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caesymore:
YOu see wetin too much wrestling dey do you. TLC is tender love and care. G.

Miltonz123:


How can I heal from this...

She's very manipulative and she pretend like everything is OK. Is this how secretive women can be....? Like right now she feels relaxed and like nothing happen. But here I am, perplexed by all I have read and seen. I saw there outing together in a restaurant and picture she snap In the guy place holding each other like couple 3 month ago in the chat history.

Miltonz123:
I don't expect everyone to believe me.there will be doubters. God know I speak my mind out and I never cheated on her. I have been looking at where I got it wrong. Is it because I didn't have a car? Its not like I can't afford a second hand car but i have bigger plan and I have been thinking of our introduction I wanted to surprise her. But God knows the best.

Gentlechika:
In life, there's always a learning curve. Most of these girls,(especially the church ones) are manipulative, they don't love. They're just in for the highest bidder. For the sake of your sanity, just ditch her ass and move on. Vagina people only serves two purpose:to cure konji and bear children. I pity who dey fall in love with them. Na only mama love geniue, the rest na scam. Know this, and know peace.

AfahaAbia:
Hahahaha, you're a very wicked man!!!

Persephone1:
Congratulations you are now a step baby daddy

Which role would you assume? Bottle feeding or changing diapers?

BTW when are you dropping part 2, your script writing skill is top notch.

Miltonz123:
I don't expect everyone to believe me.there will be doubters. God know I speak my mind out and I never cheated on her. I have been looking at where I got it wrong. Is it because I didn't have a car? Its not like I can't afford a second hand car but i have bigger plan and I have been thinking of our introduction I wanted to surprise her. But God knows the best.

Sammy101111:
Bro the story long but read my own story
I have realize never to take my love cheap if a woman is not in my class I run from her .

I am not ready to be committing for woman I have not marry

Since have respected my self and I gave my di(k respect I Don’t role with broke bitch again they can’t help all they do jump around from one nigga to another for survival
Woman are good in playing games but they don’t know we men are there coach
Now most mothers train there daughter to be corny and never to settle for less
So men wise up Don’t go for less because it will hurt you finding out the woman you are struggle for is busy pulling off pant for another man presently so let us men go for a woman who will add to our life not come and take and go
If woman is too broke na bad luck for men
When men realize this your life go sweet


Bro if I a woman broke let her know if her condition can’t change you will move na so he suppose be woman can’t stick with broke guys why men they overlook broke women in our region

Don’t you know broklyn can never make a woman concentrate or think well any small flashing of money from guys or car she open leg like window fast fast when she knows the guy will surly sort her bills after all

So be wise men

I can’t buy phone of 100k for a girl
That can hardly make 20k after the ending of the month .
You are encouraging her to cheat
That is the scope

Spend on we’re you will get a return too
A woman that can’t get 20k at ending of the month you are spoiling
My brother don’t get it twisted after she use the phone take better clear picture post for Facebook another man go paro her comment she sees the opportunity to cheat easily because broke girl will never stop tasting anything that will sort them

https://www.nairaland.com/6887204/what-please-woman
Flesh and blood didn't reveal this to you. May your days be long with xx rubbers omo Iya Mi.

Persephone1:
Yeah... They are always old member with new account.

And their sympathy gaining skills is always top notch too

Sammy101111:
Bro the story long but read my own story
I have realize never to take my love cheap if a woman is not in my class I run from her .

I am not ready to be committing for woman I have not marry

Since have respected my self and I gave my di(k respect I Don’t role with broke bitch again they can’t help all they do jump around from one nigga to another for survival
Woman are good in playing games but they don’t know we men are there coach
Now most mothers train there daughter to be corny and never to settle for less
So men wise up Don’t go for less because it will hurt you finding out the woman you are struggle for is busy pulling off pant for another man presently so let us men go for a woman who will add to our life not come and take and go
If woman is too broke na bad luck for men
When men realize this your life go sweet


Bro if I a woman broke let her know if her condition can’t change you will move na so he suppose be woman can’t stick with broke guys why men they overlook broke women in our region

Don’t you know broklyn can never make a woman concentrate or think well any small flashing of money from guys or car she open leg like window fast fast when she knows the guy will surly sort her bills after all

So be wise men

I can’t buy phone of 100k for a girl
That can hardly make 20k after the ending of the month .
You are encouraging her to cheat
That is the scope

Spend on we’re you will get a return too
A woman that can’t get 20k at ending of the month you are spoiling
My brother don’t get it twisted after she use the phone take better clear picture post for Facebook another man go paro her comment she sees the opportunity to cheat easily because broke girl will never stop tasting anything that will sort them

https://www.nairaland.com/6887204/what-please-woman

H0didon:
Guy, you caused it . God loves you sha. Never neglect God's presence. What you just escaped, so many people have fallen into the same trap. You're lucky.

Anyways ama give u advise just incase so that you don't become this foolish again.

1. Never be too nice and soft, sometimes be rugged. When i mean rugged, i don't mean violent but at least to show her that you be streetboy because once she know say u dey streetwise, she no go wan run you street.

2. Never use money to start relationship, especially when you're not financially buoyant. It's very dangerous especially when it involves Nigerian women because you'll be drained totally.

3. Never trust a woman, especially not a Nigerian woman. My mum always say that it's only a fool that goes to church to marry. SU babes are the real demons!!!.

4. Never ask a lady you haven't known out. You start by seeking friendship first so that you can easily study her. She won't be able to pretend when you guyz have nothing going on.

5. Fear women. Especially Nigerian women because you can never know them well no matter how you try to study them.

6. Never date without entering her paradise. Only a fool does that!!! EXCEPT SHE'S A VIRGIN WHICH OF COURSE YOU MUST HAVE VERIFIED.

7. Never you date a girl with your heart. You date using your brain especially with Nigerian girls.

8. Never let your enemies deceive you. Your mind was your enemy. You thought you were in love . Big Scam!!! LOVE doesn't exist. Its only God's love that is valid.

9. Never loose guard. Trust no one.

10. Be wise always.



As our Ancestors would say "When someone or something seems too real to be true just know that its false".

OKOATA:
The day I caught one of my ex cheating she was crying as if she lost 1Billion naira begging me with so much tears in her eyes, I was downcasted, buried my head in my palms and asking why did you do this? Why? Why? Immediately I raised my head up I caught the bittch laughing at me, she was laughing all the while I buried my head in my palms.

In a nut shell even if she cries and begs you just know it's all fake and crocodile tears, the only reason why she's crying is because you caught her, she's also crying so you can take care of another man's kid. Just free that girl bro, na who're she be..

MyVILLAGEpeople:
You just said it all!

Miltonz123:
I know majority of you will call me a simp but I have to pour out my mind.

I have been in a relationship with this girl in 2021. I met her through her brother, which was my friend and everything had been a blissful. I really love her even though I am 9 years older than her. I worked in the islands then while she worked in mainland and the relationship was OK.
I have a job that's not that paying much but I thank God I can eat and sleep in a 2 room flat I am managing as I haven't really furnish the apartment like that.
Back to my girl to be turn ex this morning g, we did plan to engage though and I have promised to marry her when I know the time it's right. I have introduced her to my family members and my parents that she's the one.
I never doubt her love and trust because she's very religious and caring to home. (my mom too is religious and she want me to marry her by force lol) . She's good and respectful that my landlord keep telling me I was lucky. She would make sure we pray together every morning and night and all. Because of all this, I trust her that a choir and prayer girl like this will not cheat.

One thing led to another, her phone was stolen this month.. And since I have a spare phone, I decided to lend her my spare android phone to use. She brought the phone to me that her WhatsApp chat need to be recovered. I told her the only way we can restore her chat is to restore through Google backup she did. So I took the phkne to my office and start using my work WiFi to do the restoration of her chat.

After restoring, I asked for her password a d lo and behold, what I saw break my heart.

She has been flirting wirh a particular guy since January this year because I decided to read all there chat from beginning. In January the guy was pressing her to see her. I saw the guy snap with his Honda civic car, and all that. And the chat was Consistent. March she has been sleeping at the guy place and it was in that March that we started cohabiting together because her work place is closer to me and she want to save in her transport. She was telling the guy that I am still struggling and all that, that she doesn't think she can wait for me. Around June, she was sack from her work, and she told me she want to be staying with her sister. I said ok since they live in mainland, she can be coming to island any time she's free. But it's a war to get her attention and when she comes, if I try to touch her she won't let me, citing we have to wait till we married and God will not like it.

And I don't like forcing my way.

So for 3 month till now, I haven't romance her. Only kiss

Lastly, In her chat, she has been seeing this guy steady and she had been collecting steady. So this end of September, she told the guy she's not seeing her period, and test came out she is pregnant.

I continued reading, and the guy told her he's not ready for the baby and that's how this my ex to be blocked the guy since last week after an heated argument... Looks like the guy Don clear her that he's not ready to settle down at all as he told her he doesn't have a dime in the bank and he Want to sell his car.

Well, this is 12:30am and I can't sleep and she's sleeping sheepishly be side my bed. 7:00am I am driving her out of my apartment for good and this is the end. I will explain everything to her brother and I hope he will understand.

I gave her phone two times and a laptop and this is the church manipulation she put me into. Because of my kindness and love.... I told her everything was going to fine between us but I thought as a prayer warrior person and someone that can't do without church will be faithful. She was a choir member self.



But I have had enough.

Goinf Back to single life again.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Like seriously

Sammy101111:
Yes bro that is the scope

Some Mumu men no they think well
You buy phone worth 150k for a girl that can hardly earn 20k in a month for her self
You are encouraging her to cheat automatically
Move with woman of class
Before you buy anything for the lady make sure you can afford it her self
But what she can’t afford and expect you to buy na crazy be that

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Some mumu will say treat your woman well so another man will sleep with her with his money. What I have realized Is many guys aren’t trained or they don’t understand the concept behind women attitudes. Money in the hands of a simp is one of the most dangerous thing!

If you like give these girls all the whole money they will still go and fvck some other dude lol

OKOATA:
Yes broda man, it's all fake and crocodile tears. Men should by now know the game of every woman, I can bet you with anything bro your current GF you so much love has other men in her life, they always have a plan B.

Men should also learn to have a plan B, stop putting all your hope on one woman, cos they don't, they are full of pretence and have a snake like character.

I think it's the economy of the country though, they are all lazy and it mostly come from all this broke ass families. Men should stop investing their emotions on women, all they do is fake, fake fake. Why didn't she confess with tears in her eyes before the time you caught her?

Karleb:
It's easier to trust prostitutes and yahoo boys than trust anyone who carries church for head.

They might not be sleeping around but they are mostly bad people.

Don't trust them.

Miltonz123:
I know majority of you will call me a simp but I have to pour out my mind.

I have been in a relationship with this girl in 2021. I met her through her brother, which was my friend and everything had been a blissful. I really love her even though I am 9 years older than her. I worked in the islands then while she worked in mainland and the relationship was OK.
I have a job that's not that paying much but I thank God I can eat and sleep in a 2 room flat I am managing as I haven't really furnish the apartment like that.
Back to my girl to be turn ex this morning g, we did plan to engage though and I have promised to marry her when I know the time it's right. I have introduced her to my family members and my parents that she's the one.
I never doubt her love and trust because she's very religious and caring to home. (my mom too is religious and she want me to marry her by force lol) . She's good and respectful that my landlord keep telling me I was lucky. She would make sure we pray together every morning and night and all. Because of all this, I trust her that a choir and prayer girl like this will not cheat.

One thing led to another, her phone was stolen this month.. And since I have a spare phone, I decided to lend her my spare android phone to use. She brought the phone to me that her WhatsApp chat need to be recovered. I told her the only way we can restore her chat is to restore through Google backup she did. So I took the phkne to my office and start using my work WiFi to do the restoration of her chat.

After restoring, I asked for her password a d lo and behold, what I saw break my heart.

She has been flirting wirh a particular guy since January this year because I decided to read all there chat from beginning. In January the guy was pressing her to see her. I saw the guy snap with his Honda civic car, and all that. And the chat was Consistent. March she has been sleeping at the guy place and it was in that March that we started cohabiting together because her work place is closer to me and she want to save in her transport. She was telling the guy that I am still struggling and all that, that she doesn't think she can wait for me. Around June, she was sack from her work, and she told me she want to be staying with her sister. I said ok since they live in mainland, she can be coming to island any time she's free. But it's a war to get her attention and when she comes, if I try to touch her she won't let me, citing we have to wait till we married and God will not like it.

And I don't like forcing my way.

So for 3 month till now, I haven't romance her. Only kiss

Lastly, In her chat, she has been seeing this guy steady and she had been collecting steady. So this end of September, she told the guy she's not seeing her period, and test came out she is pregnant.

I continued reading, and the guy told her he's not ready for the baby and that's how this my ex to be blocked the guy since last week after an heated argument... Looks like the guy Don clear her that he's not ready to settle down at all as he told her he doesn't have a dime in the bank and he Want to sell his car.

Well, this is 12:30am and I can't sleep and she's sleeping sheepishly be side my bed. 7:00am I am driving her out of my apartment for good and this is the end. I will explain everything to her brother and I hope he will understand.

I gave her phone two times and a laptop and this is the church manipulation she put me into. Because of my kindness and love.... I told her everything was going to fine between us but I thought as a prayer warrior person and someone that can't do without church will be faithful. She was a choir member self.

But I have had enough.

Goinf Back to single life again.

4teenblaq:
OP, if I were you.. It is nothing to think about.

Tomorrow morning, tell her that you really need to "consummate" the relationship that you can't wait any longer.

Oboy, she won't hesitate to give it to you. Since she is manipulative, she will been thinking finally, you'd fallen for another trap of her.

Oboy, as you dey Bleep am, Bleep the girl with all vexation. Give am message.

After the knacking, tell her to pack her bags and leave! Don't even allow her to argue, just show her the chat.

Trust me, the pain will be more than yours.
She would lose in three folds.
1.pregnant
2. You
3. The other guy.

Miltonz123:


How can I heal from this...

She's very manipulative and she pretend like everything is OK. Is this how secretive women can be....? Like right now she feels relaxed and like nothing happen. But here I am, perplexed by all I have read and seen. I saw there outing together in a restaurant and picture she snap In the guy place holding each other like couple 3 month ago in the chat history.

TinubuThief:
Where Una dey even see all these kind of senseless and useless girls sef?