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Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by HardMirror(m): 11:01am On Sep 27, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.
so you can make sense like this grin grin grin

but you ended up saying nonsense with the Love Machine part
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Quicksilver14: 11:05am On Sep 27, 2022
Machinegun91:
the man Bleep up but you Bleep up bigger than him.


So you believe in dildos more than men And you are using a phone bought for you by a man.

Dildos don't suck breast .

Try and have small sense next time
This comment sent chills down my spine! Literally!
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by wayodude(m):
This na the truth...

Otunba don Fokk this woman two times. But e be like say after the first fokkin him con get 'buyers remorse' so he tell the woman say na mistake and e no go ever happen again, make she comot her mind. After that he con dey nice to her dey dash her small small tings..

na so things be ooooo.... then one day otunba drink wella, as he kpeff conji enter him soul. Las las he con raise cleaner skirt, shift her pant comot road, Fokk her again....

Na after that fokkin she begin text otunba to check if their status don adjust...and yes she suppose check becos I know say for that second fokkin, this guy beg pass the first time before she agree make him chook that him yeye otunba penis. cheesy

The guy yab jor.

Da iz all. grin
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Vyzz: 11:11am On Sep 27, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.
Really?


Your gender do worst..

I bet if it was the other way around she wouldn't be this polite when writing it out.
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by sircatherine45(m): 11:11am On Sep 27, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.
Stop ranting, if the woman's rapes the man, and uses it to blackmail him, you'll be the first to condemn rape on an innocent man.

You rant too much. The niggur has every right to do what he did.
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Allisgud: 11:11am On Sep 27, 2022
If assuming oga don pay her more than her salary,and she is not enjoying all the freebies she mentioned will she developed love for him,she just want to follow backyard marry rich man,a foolish golddigger,all the people shouting childish are hypocrite
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by b1olat: 11:14am On Sep 27, 2022
The woman mistook your kind gesture for another thing entirely, your being kind to her and her children had promted this move, Moreso she happened to be a widow. Tobi think deeply since you have been nice to this woman, if God hasn't been blessing you in folds because it is always profitable to give to widows. However, she probably thought the best way to reciprocate is to offer herself in exchange, where she got it wrong. You shouldn't have gone viral on social media to expose her, instead, find a way to subtlely turn her down and never use it against her, and pls don't sack her. God grant you the wisdom of Solomon to deal with the situation!!![color=#550000][/color]
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by midehi2(f): 11:22am On Sep 27, 2022
DaddyRochie1642:
A foolish move by a foolish cleaner, it's very good to be professional in dealing with things like this, you did not evening set boundaries from the beginning, infact you did nothing, now you see why setting boundaries from the beginning is very good and effective, if he had set boundaries, they woman wouldn't have dared to cross it in the first place knowing fully well the repercussions for such an act.

To slap that cleaner dey hungry me,

So common Sense didn't tell her that the man is being nice to her, she didn't appreciate the fact that she has a good, understanding and supportive employer, or does she think that such employers are easy to come by.
Damnnn, it's a crime to love.......even loving the wrong man, tears cry
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by phemmyfour: 11:25am On Sep 27, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.
seconded, he's immature ..a childish display
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by JohnQueen(m): 11:30am On Sep 27, 2022
While there's nothing wrong with seeking love, this particular individual is seeking for a provider. Note how she "fell in love" after he started tipping and paying her extra, paying for her children's tuition and letting her take his food and drinks.

This is for fellas out there... Nor let anybody deceive you with "love" o! Na your ability to provide them dey after.

pansophist:
Some people are so desperate to feel desired, that they will post ''toasting screenshots from others just to feel needed. How does paying for services that she rendered be considered ''help''? if we turn the table around, will you consider it 'help' that your customer pays you for the service you rendered or your employer pays your salary? Which kind ogbanje mentality is that?

A widow of forty is human, and there is nothing wrong if a woman needs love. If she go and do olosho now, you will insult her, but she needs stability and a connection with depth, you come de use her do a caricature. Issues like this are the reason amadioha strikes some people, because no matter I slice this case, it just disgusts me to no end. Just tell her no (or yes) in private, and stop shaming her online.
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Regex: 11:38am On Sep 27, 2022
pansophist:
He was expecting a round of applause, so people will see him as someone women are attracted to. But the people he is trying to impress, that are equally vain like him, will ask, ''but why is a cleaner, a widow, with children the one attracted to you? why not a nubile, young attractive woman in her 20's with options''?

Then he will realise that he just insulted himself with that foolish act. talk about your brain being your biggest liabilities grin
Chai grin grin
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by MrHeff(m): 11:38am On Sep 27, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.
see this one. As if you won't come here crying if your gateman sends you this kind of message. Hypocrite
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by farem: 11:40am On Sep 27, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.
Love Machine produced soul, why can't you ask Love Machine to employ her and pay her bills since your fortune in life is Love Machine dependent.
Nonsense!
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Israeldan1(m): 11:41am On Sep 27, 2022
I'm a man too oo

But baba you Bleep up

Why are you posting this

Is either you agree or not

Do not post this kinda shit

She's expressing her feelings



U not worth to b called a man
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Benrosaria(m): 11:43am On Sep 27, 2022
buzweb:
Very funny.
Literally ??
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Emmanuel30a: 11:52am On Sep 27, 2022
ExAngel007:
A Nigerian man has shared a screenshot of a message from his house cleaner who asked him out.

In the message, the cleaner expressed her love for him and further added that she needs him in her life.

@Otunbatoba who described this as his craziest experience in a longtime, recounted how he's been nice to his cleaner who is a widow with two children.

The Twitter user who regretted being nice to the cleaner, stated that he now needs a wife so his cleaner will know that there is a "madam" in the house.

He tweeted;


https://twitter.com/OtunbaToba/status/1574087399612846080?s=20&t=4mHxb1Q-oJGEUtSMrQHHiQ[/quote]Wonder shall never ends? Like you have never seen or heard about that before? What if you are the one, that is working as a cleaner and you sent such message to your employer? Whatever the case maybe, what people love in your life are different... Why they love you and or your life is another thing... Simply, she just told you what she has in her mind... Whether it is for personal interest, selfish interest, human interest, collective interest, etc is up to you to know and decide... It is not a crime, that she revealed what she abhor in her mind to you... What if she said she wants to kills you... Don't have too many thoughts on it... You are a man... You are probably old enough, to know whether you need a woman in your life... Widow women that are below 60 years according to Apostle Paul in the Bible, can marry again... It simple as ABC... She told you she loves you... You are old enough to ask what type of love... You are old enough to think and reply her in Godly way, with a GODLY wisdom, knowledge and understanding... At the end of the day, you would or may find out; that nobody loves you like GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST... If you are surprised that a woman sent you her desire to love you or her desire of love to you or towards you, then you should be crazy when thinking about why men are wooing and approaching women for relationship and or sexual relationship now and then... You are old enough when you are good enough... You may not be good enough when you are old enough or when you think you are old enough... Enough of your cough... Plough it, if it is tough and or rough... Plough it, if it is tough and rough... GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST, are in THE ABOVE and everywhere... Hence, LOVE is from above... Love at times or maybe most times, don't wear gloves... Have you been solved? Solve your love in GOD and with GOD and THE LORD JESUS CHRIST... Solve and resolve, with those who you loves and with those who loves you or who claims to loves you... Ayu...
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Wuppdex: 12:10pm On Sep 27, 2022
I agreed with you totally on your opinion about all this semi boys calling themselves men, but i disagree with the Love Machine part, nothing can replace the warmth and harmony derived from the real do wink

MadamVanessa:
shocked


Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by walkingshadow911: 12:29pm On Sep 27, 2022
advanceDNA:
When that coper lady posted that the gateman of her workplace asked her out...all women here inclusing female asślickers supported her...say "what effontry", and that she did the right thing

Now tables have turned...its now not a big deal....
Once a man doesnt dance to a woman's tune... he must be a scum, childish, immature, or evil... grin grin
people has problem with rational thinking in this part of the world and it really painful to know.
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by SBanky(m): 12:30pm On Sep 27, 2022
i see nothing wrong in what the lady did. For God sake the man is unmarried and the lady is single.
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by martinmiller: 12:43pm On Sep 27, 2022
cheesy cheesy left to me I don't see anything wrong with the woman's approach, infact I like her gut and maturity.

This younger generations will never do or say such a thing to a man. However, the guy is a toddler for putting it on social media, it beats me really. It is off point doing that. He should stop feeling like a demigod. Since she expressed ha love ❤ to you, it is now left to you to decipher her reasons for falling in love with you and if you are okay with it fine, if you are not you know what to do instead of crying foul on social media like a baby.

Further forward, my present side chick expressed are love to me, in all honesty I celebrated her guts and reasons for such move, perhaps its no new to me and its not the first time happening why?, if you can do that as a woman, tells that you are mature, bold and have enough guts, I don't see them cheap coz it can happen to anyone.
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by OvertheTop(m): 12:55pm On Sep 27, 2022
Slynation:
Tho the man didn't act mature by exposing the chats, but this widow wants a tear rubber young, rich and fresh dude that would take responsibility on two kids fathered by someone else, Nah...This is not love but fantasy because she has imagine herself as the madam of the house, this people no dey fear God shaah...
THE shocking thing is that:

THE MOMENT THIS WOMAN ENTER THE HOUSE NOW(GET MARRIED TO HIM)
SHE GO TURN TIGER!!
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Slynation(m): 12:56pm On Sep 27, 2022
OvertheTop:
THE shocking thing is that:

THE MOMENT THIS WOMAN ENTER THE HOUSE NOW(GET MARRIED TO HIM)
SHE GO TURN TIGER!!
You know them very well... grin
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by loliapoopy2013(f): 12:59pm On Sep 27, 2022
She one upgrade from house girl to
housewife and come here to give testimony. Oga you talk too much, man up and fire her make she no put love potion for your food.
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by loliapoopy2013(f): 1:01pm On Sep 27, 2022
She one upgrade from house girl to
housewife and come here to give testimony on how it started and ended in glory. Oga, fire her make she no put love potion for your food one day.
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Mrklemo(m): 1:05pm On Sep 27, 2022
She is not out of line to express her feelings. What is even the point of you posting your private message of social media?...
To ridicule the woman.

Nonsense.
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Mrklemo(m): 1:06pm On Sep 27, 2022
How are we sure you have not been sleeping with the Lady?
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Nobody: 1:11pm On Sep 27, 2022
gforce5:
Look at the SIMPS criticizing this man along with the women. When that female corper said the same thing about her gateman, you were all enraged while the women were in full support of her actions. What's the difference here? Being nice to someone is not a license to overstep your boundaries. He's her employer and a 40 year old widow with two kids. They aren't in the same class. The man's mistake was publishing this issue online which was childish as it happens a lot. He should have kept that information to himself and his close circle. Nigerian women are hypocrites. They look down on men who are below them on the social ladder but are angry when a man that is out of their league rejects them on that same basis. It's not their fault.

Nigerian men are some of the biggest Simps on the planet. They have no standards. No sense of worth. Will marry bottom feeder and support their whole family in the name of love. How many women would do the same? A married man will sleep with the house help and elevate her to wifey status while kicking out the wife and mother of his kids that supported him for years.Nonsense.
For me oh, I am particularly happy he brought out this information. Let the world see that these things happen to everyone. Especially women, stopping men from releasing this type of information is also hypocrisy on its own.

Let us release all the information to the public, no need to protect anybody. The law should be the same for all of us.
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by BalogunIdowu(m): 2:36pm On Sep 27, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.
You made very valid point...but the ending is catastrophic!
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by lailo: 3:08pm On Sep 27, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.
U are deceiving yourself. Your Love Machine can do the real thing. Keep dying in silence undecided
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by fablani(m): 3:11pm On Sep 27, 2022
MadamVanessa:
shocked


Childish fóolish men all around. You see why I don't take this people serious, they act childish and stupid always. What's the essence of sharing the screenshot online for the whole world to know and see ? probably he's among men that say women should have the guts to approach men they love instead of dying in silence and here a lady with gut approach the idiot and he stupidly spread the message across. If you don't like her, you should have told her privately that it's not going to work out , rather than feeling yourself as demigod. Who is he by the way? nonsense

So much for women that think men really matters in their lives when dildos is always available.
He is now stupid cos is not the other way round.
Woman una too confuse
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by Wwwq: 3:41pm On Sep 27, 2022
The man must have made first move
Re: Man Shares Message He Received From His House Cleaner Who Was Asking Him Out by ebenezer95(m): 3:48pm On Sep 27, 2022
Local Nigeria man I don't trust you
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