Justbehave:
All this weak men with there advice. Seems you are the man she's cheating with.

He said he doesn't want divorce...
That's the reason why he can't cause violence....
If he wants violence..he will call the two families..he will take his children away and leave her with her last born...


But he doesn't want divorce and he doesn't want his children to leave without their mother and without him ....
...and the woman too can't leave her last born

No be everything be violence....
They can solve it ....

It happened when they seperated..

You will have to consider his children....he is thinking more of his own children not the woman....
That's a very good thinking.....
It's not easy to raise children alone....

Maynman:


Before a woman can cheat, alot has to happen and it deals with her emotions, talkless of a married woman, if the other man wants to fvck her tomorrow, he’ll.

I understand you...
Anything you say against her is right....

But you need to also consider the fact that it happened when they separated..not when they were together....
It's a factor....body no be firewood ooo...

During separation .. anything can happen...

Everything no be violence ooo...
They can solve it..

Johnnyjohnnyman:


I paid 130k

D thing dun dey affordable now. op sorry to ask are u fron west

Starz825:
I just went back to read all of your topics...
Very interesting...
You don't even write like one who didn't see the four walls of uni....
I appreciate your writings...

I understood your story and here is my advice...

You mentioned that you don't want divorce..
You are a good man like somebody said up there....
Now....sit your wife down..... explain everything to her....
The father of the child should come and have his daughter.
Now if the father is no where to be found...adopt the girl....

Infact...... Adopt the baby...that's my advice...
Everything will be settled in the future...
Treat the baby as your own...

That's all..
Thanks

Special advicer on women affairs. easier said than done

Justbehave:
All this weak men with there advice. Seems you are the man she's cheating with.

Dont mind dem jare, sometimes, i feel ashame of sharing dis generation with some idiots like that

Pells:
If you the rest of your kids are yours then your 4th child was exchanged at the hospital by the nurses
Your wife is innocent
Don't be a stupid

A DNA test can reveal if the wife is the mother of the child, don't rush to comment on things you know nothing about

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Good day all. I have posted exactly 2 months ago concerning my fourth child I went ahead with the DNA test unfortunately I am not her father. Right now a lot of things have been going through my head i am shattered and depressed. . I don't know yet what is going to happen in my marriage I just don't know if the marriage will work or not.
I just wanted to keep you updated about the DNA.

I went back to read all your previous posts. I can tell you your wife came back to you because her boyfriend refused the pregnancy.

My advise is leave the marriage.

Starz825:

I understand you...
Anything you say against her is right....

But you need to also consider the fact that it happened when they separated..not when they were together....
It's a factor....body no be firewood ooo...

During separation .. anything can happen...

Everything no be violence ooo...
They can solve it..

But she was the one that begged that they should get back together, she knew that she’ll still beg yet she was cheating and brought a bastard home.
She knew at the back of her head what she was doing.

emmanuelbrown26:

Special advicer on women affairs. easier said than done

Since he doesn't want divorce...he will have to treat the baby as his own..
He doesn't want to be a single father in the life of his children...so he needs their mother to be there for them....and there is no way you can seperate the mother of his children away from her own last born child..
It's complicated for him....

Everything no be vawulence

Maynman:


But she was the one that begged that they should get back together, she knew that she’ll still beg yet she was cheating and brought a bastard home.
She knew at the back of her head what she was doing.

Bros.. there is nothing you can say against that woman that you won't make sense....

The deed has been done...what's next..?

Now the man is thinking about the welfare of his children...
I doubt if he wants to take care of them alone...

emmanuelbrown26:

Dont mind dem jare, sometimes, i feel ashame of sharing dis generation with some idiots like that

Same here.

E be like say nah babymama go show oo how u go marry person with your money only to get cheater

Starz825:

Bros.. there is nothing you can say against that woman that you won't make sense....

The deed has been done...what's next..?

Now the man is thinking about the welfare of his children...
I doubt if he wants to take care of them alone...

Deed has consequences that’s what is next….
She CHEATED on her husband not only that she got PREGNANT, it was then she remembered she has to beg her husband and give him a BASTARD, that’s what the husband deserves?.
She was living while they were separated, she should continue it and give the child to his father and they should continue their romance.
Why can’t she marry the person that gave her the pregnancy?

Maynman:


Deed has consequences that’s what is next….
She CHEATED on her husband not only that she got PREGNANT, it was then she remembered she has to beg her husband and give him a BASTARD, that’s what the husband deserves?.
She was living while they were separated, she should continue it and give the child to his father and they should continue their romance.
Why can’t she marry the person that gave her the pregnancy?

Ok sir
You are right sir...
So what's your advice to the man sir?
Let's have it

Starz825:

Ok sir
You are right sir...
So what's your advice to the man sir?
Let's have it

The man is not happy in his marriage because his wife cheated, not only that she brought a Bastard home.
What advice does a right thinking person need again? Until she brings another Bastard home or what’s your insinuation? He should just keep forgiving and accepting bastards?

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Good day all. I have posted exactly 2 months ago concerning my fourth child I went ahead with the DNA test unfortunately I am not her father. Right now a lot of things have been going through my head i am shattered and depressed. . I don't know yet what is going to happen in my marriage I just don't know if the marriage will work or not.
I just wanted to keep you updated about the DNA.

My Brother take it easy even one of my ex just gave birth for her husband July this year, me and this girl still do correct things till September last year,when I see the child I smiled.

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Good day all. I have posted exactly 2 months ago concerning my fourth child I went ahead with the DNA test unfortunately I am not her father. Right now a lot of things have been going through my head i am shattered and depressed. . I don't know yet what is going to happen in my marriage I just don't know if the marriage will work or not.
I just wanted to keep you updated about the DNA.

Hahahahahahaha
Hahahahahahaha
Hahahahaha
In fact, hahahahahahaha.

Marry a virgin, you will not hear.

Idiot!

Just know you were not the one who broke the marriage but the one who gave you a bastard.

Pells:
If you the rest of your kids are yours then your 4th child was exchanged at the hospital by the nurses
Your wife is innocent
Don't be a stupid

Can't one run a DNA between mother and child?

This is serious
What are your plans now?@Op

First mistake you made was allowing her insult you and your mum to the point of you crying, simply because you gave your money to your sister.

Also, you had evidence that she cheated and yet you allowed her back in your life. In some traditions/culture you would be dead and gone already by this single act.

I am really scared for your safety at this point. Just let her go with her baby.

It quite sad that the good guys are always taken for granted. God will see you through.

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Good day all. I have posted exactly 2 months ago concerning my fourth child I went ahead with the DNA test unfortunately I am not her father.

Right now a lot of things have been going through my head i am shattered and depressed.

I don't know yet what is going to happen in my marriage I just don't know if the marriage will work or not.

I just wanted to keep you updated about the DNA.

Previous thread:

If her legs can open for a colleague in a two month period, you can be rest assured that her legs will keep opening henceforth. Sorry bro. Take heart. Reveal the matter to your wife and ask her to inform the real father of the child about his responsibility. Involve your family and her family so that they are aware of the development and can work towards resolving the matter. Sorry. This is the kind of disaster that some of us pray never to encounter in marriage.

How do you even reason at all, once the woman have an idea you know the child is not yours you will be dead under 6 months.

Starz825:
I just went back to read all of your topics...
Very interesting...
You don't even write like one who didn't see the four walls of uni....
I appreciate your writings...

I understood your story and here is my advice...

You mentioned that you don't want divorce..
You are a good man like somebody said up there....
Now....sit your wife down..... explain everything to her....
The father of the child should come and have his daughter.
Now if the father is no where to be found...adopt the girl....

[/b]Infact...... Adopt the baby...that's my advice...
Everything will be settled in the future...
Treat the baby as your own...[b]

That's all..
Thanks

..

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Good day all. I have posted

Previous thread:

sorry boss but like how much does this DNA test cost?

sweetveek:
sorry boss but like how much does this DNA test cost?

I paid 130k for the peace and mind test

Johnnyjohnnyman:


I paid 130k for the peace and mind test

alright

Helpout12345:


I went back to read all your previous posts. I can tell you your wife came back to you because her boyfriend refused the pregnancy.

My advise is leave the marriage.

true bro but to advice the brother it is pure wickedness to carry anoda man's child and kept mute over more Dan 9 months and you expect him to be blindly I love with someone who have such mind bros it's very risky call it parents together tell them the situation of things probably if you have money investigate the other babies and bros don't trust her

let me share this with you I have seen this kind of case the woman begged cried I even advice my friend against divorcing the wife after he did DNA test for his two girls if you see the way I beg my friend that the result was faked we all begged he accepted her back only for this woman to start giving him otapiapia for him to die slowly so dat no wan will suspect before we knew na kwashiorkor my friend turn to any woman that can cheat is very wicked and to carry anoda man's child to pin on uu is wicked pls run for ur life oooo


if the other children are urs pls take them away from her and train if not she will turn them against you

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Good day all. I have posted exactly 2 months ago concerning my fourth child I went ahead with the DNA test unfortunately I am not her father.

Right now a lot of things have been going through my head i am shattered and depressed.

I don't know yet what is going to happen in my marriage I just don't know if the marriage will work or not.

I just wanted to keep you updated about the DNA.

Previous thread:

Story for the gods

Johnnyjohnnyman:
Good day all. I have posted exactly 2 months ago concerning my fourth child I went ahead with the DNA test unfortunately I am not her father.

Right now a lot of things have been going through my head i am shattered and depressed.

I don't know yet what is going to happen in my marriage I just don't know if the marriage will work or not.

I just wanted to keep you updated about the DNA.

Previous thread:

your own biological sister dupe you of 200k?

CONGRATULATIONS

In this digital age of so many societal ills, DNA test must always be conducted.