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Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by revolt(m): 12:25pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
OlawaleBammie: Ofcos... the dummy is taking sides not knowing sh@t 1 Like |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by MoneyMustBMade(m): 12:25pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Octobertwentysix:I like your talk that is what his mum supposed to be telling the idiot boy May God bless all ur children's. Amen |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by MoneyMustBMade(m): 12:27pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
revolt: I pity father's with bad wife That's why children always grow up to love thier mother alone |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Brunosamel(m): 12:27pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Failure44:Go and learn barbing if you are serious enough you perfect your skills in three months to six months time, one major benefit is your pocket will never run dry. I used barbing to train myself in school, am currently doing my NYSC and I'm making 10 to 15k a week. Im not dependent on anyone even the allowance I don't touch it I don't compare myself with anyone just working on my long time goal. It's your mind set bro. |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Octobertwentysix(f): 12:28pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
MoneyMustBMade: Amen, thank you, na yeye pikin with a yeye mama. |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by MoneyMustBMade(m): 12:30pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Octobertwentysix: I swear, serious yeye mama Just imagine the product Tomorrow now u will see him with gun rubbing people in the name of having bad father 1 Like |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by FuckSilly: 12:35pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Bad advice... Africans are damaged thanks to this mentality...You are young Stupid Wasted Leftover Dependent Stubborn And very USELESS Yet, you have the audacity to be condemning someone for not being responsible. Many of these parents didn't even grow up with anyone to support them from childhood, yet they were able to hustle to become successful and what they are today. You're just an ingrate and you should blame your mother for all your miseries for making bad choices. Why are you still complaining? ARE YOU NOT ABOVE 18 ALREADY ARE YOU NOT HAVING SEX WITH GUYS ALREADY? WHAT IS YOUR BODYCOUNT NOW? DID ANYONE TEACH YOU HOW TO FUÇK? WHY SHOULD ANYONE TEACH YOU HOW TO MAKE MONEY OR GIVE YOU MONEY? WHY ARE YOU STILL LIVING A DEPENDENT LIFE ? All these abroad bullshǐts that's DECEIVING you just an illusion. In abroad, when a child is ABOVE 18, they usually leave their parents house and start fending for themselves. The parents sometimes send them out and for the lucky well behaved ones that still live with their parents, they are made to pay rents and bills EVEN IN THEIR PARENTS HOUSE. STOP BEING STUPID STOP HAVING THIS SENSELESS ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY! GROW UP! |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by achimendy(m): 12:40pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Failure44: Forget about your parent and stay focus on your life. Hustle like you don't have anybody in this world, and you'll see results in no distant time. Take 100% responsibility of your life, and you'll stop blaming others even if there are in position to help. I did it and worked for me. Although my parents were not irresponsible, but they don't just have. |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by judedwriter(m): 12:41pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Failure44: In this life, you must learn to be patient. If you succeed by crooked means like yahoo yahoo, I tell you in future, you will regret it. God's blessings make rich, seek his blessings Proverbs 10:22 If you pray for the Holy Spirit and pray intensely in tongues with fasting, miracles will happen. Sorry I'm being spiritual, but I strongly believe this physical is controlled by the spiritual realm |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by FuckSilly: 12:43pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
CHoccolaTE:You're just as stop ed as the op |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by FuckSilly: 12:47pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
dominique:Another entitled person |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Octobertwentysix(f): 12:50pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
MoneyMustBMade: Just remembered this guy close to my children's school, his mum fries akara he works in a barbing salon an engineering undergraduate o, every morning he would help her sell akara before going to his barber's shop, no be person pikin be that, he's at home looking for who would pity him. |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Abemy(m): 12:51pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
I genuinely believe you can make him Change his ways, first I did that and second, I helped a friend whose father refused to sponsor his education have his father's mind changed and they are very good friends today. I mean, The relationship between them is something else. 1 Like |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by FuckSilly: 12:52pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
LINTUNE:Another frustrated soul... 1 Like |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by FuckSilly: 12:54pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Acidosis:The bastard must have used it on betting and other gambling. |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by FuckSilly: 12:55pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Romanoff:Way ray See wetin bipolar dey cause.... |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by FuckSilly: 12:57pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Thespagchef:Shut up you this hypocrite girl! We know your type... |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by FuckSilly: 12:59pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Failure44:You spent it on virtuals, betting and other gambling too, I'm very sure. You too go do fraud náà Who dey hold you? 1 Like |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by sharone21(f): 1:16pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Octobertwentysix: |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by sdfggege: 1:39pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Make your life more wonderful through your own efforts! |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by rickleye: 1:42pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Spherica17: I chuckle at " developing nation " . Is he the only one in this "developing nation" to go through misery. I beg gi . If he would concentrate and focus on a task I am sure people would help him attain one of his goals. He has every right to vent but outline an action plan you want to reach. |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by jacoik(m): 1:45pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
VeryWickedMan:you are such a stupid and wicked asshole. What will the mother do ehhhhh, do you know her condition as well? People just come online to write nonsense |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Octobertwentysix(f): 1:48pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
[quote author=sharone21 post=114444765][/quote] You don't get my point, this boy is ungrateful, he blames his father cos his friends are balling as yahoo boys while he's at home broke and owing loan apps 30k, he said his father lavish all his money and he doesn't take money from his mother cos she's a teacher, so who foots his education from primary school to this present 200 level in the University, who pays for his accommodation at school, who feeds him and provides shelter, and what did the man get in return, insults, he had been at home for over three months of ASUU strike eating and sleeping he's not thrown into the streets, instead of thanking God for his good fortune he's here insulting his father cos he was busy reading to gain admission to study medicine while he's mate are doing yahoo now they are balling and he's at home broke and in debt of 30k. |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Settright(m): 2:09pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
I understand your pain seeing those that should be responsible for having enough yet couldn’t provide for your need. Do well to contact any serious person in father’s family that can talk to him and at d same time help u out if your father is not willing to take up responsibility. U are never a mistake be courageous in this situation there is a lesson for to learn broken can cost the children so much fight this and win then you can tell the world your testimony. But erase the part that you make him suffer you are not God. God help u through this situation. |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by inyanging: 2:41pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Failure44: Pls don't continue with such mindset don't say feel nurse the idea that u want to grow and show ur wicked father wickedness, u may not be able to have substance , live long to bring that to pass, for u may not have the support of God the One that bless man but rather work hard, pray for forgiveness for him & u, rigthen the wrong u can correct the abnormally ., only people with pure lovely heart that their parent beg plead regretted their actions |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by CSTRR: 2:46pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
akaahs:But his parents are not dead. |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 2:54pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
sharone21:Do you want to encourage him to keep languishing in his bitterness and hate for his dad when he has his whole life ahead of him to plan. He can never get better if he keeps pointing fingers at his parents. If studying medicine is too hard for him and he thinks doing Yahoo will help him, he should go ahead and do it. It's better for him to do yahoo than to join cultism. I wished his parents could stand up to their responsibilities but now that they can't, what do advice him to do. He has only two options. Either to live and look for a way out for himself of to commit suicide. Now since he knows that suicide is not the way out, his only choice is to move on without his father because if he sit there lamenting from now till the second coming, his father is not changing anytime soon. So what you want advice him to do? |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by bepositive11: 3:06pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
You are not serious. After all the trauma that his father put him through, you're advising OP to love him irrespective of all that? That is not love, that is called trauma bonding. There's no way on earth that you can have healthy love for someone who doesn't create a safe space for you -- for someone who puts your psychological wellbeing in jeopardy. No, OP shouldn't love his father irrespective, but he should respect the fact that he is his father Fashdeejay: |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by ExudeLoveToAll: 3:09pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Octobertwentysix: @ first bolded it is really a big problem. @ second bolded that is the only reason he has gone ballistic. Life is but a stage, he wants to out grow that stage without going through the right hurdles. It's very bad. Ungratefulness at its peak. |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by bepositive11: 3:18pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Don't mind him. He's ignorant to advise you to love your father irrespective of all the abuse that he put you through I would say though that if you look closely, you'll realise that every person who is abusive has a story -- something made them that way. For some, they were abused as a child; for some, they were neglected as a child; for some, they were born with a brain damage or they sustained some form of brain injury while growing up Now, this doesn't mean that your father's actions are justifiable. He is grown enough to know what is wrong and what is right. But, my point is, if you want to understand where your father is coming from, dig deeper and try to understand his family background. Your father doesn't seem like someone who can be vulnerable enough to express his emotions so don't expect to find out about his life experiences from him What you can do though is learn from your father's mistakes and work to become a better man. Cut him out of your life if you need to. You are a grown up adult now, so start working on building your dream life Secondly, don't waste your time comparing yourself to those yahoo boys. Their life style is not sustainable, it won't last for long. They can end up in jail at any moment. They're also thieves, stealing the money that people earned with their blood, sweat, and tears. In your search for financial stability, don't lose touch with humanity. Failure44: |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by protem: 3:22pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
Please! Don't ever think of such again. It'll create blockage in your creative thinking to the extent that you may never make it in life. By the way who told you or how are you sure you'll outlive your father? Life is delicate, think of other ways to make your life worth living without dwelling on making your father suffer at old age. Drop gambling with loan apps and focus on other legitimate ways of making money with self discipline and hard work with prayer. God will surely help you. |
Re: I Hate My Life, I'll Make Sure My Father Suffers At Old Age. by Octobertwentysix(f): 3:24pm On Jul 05, 2022 |
ExudeLoveToAll: As in ehn, ungrateful child with a mum that would not tell him the truth. 1 Like |
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