I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

Can't you read the handwriting on the wall? Or you need glasses?

Leave the dude abeg,you either choose between your son's wellbeing or an idiot who probably needs you for sex.

This is a red flag oo,make e no be say one day the guy go try hurt your kid oo.

Why date someone that doesn't like your son?




How can he be a nice guy and hate on an innocent child?


If he can talk ill of your son and shouts on him in your presence, what will he do to that child in your absence?


Don't let your need for a man becloud your reasoning.



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Mufakirnaqdiun:
Leave the goat abeg.

Munafukin shatap

Bontafa:


Munafukin shatap

You still dey beg with your alternate on fp?lol

Leave him alone in a mature manner and don't tell him you are leaving him because he doesn't like your son. E get reason I said so.

Mufakirnaqdiun:

You still dey beg with your alternate on fp?lol

Munafukin shatap

garriAndsugar:
Can't you read the handwriting on the wall? Or you need glasses?

Make I bring groundnut?lol

He doesn't hate him, probably the guy is seeing some behaviours about the boy that you easily condole. As a man, he knows if your boy persist with such behaviour, he will be doom.

I think you should sit down with him and discuss what is the rationale behind his act towards the boy. A simple communication with him will clarify most of your assumptions.

Bontafa:


Munafukin shatap

Guy you don cast abeg, everyone pls be careful of this scammer and begger.
He's the same person using a fake picture to solicit help, he's also responsible for scamming on the travel and sport section.

See question.

First is to think about ur son's wellbeing

Mufakirnaqdiun:

Guy you don cast abeg, everyone pls be careful of this scammer and begger.
He's the same person using a fake picture to solicit help, he's also responsible for scamming on the travel and sport section.

Munafukin shatap

freestyle him..if he can't respect your child

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

Pls Nlfpmod I need opinions. Thanks.

What do you mean by talk ill, insult or shout at your son....?? Give example....

Im asking because this your complain is one of the reasons men dont date single mothers...

..because their behavior or style of relating or even playing around their lovers kid is always under high and biased scrutiny....they will awlays be walking careful and not be free because of what may get the mother angry

.if it was his real father that shouted at him you probably wont see it as he doesnt like his own your kid...you will just feel he's a strict dad or being funny...

My aunt calls her own 6 year old daughter sisi kpelebe and enú já wire, becos the daughter is very slim and talks alot....yet an outsider dares not make such remarks or related about her daughter if you dont want to see her madness...

dont get me wrong i ddnt say you shouldn't look out for red flags ...i'm just saying u should be ready for things like this if u want to bring an outaider into your sons life....

the same way you will beat your son.....if an outsider does same...u will go ballastic... my point is.... if you dont want to push your suitors away....u have to learn how to identify when its not a big deal to let small issues go or when you should switch your lioness mode and protect your son against an actual threat

You are still here asking stupid questions. I don’t have pity on people with relationship issues because 99.9% of you cunts always see the red flags right from time but always give yourselves stupid hope or overlook them

You need to expantiate or site examples of things he said when your son acted a certain way.
I wouldn't say he hates your son just yet.What if your son is the type that throws tantrums?
Hold the discussion with him.Ask him why he reacted and shouted at your son.If he can't give a logical reason then it's indeed a red flag.

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

Pls Nlfpmod I need opinions. Thanks.

My dear run....if he's doing this now when you're not even married....it will get worse if you mistakingly marry him. Don't settle for less

Kpekuskiller:

Report this account now
Ode you can't stop me

Who's This?

Mufakirnaqdiun:

Who's This?

Munafukin shatap

Single mother

Kpekuskiller:

I will make you suffer
You dey form James bond dey report every body
Your time is up

Baba go sleep before you go chop another ban abeg,lol
E be like say you dey lonely for real life.

Mufakirnaqdiun:

Baba go sleep before you go chop another ban abeg,lol
E be like say you dey lonely for real life.

Munafukin shatap

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

Pls Nlfpmod I need opinions. Thanks.

Are you sure you wouldn't choose your son over him if you guys eventually get married?