He wants only sex, can't you see, or are you daft?

The poster didn't tell us if the guy is single himself. If he is, it's definitely a red flag and he is thinking about raising someone else's child maybe that's the reason for the animosity you have witnessed.

Stop dating him cus he will not accept your son. PERIOD!

Zee0007:
He doesn't hate him, probably the guy is seeing some behaviours about the boy that you easily condole. As a man, he knows if your boy persist with such behaviour, he will be doom.

I think you should sit down with him and discuss what is the rationale behind his act towards the boy. A simple communication with him will clarify most of your assumptions.

Correct. Most people are just saying leave the guy, the kind hearted guy might be trying to correct the wrong habit of the boy that the mother has been looking away from.

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

A man who insults young children and makes it seem like a joke even after being corrected isnt cool.

Only a simp dates single mothers
Who goes to a match against Barcelona with a goal down

U will only be the least important in the relationship while u pay for the son's bills

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

You are lucky to have seen the red flags so early.

But since you are so desperate to get married or be in a relationship, my only wish right now is that you don't use your desperation to jeopardize the life and chances of your young boy.

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

If you don’t understand red, then prepare to choose between your boy and your boy would be aggressor.

The guy’s bedmatic skills and game is so tight that Op is willing to risk it all

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

Conflict of interest...... Most men would find dating you extremely hard.

Your motherly instincts will always choose your son which to me is okay. His masculine instincts would always want to take charge of the home but their will be conflict. For him to take charge, your son will have to see him as a father but If you have a strong willed child, it will not work.

No man naturally wants to take responsibility for another man's child, The negative far out weighs the positive.

Stupid question.

But cant b ur fault since been a while a dik has been in u soo ur thinking no dey straight forward

You wanted give him a chance? Does that means you wanted open your legs? Do you want to born another fatherless child? If that guy enter your chamber,he will not only shout to your son he will also slap the mother.

Anybody loving you without your son is a red flag. So dump him fast

jaxxy:


A man who I insults young children and makes it seem like a joke even after being corrected is it cool.

wat u saying

He's not a good guy please let him go if any man cannot take your son like his he should go.

me self dnt like dating baby mama ..i think he too dnt.

Only a simp with nothing going in his life will date a single mom.

I want to date a single mother just because I love her twin kids. The guy is an idiot, I swear.

please if he did not like your son take a walk ooo your son is your blood the one that love you and your son will come soon

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

Run run run, is that enough or you need to be told to, Jappaaaaaa.

Zee0007:
He doesn't hate him, probably the guy is seeing some behaviours about the boy that you easily condole. As a man, he knows if your boy persist with such behaviour, he will be doom.

I think you should sit down with him and discuss what is the rationale behind his act towards the boy. A simple communication with him will clarify most of your assumptions.

It is interesting to read some people's comment about issues here.

If you're looking for a serious advice, this is one here. You don't need any other thing!

First, how old is your son? Do you see anything worrisome about yoir son? Most of us parents will keep indulging our children up until they become wahala in our hands.

Simple, sit down with him and find out what the issue is with him and your son.

I pray you'll be frank enough with your son and this man's view!

MaryAye:
I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.
Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

Are your intentions then to throw away your son in order that you can have this man or something?

It is not his behavior that concerns me but yours. Why do you entertain someone who blatantly insults your own son?

OLULAW:

Chai…o ka diegwu ooo.

life no suppose hard

You are considering of giving him a chance, which chance are you referring to if not your Body, cos I know you have nothing to offer in the relationship

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

If he’s behavior is a red flag? Are you seriously asking that question? No hanty, it is a white flag, continue dating him, in fact go ahead and marry him, someone is showing open hatred to your child and you’re asking if it’s a red flag, hanty continue, na purple flag

Zee0007:
He doesn't hate him, probably the guy is seeing some behaviours about the boy that you easily condole. As a man, he knows if your boy persist with such behaviour, he will be doom.

I think you should sit down with him and discuss what is the rationale behind his act towards the boy. A simple communication with him will clarify most of your assumptions.

Good advice.
Or na guy man wey just wan chop and go his wey tooo

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

He is actually acting the "daddy" to your child. So, no qualms about it

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

Please free yourself. 1 out of 1000 single guys will happily marry a single mother of 1 who is hardworking and supportive with good characters.

I feel whoever loves you should love your child at much. I don't see any big deal anyway but if you feel offended and uncomfortable with it and you can give him some distance but let him tell you his thoughts about your son.

Please let him be, he will sweet talk you into everything, he is only after what between your leg and not ready for what's after. if you marry him, your son will be a topic for you to break the marriage after satisfying himself. I still have one firsthand experience with a neighbor which their marriage that is not up to 2 month is crumbling already

MaryAye:
I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

You should probably raise him alone.

Since you don't want a father for your child, Men don't pet children if they misbehave.

If you wan go, go abeg una wahala too much.

doggedfighter:
Why date someone that doesn't like your son?




How can he be a nice guy and hate on an innocent child?


If he can talk ill of your son and shouts on him in your presence, what will he do to that child in your absence?


Don't let your need for a man becloud reasoning.



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Need I say more. As they say, 'a word is enough for the wise'.