SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

She may have contract it a long time before she meet you , if you love her treat her and marry her

Wahala sha! Every time relationship! relationship!! No reasonable thing they talk about

Treat yourselves. Warn her never to cheat again. Gonorrhea is usually asymptomatic in women so she might have gotten it before y’all started dating.

Also was the diagnosis made by a professional? It could have been a UTI

�Dick Son you sound funny.

Dickson178:
Your name alone answered your question... STEADY-GRINDING

Go do HIV test too.

My friend treat her and treat yourself too even if you have HIV.

I want you to go insane baby so no advice

SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

Truth be told , it can actually hide in the body for so long ,so it's very possible she didn't have sex with anyone while u both have been dating.. But in any case, If you love her and want to settle down with her like you claim, you both must start treatment immediately.

My candid advice.

It is treatable and also ask her to go for medical check up to be acertain that she is free from the virus,she might not contact it from sex, it might be from toilet and dirty pad etc. And also remember what she has done for you all this years. Note that it is very hard to meet a supportive and caring lady in this dispensation. So don't lose her.

SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

be reasonable,she can easily get that infection from a toilet,that's not a valid evidence to dump a good girl

Use condom

Orgasmgiver123:

Infections can be gotten from dirty toilets. there are virgin who have infections too.
Relax bro, don’t let any wannabe redpiller deceive you.
Don’t dump a good woman because of your assumptions


One of the reason why i kick people with my rain boot


Damn... nasty... I’m out of here

This is exactly what i wanted to see... This is just the truth,some infections are contacted from a dirty toilet or even from bending by roadsides to pee... You are great, Mr rain boot

Asceleb16:
This is exactly what i wanted to see... This is just the truth,some infections are contacted from a dirty toilet or even from bending by roadsides to pee... You are great, Mr rain boot

Normal something bro

You are great too bruv

SteadyGrinding:



This I'm trying. But it's not also easy to forgive a cheating partner. This is a woman we've planned to have kids together after some while. We even planned to wait a little till my business stand well again. I'm not exaggerating, she have been 1000% supportive. I know this and that's what made it difficult

What d fuvk are you saying. This should be the first time you are having sex with her. How could you know wether she get the infection or not before. And she must have dated someone before you.

She could have been living with the infection before she met you. You didn't catch her cheating.

That's why to just have sex any how they fear me.....

SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

She didn't cheat on you bro, Don't allow assumption to kill your sweet relationship, I had such encounter with my babe and I was thinking she cheated on me but after thorough investigation, I came to realization that she contacted the disease through sharing of toilet.
I treated myself and also took her to the hospital, and Again the best way to solve that problem is to tell your woman to get Palm wine, Let her take that palm wine early in the morning and use part of it to wash her VJ no side effect, all that whitish stuff will evacuate her body once and for all.
Please don't loose your good woman because of advice from toddler and some bittered people.

SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

You know what
Both if you should get tested and treated

Then after that treatment, promise each other to be faithful

After that, watch yourself

If you get infected again and you are very sure that you did not cheat on her

Then you can take any decision you wish, even if it means ending your relationship with her

We must learn to be faithful to each other for health reasons

Haynnie:
Is better the both of you go to the hospital to seek medical attention. If she truly didn’t sleep with another man outside the relationship how then did she contact it?
I think you should tender this issue with mercy And seek medical help to know how she got infected.

Well, it is in your mind to forgive her please do. She has been with Yoh through thick and thin I know it's not easy but I feel she might be a good girl but she she should be truthful with you.

At the boldened, men tend to carry some STDs in their system for years without noticing nor having symptoms of it. The women feel it faster than the men in some cases.

OP may have had the STD first and passed it on to the lady. He wouldn't know he had some STD without the symptoms and getting tested, so it's not ok to blame the woman all the time.

@OP, you mentioned all the nice things the lady did for you and never mentioned what you did for her. What type of relationship is this? Parasitic?

SteadyGrinding:


Ma'am. All in all. She cheated. Stamp this

She cheated, I am glad you understand that.

If I am you then I am sorry your relationship would be in the dust.

Make her understand she cheated, don't feel any pity for her, I understand you love her, but if she's going to continue staying with you In that relationship means she has to live with that guilt all her life or she can better still go away.

It may be from that hoeing she got enough funds to be financially supportive, personally I can't forget how a woman cheated on me, I would always remember her about it on every opportunity I get to do it, that's why I say women are free to cheat but they should never get caught.

I am sorry sir, it's better to marry an unsupportive woman than the one that cheats, make you no go contact HIV or father the children of another man.

It's up to you though, I don't think with my emotions, you can follow the advice of those who do or stick with mine.

MemoriesAndMe:


At the boldened, men tend to carry some STDs in their system for years without noticing nor having symptoms of it. The women feel it faster than the men in some cases.

OP may have had the STD first and passed it on to the lady. He wouldn't know he had some STD without the symptoms and getting tested, so it's not ok to blame the woman all the time.

@OP, you mentioned all the nice things the lady did for you and never mentioned what you did for her. What type of relationship is this? Parasitic?

Aunty calm down.

Gonorrhea reacts very fast in a man, I don't know about other STIs but not Gonorrhea.

Moreover the thread is about the lady in question and I don't see why you want to hear what the man did for his woman, you are just being emotional.

SteadyGrinding:
I'm in the most confused state of my life.

Please I need advice from mature fellows.

I've been in a relationship with this girl for 6month now.
We planned things together. And I swear to God. She's very supportive. When every family ran away from me. She stood by me.

Even supported me when I had some spiritual issues.

We've got plans together. We plan everything together. Life and all.

I will not lie. She is very supportive. She's just my kind. This girl have to break her savings to make sure I achieve some plans. Go broke to see me smile in my difficult times.

I've moved to a new apartment when my landlady was bewitching me. All my business dried up. She stood by me. Supported me in looking for another apartment. Financially she was there. Now I'm just one week in the new apartment. We had our first sex and I contacted gonorrhoea from her.

Now I'm not a simp I know this infection is a sexually transmitted one. She has been swearing with her life that she didn't cheat. Swearing with this. Swearing with that. I know it's all lies. Abi have anyone experience this. Because she was saying maybe it hid in her body system that she didn't sleep with another man.

Now this is the case. I don't want to dump this girl like that. I feel guilt in my mind. After all she has done for me. Please someone talk to me I'm going crazy. This is a girl that has fought spiritual battles for me. I know what I'm talking about.

Were you guys dating from birth? She’s obviously had other relationships before you and gono is hard to treat. So it could be from past relationship.

Do you guys really think that once a girl ends her previous relationship, all her active STDs will just shut down?

Dumb her if you want, but don’t blame spiritual stuff cause that’s one thing with you Africans. You have no mind of your own. You see a good thing and you leave it and complain about spirits attacking you.

Connected1:

Aunty calm down.

Gonorrhea reacts very fast in a man, I don't know about other STIs but not Gonorrhea.

Moreover the thread is about the lady in question and I don't see why you want to hear what the man did for his woman, you are just being emotional.

I no be aunty bro, I'm a dude. I was talking about STDs in general - some show faster than others. Men carry certain STDs for years and don't feel it and the females feel it faster.

https://www.nhs.uk/common-health-questions/sexual-health/how-soon-do-sti-symptoms-appear/

On your other point, as a man, I wouldn't like to stress how much a lady has done for me without mentioning what I did for her too.
Same page?

Lol hahahahaha omo you see women girls ladies fear them the kind lie way this people get for mouth I still day laugh i swear

What if after sometime u find out she've also infected you with hiv? your life ruined ..right?

Wow

MemoriesAndMe:

I no be aunty bro, I'm a dude. I was talking about STDs in general - some show faster than others. Men carry certain STDs for years and don't feel it and the females feel it faster.

https://www.nhs.uk/common-health-questions/sexual-health/how-soon-do-sti-symptoms-appear/

On your other point, as a man, I wouldn't like to stress how much a lady has done for me without mentioning what I did for her too.
Same page?

You have to acknowledge that everyone isn't like you.

People like me see talking about our deeds for someone as bragging, I prefer to say what the person did for me, then person say to others how good I am.

Maybe you can condone a cheating woman but I will hate you once, no matter what you have done in the past, well maybe she got it via dirty toilet system, but I doubt that.

Just to clear the air, gonorrhea is strictly sexually transmitted. The only logical explanation is that the disease has been in her before you met, as it isn't easily noticed in as some women don't show symptoms..
The decision is in your hands. If you ask me, she may have gotten it before you people became an item.

zed7:
Just to clear the air, gonorrhea is strictly sexually transmitted. The only logical explanation is that the disease has been in her before you met. The decision is in your hands.

But we've been having sex before I contacted. In fact we started the relationship with sex

SteadyGrinding:



But we've been having sex before I contacted. In fact we started the relationship with sex

If you've been having sex for about a month and you didn't show symptoms and suddenly you now started showing symptoms, she obviously cheated as the disease shows symptoms in men as early as 3 days to maximum one month.

zed7:

If you've been having sex for about a month and you didn't show symptoms and suddenly you now started showing symptoms, she obviously cheated as the disease shows symptoms in men as early as 3 days to maximum one month.

This was my mind.

zed7:
Just to clear the air, gonorrhea is strictly sexually transmitted. The only logical explanation is that the disease has been in her before you met, as it isn't easily noticed in as some women don't show symptoms..
The decision is in your hands. If you ask me, she may have gotten it before you people became an item.

Wrong.
I am not in the medical but some of my siblings are.
My sister has treated a 3 year old girl who contacted gonorrhea from her school toilet after proper findings and a host of other cases as well that has to do with stds.

I am not interested in ops issues just my little contribution for the sake of enlightenment.

iamL:


Wrong.
I am not in the medical but some of my siblings are.
My sister has treated a 3 year old girl who contacted gonorrhea from her school toilet after proper findings and a host of other cases as well that has to do with stds.

I am not interested in ops issues just my little contribution for the sake of enlightenment.

We all know that some of our doctors are dumb. Go online and do a simple study. Your sister is not a measurement of what is right.