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A good woman is not easy to come by these days; yet that doesn't mean we should ignore certain things that may pose threat to our union later.

However, i want you to know that, a woman cannot be perfect; likewise a man, we all have our lapses. But if the lapse she has is not something that can pose serious threat to your family life with her later in the future, i will advise you to take it easy with her.

Sit her down once in a while, mold her to be the kind of woman you want, teach her if possible; we are all work in progress.

A woman will appreciate you the more if you correct her with love to be the spec you want.

If a woman is teachable and humble enough to adjust and correct those things you don't like, go for her. The only problem in a relationship or marriage is when a woman tells you that " that's what I am, you have to accept me that way" i will say " run óò". But if a woman admit her mistakes and she is ready to correct her lapses, please go for her.

Your woman is a good one, just sit her down and talk about that attitude she displays that you don't like; with time she will be what you really want. Mind you we can't be perfect!!!

If you can carry her cross, continue.
No one is perfect, thank God she showed her bad side.

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

A person who says alot of vulgar and hurtful things when angry isn't nice. She has underlying anger issues.

And with how she agrees with anything u say and then later flips when she is angry my diagnosis is she is psycho.

My 2nd diagnosis is she's bipolar.

Make sure u ask about her previous relationship and then know if she genuinely wants to address her probably lingering issues or just looking for who to tolerate her.

superCleanworks:
it is better to live alone in this world with no music, no cars, no luxury than to have everything and a woman with a venomous tongue in your life.

God bless you. You have said it all

fvck:
Encourage her to be Obidient,get her pvc and watch her live a vulgar free life

best advice for d year

Women are very cunning people, and if you are naive about their antics you're done for. She is agreeing with everything you want because she knows she has to get married. She has to sweeten you up and make you feel good, just so you'd be stupid enough to put a ring on her finger.

I'm pretty sure she's overfeeding you with sex, feeding you nice meals, rendering financial help sometimes without fighting you to pay her back and her vagina makes you orgasm endlessly. These are some of the things women do when they want to upgrade to the status of a wife. Marry her first, then you see if truly she's an altruistic person. A woman has shown you her real attitude, and the attitude she showed you isn't a nice one, and in your heart of hearts you know she isn't the one for you, yet you want to make your life sad.

Truth be told. If she apologies afterward, she meant it. She will get over it as time goes on. I was once like that too but my gf endured all and we're good now. Don't leave her, know what she dislikes and don't get her angry.

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

Run

Antoeni:
She is Karashika

I want to drink this Karashika Fanta oh!

Abi this edible FANTA

The problem is u, cuz u don't drill her well, try & drill that juicy pot well & u will see changes

superCleanworks:
it is better to live alone in this world with no music, no cars, no luxury than to have everything and a woman with a venomous tongue in your life. You will cry for help and everbody will be telling you that NA SO WOMAN DEY BEHAVE.
You guys are still in the stress free zone of life (good family, parents & siblings still healthy and alive, less PRESSURE BILLS to pay, sex for hours, good health and beauty) and she is like this already. what happens when the clouds change?

Why do you think many men leave their beautiful wife & mansions to sit in a bar till midnight? they will buy you anything you want so you can keep them company, they will pay any amount of money to be away from their wife for 5 hours without her voice & horrible text messages? At a point you will find yourself doing stupid things just to make her not release bile from her mouth but it will never be good enough because the poison in her mouth has become full blown and spread to her heart. it is only in the minor stage for now that is why you see her return to normal after some hours and apologize. You can't help her, it is her factory setting which she will always revert to so RUN while you have the chance. Listen to those SIT HER DOWN & TALK TO HER at your own risk.

Young fella, please date someone else with a LESS THORNY mouth (yes most women have bad mouth but some have control and a mild nature) and spot the difference but you will not take this advice, you will sit down and talk to her to change and one very bitter day when you will nearly kill her because of her mouth, you will remember this.

Apt!

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

endeavor to know what comes over her and get it casted out through deliverance. Most importantly seek God's face

Remind her that anger rest in the bosom of a fool(Eccl 7 vs 9), and the thought of foolishness often lead to sin.

Anger is an emotion, and it can be controlled because anything without control will destroy anything around it.

Without controlling our anger we will become a useful tool in the hands of the enemy. Since it's an act of foolishness, we must cultivate the habit of putting our anger under control. Lest the devil gets advantage over our life, marriage, relationship etc.

In conclusion, pray for her because anyone who get angry often the devil doesn't need to pursue her she will most likely use her mouth to destroy herself.

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

You're looking for external opinions to crash your relationship ?

Don't over analyze and ruin your relationship

Yes, she has flaws. But that lady is a good catch

That is already a huge red flag. Trust me, it would only get worse by the time you tie the knot. So for the sake of your sanity, disembark if this is something you can't tolerate on a long term.

Ashawo vibes bro

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

When you making a life time decision like Marriage ...
U talk to God in prayer to lead you....
Ask God for specific signs .. thru dreams.. visions.. knowledge etc
He is your Heavenly Father...
He wont forsake you.

.

fvck:
Encourage her to be Obidient,get her pvc and watch her live a vulgar free life

Kudos bro.my first smile today,it really came early

I think everyone has flaws. It now depends on what you can manage .


If she’s NICE/KIND and submissive and comes from a very good home and also ready to take correction well , u can go ahead and marry her..

But be sure you can manage her flaw.

But left to me, I don’t marry her , the reason is that I have anger issues and I have problem managing it, so if I marry person wey get bad mouth, mehn, U know what will happen and i don’t want to end up in jail ..

superCleanworks:
it is better to live alone in this world with no music, no cars, no luxury than to have everything and a woman with a venomous tongue in your life. You will cry for help and everbody will be telling you that NA SO WOMAN DEY BEHAVE.
You guys are still in the stress free zone of life (good family, parents & siblings still healthy and alive, less PRESSURE BILLS to pay, sex for hours, good health and beauty) and she is like this already. what happens when the clouds change?

Why do you think many men leave their beautiful wife & mansions to sit in a bar till midnight? they will buy you anything you want so you can keep them company, they will pay any amount of money to be away from their wife for 5 hours without her voice & horrible text messages? At a point you will find yourself doing stupid things just to make her not release bile from her mouth but it will never be good enough because the poison in her mouth has become full blown and spread to her heart. it is only in the minor stage for now that is why you see her return to normal after some hours and apologize. You can't help her, it is her factory setting which she will always revert to so RUN while you have the chance. Listen to those SIT HER DOWN & TALK TO HER at your own risk.

Young fella, please date someone else with a LESS THORNY mouth (yes most women have bad mouth but some have control and a mild nature) and spot the difference but you will not take this advice, you will sit down and talk to her to change and one very bitter day when you will nearly kill her because of her mouth, you will remember this.

Omo. This was filled with wisdom. Thank you

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Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

just remain calm. don't rush into marriage with her. with time you'll see whether she's a good fit or not. she has to learn to bridle her tongue before both of you get married or else she might push you to become a wife beater. if you are the type that words hurt a lot, my guy pls don't rush.

You can't get everything
Manage her like that oga

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

Psychological issues or minimal mental depression caused by similar verbal aggressive upbringing or previous aggressive/violent relationship.. if you think you want a future with her,then you need to press deep into her psyche to better u.stand her so as to find a solution..if na cruise you wan just catch then run for your life before you get to attached cos its gonna get violent..

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

You can't get everything
Manage her like that oga

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?

You're in for a long thing. She's just testing the microphone. Expect more brutal insults & comments when you finally settle with her as wife.

Nobody is perfect remember.

Oga! Everybody says hurtful things when they are upset! Unless you tell us exactly the hurtful words she used how do we guage your level of irrational expectations from her?

Unequivocal:
Hey Guys,
I'll make this quick.

I met this lady sometime in December and we got dating in march this year. She's really nice, her parents are well to do so she doesn't really bugs me for anything although we go on dates occasionally and gift each other stuffs.

the thing is I have some reservations about everything due to some reasons.

The thing is she just agrees with everything I say. For example, we were discussing about intimacy and she was like anything that makes me Happy is what gets her satisfied.

The major thing giving me concern is when she gets angry she can say a whole lot of really really hurtful things but when she is normal, she apologizes for them saying she doesn't know what came over her.

I have intentions of settling down with her but it somewhat feels too good to be true. I don't know if I'm looking at it from a place of previous hurt but I'm trying to be as logical as possible.

What do you guys think I should do ejoor?