udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

udede:
there was no agreement with her not to have kids, i also noticed that she is hiding things from me especially reasons why she couldn't have kids.

udede:
in the christian religious denomination i belong, polygamy (polygny) is normal and we know how to practice it peacefuly, she can't harm anyone because everyone has their own spaces.


As for divorce, she simply refused to go (actually I'm a husband material with good looks , without being a simp,) in our church you can't divorce any woman without an evidence of adultry or witchcraft. More over she is very harmless and likable, i even have her permission to marry a second wife

Zonefree:

Divorce your Church too.

PlayMaker14:
For over 10yrs? Kindly divorce her and get a brand new wife...

Don't listen to any “Sit her down and discuss” bullshit.

GorillaApp:

Can you please provide biblical proof

udede:
in the christian religious denomination i belong, polygamy (polygny) is normal and we know how to practice it peacefuly, she can't harm anyone because everyone has their own spaces.


As for divorce, she simply refused to go (actually I'm a husband material with good looks , without being a simp,) in our church you can't divorce any woman without an evidence of adultry or witchcraft. More over she is very harmless and likable, i even have her permission to marry a second wife

udede:
thanks for this angle you are coming from. She was a student when I married her and when i raise the issue of having children, her excuss then was that dhe can't combine schooling with having kids, we did not have long courtship actually and i think it contributed to all these, she was able to hide her disdem for kids, and it never crossed my mind that a lady could marry without wanting kids

chikason22:

Who is Abraham to God? A friend after God's heart right? Did he marry another woman aside Sarah,? Yes he did. Hagar who became his concubine and gave birth for him. Why didn't God rebuked him or his wife Sarah when Sarah suggested he go in with her maid so he can have a child. Read Genesis 21.

What about David. A man after God's heart. Did God destroy him when he married many women? No. Infact God was angry with him when he took Uriah's wife after causing him to be killed in battle.
This is what God told David.

2 Samuel 12:8 And I gave thee thy master's house, and thy master's wives into thy bosom, and gave thee the house of Israel and of Judah; and if that had been too little, I would moreover have given unto thee such and such things. 12:9 Wherefore hast thou despised the commandment of the LORD, to do evil in his sight? thou hast killed Uriah the Hittite with the sword, and hast taken his wife to be thy wife, and hast slain him with the sword of the children of Ammon. 12:10 Now therefore the sword shall never depart from thine house; because thou hast despised me, and hast taken the wife of Uriah the Hittite to be thy wife. 12:11 Thus saith the LORD, Behold, I will raise up evil against thee out of thine own house, and I will take thy wives before thine eyes, and give them unto thy neighbour, and he shall lie with thy wives in the sight of this sun. 12:12 For thou didst it secretly: but I will do this thing before all Israel, and before the sun.

In general, God is not against polygamy. Stop judging those that want more than one wife. As long as they are capable, there is nothing wrong with it.
I don't want to mention that of Solomon

Happy Sunday bro.

Chidi2022:
If you used this energy on your tormentor of a wife, you will not be here looking for a peaceful polygamy.... halfman...

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

udede:
ok but the cost of ivf thing no dey here.

Upworkwriter007:
She can't give birth. Forget story. Motherly instinct makes every woman want kids.

udede:
devorce with out evidence of adultry or witcraft is impossible in my church

udede:
devorce with out evidence of adultry or witcraft is impossible in my church

cococandy:
I don’t support OP’s wife in her decision to not be straightforward about her preferences before they got married. She would have saved him a ton of headache now.

But that fact that people find it impossible to believe that someone can want marriage without children is quite astonishing. Are y’all this dense?

DeHorus:
Not wanting kids is more than the above. What's the aim of the marriage when he can get sex from olosho and food from restaurants?

GorillaApp:

I know all of these accounts. I was expecting something from the new testament. Cc righteousness2 and jesusjnr over to you

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

udede:
there was no agreement with her not to have kids, i also noticed that she is hiding things from me especially reasons why she couldn't have kids.

Zonefree:

Divorce your Church too.