This Monika self.
A 5 months pregnant woman is always Hot, unless, you are stressed out.

You have 3 kids already, so pregnancy isn't new thing.

It's either hormonal changes or you are just a troll..

Lizzbett:
You wont understand...

Its not my intention to denial him sex, but the time he's asking for it, is always the wrong time by then am tired because of the work of the day. Am a private school teacher and you know the stress associated with teaching.

How do i tell him to think less of sex and forcus his mind in different activities?

You just changed the tone. Originally it was lack of urge for sex, now you are tired cos u are a teacher. Ladies be straightforward for once!!!!!! and stop destroying your marriages with foolishness!!!!!

Sonnobax15:

The advice of the FTC on this thread na werey...How can you advise the OP to advise her husband to get a second wife knowing fully well that no woman on earth would want to do that,not even when she's provided everything by the husband.....

Las las,OP,try sit down with your husband and discuss everything with him.......No go take decision today wey go affect your marriage tomorrow...

Dem no dey beg person na

Mercury12:


Are you a lesbian or a retire one? Don't be offended, I'm driving at a point. Answer politely and I will reply your post

No. Am not. I hate LSB

Lizzbett:



Thank you dear.

Twice or thrice a week, sometimes, because of my refusal, he stop asking and can even stay for weeks without disturbing me.

For the family planning, he's been forcing me to go for it, but i refuse because of what i heard that it makes women to be fat and some even lose shape.

But i heard there is family planning for men, i think i will advice him to go for that, though I've not suggest it yet

Twice or thrice weekly is still normal for your age period, I also understand doing so at night when you're tired might be stressing for you
But at such time you can gently and lovingly tell him you're tired and promise to make it up. Such makeup is best the next morning so that as time goes on he'll understand you prefer morning sex and adjust

If you're tired in the night then I believe you should be able to satisfy him after a good night rest

Take urgent steps so deescalate the situation since he's already leaving you for weeks, who knows maybe someone else is already satisfying him

O ga o

Sometimes I feel like marrying a house wife, so that I will do d workings while she stays at home n take care of d kids, she will miss me more,then wen I get back from work, food will b ready, the house will be in order, she will welcome me with a nice kiss n at d end of d day, she will b d one asking for it. But if my wife is busy at work, all these tins may not b possible,we will barely have time for each other. Now I see why some married men have gfs outside to satisfy their urges since their wives re not available or are not always in d mood

Na wetin dey cause polygamy be this

Madam the truth is that you've lost that attraction and happiness for him and has based your happiness on money

Yes we know how things are in the country, but that should not be an excuse in meeting each others need.

When last did you sit him down look straight into his eyes and reassure him that you love him and despite the situation, your hopefully that both of you will overcome. Embrace him for a while. Things will not remain as it is forever.

Remember the children you both have will one day find their own. And both of you will be together as you where, when you guys where single.

Marriage need's work. Pls work yours perfectly and keep it peaceful. Also desist from friend's that will advice you wrongly. Be content with what both of you can provide and don't let responsibilities dry your happiness.

Peace!!

Yugoslavia247:
I said this in a post some time ago.




Na lie the woman is not tired of sex. Go to that same woman Facebook and see how she is trying to get laid by random men.

i remember this Post of yours vividly.
women and manipulation.
I'm sure she has been sleeping with her boss at the office

Yugoslavia247:


If na me forget it. You go no say I no get shame. All beautiful tomatoes Jos ladies looking for married men will know I am available. I will wait for you to try talk nonsense.

na for that same house I go dey bring them come make she take her eye see am.
if she like make she commot go her papa house

[quote author=Lizzbett post=117772074]You wont understand...

Madam sex is the primary food for men the least you can do is to call him and let him feel the stress you’re going through while you’re at work maybe you guys will plan giving you a less stressful job you can do to satisfy him with sex
Apply little wisdom in it.

Zonefree:
Advice him to get a second wife so you can be relieved of your primary duty as a wife.

You don't say...

Lizzbett:
You wont understand...

Its not my intention to denial him sex, but the time he's asking for it, is always the wrong time by then am tired because of the work of the day. Am a private school teacher and you know the stress associated with teaching.

How do i tell him to think less of sex and forcus his mind in different activities?

Someone has given you solution you are still dulling.

Zonefree:
Advice him to get a second wife so you can be relieved of your primary duty as a wife.

Go. Pharmacy and buy libido drugs...... Ur hormones don weak...

Hmmm

Hook him up with a side chick to fill in the space for you.

Pls can I have ur husband's phone number and tell him what to do..... He needs to be a bad guy... Deregister u as his wife.

My dear sister, I know its not easy especially when you have children to take care too but twice in a week won't harm you. Sex in marriage is very important just like money is also important, it helps bond your union.
Don't make him get the attention from side chick because you may enjoy it at first, thinking you're are relieved but with time it will hit you bad.

Same thing happened to a friend of mine, very loyal to his wife no cheating or side chicks until his wife started denying him sex. To cut the long story short, his got like 3 side chicks now and madam is looking for where the wahala started from.
Guy never torch madam for over two months now. Na settlement she de look for from his family and friends.
Pls don't push a man to the wall.

Before you leave your current RELATIONSHIP please watch this.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_-qNpaqs4Y

Mathiasa:
Same thing happened to a friend of mine, very loyal to his wife no cheating or side chicks until his wife started denying him of sex. To cut the long story short, his got like 3 side chicks now and madam is looking for where the wahala started from.
Guy never torch madam for over two months now. Na settlement she de look for from his family and friends.
Pls don't push a man to the wall.

That man is my nigga.

Zonefree:
Advice him to get a second wife so you can be relieved of your primary duty as a wife.

My guy!!!

Lizzbett:


But i heard there is family planning for men, i think i will advice him to go for that, though I've not suggest it yet

Wicked suggestion of the highest order. This is the second time a woman is suggesting this.

So to you, you prefer to maintain your shape while he becomes impotent permanently in life than, to satisfy him. Aje, just do your duty or give him permission to marry another wife (Side chick option is not in your preview to grant that permission. He is the one that will decide if to keep one or not).

May nymphomaniac woman fall upon your husband.

Amb1045:
You're still sex freak but the current economy no go let you think about sex. Secondly see finish done enter for the marriage reason married women cheat. As a husband I can take that from you, you go reach your papa house

lol

Lizzbett:


How do i tell him to think less of sex and forcus his mind in different activities?

I suppose shepe for you walahi

But when you need money you go ask

To open pusssay nah problem

E be many things for you walahi

Lizzbett:
My marriage is 9 years+, blessed with wonderful three kids, nine, seven and 2 yrs.

Am in my mid thirties while hubby is 40, but the issue here is i dont have the urge for sex anymore, any time hubby discuss about it, i hit back by telling him marriage is nit all about sex, and it pains him so much that sometimes it looks as if he want to cry. Some time, i just lay down and open my leg for him to penetrate just to satisfy his urge.

I was not like this, i like sex so much but these days, the urge has disappeared.

I dont know how to tell him that am no longer sex freak.

Just allow him get a second wife or a side chick nah.

Mathiasa:
Same thing happened to a friend of mine, very loyal to his wife no cheating or side chicks until his wife started denying him of sex. To cut the long story short, his got like 3 side chicks now and madam is looking for where the wahala started from.
Guy never torch madam for over two months now. Na settlement she de look for from his family and friends.
Pls don't push a man to the wall.

Walahi e go better for that your friend.

Mathiasa:
Same thing happened to a friend of mine, very loyal to his wife no cheating or side chicks until his wife started denying him of sex. To cut the long story short, his got like 3 side chicks now and madam is looking for where the wahala started from.
Guy never torch madam for over two months now. Na settlement she de look for from his family and friends.
Pls don't push a man to the wall.

And the woman sef go start to irritate am.. saying no too many times will make his feelings to off totally.

See this one! She don they think how to go f*ck for outside.

Na the SIMP wey dey want cry because of kpekus I blame.

9ja girls don't love and dey will never love.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

Lizzbett:
My marriage is 9 years+, blessed with wonderful three kids, nine, seven and 2 yrs.

Am in my mid thirties while hubby is 40, but the issue here is i dont have the urge for sex anymore, any time hubby discuss about it, i hit back by telling him marriage is nit all about sex, and it pains him so much that sometimes it looks as if he want to cry. Some time, i just lay down and open my leg for him to penetrate just to satisfy his urge.

I was not like this, i like sex so much but these days, the urge has disappeared.

I dont know how to tell him that am no longer sex freak.

may God bless you with rest of mind, sometime if you are broke (no money the way you want it, sex drive will run).

Ay04z:
Go. Pharmacy and buy libido drugs...... Ur hormones don weak...

Really?

Is there a drugs that will boost up female homones? Haven't heard of that before!