Romanoff:


No it's not stupid to wish her well. It doesn't change the repercussions of her actions.

Someone did me dirty and it hurt me real bad. After counselling from my pastor, my pastor asked me to forgive him and wish him well. I called the person and told him aid forgiven him and wished him well.

Months later, this person called me on the phone begging me to please forgive him, that he's in a big problem and everywhere he was taken to, they told him to go and beg me for what he did to me.

I told him I forgave him the day I called him that he should go and sort his problems cause I have nothing to do with it.

What could I have done to him that would make up for what he did to me?

But I freed my conscience and forgave him and wished him well.

I applaud you.... And I wish you well.

efelicity:
How I wish i was typing a story. People saying this is a cooked up story don't really know what life is. My son is 8, my daughter is 5 and they are used to their mother travelling and leaving them behind with me.

My brother, abeg, na man u be. I salute your gut and courage. Move on, take care of your kids, I know life will be vantage on you. Cry not, enjoy yourself with the beautiful kids God bestowed on you. You will celebrate in the long run. And remember, for that simple act; for loving and caring for her, as well as meeting her needs even at the point of her leaving, by paying for the vehicle that took her to the person who tore your home, God will forever lift you higher. Anytime she remembers that day, that hour, that minute, that second she left, and how you loved and treated her, she will weep, and be filled with guit. The Lord is your strength.

Crossroad1:
he dey happen bro

I stand amazed

Starz825:

You no well
Even me sef dey think say na Nollywood

the thing dey one kin

efelicity:
you are a woman of goodd principle. please don't take offense, are you married?

Very happily so

O lord have mercy to marry women of this generation require fasting n prayer

efelicity:
I opened a thread few days ago on my wife's strange behaviours and the wonderful people of nairaland had their take on it, i made use of the best advise and it worked for me.


Two days ago i decided to sit my wife down to ask her about her strange behaviours. She was like, nothing. To cut it short, i told her to feel free and it'll not bounce back negatively, she started shedding tears then she said she don't love me any more and that her behaviour was adopted to make me divorce her. She said she wanted to poison me but couldn't because i was a good person. Had it been I was abusive she would have poisoned me. She revealed to me that she was in relationship with the man who she wanted to marry for two years. I told her not to worry and that she can leave. She brought a pigeot and packed all her belongings, i paid for the pigeot services and also gave her pocket money.

We told our kids that she was travelling. I couldn't control myself when i saw my kids happily waving her goodbye.

If this story is true, then is the saying "Love is transient" really TRUE ?

efelicity:
I opened a thread few days ago on my wife's strange behaviours and the wonderful people of nairaland had their take on it, i made use of the best advise and it worked for me.


Two days ago i decided to sit my wife down to ask her about her strange behaviours. She was like, nothing. To cut it short, i told her to feel free and it'll not bounce back negatively, she started shedding tears then she said she don't love me any more and that her behaviour was adopted to make me divorce her. She said she wanted to poison me but couldn't because i was a good person. Had it been I was abusive she would have poisoned me. She revealed to me that she was in relationship with the man who she wanted to marry for two years. I told her not to worry and that she can leave. She brought a pigeot and packed all her belongings, i paid for the pigeot services and also gave her pocket money.

We told our kids that she was travelling. I couldn't control myself when i saw my kids happily waving her goodbye.

sorry bro, where in jalingo are you

efelicity:
I opened a thread few days ago on my wife's strange behaviours and the wonderful people of nairaland had their take on it, i made use of the best advise and it worked for me.


Two days ago i decided to sit my wife down to ask her about her strange behaviours. She was like, nothing. To cut it short, i told her to feel free and it'll not bounce back negatively, she started shedding tears then she said she don't love me any more and that her behaviour was adopted to make me divorce her. She said she wanted to poison me but couldn't because i was a good person. Had it been I was abusive she would have poisoned me. She revealed to me that she was in relationship with the man who she wanted to marry for two years. I told her not to worry and that she can leave. She brought a pigeot and packed all her belongings, i paid for the pigeot services and also gave her pocket money.

We told our kids that she was travelling. I couldn't control myself when i saw my kids happily waving her goodbye.

Please do Thanksgiving.

Kingsasian:
sorry bro, where in jalingo are you

Mile 6.

chiefolododo:
You mean this thing happen in real life ?

Na dissertation be that now,I mean he think of it, not Real

efelicity:
Mile 6.

okay, I am at Dinyavoh

F A K E!

We told our kids that she was travelling. I couldn't control myself when i saw my kids happily waving her goodbye

This must be hard to watch but good riddance. Never you in this life accept her back since she left at her own will and not forced to leave. I said that because they always get back to their senses after a few months or years with the other man. No matter the age of your children, tell them the truth now or they will believe the lies she will tell them later. Tell them mummy is not coming back because she wants to marry and live with another man now. If they ask if she still loved them, tell them it's up to her to tell them that. It's that simple.

To enjoy life as a man you need to forget about love and enjoy your life to the fullest..even if my wife decides to fall in love with someone else I will encourage her.. bring in a new pussy and life continues. A dead man doesn't know what love means, enjoy life to the fullest.

Jeon:
Fake story by satanist aka Victor who's a friend to a MOD.

Exactly! Can't believe people are taking him serious. That guy needs medical attention.

Amb1045:
I once had a friend like op, weak vessel when it comes to love related issues. All men must learn not to love a woman, rather learn how to bang a woman properly so that women will love you. Separate love from sex because women see great sex as love while men see love as feelings. Op should stop been a simp because the next woman coming into his life next will treat him worst if he refuses to learn from his past mistakes. Women no send your papa message.

They are naturally opportunist in nature very dangerous species. Op my uncle wife that gave birth to 4kids for him, their first child is 30years old wake up one day pack her bags and followed another man. Even when their first child die, the useless women didn't attend the burial. Women are next closest thing to evil.

Learn from your mistakes. Please, op you deserved to be flog by soldiers for having such level of simping in your system. Never love never trust a woman. I'm not yet married but I'm sure I will never love my wife to accept stupidity from her. As you dee change I will follow you with iron hand. Go and do DNA test for those kids they might not be yours.

You deserve two separate NNPC pipelines of petroleum connected to your house for your maximum usage. Kudos.

Fear who no fear woman

efelicity:
I opened a thread few days ago on my wife's strange behaviours and the wonderful people of nairaland had their take on it, i made use of the best advise and it worked for me.


Two days ago i decided to sit my wife down to ask her about her strange behaviours. She was like, nothing. To cut it short, i told her to feel free and it'll not bounce back negatively, she started shedding tears then she said she don't love me any more and that her behaviour was adopted to make me divorce her. She said she wanted to poison me but couldn't because i was a good person. Had it been I was abusive she would have poisoned me. She revealed to me that she was in relationship with the man who she wanted to marry for two years. I told her not to worry and that she can leave. She brought a pigeot and packed all her belongings, i paid for the pigeot services and also gave her pocket money.

We told our kids that she was travelling. I couldn't control myself when i saw my kids happily waving her goodbye.

My own refused to leave...if she had Left I would have been the happiest man on earth...

Weak men are trampled upon without any repercussions!! Sometimes being meek and weak is a great deficiency, there is an Aura a man possess that radiates class and respect, that is the kind of aura that ladies love to get stuck with, you do not need to be violent to radiate such aura, self confidence, healthy self worth and being principled is enough.

Let there be an innate awareness to your wife or anybody around you that there is always repercussions for any wrongdoing, people tend to behave when they know their stupidity would be met with Similar or superior force.

The lord is your strength. Now you should focus all your energy on your children.

I sorry for men that take women serious. Your daughter nd mom should be the only women you should take serious.

You see women, if you put all your hope on them, you go cry bitterly last last.

As for me, i no send any girl papa. All i want to do is have money and enjoy my life with the people that matters most to me.

I no get best friend and i no fit love any woman way no be my mama or daughter with 100%. Of my body and soul.

I'm on guard 247.

efelicity:
I opened a thread few days ago on my wife's strange behaviours and the wonderful people of nairaland had their take on it, i made use of the best advise and it worked for me.


Two days ago i decided to sit my wife down to ask her about her strange behaviours. She was like, nothing. To cut it short, i told her to feel free and it'll not bounce back negatively, she started shedding tears then she said she don't love me any more and that her behaviour was adopted to make me divorce her. She said she wanted to poison me but couldn't because i was a good person. Had it been I was abusive she would have poisoned me. She revealed to me that she was in relationship with the man who she wanted to marry for two years. I told her not to worry and that she can leave. She brought a pigeot and packed all her belongings, i paid for the pigeot services and also gave her pocket money.

We told our kids that she was travelling. I couldn't control myself when i saw my kids happily waving her goodbye.

Move on ,marry another woman ,make money and be happy . LIFE IS TOO TOO SHORT TO BE SULKING OVER ANYTHING,YOU WILL REALIZE THIS WHEN YOU REACH 59-60YEARS ,WHICH IS JUST AROUND YOUR CORNER

Kingsasian:
okay, I am at Dinyavoh

how do we connect?

Kingsasian:
okay, I am at Dinyavoh

I hope you know the person behind that monika is Obama.Messi aka Victor.USA?

Too fake to be true.

LewisHamilton15:
I hope you know the person behind that monika is Obama.Messi aka Victor.USA?

The Ake story teller
I knew it was fishy

U don go add too much salt for this food when u dey cook.

baralatie:
The Ake story teller I knew it was fishy

you this particular troll, right?

Acadia07:
Exactly! Can't believe people are taking him serious. That guy needs medical attention.

Yeah he's holyman, paradisevirgin,Vlrginprincess, Benjamindomer,satanist, slayerofsatanist greattetman, richprominet,karen2024 e.t.c.


Very sick

A nigerian man will pay tfare for a wife who decided to leave him? Talk another thing abeg

LewisHamilton15:
I hope you know the person behind that monika is Obama.Messi aka Victor.USA?

thanks for this.