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Re: I Just Need A Family by Cutehector(m): 7:24am On Aug 14, 2022 |
Udede please bring your wife into this discussion let us listen to her side of story. I wonder why people just jump into hasty conclusions without hearing from the second party. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by JustforMen: 7:27am On Aug 14, 2022 |
19 years old side chick to the rescue. Step out and help yourself. If a man dies without children he's lineage is gone. No one bears your genes and this is not the natural evolutionary order of things. At old age, nothing else matters apart from good health and the joy of your kids doing well and naughty grandkids pulling your grey hair, and listening to your old man tales. I REPEAT, NOTHING ELSE MATTERS!!!! Help yourself. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by GoodIsGod: 7:39am On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede: Two things might be involved. 1. She probably has lost her womb when she was single. Too much of abortion causes it. 2. She belongs to the underworld. Some of them vowed not to have babies in the world. Ogbanje spirit. Talk to her seriously she will open up. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by MtDave55: 7:41am On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede: I don't know the denomination you belong to but I know in Christianity any marriage built on falsehood is null and void. If you suspect she is hiding something, try and find out what it is. First of all, sit her down and have a heart to heart talk with her,etc he know how much you want kids of your own |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Clash01: 7:58am On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede: Werey! Are you scared of divorcing her? |
Re: I Just Need A Family by SUGARCyprian247: 8:23am On Aug 14, 2022 |
Re: I Just Need A Family by kay29000(m): 8:23am On Aug 14, 2022 |
PlayMaker14: the bolded made me laugh. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by chikason22(m): 8:31am On Aug 14, 2022 |
GorillaApp:Who is Abraham to God? A friend after God's heart right? Did he marry another woman aside Sarah,? Yes he did. Hagar who became his concubine and gave birth for him. Why didn't God rebuked him or his wife Sarah when Sarah suggested he go in with her maid so he can have a child. Read Genesis 21. What about David. A man after God's heart. Did God destroy him when he married many women? No. Infact God was angry with him when he took Uriah's wife after causing him to be killed in battle. This is what God told David. 2 Samuel 12:8 And I gave thee thy master's house, and thy master's wives into thy bosom, and gave thee the house of Israel and of Judah; and if that had been too little, I would moreover have given unto thee such and such things. 12:9 Wherefore hast thou despised the commandment of the LORD, to do evil in his sight? thou hast killed Uriah the Hittite with the sword, and hast taken his wife to be thy wife, and hast slain him with the sword of the children of Ammon. 12:10 Now therefore the sword shall never depart from thine house; because thou hast despised me, and hast taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be thy wife. 12:11 Thus saith the LORD, Behold, I will raise up evil against thee out of thine own house, and I will take thy wives before thine eyes, and give them unto thy neighbour, and he shall lie with thy wives in the sight of this sun. 12:12 For thou didst it secretly: but I will do this thing before all Israel, and before the sun. In general, God is not against polygamy. Stop judging those that want more than one wife. As long as they are capable, there is nothing wrong with it. I don't want to mention that of Solomon Happy Sunday bro. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by mukthar2000(m): 8:31am On Aug 14, 2022 |
Any lady that want to be the second wive should make sure she did her investigation thoroughly. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Blackmind: 8:31am On Aug 14, 2022 |
Go get yourself a new second wife ..... Simple!!! |
Re: I Just Need A Family by ddeola: 9:00am On Aug 14, 2022 |
Are you sure she hasn't destroyed her womb before meeting you because dis wan wear wrapper o? |
Re: I Just Need A Family by 989900: 9:00am On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede: What are you waiting for if you can afford it? |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Ijaya123: 9:04am On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede: Have you tried taking her to hospital for tests to verify that every parts of her body is functioning properly? |
Re: I Just Need A Family by GorillaApp(m): 9:11am On Aug 14, 2022 |
chikason22:I know all of these accounts. I was expecting something from the new testament. Cc righteousness2 and jesusjnr over to you |
Re: I Just Need A Family by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 9:19am On Aug 14, 2022 |
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Re: I Just Need A Family by Advancedman(m): 9:19am On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede: Your problem. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Jamesbiodun(m): 9:43am On Aug 14, 2022 |
Many things dey happen for this earth ooo, abeg na your wife dey feed you? |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Blendy77(f): 9:49am On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede: Compare the cost of IVF to d cost of marrying a second wife and the wahala it comes with |
Re: I Just Need A Family by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:53am On Aug 14, 2022 |
Upworkwriter007: You are very ignorant. Not every woman wants kids. Not every woman has motherly instincts. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Need A Family by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:58am On Aug 14, 2022 |
This story screams FAKE though. Although it's not abnormal. It happens. OP has a history of fictitious tall tales. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Need A Family by DeHorus: 10:49am On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede:Not wanting kids is more than the above. What's the aim of the marriage when he can get sex from olosho and food from restaurants? |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Sweetvie: 10:58am On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede:Hmm... What is the name of your church? |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Spherica177: 11:29am On Aug 14, 2022 |
cococandy:an average Nigerian believe having kids will make their lineage be in existence. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Spherica177: 11:31am On Aug 14, 2022 |
DeHorus:having kids is not the aim of marriage. You can have kids with or without marriage either biological or adoption |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Moneyboyz: 11:35am On Aug 14, 2022 |
Hehe, your wife is baren and she knows it. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by chikason22(m): 12:04pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
GorillaApp:The old testament gave birth to the new testament. You can't do without it. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Kronikuz: 12:27pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede:Bro you never stated if you two agreed on this. In as much as I want to support you it is wrong to hear one side of a story and pass judgements. Cos if you both agreed to no kids from the onset then you at fault. Cos how can you love kids and agree to a woman who doesn't love kids? Something you arr not telling but it is OK |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Kronikuz: 12:30pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
udede:Oh. Just read this now. Since you too didn't have any agreements then it could be she has some skeleton hidden and that's bad for you, especially when you are being kept in the dark for a decade. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Skmoda360(m): 12:43pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Nobody: 1:22pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
A very valid reason for a divorce. That was s if your story didn't s true. Too many fabricated tales on social media nowadays. |
Re: I Just Need A Family by PharmacyStore: 1:28pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
My brother this your case is strange |
Re: I Just Need A Family by Biletaste(m): 1:54pm On Aug 14, 2022 |
My friend you are toying with the devil � and you say she is likable. If you trust her that much then let her bring in the second wife for you. |
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