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Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Winters23: 11:44am On Sep 02, 2022
efficiencie:


Tell your colleague she foolishly married an ingrate. Your colleague is at fault here. She saw a living manifestation of stupidity and decided to marry him. You ladies will say yes to idiots and start lamenting. The man earns 50k and he is complaining about frozen food. There are men earning much more than that yet for the sake of preserving the life of their wife who is also supporting the family they eat what is available until they are buoyant enough to tell her to stop slaving away at a 9-5 job and focus on a career or support the home from fully. Ladies, stop marrying idiots in a hurry and giving the lame excuse "I am not getting any younger"!

Top G you`ve said it all, thank you!

Women should learn to avoid idiotic men...
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Winters23: 11:47am On Sep 02, 2022
fman:
Werrin concern you?
Home breaker!!!
You no go mind ya business so!!
I detest ya type.
Kpomo man / Amibo.
Bloody hypocrite.
Devilish incarnate.
See the way u narrated what is going on in another man's family like say u are part of the family.
Why are u interested in his affairs.
Cos u are harbouring feeling for his wife.
No go marry ya own.

another idiot sighted

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Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Fiscus105(m): 11:49am On Sep 02, 2022
Lifeandliving:
Loll... it's hilarious how almost everyone commenting on this topic has been sidestepping the truth and even trying to make the op look bad for feeling concerned about a fellow human like him.. It says alot though that Nigerians generally lack human feelings and by the way op you aren't lucky to have intelligent people comment on your post..'cause all I have seen here are just illiterate, narrow-minded people who mistake concern for lust and 'busybodyiness'

Concerning the topic,the woman don enter one chance.There are many women who are in this situation.I have two married female colleagues at work who are also overworked both at home and at work,one has even started looking masculine...Sometimes,I look at married women and I begin to wonder why people are always in a rush to get married and begin slaving themselves away!lol..

Personally,I think the problem stems from societal stereotypes and the issue of badly raised male children;who can hardly boil a kettle of water for their own bath and who thinks women are second class beings!

Some women are not much different from slaves but what baffles mostly is that these subjugated women also contribute significantly to the family upkeep!


When are you bringing ur own marriage to nairaland for us to discuss it? Since you are have taken a role of marriage mediator".


.......wen u get problem at work now, I'm very sure u will run to Nairaland to seek for undeserved sympathy and tell us lies how ur employer is wicked but u will fail to tell us, how u abandoned ur official duty at work and face people marriages to cause marital problems.
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by cayorday89(m): 11:50am On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:
Bro we only see or talk Monday-Friday (official hours) She had to tell me for advice. Not everyman who sleeps with any woman he talks to
You don't need to reply those people...

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Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Noviagro(m): 11:51am On Sep 02, 2022
Wicked husband.The lady has to leave him.

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Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by maasoap(m): 11:51am On Sep 02, 2022
43Ronin:
U dey answer OP. OP wan SIMPly fúck person wife, e dey cook up excuses.
ObaOfYorubaLand:

Even the woman is very stupid to be discussing so closely with you. Are you her brother or boyfriend?

Mind your own family business, every family has its own peculiar problems or challenges.

The man is not stressing the woman, its just who he is not because he want to be wicked but rather how he grew up.

Finally, encourage her that marriage has different sides but she should focus on the mans good side.

Also be careful and bury the thought of sleeping with her because you'll destroy yourself if you do.
fman:
Werrin concern you?
Home breaker!!!
You no go mind ya business so!!
I detest ya type.
Kpomo man / Amibo.
Bloody hypocrite.
Devilish incarnate.
See the way u narrated what is going on in another man's family like say u are part of the family.
Why are u interested in his affairs.
Cos u are harbouring feeling for his wife.
No go marry ya own.
fman:

Now u wan get BP on top another man
Palaver.
Him no send u
fman:

So na another man wife matter
Na keep awake this night.
Ya own don finish...
Imagine having a sleepless night..

I hate "herds mentality". Instead of you guys to learn from this post and move on, you came for the Op's head like you are the culprits over-stressing his wife.

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Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Olumaeme: 11:52am On Sep 02, 2022
Your colleague need to quit the marriage. Its not by force or tell the man to get a maid.

You see, people must learn to put their well being over anybody. If someone is not allowing you to enjoy your life, you have to expunge them, no matter who they are, maybe your parents, husband, wife, brother etc.

You are not placed in this world to serve anybody, you have the right to do and not do, you have the right to say YES or NO.

No be by force.
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by frozen70(f): 11:53am On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar.

Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.

I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.

I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out

So base on the salary both of them receives,
The man earns less than her, yet he doesn't eat frozen foods

I can understand that she is basically the one feeding him and the family and pay most bills

Then back to the topic
So she cooks every day and am sure from her pocket

That man salary is not even enough to feed the family assuming they preserve foods in the freezer not to talk much about cooking daily and using gas, even if it's firewood

Nonsense

Let her continue to be submisive and do the job of obedient wife

When the time comes, she will advise herself
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by maasoap(m): 11:54am On Sep 02, 2022
fman:

Either ways
Minding individual business
Is the best in life.

Mind u, I never judged
Rather, I cautioned.
Funny tho,
U r the one judging u.

Many innocent kids have been abused and killed by madams, ogas and guardians, even by parents while neighbours who could have done something about it were busy minding their businesses. grin grin grin

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Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Zorn: 11:56am On Sep 02, 2022
efficiencie:


Tell your colleague she foolishly married an ingrate. Your colleague is at fault here. She saw a living manifestation of stupidity and decided to marry him. You ladies will say yes to idiots and start lamenting. The man earns 50k and he is complaining about frozen food. There are men earning much more than that yet for the sake of preserving the life of their wife who is also supporting the family they eat what is available until they are buoyant enough to tell her to stop slaving away at a 9-5 job and focus on a career or support the home from fully. Ladies, stop marrying idiots in a hurry and giving the lame excuse "I am not getting any younger"!
Do you even believe this nonsense? How can somebody who earns below #50k be cooking fresh food everyday? Is the OP mad or something?
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by OgaTimo(m): 11:56am On Sep 02, 2022
at times it lazyest that couse this things(from the men)
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Abusadiq01(m): 11:56am On Sep 02, 2022
fman:
Werrin concern you?
Home breaker!!!
You no go mind ya business so!!
I detest ya type.
Kpomo man / Amibo.
Bloody hypocrite.
Devilish incarnate.
See the way u narrated what is going on in another man's family like say u are part of the family.
Why are u interested in his affairs.
Cos u are harbouring feeling for his wife.
No go marry ya own.




Guy hw far, dey calm down naa... Y ur blood dey hot!

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Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Okhuadams(m): 11:58am On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar.

Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.

I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.

I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out
as long as is not domesticalistic violencelistic be careful make dem no discuss ur matter after round 3
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Okhuadams(m): 11:58am On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar.

Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.

I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.

I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out
At least he is not beating her. So be careful make dem no discuss ur matter after round 3
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by topiredo: 12:01pm On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar.

Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.

I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.

I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out

Nah hunger wey never waya him head.
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by omolasho: 12:02pm On Sep 02, 2022
Oga stare clear of people's marriage, go get or manage your own wife!
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by RepoMan007: 12:02pm On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar.

Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.

I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.

I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out
she should get a male maid to assist with shopping and initial cooking stage before such a wicked man finishes her. One mind is telling me the hubby will still manufacture excuse in future to further frustrate that lady.
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by BloomingDale(f): 12:03pm On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar.

Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.

I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.

I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out

This is why a lot of women are opting out of marriage especially in the west. It will soon get to Africa

Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by BloomingDale(f): 12:06pm On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar.

Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.

I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.

I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out

Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Nobody: 12:07pm On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:


I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

Now this is hilarious. You mean the wife actually told you what her husband earns? Please stay away from people's marriages. If you are married, focus on yours. If you are not, then go and marry. You can then become the model spouse couples can emulate.
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by AutoChick4U(f): 12:08pm On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar.

Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.

I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.

I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out
She should threaten the man as well.
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by etrouble: 12:15pm On Sep 02, 2022
43Ronin:
U dey answer OP. OP wan SIMPly fúck person wife, e dey cook up excuses.

No dey leak secrets nah. As you don know, keep am as secret. E go soon come here to tell us about how a colleague's husband saw him and the colleague coming out of a hotel and wrongly accuse him of sleeping with his wife.

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Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by grandstar(m): 12:16pm On Sep 02, 2022
efficiencie:


Tell your colleague she foolishly married an ingrate. Your colleague is at fault here. She saw a living manifestation of stupidity and decided to marry him. You ladies will say yes to idiots and start lamenting. The man earns 50k and he is complaining about frozen food. There are men earning much more than that yet for the sake of preserving the life of their wife who is also supporting the family they eat what is available until they are buoyant enough to tell her to stop slaving away at a 9-5 job and focus on a career or support the home from fully. Ladies, stop marrying idiots in a hurry and giving the lame excuse "I am not getting any younger"!

This kind of man when he's earning ₦500k monthly, he'll give his wife a bloody nose. He might even take a scibd wife
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by ukpahu(m): 12:16pm On Sep 02, 2022
dont trust nigeria girl course all of them are uselees
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by fman(m): 12:25pm On Sep 02, 2022
maasoap:


Many innocent kids have been abused and killed by madams, ogas and guardians, even by parents while neighbours who could have done something about it were busy minding their businesses. grin grin grin
Let the law judge them.
All the same,
Learn to mind ur business.
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Ayodhejjy(m): 12:25pm On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar.

Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.

I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.

I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out
I doubt this story because ,the person earns 50k cannot have option of frozen or not. Has the 50k enough for frozen a month tankless of fresh meat
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Abelino(m): 12:25pm On Sep 02, 2022
You must have the same evil and wicked mindset like the husband of the lady in quote!!! Why are you people so much wicked and always support wickedness and evil ? Just imagine what you just typed from your season of reasoning that the man is not stressing her . If it reverse was the case and this happens to be your sister how would you feel? Ingrates and gold diggers everywhere.Smh
ObaOfYorubaLand:

Even the woman is very stupid to be discussing so closely with you. Are you her brother or boyfriend?

Mind your own family business, every family has its own peculiar problems or challenges.

The man is not stressing the woman, its just who he is not because he want to be wicked but rather how he grew up.

Finally, encourage her that marriage has different sides but she should focus on the mans good side.

Also be careful and bury the thought of sleeping with her because you'll destroy yourself if you do.
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by GloriousGbola: 12:26pm On Sep 02, 2022
Lifeandliving:
Loll... it's hilarious how almost everyone commenting on this topic has been sidestepping the truth and even trying to make the op look bad for feeling concerned about a fellow human like him.. It says alot though that Nigerians generally lack human feelings and by the way op you aren't lucky to have intelligent people comment on your post..'cause all I have seen here are just illiterate, narrow-minded people who mistake concern for lust and 'busybodyiness'

Concerning the topic,the woman don enter one chance.There are many women who are in this situation.I have two married female colleagues at work who are also overworked both at home and at work,one has even started looking masculine...Sometimes,I look at married women and I begin to wonder why people are always in a rush to get married and begin slaving themselves away!lol..

Personally,I think the problem stems from societal stereotypes and the issue of badly raised male children;who can hardly boil a kettle of water for their own bath and who thinks women are second class beings!

Some women are not much different from slaves but what baffles mostly is that these subjugated women also contribute significantly to the family upkeep!

the problem is these guys thinking they can eat their cake and have it.

you want your food straight from the pot, steaming hot - then you marry a housewife.do not look at any university educated woman. find someone that stopped at secondary or primary. one that las las, she will sell pure water and ariel out of the house and be happy doing it. But no, they want a Behind, salary earning , university educated wife they can show off and still expect he to abandon her career

unfortunately, you cannot always tell what your guy is like - and of course so many women hope he can change. religion too plays a part as some may take a God will make a way approach and hope for the best.

the hope is that the woman has a strong support network - one that will tell her you deserve better than this. as women are also part of the problem

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Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Kobojunkie: 12:28pm On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:
Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.
I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).
She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.
I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out
Marriage is an agreement between a man and a woman. If your colleague agrees to living her life as a slave to this man she calls her husband, I am afraid their really isn't much you can do for her. The fault does not really come from the man alone in this but the woman who accepts it as her place to cater to all his whims sadly. undecided

So, ask your friend if this is really the life she envisioned for herself as a human being who happens to to married. And let her think carefully about her own choices as a fully capable adult and partner in her own marriage. undecided
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by Abelino(m): 12:31pm On Sep 02, 2022
Abelino:
You must have the same evil and wicked mindset like the husband of the lady in quote!!! Why are you people so much wicked and always support wickedness and evil ? Just imagine what you just typed from your season of reasoning that the man is not stressing her . If reverse was the case and this happens to be your sister how would you feel? Ingrates and gold diggers everywhere.Smh
Re: My Colleague's Husband Stresses His Wife Daily by lomprico(m): 12:33pm On Sep 02, 2022
westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar.

Please men have mercies for your wives. My colleague's husband doesn't eat frozen foods, meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and gets home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband.

I really do feel for her, to the extent the man threatening her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more).

She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.

I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out

He should hire a cook. Stupid man

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