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Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Blue86(m): 1:21pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Those guys may not see reason, but the best thing you can do for them is to give them a good connection job, then if they refuse, they just gave you valid reason not to keep supporting them. Chisomann: 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Gloriagee(f): 2:56pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Wat about their dad's? Chisomann: 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by ogashman(m): 3:48pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
In whatever u do, never u tell them that u will no longer help them. The world is mysterious. Someone at the top today, might be at the bottom tomorrow and vice versa 10 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by peacefulhome(f): 5:05pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Chisomann: For now, I think the only person that you can assist at the moment will be the one still at secondary school. I wish they were acting responsible, you wouldn't have come here. But for a 27 years guy having entitlement mentality, is what I don't know. Pls any help that will cost you your happiness, kindly let it go. 13 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Rubbiish(m): 5:27pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Chisomann:Is this really necessary? It's fine if u don't want to help your brothers, u didn't give birth to them. Even parents tends to abandon their responsibilities at some point, so it is very fine if u choose not to help. But what I don't get is coming online to castigate them? What's the reason for this? 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by pocohantas(f): 5:30pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Rubbiish: How is she coming online to castigate them? You guys come up with fancy terms when it is a woman complaining. Don’t we see these kind of topics everyday from men? Did you call it castigating? Oga, comment on the topic and stop trying to gaslight her. 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Rubbiish(m): 5:44pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
pocohantas:Everything shouldn't be a man vs woman thing! If a man posted this, I will be saying the same thing. If a brother wishes not to help her sister fine, but coming here to badmouth someone u have made up your mind not to help is totally uncalled for. I don't see any need for this. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by pocohantas(f): 5:45pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Rubbiish: You will not say the same thing. She is expressing her pain and reality. He is indeed lazy and entitled like the Nigerian girls you all deride. Comment on the issue at hand and stop trying to gaslight her!!! 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Rubbiish(m): 5:56pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
pocohantas:This is serious, it's fine. I already made my comment as regards the topic, it is very fine if she choose not to help. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that & I stated it in my first quote. 4 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by pocohantas(f): 5:59pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Rubbiish: Thank you. 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by sisisioge: 6:01pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Chisomann: Wow! You even have "older" brother among them? It is well fa. I still think sitting together and discussing your collective struggles and capabilities will help. Maybe they thought you have plenty money and have extra to spare given that you have been able to handle yourselfso well. Some people just need to be given a sense of direction so they could be useful for themselves....sit with them please. They were clearly raised to be dependent...parents need to recognize when they are doing this to their wards. It is well. 5 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by kayperry: 6:30pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Biglittlelois: i hope you are not mistaken runz and olosho for industrious and independent cos 80% of ladies we have now are coded or shameless olosho if males are lazy i wonder how guyz see money to pay naija gurlz 10 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by kayperry: 6:40pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
pocohantas: These one that just discover freelance 2021 won't let us hear words, upon all the dollar she dey make naa she know all the sites to find 2nd hand wears and gadget ... low budget alakada 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by pocohantas(f): 6:46pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
kayperry: Of course I started it in 2021, better late than never. However, I knew it since 2017 or thereabout. I just didn’t have anyone to guide me. Most of my data goes into productivity apps and I am very proud of myself. If you are still using yours to watch someone in America teach you how to handle women that you claim not to want - the joke is on you. There is nothing wrong in patronising second-hand wears and gadgets if that is what you can afford. If I say I only patronize new things, you would still be foaming in the mouth, but I can’t form what I am not. Once upon a time, I thrift households. Some as good as new. Some new sef. It is not what I can be shamed with. I no thief am. Na still my money I use pay. So rest ehn. 32 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Mom007(f): 6:58pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Learn to say NO! Saying 'I don't have' is needful once in a while before you break down. Pls safeguard your mental health and learn tao draw line. May God hep you. 4 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Blake755: 7:00pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Hmm u won't help them why u can anyway if it were the boys and sure the won't complain why helping u |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by kayperry: 7:04pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
pocohantas: je ka gboran when did you ever have someone, for how long did sorceress papito last in mouth even chewing gum would have lasted longer nonsense & ingredient |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Fira09(m): 7:05pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
pocohantas:You just stated a real fact here, that's very upright from you.......no online conformations 3 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by GloriousGbola: 7:05pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
pocohantas: Your lightly used LG pass brand new hisense Those who want to buy brand new kia sorrento over used camry muscle na them biko |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by pocohantas(f): 7:06pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
kayperry: Is that all you can come up with? Unlike you, I seek knowledge and ways to better my life. While you are thinking of ways to diss me, I was learning freelance as you call it. But to makeup for your failure, you and your kind would say it is olosho. That my income increased doesn’t mean I should go throwing money around. I splurge when necessary and that is very evident, but, I still use my senses. Something you don’t have. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by pocohantas(f): 7:08pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Fira09: Lol. Him and his kind keep trying to pull me down with information I put out there myself. One would think second hand gadgets are that cheap sef. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by pocohantas(f): 7:10pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
GloriousGbola: I am sure he knows these things, but anything to attack Poco. The other day I showed someone where to buy brand new - you saw how they were convulsing. You can’t please these ones. 5 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Mindlog: 7:34pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
kayperry: So you mean 8 out of every 10 ladies who are your relatives are coded or shameless oloshos? 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by ZiniPips: 7:49pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Chisomann I can imagine the stress you are going through. I have been there but instead of giving them fish, I taught them how to fish by teaching them how to trade the financial market and to God be the glory, they are doing well for themselves. You can send me a dm on my whatsapp and I be your sure plug to ease the financial burden. |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by kayperry: 7:56pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Mindlog: Relative is not close enough, start from my grandmother, but it is what it is deal with it ciao 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Mindlog: 8:45pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
kayperry: Glad you identified that. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by wiseone28: 8:51pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Oboy one mother 3 fathers Who am i to point finger. 1 Like
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Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Acidosis(m): 8:56pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Your brothers consider you to be their mother's substitute. It is a trap. By assuming her role, you may also take on her mistakes. Don't ever assume that you can fill the gap she left behind. Whatever she had with those irresponsible men is not your business. Help if you want to help for the sake of philanthropy and nothing more. 5 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by pocohantas(f): 9:26pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Acidosis: Nawa! |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by Acidosis(m): 9:32pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
pocohantas: Yes oo 1 Like |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by hahn(m): 10:20pm On Sep 25, 2022 |
Chisomann: Start asking them for money too 2 Likes |
Re: I Don't Want To Help My Brothers by ghettochild(m): 10:07am On Sep 26, 2022 |
To help no be by force especially when u see say dem wan put burden on u.. When they ask for help... Just say no. 3 Likes |
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