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Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Kobojunkie: 5:34am On Oct 04, 2022
alizma:
A lot of you lack knowledge of what friendship and marriage look like. Men are easily open to read in relationship than women.
This doesn't make sense to me at all. undecided

Or are you one of those who assumes every marriage out there is built on some foundation of love and of friendship between partners? undecided
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by alizma: 5:36am On Oct 04, 2022
Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.
I know this may hurts but if you want to live long and happy, forget about your wife's appreciation. If you can handle two wives, get another one if you can't but can handle side chick, go for it but never loose your senses there. Take care of your home, live a happy life. Success
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by edungene7: 5:38am On Oct 04, 2022
too bad such women can abandon u on third mainland bridge OP pray ooo
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by zakkxx: 5:39am On Oct 04, 2022
You don’t have any choice but to endure! Avoid slay Queens u say no! A lady that is use to collecting 200k from kule, 100 k from Alhaji and 50k from uche can never manage with a guy that earn 300k! You saw her wearing demonic wigs, useless eye lashes and long nails u foolishly went for her! No disturb us oo! If u live her u will burn in Hell! No divorce till death do u part! Young men in the house only Mary a chinekes girl that wear no demonic wig, eye lashes etc u will thank me later! Holy Ghost women are the best! Oga your wife wan buy a demonic wig of 500k and u never give her na y she de vex! U never see any thing! God will help u!!
Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by ogbs2020: 5:53am On Oct 04, 2022
Start praying ,God will give you a side chick. Do not warri. Thank me latter .
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Msmither: 5:58am On Oct 04, 2022
You haven't met my wife, despite all the things I did for her, her mother was telling me MY BEST IS NOT ENOUGH

This is a woman that has never worked for a penny in her life, I opened a boutique for her, made us landlords before 30 and we are doing fine. She still complains and monitors me like I be baby, person no fit call me for phone na wahala.

I've been seriously thinking about getting a side chick, if I see one that's serious I will marry and go hide her in my second house.

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Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by bestdudes: 6:01am On Oct 04, 2022
Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.
I am not sure that woman loves you.
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by bestdudes: 6:02am On Oct 04, 2022
Msmither:
You haven't met my wife, despite all the things I did for her, her mother was telling me MY BEST IS NOT ENOUGH

This is a woman that has never worked for a penny in her life, I opened a boutique for her, made us landlords before 30 and we are doing fine. She still complains and monitors me like I be baby, person no fit call me for phone na wahala.

I've been seriously thinking about getting a side chick, if I see one that's serious I will marry and go hide her in my second house.
so sorry....
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by ogbs2020: 6:03am On Oct 04, 2022
Msmither:
You haven't met my wife, despite all the things I did for her, her mother was telling me *MY BEST IS NOT ENOUGH*

This is a woman that has never worked for a penny in her life, I opened a boutique for her, made us landlords before 30 and we are doing fine. She still complains and monitors me like I be baby, person no fit call me for phone na wahala.


U are even in PH, best u can do is get a side chick. Do not mind them. Get a girl that will be taking care of you. Once a woman has children, let me tell you her love for you must reduce. Thank me latter

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Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by onatisi(m): 6:03am On Oct 04, 2022
Msmither:
You haven't met my wife, despite all the things I did for her, her mother was telling me *MY BEST IS NOT ENOUGH*

This is a woman that has never worked for a penny in her life, I opened a boutique for her, made us landlords before 30 and we are doing fine. She still complains and monitors me like I be baby, person no fit call me for phone na wahala.
You are the problem not your wife or her mother .
You are the one trying too hard to please them, that is why they see you as not trying enough because that is just human nature . Infact from the little you have just written one can see how you have been relating with them . It is even possible you are the kind of man who has been praising your wife in front of her mother and saying your is the the best woman in the world . I maybe wrong though

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Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Worlddeba(m): 6:09am On Oct 04, 2022
[quote author=Kobojunkie post=117238151] The way some of you folks talk of love, you almost make it seem it is designed to accommodate the selfish desires we have.

Love is selfish yes
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Kobojunkie: 6:11am On Oct 04, 2022
Worlddeba:
Love is selfish yes
Love itself isn't selfish. Instead most mistake selfishness with love. undecided
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Etosha: 6:17am On Oct 04, 2022
These three things must be in my wife: Gratitude, Respect and Support.

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Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Midas01: 6:25am On Oct 04, 2022
Like your mother ?
incogni2o:


Average Nigerian Lady.

You have to let her know, If she Loves you, She'll improve
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by yomi531(m): 6:31am On Oct 04, 2022
VeryWickedGoat:
But you were grinning and dancing on your wedding day because of kpekus that others will still shine with you.
See mumu talk. How people think a woman someone married with his money go dey sleep with other men dey baffle me. Sha maybe na Una culture for other tribes. If any ape as Much as try to even do my lawfully wedded wife eye contact sef, na Ogun from my village I go use kill am. The man go dry like panla come black join. Play no dey that way. If u are a married woman hunter, desist from that nigga b4 u meet ur end. Na advice o
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by wiseone28: 6:34am On Oct 04, 2022
Burgerlomo:

STFU

Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Tunjibalogun: 6:39am On Oct 04, 2022
caesymore:
Baba, wetin you won make we talk or you won use us catch cruise

When una been dey run things via dating you been see all these na now you won begin change am.


My people say "Anaghi amu aka ikpa na nka" ( old habits are hard to change). Enjoy your marriage some are having it worst.
Anaghị amụ aka ekpe na nkà. That's the rightful saying and it means that you don't learn to use left hand at old age. I hope I have educated you
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Great0ne1: 6:42am On Oct 04, 2022
zolajpower:

It's in most or majority of Nigerian women . They make loving a woman tiring
But I thank God that I'm with an African American woman without much Ado or shenanigans. Since I ve had body contact with her , loving any woman in Nigeria is irritating to me now .
I now see why the relationship here is fake . True love as found me, my brother I beg find solutions to your problem oo
Do you leave in United States? Bro, just don't want anything to do with our women here
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by psucc(m): 6:44am On Oct 04, 2022
Corridon:
Stop holding brief for ungrateful Nigerian women. My girlfriend appreciate me even if I buy a sachet of water for her. A wicked soul is a wicked soul no matter the gender. Condemn what is bad. People like you are the reason why these vagina people feel so entitled and behave as they like because you have accepted it as a normal thing. Call the bluff of any ungrateful fellow.
There's a whole lot of difference between a girlfriend (probably living in anticipation) and a wife (especially one that has put to birth a son for the husband).

With few exceptions, women do change. But walking out of the marriage is no security for having another that will be better. The next will still have her shortcomings.
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Great0ne1: 6:44am On Oct 04, 2022
Mayeldah:


You may not see nada bro. Women are deceptive and they show their true colors once they have settled in and given you children.

Most women are like this, especially Nigerian women, high sense of entitlement and very ungrateful lots. Just find a way to manage her that's the secret, even if you leave her and marry another. The probability of marrying another woman with same character is very high
You said all of them, are like that. Can you name just few of there good characters?
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Great0ne1: 6:45am On Oct 04, 2022
GreyLaw:
See everybody acting the saints, asking the OP to keep quiet and take his wife as she is. OP, I hope your wife takes you as you are? I doubt it!

The right thing to do here is to speak to her in wisdom about it. Lay the facts bare before her in a harmless, respectful way and don't let her wave it away until you both discuss the matter properly.

Take her to an expensive restaurant or have a candle light dinner; do something out of the ordinary that you haven't done before and while she is surprised wondering why you spent your money and time doing so, then you can bring up the topic in the most polite way.

You'll be surprised how she'll begin to consciously work on her attitude.
Speak kee. Just withdraw your generosity
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Great0ne1: 6:50am On Oct 04, 2022
Ezepresido:
No be only your wife bro, my own is worst than ingratitude, she disrespects, insults me and show ingratitude in everything.

I take it as normal Nigerian lady character
You should have kicked her out of your house, the moment she starts that nonsense.
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by kizaronto: 6:54am On Oct 04, 2022
[quote author=Rtk5 post=117237719]I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

Exactly the same thing that I am experiencing.
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by drlateef: 6:54am On Oct 04, 2022
Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.




Most women are like that. Before you marry them they will appreciate what you give them. After marriage, they forget that they have to appreciate what you give them.
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Great0ne1: 6:55am On Oct 04, 2022
purehustle101:


Not all women are like that, na you go marry person wey fit talk back at you. Dump any chick wey follow you argue or talk back at you, is disrespectful unless you want argue and fight throughout your stay with her.
I agree with this. Any sign of stubbornness and reluctance to be respectful, please be firm and send her packing. Also remember that you have a role to play, by not been insulting and disrespectful to her

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Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Great0ne1: 7:02am On Oct 04, 2022
Twinklelove:
When you hear the woman's side of the story you will understand what this idiot is talking about...why do this men go on social media to expose their family? What if this man is lying and ye all blames the wife? Marriage is meant to enjoy not endured. You hardly find responsible men doing or talking shit about their wives. If we will all understand what Marriage is about then Mr you will understand your wife. This is a dangerous man
Nonsense!! What was her father able to provide for her, before the gentleman married her lazy ass ?
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by franchasofficia: 7:03am On Oct 04, 2022
leody:
You see why marriage of nowadays is a dangerous game of sport betting, 90% of them are not happy and if you see them on Sunday going to church in their venza you'll think all is well.
hahahahaha




I am happily married oh, please subtract me and my wifey and add Pa Tinubu and Remi with Pa Buhari and Aisha grin
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Great0ne1: 7:12am On Oct 04, 2022
Msmither:
You haven't met my wife, despite all the things I did for her, her mother was telling me MY BEST IS NOT ENOUGH

This is a woman that has never worked for a penny in her life, I opened a boutique for her, made us landlords before 30 and we are doing fine. She still complains and monitors me like I be baby, person no fit call me for phone na wahala.

I've been seriously thinking about getting a side chick, if I see one that's serious I will marry and go hide her in my second house.
Your wife needs a life lesson. Call her father and tell hi to come pick her daughter and be serious and firm, about her living your house. Trust me, if she stays in her fathers house for 2 months, she will learn some valuable lesson. She will be the one begging you to return. She will make effort for the marriage to work. She will return an improved person.
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by izubext007: 7:13am On Oct 04, 2022
Bitch......the truth pain you?
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by bonnyhope: 7:20am On Oct 04, 2022
Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

You have just described my ex

And by God's grace we are done with each other

That character is the most annoying.

It can kill
Re: This Is My Problem With My Wife by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 7:28am On Oct 04, 2022
Great0ne1:

Your wife needs a life lesson. Call her father and tell hi to come pick her daughter and be serious and firm, about her living your house. Trust me, if she stays in her fathers house for 2 months, she will learn some valuable lesson. She will be the one begging you to return. She will make effort for the marriage to work. She will return an improved person.

Must everything end in "sending your wives packing"? Can you not find better ways to resolve problems than sending people packing? I just hope your wife isn't dependent on you. I hope.

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