The fact ur bad does not mean good things won't happen to you...

Oh Lord help ur children who seek for ur help for the world is against us at all odds...

That's called blending and balancing

Akalia:
Don't wash your dirty linen in public. Look, if you are going through some marriege related turbulence then it's best kept private.

Most people here saying things you would want to hear and thereby pushing you to spill more beans don't fucking care about you wellbeing.
They are just interested in catching cruise with your odeal and even more use it against you in the future. Be wise madam.

I hope she got what u said...there are marriage issues erwhere. The best of life issue counsel can be found in the Bible. Put ur issues befor God if u dont want to be humilliated. U just made urself available to every creep out there. Pls! ur situation cant be the worst. In relationships, emotions will ignite an unholy fire, discussing ur challenges with a decadent majority is like pouring petrol into the fire. JESUS loves u more than your husband (even if he's Reverend Evangelist Pastor), move close to GOD in prayers and seek Godly wisdom. GOD will your wounds in Jesus name

[color=#990000][/color]I have never heard or seen a situation beyond JESUS. I pray it turn into a BIG TESTIMONY. I was once a drug addict..a victim of a broken home as a teen. I wouldn'nt want ur kids (or any kid to go thru half of that ish). If you're depressed still, slide into my dm for counsel (I'm into that, I'm not big on 'pity-party'...u & d kids deserve happiness).

I wish you all the best.

Divoc19:
What if it is the other way round?

It's always good to be rational when dealing with your fellow human.

aunty don't come here to form holier than thou



pack out,let the man have peace of mind.



You ladies are fond of playing the victim's card after creating problems for yourselves

Rehdasignature1:


Not always all the time. I'm a good man and I married a good woman.

keep kwayet

JBriel:



I hope it's not the usual where the man refuses to work, always demands sex, never in anyway useful to the home/family, only exists for sex and the woman slaves away. Na Dem full outside. They won't allow responsible mehn marry never.

Be careful of this guy
He is always opening new usernames after being banned over and over by the mods.
Don't fall for him or you will regret it.
More than 20 of his usernames have been banned already.

A1lite:


if u stay in osun, i will welcome u and ur 3 children

na dem

Ok

Maverick777:

For you to say this, then you must either be a toddler or just simply living in a fool's paradise.

oya dey there kill ya self

I think your topic suppose to be "good men marry bad girls, good girls marry bad men"

Like my lecturer would say, marriage is patience and endurance, not joy and enjoyment.I feel your pain and wish i could do something to curb that.I wish you well.


@Divoc19

Arkmanbuddy:



You don't have sense, to be honest.

I will subject you to a nerve-wracking depression if you don't get out of my mention.

No offense, but what makes you think that she is a nice woman? You barely know her

Sammy101111:
To be honest people think marriage is easy till you step in . There are so many ups and down even when there is money . Thething is that God should give us a partner that feel Our pain with out explaining . I DONE GIVE UP ON LOVE TETE LOVE is NOT RUSH HOUR TO ME ANY MORE . i only know my self like this anything headache is out of my head just me and my life. It is well divoc just hold your self well and be smarter you have 3 kids some useless will always like to take advantage just crumble you . And please Try to be financially buoyant before you think of loving so you can love the man of your choice and no man will be able to take advantage of you if you financially buoyant on your own . it is well .
God bless you please be strong dear friend . you are a nice woman my friend please be strong only you can help your self